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Quote by bwebBeing gay doesn't make you special, and it doesn't entitle you to alter society to fit your lifestyle. You're not some ethnic group that is being treated badly due to stereotypes. You're a group of people who are either choosing to engage in abberrant behavior, or you've been genetically selected to engage in sexual relations with your own gender, thus ensuring that you can't breed and pass on your genes.

I am sick and tired of the gay community trying to push their agenda. I'm tired of them comparing themselves to oppressed minorities to try and drive home their cause. They're not a race of people. And I'm tired of them trying to use movies and television to try to normalize their abnormality.

"Being gay doesnt make you special"

"Im tired of them trying to use movies and television to try to normalize their abnormality."

Ee... man, the first thing you said says that "everybody are equal" (something like that. Gays are persons, just like everybody else). But I cant really agree with you on the second one. "Im tired of them trying to use movies and television to try to normalize their abnormality". They are still persons like us, why cant they do movies and use television like everybody else? The only difference here is that they are gay and they are watching something different or creating something that most people cant agree with. I am not bothered with gay movies or television, just try to accept that their feelings are love to each other, just like everybody else!

"I'm tired of them comparing themselves to oppressed minorities to try and drive home their cause."

Im getting pretty tired of you soon :\. Everybody are comparing themselves about something. I cant really come up with an example, but those who doesnt like their own sex have compared themselves in many ways. And gays only takes up a "mere" ten precent of the popluance, they got quite much reason to compare themselves to the other 90%. Man I would laugh my ass off if you tried to think in their shoes. Do you know how it feels being gay and discriminated by others? There are quite many persons that could discriminate gays, because we are 90% who can. But everybody are not discriminating. I have no idea how it feels being gay, and I cant really tell how they feel, but if they are discriminated quite often it must be really tiresome. They got a reason to think that they are a oppresed minority.

"Being gay doesn't make you special, and it doesn't entitle you to alter society to fit your lifestyle."

Oh my god, what are you talking about?! It doesnt matter how you are, the humanity have always tried to alter society to fit persons lifestyles! It doesnt matter if you are gay or lesbian. They are a part of the human race, and why cant we alter our society so it fits them too? What big difference will it be in our social structure if we try to satisfy gays and lesbians? They are human dammit.
/afaT

(Got bad english, I hope I havent read wrong on bweb's post and I hope I havent written down the wrong stuff.)

I could care less if they could marry or not as long as they stay far away from me. But whats the point of being married anyways, why not just be together? isnt that good enough?

Quote by wingsofsteelI could care less if they could marry or not as long as they stay far away from me. But whats the point of being married anyways, why not just be together? isnt that good enough?

Well marriage brings two things: official recognition of the couple and benefits, like cheaper taxes.

You know it's really inevitable the dominios have already began to fall, and we will go soon. Marriage will become between homosexuals not just heterosexuals, Spain has it, Scandinavian Cities have it, Amsterdam hads i, England has civil Unions, and Canada has declared it will as well soon.

On top of this the reasoning whats to stop from other forms of marriage is ubsurd, look theres a huge differece between two adults and and any other form of marriage so i don't want to hear well they might start to marry rocks or somethiing, thats such a lame defense.

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afaT, you can't change Bwebs mind, it's immposible, but keep up the good work.

useless, how are they gonna have kids? and even if they adopted one, it's not the same as a real female mom/male dad. and even though a gay couple does adopt one i feel sorry for the kid. and besides thinking oftwo people of the same sex getting down and dirty disgusts me. it sickens me to think that there are plenty of people that think same sex relationships should be legalized. omg what is the world coming to....

If you think so than you could also say why are there so many narrow-minded people who are against that

and to marrie have another reason for all who want to marry it shows your parner ( what gender ever ) how much you love him and that you want to stay the rest of your life with him or her.

so long

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Quote by wingsofsteelI could care less if they could marry or not as long as they stay far away from me. But whats the point of being married anyways, why not just be together? isnt that good enough?

Well marriage brings two things: official recognition of the couple and benefits, like cheaper taxes.

Thats just really dumb. Does is really matter whether other people see you as a real couple or not? I mean like as long as you and ur partner reconize yourselves as a couple what else does it matter. Its not like they can send you to jail for saying that u guys are a couple. Also you don't need marriage to be a "real" couple. I mean as long as u two are together u are a "real" couple.

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afaT, you can't change Bwebs mind, it's immposible, but keep up the good work.

