I don't wanna be, but I think I'm doomed to be. I got probalbly 60-70 years to
go until I die, probalbly sooner if I ever make more enemies. I had soooo many
in the past. Around 40 people or more. I'm still a young guy to be thinking
about that stuff but a lonesome whole life seems evident, I guess, even in the
future there will be no "time is right" situations. I'm also
psychologically unstable. Darn it, son of a.... I'll have thoughts racing in my
mind making me prone to kill someone. My mom told me to handle myself to avoid
prison, juvenile, or mental institutions around my town. Tell me if your gonna
be single your whole life and give me a reason.
Hi there. I know about these thoughts. Perhaps I share your fate. But basically
because of my choice.
The question is whether you make a problem out of your situation. Ask yourself
where the wish, not to be single, comes from. Wishing not to be alone is
considered "normal" in our world, and we adapt to what we're told. I
suggest you think about why you feel uncomfortable in the prospect of being
alone.
Intelligence is, also, not only learning by your own mistakes, but by the
mistakes of others.
Look at other people and what they are doing in their relationships; I have seen
some of the greatest
tragedies there... Desire causes suffering. The more you think about it the
worse it will get. If you really should be single your whole life (I dare to
doubt that) it might turn out not to be the worst thing at all.
Try to make the best out of your situation and be honest to yourself (yea you
know that ....)
The fact of being alone is not bad itself, we only tend to judge it like
that.
peace
I agree with Schiffus --I am in the same scenario. I consider my choices, mine
and I don't see being single or alone all your life as a failure. There are many
who are with people that they resent despise and hate that wish they were alone
and sometimes they resort to drastic measures to achieve solitude.
Also, learning from the mistakes of others isn't intelligence--it's
wisdom--which is much more difficult to obtain...and practice.
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Also, learning from the mistakes of others isn't intelligence--it's
wisdom--which is much more difficult to obtain...and practice.
i dated like a couple guys...but i do think i gonna be single forever becuz
every guy i dated dumped me or cheated on me.........(its so sad!)maybe im not
gurlfriend material................but its okay who needs a boifriend?!i got my
gurlfrineds!^^
Go single people! I think I'm going to be single forever because I don't follow
society "norms". I don't want my boyfriend at my house everyday, or
have to call him everyday and be like, "I love you soooooooo
much"......gag me please..........yeah so if I were to have a bf, I would
want him to be like a best friend. Someone I can talk to anytime, but knows the
right times to leave me alone. Yeah so basically I'm doomed to live with like a
million cats someday...........hehe
Not everybody's relationships end in disaster, just ones that are not compatable
with each other. Yeah, peoples. My mom says to stay put and away from the social
scene because my mental illness is getting worst. The thought of being a
mother's child is so embarassing. I always used to wish I were born looking like
Tom Cruise or someone all the girls go for. My parents are also very concerning
and strict. Dying lonely is scary at first but I guess it's normal for
unfortunate humans.
Wow. I totally agree with Earthguardian. I'm such a selfish, non romantic
person. I guess I just don't want to give up my space. And everyone is just
love-dovey. Argh. Don't get me wrong. I like hang out with guys, but I hate
answering questions like " Where are you going ? ". I guess I'm lonely
person, but I don't think it's a failure. It's a choice. And the interesting
part of being a lonely person, as you shoud have notice by the answers above is
that you are not alone.
im a lonely person too, ^.^ oh well...ive gone with guys and stuff, but it never
worked out...id rather hang out with my guy friends cuz it seems more fun...^.^
just recently i went to camping with some guy friends and it was freakiin
awesome!
Wow, lonesome folks in general are much more bad.... Makes me wanna hit myself
unconcious then hit them unconcious next. In my years of school, I've been
aquianted with very social non-lonely people. I must say they are very very
nice/interesting/colorful/pretty/handsome folks. I still believe physical traits
combined with inner traits play a part in counter with this kinda stuff (being
lonely and whatnot). People say it's a choice, which is true, but there is
always a foundation or reason per say that is behind it. For me, it's my prone
to violence, others it's becuz of a broken heart. I will always hate my
loneliness, but like most of y'all, I've learned to deal with it.
