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One reason I can give you that some people commit suicide is because of their belief. It's true some would rather kill themselves then live in shame. But some people believe that death isn't always a bad thing. Some even embrace it. You lose what you have here but what if you we're given something more when gone? Infinite questions to be asked, infinite possiblities, and no real answer. But when a person has that type of mindset you are considered crazy or metally ill in society. I call it creative. But hey, take it for what its worth. Think of the possiblities.

merged: 07-13-2006 ~ 06:20am
Along with what shynaku said, I too was or still am suicidal my name speaks for itself. I have to admit my feelings when I was younger we're very extreme as well. My madness costed me as well. I hated everyone merely for their exsistence. How can anyone see things this way you might ask. Well being human as we are we are capable of very many disturbing things. And many people experience these events in our history. Slavery, holocaust, destruction etc. Some things that people in this country (America) don't even relize is that we we're the only country in human history to launch nuclear weapons on another country. We even have our own holocaust as some may call it. (Japanese-American "Internment" Camps) all Japanese-American citizens locked away for mere suspicion of being spies. While the real spies were actually from cuba spying for Japan. I thought about all the bad things that this race has done to itself and other living things. Great, yet treacherously capable of doing more bad things. We have all at asked why life is not fair. I even thought of a way to make life fair for everyone! And the way for that was for there to be no life at all. Everyone, and everything dead. No life at all makes things fair for everyone. Fair is not about good or bad, its about being even. And so if everyone was dead, then life or no life at all would be fair. I eventually wanted to carry out with my plan and joined the military to gain and see for myself just what we humans are capable of. I've done things I thought I could never do, given the correct circumstances, anyone can do almost anything. But of course they found out about my intentions and I was then labeled by our society by doctors, and of course discharged for conspiracy. It costed me. But I still see that my theory is right and is more true then any religion. But of course we are all entitled to our opinions. But in the end I gave up that ambitous motive. I still think of what it will be like if you were not alive. You look at a dead person and they tell you nothing. But that doesnt mean there isn't anything to be told. Anyways I don't plan on ever having a family of my own because of my belief, Don't get me wrong, I would love to have one, but I haven't found something worth living for yet. Some people need a purpose to live. I am one of those people. So I hope this answers your question "why commit suicide?" This is just one person telling you why they would...

i believe it is VERY BAD to commit suicide: according to Dante, suicide victims go to hell, i believe the 7th circle of hell, in which they're bodies take the form of mangled trees-remeniscent of the mangled bodies they damaged themselves. And everyday they are cut up by the claws of harpies attempting to nst on them....bad stuff...dont go suicide

Suicide is usually not the smartest thing in the world, but there are special cases......

dude... don't die just yet... what's out there on the otherside is not yet prepared for ya...

merged: 07-13-2006 ~ 01:08pm
dude... don't die just yet... what's out there on the otherside is not yet prepared for ya...

there are valid reasons to commit suicide maybe not to you, because you havent expereanced a hightende sence of pain or failure in life.most people would say theyve thought about it atleast once in their life honestly.adolecince is hard thats the time in life when things are the most unstable those who cant cope with being unstable or going beyond that confused state seek death for confert by stupidity, recklessness, or suicide.hightened failure or pressure can do that to people to feel that useless is one of the darkest things known to man

Quote by etooi'll say one more thing: read shynaku's post and think about it. he/she is more right than all of us put together. if you're not face to face with the problem, you can debate all you want, you'll never find the true answer.

twilightofrose - how to feel joy and happiness doesn't depend on the sorows you have. the "something special" that hapens doesn't have to be painful, would you find boring a place where there are no crimes but where you have a get together every sunday or a nice thing now and then? i think not.
we know how to have positive feelings even without pain and heartache, we just tend to get them for granted. a little pain only reminds us to value what we have, but when it becomes too much for an army to handle, but you have it only on your shoulders, i think the knife or the pills will start to look friendly.
but still.... the reasons for commiting suicide are not to be talked about, simply because if you're not in the shoes, you don't know if you can walk with them.