Ah, but you're quite mistaken. Or is this a deliberate attempt to minimalize me by labeling me as "inflexible"?

The fact of the matter is that I can change my mind, and suitably reasonable arguements can alter my opinion.

None of you who are pro-gay marriage have presented any such arguements. You all say the same things:

"They love each other." Yes, well, pedophiles "love" children, but we don't allow that either. Some family members who are grown, like brothers and sisters "love" each other, but we frown on that, too. Love is not enough of a justification.

"They are equal." Equality means they have the right to speak when they want, eat where they want, pay taxes like the rest of us, and die and get buried like everyone else. Equality has nothing to do with marriage. In point of fact, given certain tax laws, social status, and the benefits of some hotel chains allowing your children to stay for free, marriage is all about a lack of equality.

I'm not inflexible at all. A few short years ago, I was perfectly indifferent to the concept of gay marriage. I didn't care who married who, just so long as it didn't interfere with my own social activities.
My mind was changed. The gay community changed it when the Supreme Court of Massechusetts changed the law AGAINST the will of the people, which is what this nation is supposed to be based on. I have ever been against legislation from the bench, and so long as the laws don't come from a mandate from the people, they are blights to the will of our founding fathers.

No pedophiles do not love children, they love to moleste them it is also considered a pyciatric disorder under the APA, unlike Homoseuality. Well you know 85% of users of AOL Trust the USA Judicary over the other two branches.

Let 'em do what they want. I'm all for equal rights to all. Sure, it may be "unnatural," but what's the big deal? All I ever hear is people complaining about,"Oh, they shouldn't be able to do that! It's just not right!" Just shut your pie hole. Nobody wants to listen to you bitch about it. All I'm saying is let 'em do what they want, just get everyone to shut up about it and don't tell me what they're doing in their "personal time."

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Quote by DanTheGreatuseless, how are they gonna have kids? and even if they adopted one, it's not the same as a real female mom/male dad. and even though a gay couple does adopt one i feel sorry for the kid. and besides thinking oftwo people of the same sex getting down and dirty disgusts me. it sickens me to think that there are plenty of people that think same sex relationships should be legalized. omg what is the world coming to....


Hmmmmmm....I Have To Agree With U, That IS True, A Kid Requires A Normal Father And Mother, If It Had 2 Gay Fathers...Well...What Would Other Kids Say About Them In School? A Lot Of Crap I Bet, I Say Let Them Marry And All...Just Prevent Them From Adopting Kids >>

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Quote by DanTheGreat and besides thinking oftwo people of the same sex getting down and dirty disgusts me. it sickens me to think that there are plenty of people that think same sex relationships should be legalized. omg what is the world coming to....


And Yes...It Also Sickens Me...<< But As Long As They Stay 1 Mile Away From Me I Don't Give A Crap What They Do, They'll Probably Die Young Anyways >>

You think that this is bad......wait till you hear about the gay divorces! ;)

I say it should be legal. People have a right to interact and eventually love with different people, no matter what race or sex they might be. The banning of homosexual relationships is just ridiculous. :|

well homosexual marriage doesnt necessarily harm anyone and it isnt super illegal as in some drugs. I have to be in favor of it since it is no harm to anyone. Just because they are homosexual doenst mean they do wrong anything to society. (this is a issue that many people think is going to happen with same sex marriage in my opinion)

I think gay marriage should be legal everywhere. if gay or les couple are so in love and wish to get married then let them be. it pisses me off how people complain about it without even knowing the people that are getting married or wanting to get married. there fore not their f-ing problem. and for people that think its going to affect their children and they dont want them to see that type of stuff. your child is going to learn about it either way.
so just let em be and let them marry

I think it should be legal too.
Allowing it does not affect the rest of the population. And not allowing it won't do anybody any good either.
If it is sinful for christians to be gay, then what's wrong with atheist being homosexual? Should they not have the choice and freedom as well?

Quote by LigerZSchniderYou think that this is bad......wait till you hear about the gay divorces! ;)

lmao, i hope i'm dead by the time same-sex marrieges are made legal. lol the world is going downhill....

Gays suck ass! (well they do, if you think about it)

No, its not right. That is not the way God intended people to behave

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Gays suck ass! (well they do, if you think about it)

No, its not right. That is not the way God intended people to behave

Quote by GalianGays suck ass! (well they do, if you think about it)

No, its not right. That is not the way God intended people to behave


What? There wasn't a way to state your opinion without putting that three-letter word in it? <.< I find your post a bit offensive, actually. Even bweb, who managed to use the word "deviant" to describe homosexuals, is much more tactful than you are about his views... Come on! I despise intolerance more than anything. I'll accept that some people are against same-sex marriage, because it does go against pretty much anything Christians believe in, but there's no need to be mean about it.