I don't want to be single my whole life,that would be pretty lonely...^^But I
don't want to get married soon,I think under 30 it's better,than around
20...Anyway,I think that many people who don't find a partner after 35 are
staying singles
I'm pretty much gonna be single the rest of my life, #1. It's too much of a
hassle, #2. I made a promise to myself. #3. I have lost all interest,
romantically and sexually, with both sexes. #4.this one is kinda like 1, but I'm
just so tired lately, tired of pretty much everything, including life, I don't
want to kill myself, sure there are things I would like to see, and I guess I
wouldn't really mind being killed , but I would rather just lay down and die at
this point, it's kinda of me saying "Hey life, I quit, here's my two weeks
notice, bye."
Yea, I've had that as a passing thought when I'm feeling down, but I believe in
taking things one day at a time. I believe there's someone out there for
everyone as long as they're willing to put in the effort to find them. And even
if you don't find your soul mate that doesn't mean you can't be happy.
Lol, KaoriHime took my timeline... I've pledged that if I'm not with
someone/married by 35 I'm going to go and buy lots of stuffed animal cats (cuz I
may or may not be allergic to real ones... ) *atcha!*
Only 14 more years to go!
Most likely, yes.
I work alone and I live my life alone...I have few friends and no room in my
mind or heart for a girlfriend, for it would ounly give me another factor to
consider when trying to live my life...something that can be unstable and
difficult enough without needless distractions
yea i might be single for the rest of my life becuz for some stupid reason i
push the people closest to me away but then again at the moment being single for
the rest of my life means no more pain
i probably will be. im just too different from other people. i like to ba alone
and i dont want to deal with anyone elses sh*t. now thats not to say i wont
marry someone if i find the right person, but the odds of that are slim to none
I wanna love somebody so much that we wouldn't need a ring to express our love
to each other...I just wanna be happy and free at the same time...I believe in
love,love means commitment, and compromise, but it also means the feeling that
makes you create one soul of two bodies...I believe in happiness, but I will
like to be inlove without having to give explanations of my feelings to anybody
than the person I'm with...
Peace music and Love...that's life! no music no life...
I don't wanna be, but I think I'm doomed to be. I got probalbly 60-70 years to go until I die, probalbly sooner if I ever make more enemies. I had soooo many in the past. Around 40 people or more. I'm still a young guy to be thinking about that stuff but a lonesome whole life seems evident, I guess, even in the future there will be no "time is right" situations. I'm also psychologically unstable. Darn it, son of a.... I'll have thoughts racing in my mind making me prone to kill someone. My mom told me to handle myself to avoid prison, juvenile, or mental institutions around my town. Tell me if your gonna be single your whole life and give me a reason.
Hi there. I know about these thoughts. Perhaps I share your fate. But basically because of my choice.
The question is whether you make a problem out of your situation. Ask yourself where the wish, not to be single, comes from. Wishing not to be alone is considered "normal" in our world, and we adapt to what we're told. I suggest you think about why you feel uncomfortable in the prospect of being alone.
Intelligence is, also, not only learning by your own mistakes, but by the mistakes of others.
Look at other people and what they are doing in their relationships; I have seen some of the greatest
tragedies there... Desire causes suffering. The more you think about it the worse it will get. If you really should be single your whole life (I dare to doubt that) it might turn out not to be the worst thing at all.
Try to make the best out of your situation and be honest to yourself (yea you know that ....)
The fact of being alone is not bad itself, we only tend to judge it like that.
peace
Schiffus
so do i might be that i look like a orc...
I agree with Schiffus --I am in the same scenario. I consider my choices, mine and I don't see being single or alone all your life as a failure. There are many who are with people that they resent despise and hate that wish they were alone and sometimes they resort to drastic measures to achieve solitude.
Also, learning from the mistakes of others isn't intelligence--it's wisdom--which is much more difficult to obtain...and practice.
That's even better said
i dated like a couple guys...but i do think i gonna be single forever becuz every guy i dated dumped me or cheated on me.........(its so sad!)maybe im not gurlfriend material................but its okay who needs a boifriend?!i got my gurlfrineds!^^
Go single people! I think I'm going to be single forever because I don't follow society "norms". I don't want my boyfriend at my house everyday, or have to call him everyday and be like, "I love you soooooooo much"......gag me please..........yeah so if I were to have a bf, I would want him to be like a best friend. Someone I can talk to anytime, but knows the right times to leave me alone. Yeah so basically I'm doomed to live with like a million cats someday...........hehe
Not everybody's relationships end in disaster, just ones that are not compatable with each other. Yeah, peoples. My mom says to stay put and away from the social scene because my mental illness is getting worst. The thought of being a mother's child is so embarassing. I always used to wish I were born looking like Tom Cruise or someone all the girls go for. My parents are also very concerning and strict. Dying lonely is scary at first but I guess it's normal for unfortunate humans.