If you were born without knowing what sadness is, never saddened anyone and no one ever saddened you, nor to the events sadden you (let's say they're all good), you wouldn't really know what happiness is. You wouldn't understand it. You'll find life boring, always happy and in harmony like that. You'll see even that in many videogames/books/mangas/animes the same opinion, because it's not an opinion, it's a fact; it's how the human being works.

The pain not only reminds us of the value, but it makes it more important. See why we have to feel pain?

And besides, how can we become stronger if we don't go through pain? "What doesn't kill us makes us stronger" or something like that.

I've felt suicidal for two whole years, and I still sometimes feel suicidal, from time to time. Yet, I try to endure what I go through, and in the end, I find it rewarding.

Quote by KyuotoSuicide is just the easy way out. Supposidly it "frees" them of pain.


Ignorance is bliss, and thrives on those who use it's opinion as guilt on others.

In response to xandman's rather insensitive remarks: take adolescent psychology, read up on the effects of bullying, and then we'll talk. Better yet, go back to grades 6-8 and get bullied by your peers and teachers, with no means to fight back, no support from your parents, and endure those three years without friends. Then, and only then, will we talk.

I understand why some people commit suicide because I was suicidal throughout middle school and part of high school. Once you've become this way, there's no escaping it, even if you manage to find something that makes you happy and keeps you alive.

Why did I become suicidal? I was bullied. My middle school was mostly black -- lottery schools are like that -- and I was one of a handful of kids from the West Side, where working-class white families such as my own live. Everyone else was either black, a rich white kid, or Asian. I wasn't just bullied because of my race (reverse discrimination, look it up) and the part of town I live in, I was bullied for anything and everything my classmates could think of. Anime, my music, my love for horses, you name it. To make things worse, my teachers bullied me too, especially in 8th grade. None of the abuse was physical, it was all mental/emotional.

I tried telling my parents. Dad, who was too concerned with my grades (which plummeted to an F-average because of the tormenting), didn't give a damn one way or another, much less understand. He still doesn't understand. Mom, the one responsible for placing me in that hell-on-earth, didn't pay any attention.

Young adolescents are very impressionable. If they pick up on animosity from peers, learn that the adults in their lives don't care and/or don't listen/try to help, then they think that they are worthless. That's what happened to me. I tried telling my mom. That didn't work. Gradually, I shut up, as in, completely shut up. Before I started at that horrible school, I'd been bright, happy, talkative, always ready to laugh and have fun. That all stopped about three-quarters of the way into the first semester of 6th grade. Mom told me later that she'd seen the changes, but thought nothing of them. I started looking for ways of escaping, including running away to live with my mom's brother, her parents, or escaping to Texas to live with my dad's family members there. Once or twice, I thought about killing myself, but the thought didn't rule over my existence until later.

Then April 20, 1999, the Columbine High School massacre, happened.

That incident gave me something. It gave me two heroes, two boys who'd fought back, retaliated. It gave me something to threaten my parents with.

I constantly threatened suicide. It got the right reaction, but never the results. Whenever I threatened it, Mom and/or Dad would freak out, but they never asked me why. When I wasn't threatening suicide, I wrote about it. My middle school English teachers began to ask me why my poetry and prose always contained images of my death, and up until 8th grade, I always told them that death intrigued me. In 8th grade I openly challenged my teacher, "Why should I write about flowers, kittens and puppies when you and everyone else in this room loves to fuck with my head and make me fantasize about death, my own if not yours?"

I felt worthless. No one seemed to care if I lived or died. I couldn't understand why I was being tormented, why no one cared, or why I felt this way. I couldn't cope with being hated. I wanted to die, and I still don't fear death, because I believe that death is still so much kinder than the world I live in. That's why I became suicidal. It's not just about attempting to take your life (which I finally did when I was in 10th grade), it's constantly thinking about it, wanting it, dreaming about it.