Well, I already started a thread on the same subject a while ago, and my opinion didn't change. Honestly, I don't believe in marriage to begin with. I believe this institution isn't as sacred as people make it out to be. I mean, it wasn't created by god or anything. It was created by humans for their own benefit. And in the past, people couldn't even choose who they were going to marry, so why try to glorify marriage so much? Especiallywhen there are so many divorces? But today, we're in a different age, we consider marriage as the expression of love. Most people get maried because they want to commit to each other, even if it doesn't last their whole life. So, if two people who really love each can find happiness in marriage, then I'll be extremely happy for them. The matter of the sex shouldn't even matter anymore. I don't care if the bible said marriage should only be between a man and a woman... It's time people start becoming critical of the Bible, like we are of most books, and that they start thinking for themselves. After all, the Bible wasn't written by the hands of God himself, but by mere people who knew sin like all of us...

And I for one am proud to live in Canada where same-sex marriage is now legal.

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Quote by GalianGays suck ass! (well they do, if you think about it)

No, its not right. That is not the way God intended people to behave


What? There wasn't a way to state your opinion without putting that three-letter word in it? <.< I find your post a bit offensive, actually. Even bweb, who managed to use the word "deviant" to describe homosexuals, is much more tactful than you are about his views... Come on! I despise intolerance more than anything. I'll accept that some people are against same-sex marriage, because it does go against pretty much anything Christians believe in, but there's no need to be mean about it.

Well, I already started a thread on the same subject a while ago, and my opinion didn't change. Honestly, I don't believe in marriage to begin with. I believe this institution isn't as sacred as people make it out to be. I mean, it wasn't created by god or anything. It was created by humans for their own benefit. And in the past, people couldn't even choose who they were going to marry, so why try to glorify marriage so much? Especiallywhen there are so many divorces? But today, we're in a different age, we consider marriage as the expression of love. Most people get maried because they want to commit to each other, even if it doesn't last their whole life. So, if two people who really love each can find happiness in marriage, then I'll be extremely happy for them. The matter of the sex shouldn't even matter anymore. I don't care if the bible said marriage should only be between a man and a woman... It's time people start becoming critical of the Bible, like we are of most books, and that they start thinking for themselves. After all, the Bible wasn't written by the hands of God himself, but by mere people who knew sin like all of us...

And I for one am proud to live in Canada where same-sex marriage is now legal.

people doubting the bible or any other holy books for the matter is a sign the world is going downhill. i don't pretend to be a devout person, hell, i hadn't evenbeen to church for a long time. but i still believe in divine providence.

who the hell is god anywayt, did any one ever spoke to him about gay people ?

I fully agree with your opinions. Gay people are often subjected to discrimination, because some people aren't so open-minded as to let everyone else live their lives as they please and criticise them for it. Doesn't the Bible state that you should love your close ones like you love yourself? I'm sorry, but if discrimination means love in the others' points of view, this world is going down fast and there's nothing we can do about it. And I agree : homosexuals should have the legal right to marry! Look at Elton John! He's married to a man and he's happy! Why should people take away what's good for others?

I think it should be legal.

But you know what would be better?

I'm constantly being told by people that marriage is a thing that by tradition is between a man and a woman and all that rot... that that is what it is symbolised by...

So I think that in places where people don't want gay marriage, they shouldn't have marriage at all, and instead have Civil Unions for all until the homophobes change their discriminatory minds!

Homosexuality is completely natural anyway... humankind is the only species that discriminates against it.

You don't see lions kicking out gay lions from their prides.

And homosexuality is found commonly in nature.

There are even female lizards who can fertilise their eggs as they rub against other female lizards.

Homophobia isn't even needed in the church anymore as it came from a time when there was a low population and they wanted people to have as many children as they could, that time is over and it is no longer required of them to be ani-gay (not that it should EVER have been ok!)...

Homophobes disgust me... they are right up the top of my hate list with racists, sexists and anyone else who has a rotten closed mind...
They would make baby jesus cry if he even listened to their hopeless whingeing about people who are slightly 'different' to them...

Yay for getting that out of my system :)

oh darn...to each his/her own >.<

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