(Imagine you are gal)
Imagine this. One day, after class, this guy whom you hardly talk to walks up to
you and asks if he can have a word with you. Here's what the guy says:
"Hey, after talking to you that day, I thought you made a really good
friend. Is there any way we can start communicating? ........
Tell you what, give me your number and i will call you sometime yeah?
"
Is this too forward? I don't want to seem too agressive. Also, I hope it doesn't
sound too desperate. Advice please. Will you give the guy your number in this
case?
Hummmmm. narutoendang-kun ?
As a GAL, I would think it's too forward. And formal, too. This way, she will
thinks you're going to make a confession. Try make things more naturally, ok?
Because, when you ask to walks... well, there is a bit of expectation and what
you want is quite simple.
You want to know her a bit more, right ? So stead of saying " Is there any
way we can start communicating?" , START the comunication ! Try to sit next
to her. Make simple comments about the class and the teachers, the weather,
whatever. Be NICE and KIND. Just this. The rest is the rest.
It's a bit soon to ask phone numbers. If you have common friends, even better.
Good luck ! ^_~
hmm...yea....if he's a pervert and u no it than i wouldn't give him my #.
hmm...i think he might ask u out or somthing....he has somthing planned in his
mind....hmm....i don't think it s good either. but watever. ur just getting
advice from a stranger...take it or leave it
Quote by yoshimitsuoh man! so thats
what you say to get a girls attention!
no wonder my stakeout-and-stalk approach isnt working!
oh well... guess i'd better quit planning how to hack into her phone
systems...
Haha! Thats funny, sorry if its not.
But to answer your question, as a guy (which i am ) i would say, talk to him, get to know him, then mabey after a week, or when
you feel confortalbe with him, give him your number and ask for his in exchange.
I hope this works out for you and good luk with the guy problem.
Erm if you think he is someone you can talk to then no harm giving him and maybe
he will turn up to be the person you wish to share your problem next time but
make sure you draw a line if you dun want things to go too fast... Slowly!
haha... as a guy, i'd just think that guy's rushed it. but i suppose if you got
to know him over a period of time (that's up to u as to how long), then if you
feel you can trust the fella, or you think he's an ok dude and thus comfortable
with the thought of giving your no. out, then go ahead.
AW, MAN! if a guy came up to me and said that, i'll burst out laughin' my head
off! dude! u need to give the relationship some time and see how it's goin' and
if good, ALRIGHT! ^.^ but if sour...back away slowly and discreetly...and please
just stop working around the question, put it plain and simple...like
"would u go out with me?" or "wanna go to the movies?"?
these questions might seem old fashioned or dumb and something out of a novel or
movie...but at least it doesn't sound desperate (sorry)
but u don't have to take my advice, it's just my opinion, u know? this is just
comin' from a girl that says "heck no!" to all the guys whom have
approached her and laughed at their face ^.^ heh! i love me ^.^
lol way too up front... honestly if a guy came up to me and said that i would
not give my number to him... but then again thats me personally... its jus that
i hardly know u and jus met u... it would kinda weird to give u my number... but
if really wanted to contact her... asking her for her email address would be a
better choice? well good luck
You just approach her and start asking to ask her cell phone number?
I’m a guy but Even if
I’m a girl I
wouldn’t give you my number ^ ^
But there no right or wrong, I think you are great.
You are able to say what you want to say, not every one can say strike forward
word like that ^ ^.
as a girl i would say that is a bit point-blank. before going him any contact
number talk to him in person. build the trust forst. it's better that way.
i think you would be better off saying, "well, it was really nice talking
with you so maybe we can talk again sometime, well cya". if she says
"cya" or something like that in a good voice then you've got a chance
to talk to her again but dont do it very often at first maybe when you pass her
by when shes alone just say hi and if shes up for a conversation go with it.
(Imagine you are gal)
Imagine this. One day, after class, this guy whom you hardly talk to walks up to you and asks if he can have a word with you. Here's what the guy says:
"Hey, after talking to you that day, I thought you made a really good friend. Is there any way we can start communicating? ........
Tell you what, give me your number and i will call you sometime yeah? "
Is this too forward? I don't want to seem too agressive. Also, I hope it doesn't sound too desperate. Advice please. Will you give the guy your number in this case?
Hummmmm. narutoendang-kun ?
As a GAL, I would think it's too forward. And formal, too. This way, she will thinks you're going to make a confession. Try make things more naturally, ok? Because, when you ask to walks... well, there is a bit of expectation and what you want is quite simple.
You want to know her a bit more, right ? So stead of saying " Is there any way we can start communicating?" , START the comunication ! Try to sit next to her. Make simple comments about the class and the teachers, the weather, whatever. Be NICE and KIND. Just this. The rest is the rest.
It's a bit soon to ask phone numbers. If you have common friends, even better.
Good luck ! ^_~
I think it's going to far to soon, if you hardly talk to him then it's to soon.
hmm...yea....if he's a pervert and u no it than i wouldn't give him my #.
hmm...i think he might ask u out or somthing....he has somthing planned in his mind....hmm....i don't think it s good either. but watever. ur just getting advice from a stranger...take it or leave it
oh man! so thats what you say to get a girls attention!
no wonder my stakeout-and-stalk approach isnt working!
oh well... guess i'd better quit planning how to hack into her phone systems...
Haha! Thats funny, sorry if its not.
But to answer your question, as a guy (which i am
) i would say, talk to him, get to know him, then mabey after a week, or when
you feel confortalbe with him, give him your number and ask for his in exchange.
I hope this works out for you and good luk with the guy problem. 
Erm if you think he is someone you can talk to then no harm giving him and maybe he will turn up to be the person you wish to share your problem next time but make sure you draw a line if you dun want things to go too fast... Slowly!
haha... as a guy, i'd just think that guy's rushed it. but i suppose if you got to know him over a period of time (that's up to u as to how long), then if you feel you can trust the fella, or you think he's an ok dude and thus comfortable with the thought of giving your no. out, then go ahead.
i'm no expert but that's the opinion!
AW, MAN! if a guy came up to me and said that, i'll burst out laughin' my head off! dude! u need to give the relationship some time and see how it's goin' and if good, ALRIGHT! ^.^ but if sour...back away slowly and discreetly...and please just stop working around the question, put it plain and simple...like "would u go out with me?" or "wanna go to the movies?"? these questions might seem old fashioned or dumb and something out of a novel or movie...but at least it doesn't sound desperate (sorry)
but u don't have to take my advice, it's just my opinion, u know? this is just comin' from a girl that says "heck no!" to all the guys whom have approached her and laughed at their face ^.^ heh! i love me ^.^
lol way too up front... honestly if a guy came up to me and said that i would not give my number to him... but then again thats me personally... its jus that i hardly know u and jus met u... it would kinda weird to give u my number... but if really wanted to contact her... asking her for her email address would be a better choice? well good luck
You just approach her and start asking to ask her cell phone number?
I’m a guy but Even if I’m a girl I wouldn’t give you my number ^ ^
But there no right or wrong, I think you are great.
You are able to say what you want to say, not every one can say strike forward word like that ^ ^.
as a girl i would say that is a bit point-blank. before going him any contact number talk to him in person. build the trust forst. it's better that way.
get to know him first and then give him your number
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i think you would be better off saying, "well, it was really nice talking with you so maybe we can talk again sometime, well cya". if she says "cya" or something like that in a good voice then you've got a chance to talk to her again but dont do it very often at first maybe when you pass her by when shes alone just say hi and if shes up for a conversation go with it.