I wonder the same thing, what do girls look in a guy. Im a guy and I only want to see a girl who respect me and i respect. We both should enjoy doing the same thing, not just do whatever the other person want.

Its lust baby! Hell i'll even admit it. Its my primeval instincts at work here. As exhibited by the animal kingdom. In terms of the courtship behavioral ritual.

Society is evil. Look at the ads look at the magazines IT IS ALL AROUND US PEOPLE! SEX AND PHYSIQUE. Well not sure about sex but it is sure showing a lot nowdays. Can't blame nature of making us see things as we do. What do we look for? Legs, breasts, eyes, waist, w/e because it is a sign of a good gene(or a healthy body Idk how to put it). Our society says this is wrong but yet face reality how many tv shows, movies, ANIME, ads, or commercials have you seen that have fat men/women? men/women with acne? Society is to blame in its hypocritcal state.

well to make it simple: it is one of the most basic instincts of the human being, in this case men, to look out for females that have sexappeal. because of their looks and behaviour attractive females seem to be ready and able to bear lots of children. at least our attraction to them signilizes that there will be more chances of geting into sexual intercourse with this person than with an ugly girl, quite logical as i think.

now this basic instinct is in all of us and is part of our "animalish" side. of course in nowday's human society those kind of instincts seem very funny but very often this is the reason why people get to gether, because they feel attracted. now love is something that signilizes a big attraction not only of physical but emotional value, which is nowdays the standard for every ... lets call it long-term relationship.

so if you feel like an object don't be surprised because (as funny as it may sound) in first place you are made for bearing children and giving life to next generations, which is one of the main purposes of the human being and every living creature.

you will notice that the more a person seems "civilized" the more this animalish behaviour vanishes, but (to make it more clear) what do you think is dancing all about? and the more you go to music genres like r'n'b and rap you will notice that the way (and especially girls) they dance is very provocative to the other sex. can't compare it with tango now, can you? so you see that we all have the desire to find a person we feel attracted to because we feel that chances for reproduction are better.

that's just one point of view which is supposed to give you another perspective for the problem. don't take it too serious but i strongly recommend to concider it when thinking about this kind of things.

Well i dont really look at breasts, ass and legs of a girl
i also like the character
but who cares!
no-one whould like a softy
especially not where a live

Hmm... I'll say looks are important, but cannot go without virtue. I would undeniably prefer a girl who is pretty, but I never seem to fall for a girl when I cannot see the beauty of her heart.

I currently value honesty above other virtues for girls.

I'm not gonna lie. I don't want someone who is completely and utteringly ugly or fat. But I still wouldn't want to go out with a really hot girl who is unfaithful or is just a straight bitch.

I am extremely interested in the eyes of a girl, and I find that your eyes can be the most beautiful things about your physique.

well somehow green eyes are beautiful
first i didn't pay attention to them
but i think i going to judge some people on they're eyes
not negatively meant

i have not been in love before. sure, i have crushes but never fell in love before. there're really guys out there who are so perverted and watches porn probably every single day but i believe there're guys out there who don't have these perveted thoughts every single day but they're probably hard to find.

we shouldn't judge guys by their looks too. some guys look sensible and stuff but they probably watch porn at home...

anyway,if i were a guy, i wouldn't just look at a girl's outward appearance. i think it's normal for everyone even girls, to judge people by their outward appearances cos we do not know the person yet. if we are interested then we would try to get to know more about the guy/girl.

i just really dislike those guys or girls who go out with the opposite gender because they look good on the outside but they don't have inner beauty or something...

anyway, i think i'm going out of topic. sorry ^^;;; just feel like saying what i feel..

i understand both of the sexes: female and male.
being male, i grew up around about 10 females and then i just developed an understanding of girls. Its great to be able too. I mean they ahve so much to say and so many ideas. They are interesting and i wonder how most men can get drawn to the phsycical parts only i mean they are good just men are overwhelmed by soemthing that can jsut crumble to just given time. Well i hope that i ahve helped you in some way. Well another reason why i have to understand guys and girls alosmt tootally is because i have a thing sorta like HITCH. I help people get back on thir feet with relationships and get them started. Well i help guys AND girls too.

well some guys may be perverted as long as they keep it to themselves there is no harm. as long as perverts wont give to their lust (it may sound weird but listen) they till look like normal people and besides no-one would tell that they are perverted in public!