Wow. I totally agree with Earthguardian. I'm such a selfish, non romantic person. I guess I just don't want to give up my space. And everyone is just love-dovey. Argh. Don't get me wrong. I like hang out with guys, but I hate answering questions like " Where are you going ? ". I guess I'm lonely person, but I don't think it's a failure. It's a choice. And the interesting part of being a lonely person, as you shoud have notice by the answers above is that you are not alone.
im a lonely person too, ^.^ oh well...ive gone with guys and stuff, but it never worked out...id rather hang out with my guy friends cuz it seems more fun...^.^ just recently i went to camping with some guy friends and it was freakiin awesome!
Wow, lonesome folks in general are much more bad.... Makes me wanna hit myself unconcious then hit them unconcious next. In my years of school, I've been aquianted with very social non-lonely people. I must say they are very very nice/interesting/colorful/pretty/handsome folks. I still believe physical traits combined with inner traits play a part in counter with this kinda stuff (being lonely and whatnot). People say it's a choice, which is true, but there is always a foundation or reason per say that is behind it. For me, it's my prone to violence, others it's becuz of a broken heart. I will always hate my loneliness, but like most of y'all, I've learned to deal with it.
I don't want to be single my whole life,that would be pretty lonely...^^But I don't want to get married soon,I think under 30 it's better,than around 20...Anyway,I think that many people who don't find a partner after 35 are staying singles
I'm pretty much gonna be single the rest of my life, #1. It's too much of a hassle, #2. I made a promise to myself. #3. I have lost all interest, romantically and sexually, with both sexes. #4.this one is kinda like 1, but I'm just so tired lately, tired of pretty much everything, including life, I don't want to kill myself, sure there are things I would like to see, and I guess I wouldn't really mind being killed , but I would rather just lay down and die at this point, it's kinda of me saying "Hey life, I quit, here's my two weeks notice, bye."
Yea, I've had that as a passing thought when I'm feeling down, but I believe in taking things one day at a time. I believe there's someone out there for everyone as long as they're willing to put in the effort to find them. And even if you don't find your soul mate that doesn't mean you can't be happy.
Lol, KaoriHime took my timeline... I've pledged that if I'm not with someone/married by 35 I'm going to go and buy lots of stuffed animal cats (cuz I may or may not be allergic to real ones...
) *atcha!*
Only 14 more years to go! 
hmm not single now...but i might be single for the rest of my life. it's okay, i accept my fate. =)
i hope i don't remain single forever! i'm in search of a relationship. just gotta keep on trying!
Most likely, yes.
I work alone and I live my life alone...I have few friends and no room in my mind or heart for a girlfriend, for it would ounly give me another factor to consider when trying to live my life...something that can be unstable and difficult enough without needless distractions
yea i might be single for the rest of my life becuz for some stupid reason i push the people closest to me away but then again at the moment being single for the rest of my life means no more pain
i think so too, my social life is going down....
I want to be single forever and I am going to be.
i probably will be. im just too different from other people. i like to ba alone and i dont want to deal with anyone elses sh*t. now thats not to say i wont marry someone if i find the right person, but the odds of that are slim to none
like the crazy cat woman on the simpsons? xD
I'm not gunna be single my whole life, well its impossible for me to do that now since i've already had a girlfriend before xD
but now that im older, having a g/f is bound to be more expensive T__T, but totally worth it lol. I just love companionship
I'm sort of looking at the moment, basically if the opportunity comes up, i'll give it a shot
i just cant stand being alone too long, i go stir crazy ^^;
I wanna love somebody so much that we wouldn't need a ring to express our love to each other...I just wanna be happy and free at the same time...I believe in love,love means commitment, and compromise, but it also means the feeling that makes you create one soul of two bodies...I believe in happiness, but I will like to be inlove without having to give explanations of my feelings to anybody than the person I'm with...
Peace music and Love...that's life! no music no life...
I used to think that way but
Someone just jumped out and caught me lol.
I'm sure you will find someone one day when u least expect it.