So tell me...What do you do when someone you really don't like comes to you and
says they really love you. I mean the real thing. "LOVE" love. He acts
really sweet to you and all, but you have never had a bf or gf before and you
have your heart set on someone else. You don't want to hurt their feelings but
you don't want to go with them. What do you do?
P.S. Never had a bf and never had this happen to me. So was just wondering on
how it feels to have.
I'll say be honest and tell him that you don't like him. If you think you might
change your mind add a yet to the sentence, or say you want to know him better
first.
I think being honest avoids alot of potential future problems.
I have to agree with Persocom01. The best thing is to let him know in the nicest
way possible that you're not interested. Don't make it sound like there's hope
(if there isn't), but don't use words that are too hurtful. Rejections are bad
enough without them being too straight forward and blunt. This happened to me
once even though I never told the guy, or hinted, that I had any intention of
going out with him. Sadly though, we no longer talk.
I guess I'd feel flattered in a way, but there's still no way I'd go out with
someone if I didn't like them like that. Let him down gently but don't beat
around the bush - give the guy a straight answer, otherwise he may not get the
hint and you'd just be playing around with him.
mmm well this just happened to me, I told the guy I liked that I loved him, and
I still love him, but he thinks its just a game, but I understand that we are
not meant to be, so I'm trying to forget... but he say it to me ina good way,
and we talk all days... so theres nothing to be afraid of ^^ hahahahaha but I'm
still a little depressed...
hahaah hope this is good for you, so you can have both points of view...
Just say no. Honesty is the best policy, there's not much else you can do unless
you want to deceive that person and hurt them more when they find out you didn't
really love them to begin with.
i would go for what your heart is set on. I once dated a girl that i was only
slightly interested in, while my heart really wanted someone else. Its not that
great. always listen to your heart. its usually right.
So tell me...What do you do when someone you really don't like comes to you and says they really love you. I mean the real thing. "LOVE" love. He acts really sweet to you and all, but you have never had a bf or gf before and you have your heart set on someone else. You don't want to hurt their feelings but you don't want to go with them. What do you do?
P.S. Never had a bf and never had this happen to me. So was just wondering on how it feels to have.
I'll say be honest and tell him that you don't like him. If you think you might change your mind add a yet to the sentence, or say you want to know him better first.
I think being honest avoids alot of potential future problems.
I have to agree with Persocom01. The best thing is to let him know in the nicest way possible that you're not interested. Don't make it sound like there's hope (if there isn't), but don't use words that are too hurtful. Rejections are bad enough without them being too straight forward and blunt. This happened to me once even though I never told the guy, or hinted, that I had any intention of going out with him. Sadly though, we no longer talk.
I guess I'd feel flattered in a way, but there's still no way I'd go out with someone if I didn't like them like that. Let him down gently but don't beat around the bush - give the guy a straight answer, otherwise he may not get the hint and you'd just be playing around with him.
mmm well this just happened to me, I told the guy I liked that I loved him, and I still love him, but he thinks its just a game, but I understand that we are not meant to be, so I'm trying to forget... but he say it to me ina good way, and we talk all days... so theres nothing to be afraid of ^^ hahahahaha but I'm still a little depressed...
hahaah hope this is good for you, so you can have both points of view...
Just say no. Honesty is the best policy, there's not much else you can do unless you want to deceive that person and hurt them more when they find out you didn't really love them to begin with.
i would go for what your heart is set on. I once dated a girl that i was only slightly interested in, while my heart really wanted someone else. Its not that great. always listen to your heart. its usually right.
Kick to groin... simple ^__^
It's really good to have a bf
But don't lie to him
I think it 'll be horrible
If you do that