Am I a loser because I was an impressionable 11-year-old who'd never known what it was like to be hated for stupid things like my family, my side of town, the stuff I liked? Am I a loser because I didn't know how to cope with these feelings of worthlessness? I think not. Hell? It's everywhere.

Valid reasons. Screw your valid reasons. You don't know what it's like, and most likely, you never will. I need valid reasons to live. My valid reason, the one thing that gave me a sense of pride, belonging, purpose and happiness, was marching band. Those feelings left the building on June 11, 2005, the day I graduated from high school to begin college. I don't belong anywhere anymore. I have no purpose, no reason to exist, and yet I do as an empty shell, waiting for something that I know I can never have again.

Don't talk about it if all you're going to do is look down on those of us who are plagued by it night and day.

suicide is fun...

HELL NO, http://img291.imageshack.us/img291/8729/ichigosfrustrated2jd.gif does a person think to reach that point, instead of BAD MOUTHING, WHY NOT HELP THE POOR SOULS IN NEED!

Quote by twilightofrose

Quote: If you were born without knowing what sadness is, never saddened anyone and no one ever saddened you, nor to the events sadden you (let's say they're all good), you wouldn't really know what happiness is. You wouldn't understand it. You'll find life boring, always happy and in harmony like that. You'll see even that in many videogames/books/mangas/animes the same opinion, because it's not an opinion, it's a fact; it's how the human being works.

The pain not only reminds us of the value, but it makes it more important. See why we have to feel pain?

And besides, how can we become stronger if we don't go through pain? "What doesn't kill us makes us stronger" or something like that.

I've felt suicidal for two whole years, and I still sometimes feel suicidal, from time to time. Yet, I try to endure what I go through, and in the end, I find it rewarding.


we would think of happyness as a normal state, but as i said, a little pain is good. only when it becomes to much to handle is the hard part.
look at 4-5 year old children, they don't know what real pain is, and still, they're happy and don't find life boring. that may be cuz they don't know what life is yet, but their innocence is something we loose. so, maybe in an all happy world we, at 3-40 years old, would still have it and won't think sad things or find life boring.

oh a lot of ppl have done it , well there is alot of stories that i know , but heres one , there was a really fat boy who all the kids would pic on him cause he had a really bad bodyu oder , and well everyday they would pick on him and he would never take shower, so then he killed himself by jumping off a roof
i was about to commit suicue,,,,,but i didnt cause i thought of my one true love......oh! my cousin told me of a story saying that he bf broke up woth her and she was soo depressed that she wanted to jump off the golden gate bridge . but the police guy said why would u wana jump off the golden gate bridge? she would say because my boyfriend broke up with me..........phht so i wouldnt jump off the golden gate bridge....there are fishes and maybe sharks under there , heck no,....so yah , but me and my beloved bf broke up ...so well i am very depressed

Don't commit suicide, things can always get better, running away is a much better alternative.

I used to be constantly depressed and with few small changes to my life for the first time I can actually say that I'm happy. Seriously if your life is ruining you, just leave and find a new one. After all the only reason to commit suicide is to escape the life you don't want to be living, right?

Well.. My thought.. every ppl has their own reason of doing things
Sometime it might seem stupid to u, might be the other around for them..
There're time where u jux have to see things from the other side..
A friend of my aunt ... who owes ppl lots of money.. where his family were forced to live wif his burden..