There has to be some bit of physical attraction to the girl, it seems for guys, before they decide to do something about their current relationship. But really, it's not like girls don't do the same thing, now, is it? We oggle at hot guys and everything just the same, and six packs are like magnets..

it's strange in a 14 year old guy but i dont look a girl for her body I

I like next door girls, cute girls but not models... i would like to meet i girl that i feel confortable with, talk to her about things that i like without play a fake image just to like her... a girl that i feel that can teach me about interesting things... i like smart confident girls, with interesting personalities.

Let's be frank, everyone. Everyone relies on looks first. It's not like you wear your personality on your sleeve during first impressions, so saying you "look for personality first" is pretty contradictory. If no one likes what they see, they won't bother. Plain and simple.

No one is a saint, let's get that straight. But at the same time, there are many decent people out there, and all you have to do is find them.

I'm old enough to know that you never look for love when you're looking in the first place. If you look for love automatically, you'll never find it unless you're lucky. That would be the equivalent of telling someone you love them the very first day you see them. (Actually, I'm only 21, so I consider myself too young to have a serious relationship right now. I still have goals to achieve!)

Personally, looks will always catch my attention first, but it will be the personality, flair, attitude, and interests that will keep them there. I consider a lot of girls to be really pretty, and most guys feel the same way.

Oh and one last hint from experience, try not to make friends with the opposite gender if you want them more as friends. That never works. If it does, you'll be in for a whole lot of heartbreak before it gets any better. Fair warning.

i don't know much about love but of course it exists! >o
but of course you can't ignore the fact that some people judges other only by appearance but not all people are like that

I really truly feel for you guys out there. being stereotyped like that isnt fair but.. its what happens. especially when there teenagers. what do u expect from rageing hormones. i guess the guys are just exploring the new feelings they get around girls. but still, it gives them NO RIGHT to treat women as an object.

And sometimes its not just guys, girls get stereotyped fo even wearing a thong! thong sumtimes = whore. its bad 4 both sexes

Well I totally agree with AiwoKote. You use yur eyes first, don't you? And yeah I'll be honest too and say that I often measure girls when I first meet em. It probably has something to do with a males instinct... or something like that.

Aabout That "love at first sight" thingy is actually kinda true. But when it happened to me I was to young to understand. But I guess it's like 0.00000000000000000000[repeating]1 % chance that'll happen. But it can!

When It comes to my personally intreasts about girls I've caught myself listening to girls voices. That's a really aspect important imo. It doesn't matter how beautiful they may look, if they talk like Zeb Macahan I wouldn't go for it, honestly. Another thing too is Intellect and humor. If I meet a stunning broad and goes out with her to later find out that she's an alfabetic retard and a ditch..well.. bye bye.

Ok, so we have 3 things that can't be measured by your eyes. But then, you more often sees an attractive girl then you hear one first, no?
My list would go like this then:
1. Face (especially the eyes)
2. Body
3. Hair

Oh yeah, about that voice thingy: If I hear a girl first (like a voice actress lol), gets attracted to her voice and then looks her up on google to find her not that "hot" my eyes wouldn't spoil as much as they would if I saw her first.

I think I might understand some of you boys. I am a woman, or.. girl ahaha. I go with guys.

I think that some of you likes the personitly and the looks. Right? She don't have to be very pretty and she don't have to be mean. Same thing as for boys.

And I'm saying this out for the boys! I'm not gay or anything like that!

....
But I'd rather date anime boys. ahahah

Usually persons between the age 13-16 cares for stuff that you shouldnt mention '. But not all guys are like that.

For me, I look at the body, but fast. Its only natural that you look at stuff that attracts you. But if im going to be with a girl I would like to at least talk with her, and she talk with me in a nice way. I would never be attracted to a b**** . Even if she got the body everybody are looking for, I would just ignore her if her personality sucks. What attracts me the most is her eyes, hair, laugh, personality and many other stuff. Its not always about looks, but when you look at a person its just normal to look at the body, sooner or later. In this age, we are starting to get hormones, so what can we do about it?
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Keep looking for the right guy then. Society IS evil. They make the women all sexy and put them on ads and stuff making everyone look at the body only. You should understand that not all guys do that.
I look for the personality. Looks are a plus :P

Good point. I HATE IT when guys just say stuff like ''you're so beautiful Mayura" and all they want is physical me and they don't even understand me... ARGH. Loathe those guys.. But I'm sure not all guys are like that cause my bf isn't ^^

I first look at a girls body, duh. Then I find out what her personality is like. If I like it, then I make a move. If not, like if shes a crazy needy bipolar chick, I run for my life..........

So for long term relationships personality is what really matters.
For Short Relationships for fun, Body is what matters.

1. Big ass
2. Big bubes
3. & a pretty face