me and my girlfriend are living in the same city right now but she is moving in less than two days we has no idea what to do and we dont want to break up but we are going to be all the way across the country and she dosent want us to be in a world of hurt after she leaves or if it dosent work out she dosent think it will work even though we love each other very much i on the other hand want to try it plz pllllzzz try to post before 7/19 we neeed ur help guys!

What does your heart say, what does hers say? If you really are meant to be, then you'll stay with each other... if you're hurt, then it was meant to be, cause you allowed it to happen or fate played it's role...

can u see ur life witout her? ^__~

long distance relationships r hard
how long r we talking?
pretty much forever?
it takes both ppl to be fully commited...
and by wut u said, it doesnt sound like she fully is

your still pretty young...
r u willing to visit at least 2 or 3 times a year? if not more?
even wit that, it takes a lot to be able to hold on

i'd say jus try to come to an agreement to give it a try for like 1/2 a year...
then visit her and see if u guys still feel the same way bout each other
and if ur still in love, then great ^___^

but it wouldnt be so bad if u guys jus stayed friends would it?
while seein other ppl?

well, best of luk to u both ^__^

is she ever coming back? if she's not it might be better to let each other go. But if you decide to hold on...you spoil her with gifts every chance you get.

thanks guys youre alot of help (^ ^) weve decided to stay together and im going on a road trip there soon enough so thanks.

Dude. That's tough. Long distance relationships almost never work. I agree wth Benjikun7 - if she's not coming back, you'd better let her go.

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