One day.. I think it's his brother or someone had a fight wif him.. he said " IF it wasn't for u.. we wouldn't have been like this! It's all ur fault!"
Then finally when he really can't effort to hold on anymore.. he decided to commit suicide.. He left a letter before he died.. "I'm sorry for being a burden for all of u.. I've decided to end All this" Words tat were left in the letter..
I think he doesn't want his family to suffer jux because of him.. Doesn't wan to be a burden.. I guess.. or mayb he jux can't stand it? I'm not sure

But there's only few things i Can say about that.. Even if he choose to died.. nothing is gonna change... His family still have to clear off his debt .. Although he didn't have to suffer anymore.. although he thought everything's all over.. Commit suicide jux doesn't feel right to me.. Sometimes things can be change.. all u need is to take time and a little patient.. no matter how hard.. I think ppl jux can't give up hope that easily.. he might had finished his debt by now if he was still alive..

I can't really say these things for sure.. Cause I know i could never understand how it feels but.. Nothing will be change by ending ur own life..
Ending life won't solve anything.. Some might said he deserve it.. SOme might said he's stupid.. but.. choosing to live or die isn't our decision... IT really is depend on that person's WILL.. But I stil think choosing to die really isn't feel right..

...i was suicidal, can't really say that it's gone out. but i'm just thankful it DID lessen a bit. at least... i'm still alive.

MY biological aunt was married to her husband that she loved right,she had my two cousins,ahley and rian and then every thing turns...she finds out that her husband,my uncle,was cheating on her with what i like to call a slut.My cousins hate him and so do i and later on my mom gets a call from my aunt in california,because that's were they live,and we find out that he tried to comit suicide by taking an over dose of pills.The reason he tried to comit suicide was because he knew what did wrong and because his family would not forgive he trys to comit suicide.Right now he's in california living with his family,i think they still hate him...i do

No matter how hard life is, i think death shouldn't be considered a solution. I understand the reasons, but still, it's just sad. It's cruel to call the ones who do this losers mainly because it's not helping anyone. It's sad when you think about the people they leave behing. How would anyone see what awaits them in life if they're dead? They have the chance to make up for everithing, but screw it up. Maybe i live in a dream worl, but if you have the love and support of family and friends, any obstacle can be overcome and suicide shouldn't be an option...

eXDream2K5 had a very good reason for feeling that way. I understand bullying I've had quite my fair share of it. But I feel sad for ppl how do commit suicide and their families. My dad's cousin commited suicide and my dad took it pretty hard, his cousin was like a best friend to him. Not only that but my cousin had thoughts about it and it made me afraid for her. I think ppl really need to think about the ppl they are leaving behind as well because those ppl suffer too. I heard about a woman whose daughter commited suicide and she killed herself too because she couldn't take the pain it caused her to lose her child. I feel really bad for the ppl who feel its the only way out, I hope that they continue on and find some purpose in their lives.

Simple thing. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.

However, I'm afraid it has taken a negative effect on the young uns.

If I had to suicide, I'd suicide when my family and friends die, when my company goes bankrupt, when I get cancer and when I realise anime and manga is banned all over ther world altogether. *nods*

Come on guys. Why would you suicide. It's painful and it's scary. I never thought of suicide; just thinking of death is creepy.

maybe one needs a reason to live, tangible or not... but sometimes, there's just a 'thousand reasons' not to. sometimes. @_@

Suicide are for cowards, gezz, i hate "most" people and the idea of suicide. LIke serously, so many people want t olive, choose to live but they can't. Disease....war....etc. I think thoughs alive should cheerish there life a bit more. I don't care if your GF or BF died or broke up with u, or you get bullied at school. I dont care if u are missing and arm! Live with it, fight it. BUT there are exceptions....like...if i was paralized 100%...just kill me. Whats there to cheerish? the hospital ceiling for the rest of your life? Or ife somebody cut of my tonge and starting chopping off my limps slowing.....and real sick ****. Then yea...... or some other realy realy gross things i rather not get into. There are very few exceptions......im still debating wether suicide would be wroth it if somebody killed all ur family and friends though....mmm

one reason to commit suicide
1. avoid confronting wayne brady

...and everything went back this morning. but i won't do it, thanks to the people in this forum who brightened my 'thoughts'. hooold oonn...

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