Yes...its sad, but if there no longer is love between them its more painful to
live a lie and see your home crumbling slowly.
What I don't approve, unless the parent is a total asshole and one's best left
alone, is when they divorce and cut their bonds, just as if what they lived
toguether didn't matter. They made mistakes, thats understandable, but that
doesn't mean others have to pay for them.
It's their choice if they ever want to be separated or divorced. If they feel as
if they should and it's really not working anymore then maybe they should...
Nope, i don't think my parents should be divorced, because I care a lot about
them. They might be fighting on and off, but I don't think my parents are near
being divorced.
3 out of my 4 best friends have divorced parents.
2 out of those 3 have to switch between living with each one. The other hardly
sees her father.
1 out of those 2 had to choose between her mom and dad earlier this year at
court. And the other has had to cope with emotional stress because her parents
have hissy-fits over each other through her.
Do I support divorce? I can't say. I don't think that two people who hate each
other should live with each other. However, someone in the world needs to slap
them across the face and show them how their children are suffering because of
their selfishness. Divorce isn't always out of selfish needs though... if one
treats the other badly, the other should indeed escape. However, why in the
WORLD are they married in the first place?! It's a result of recklessness when
they were younger and it makes me mad. Now they're putting their children
through emotional stress and ruining the holy sacrament of marriage.
I think if they are able to, parents should try to work out any problems they
might have before they separate or get divorced. But it depends on the
situation. If the family is in a bad situation that causes people to get hurt
then it would probably be best to get a divorce, but if the parents are just
unhappy together then they should only be separated instead. For the sake of the
kids though, I think it would be best to stay together as much as possible and
try to live a happy life, no matter how hard it may be at times.
That really depends on the situation. If they have kids then its hard, and yes
it hurts to see them suffer. But why would the kid alway's want to see or hear
his/her parents fight all the time? It's unfair to the kid. I think they should
decide what's best, either a divorce or stay together. You dont want to live a
lie and be miserable for the rest of your life. Realize how your parents feel
and respect what they think, don't be selfish as to what you want! I know I
might sound cold but I mean best. Both parents will alway's love you, so it's
not like you cant see either one of them again, and who know's maybe they'll end
up back together? Give them time to think and talk as a family. Try to fix
what's wrong.
if divorce wasnt allowed,then the sitution in the family would get very bad,
there could be abuse (if not already) and other problems that can be voided if
the couple decide to stay away from each other for the rest of their lives. Sure
its sad, i would know, my parents are divorced, but it could be worse. Imagine a
woman and her son go through daily abuse from a druken father and divorce is
against the law. how would you feel then?
it really depends, but if they have kids they shouldn't. but it's another story
if the mother is abused by the father or the father is abused by the mother and
so on.
I just wana noe if parents should be divorced or seperated.pls reply.
they shouldnt if they have kids , its just sad, i know a lot of ppl without parent and with parents ,
merged: 07-07-2006 ~ 03:50pm
well seperated is the right choice if they have kids , if not , get divorced
Yes...its sad, but if there no longer is love between them its more painful to live a lie and see your home crumbling slowly.
What I don't approve, unless the parent is a total asshole and one's best left alone, is when they divorce and cut their bonds, just as if what they lived toguether didn't matter. They made mistakes, thats understandable, but that doesn't mean others have to pay for them.
things happen. Of course you don't wanna see stuff like that but to tell you the truth when it's crumbling you have no say in it. It just happens.
I think you put this thread in the wrong section of the forum....
yeahh...
you put it in the wrong section...
NO!
they shouldn't...
It's their choice if they ever want to be separated or divorced. If they feel as if they should and it's really not working anymore then maybe they should...
well,for me,I think it depends on why they decide to get a divorce.If the spouse cheats on you,or abuses you than yes.Other reasons than that,no.
Nope, i don't think my parents should be divorced, because I care a lot about them. They might be fighting on and off, but I don't think my parents are near being divorced.
3 out of my 4 best friends have divorced parents.
2 out of those 3 have to switch between living with each one. The other hardly sees her father.
1 out of those 2 had to choose between her mom and dad earlier this year at court. And the other has had to cope with emotional stress because her parents have hissy-fits over each other through her.
Do I support divorce? I can't say. I don't think that two people who hate each other should live with each other. However, someone in the world needs to slap them across the face and show them how their children are suffering because of their selfishness. Divorce isn't always out of selfish needs though... if one treats the other badly, the other should indeed escape. However, why in the WORLD are they married in the first place?! It's a result of recklessness when they were younger and it makes me mad. Now they're putting their children through emotional stress and ruining the holy sacrament of marriage.
I think if they are able to, parents should try to work out any problems they might have before they separate or get divorced. But it depends on the situation. If the family is in a bad situation that causes people to get hurt then it would probably be best to get a divorce, but if the parents are just unhappy together then they should only be separated instead. For the sake of the kids though, I think it would be best to stay together as much as possible and try to live a happy life, no matter how hard it may be at times.
That really depends on the situation. If they have kids then its hard, and yes it hurts to see them suffer. But why would the kid alway's want to see or hear his/her parents fight all the time? It's unfair to the kid. I think they should decide what's best, either a divorce or stay together. You dont want to live a lie and be miserable for the rest of your life. Realize how your parents feel and respect what they think, don't be selfish as to what you want! I know I might sound cold but I mean best. Both parents will alway's love you, so it's not like you cant see either one of them again, and who know's maybe they'll end up back together? Give them time to think and talk as a family. Try to fix what's wrong.
if divorce wasnt allowed,then the sitution in the family would get very bad, there could be abuse (if not already) and other problems that can be voided if the couple decide to stay away from each other for the rest of their lives. Sure its sad, i would know, my parents are divorced, but it could be worse. Imagine a woman and her son go through daily abuse from a druken father and divorce is against the law. how would you feel then?
it really depends, but if they have kids they shouldn't. but it's another story if the mother is abused by the father or the father is abused by the mother and so on.