Care to expand a little more on the original post? You should always repeat the
thread topic in the first post and give an opinion at least
Firstly I'll acknowledge the fact that everyone's definition of
"right" differs, so the standards will of course change. As soon as
you define what's "right", you'll know what the standards are.
My definition of right is probably an easy going kind of person who is
considerate. And would probably put up with any tantrums or fits
Patience is a virtue.
As for the other qualities-- taller than me, slightly older and preferably
sharing the same interests... and have some sort of musical swing, because I'm a
music fanatic
sorry, kuroimisa.. alright, what i meant by the right one for you means your own
standards.. what you are trying to find in your future soulmate if ever you'll
find one.. i wont go detailed but generally i like a girl who is a bit on all
moods, like sports, likes music and a musician, nice and kind, and most of all a
Christian..
emm..same as mine. Although i have a distinctive standard on my future
soulmate's looks, i would prefer much to lookout for her inner personality
first=many similarities between us would be ideal, not just one or a few.
Quote by kokuyuemm..same as mine. Although
i have a distinctive standard on my future soulmate's looks, i would prefer much
to lookout for her inner personality first=many similarities between us would be
ideal, not just one or a few.
I do have standards but i just say that i don't. This is because you can
disappoint yourself when you do find someone.
Mine? I'd say what foreverforgotten said. Inner personallity counts.
I have sort of weird and shallow standards, but there is a big long story behind
them that I am sure you don't want me to get into. Well, anyways here are some
of them. I want someone who is kind, caring, funny, positive, compassionate,
hard working, family oriented, non-sex addict, non-obsessive, (Here comes the
shallow) Has a car and a nice job. I don't want someone that I have to pay for
everything. I have had one too many boyfriends were that is the case.
I hope I can find someone normal and kind who won't be a stalker!
there is no such thing as perfect standards since we all have different opinions
about everything.. our reasoning may be wierd to some but what's important is
that they mean something to you.. i go for personality and character, looks is
somewhat a part of the two but comes as a bonus if you think about it.. :P
anyways, thanks for sharing guys!..
Hmmmmmmm... I would have to say that I would like someone kind, compassionate,
understanding, loving, caring and intelegent. But, when you think about it, that
would almost be asking for perfection.....
Okay I know this is VERY different/weird and something not many people would
understand, but oh well. ok, here goes...first, I don't really look for anthing
in particular. However, a sharp wit, charm(of course), and good sense of humor
helps a lot. Now, here's the weird part...I don't know how many are interested
in astrology, but it's actually pretty intriguing. If you don't know anything
about the zodiac, you will no doubt be confused at what I'm about to describe.
That's okay. Stop reading if you want. Anyway, each sign has certain
characteristics attributed to it. Well, I'm not about to go into each sign,
because that would take forever and I'd get bored eventually. But to get to the
point, I am typically attracted to Scorpios... that's because generally they're
the strong, silent type. Usually deep, intense, and almost never superficial.
Although there's much more to it, that's about the gist of it.
(not to say I exclude everyone else...)
Umm someone that is compassionate and charming. can't be stupid no offense or
have a bad temper....cooking is good but not required...have to be funny and
able to relax. Good looks certainly don't hurt but it's not the main point
Umm... Has to have a brain
*lol*
Sense of humor! A bright future (if he wants to the long way too >.>)
And respect my beliefs/opinions/... Someone that if we break-up won't be an
stalker! and i think that's about it
mmm, lets see, a girl that has a sense of humur, has a care free attidude and
doesnt care what others think of her, loves to have fun, but knows that there is
a time for things to be done and understands me. other than that, it'll be great
to have some similarities
This is the preliminary cut-off criteria:
a. GOOD looking, yes, good looking with capital G-O-O-D. Let's be honest here,
if I have to see him a lot, I want to be comfortable seeing him, not barfing
whenever I see him.
b. He can drive. So, I am getting a porsche, if he crashes it, he dies.
Horribly, painfully, and slowly, so, if he wants to go out with me, no doubt
he'd want to drive my car, he'd better drive well.
c. Some brain. So, I am going to talk to him, too, I presume, so yeah, some
brain will be good. An IQ score of at least 140 is required, 150 recommended.
Open-mindedness required. Ability to debate highly recommended. Yes, I know, I
hate narrow stupid people, and I don't want to, nor do I have the time to deal
with them.
d. Ability to program and use computers. I am a programmer, so, I will talk like
one. He'd better understand, or else... next!
e. Interest in sports. I like football, I like going to the pub to watch
football. He'd just have to deal
f. Speaks at least 2 other languages besides proper English. Yes, I like
multilingual people. I speak several languages myself, and I want to travel left
and right. If I go, I know he'd want to come with, and he'd better be able to
order food on his own.
Now, on to the long-term thing:
a. The whole love thing. Everyone wants to be loved, so, yeah, I want to be
loved, too. If this is to be a long term relationship, he'd better love me, and
be in love with me
b. The whole sex thing. If I am marrying him, he'd better have high libido,
otherwise, i think there's going to be trouble.
c. The whole sarcastic thing. I am a sarcastic person. He'd better be able to
take that and return some. Otherwise, it'd get boring fast.
Hmmm... if he passed all that... well... why, I have found my guy :-P
I only have a few qualities in a guy that I am looking for. I want a guy that
has good manors, is a hard worker, and can drive. I really hate it when a guy
has poor manors and doesn't know how to treat other people respectfully.
I would also like it if they liked anime. But I know that a lot of people are
not into that so it is not an absolute quality that I guy must have.
I am very shy and nervous about speaking out in front of people. Once I get to
know someone though I feel more comfortable.
I don't think that I will ever find the right person for me and I refuse to
settle for someone that I know is not right for me. I have done that in the past
and it only caused pain. I would rather be one of those spinster cat ladies then
settle for someone.
most important : open-minded, have motivation to change bad habits (I mean if
she likes to smoke or something, if I tell her to stop, she wouldn't say 'mind
your own business' or something like that)
second most important : same hobbies like I do (by having same hobbies, we would
interact more and that will strenghen our relationship)
I'm gonna score myself with babyLemon's standards:
1) Good looking? I'm decent. Trust me, I won't scare you away.
2) Driving skill: I can drive. One flat tire is the only fault I ever had.
3) Brains? I got an IQ of a 1000. Just kidding, but I'm definitely above high
school standard thinking.
4) Computer programmer? Crap.
5) Sport interest: I play football for fun. Also baseball and basketball.
6) Multilingual? No, I speak english and understand some other languages but not
speak them.
7) Love? Sure.
8) Sex: Uhhhh, I dun know.
9) Sarcasm: What the heck is that? Lolz. Told ya.
*topic.. just curious..
could be qualities, hobbies, characteristics..
Care to expand a little more on the original post? You should always repeat the thread topic in the first post and give an opinion at least
Firstly I'll acknowledge the fact that everyone's definition of "right" differs, so the standards will of course change. As soon as you define what's "right", you'll know what the standards are.
My definition of right is probably an easy going kind of person who is considerate. And would probably put up with any tantrums or fits
Patience is a virtue.
As for the other qualities-- taller than me, slightly older and preferably sharing the same interests... and have some sort of musical swing, because I'm a music fanatic
sorry, kuroimisa.. alright, what i meant by the right one for you means your own standards.. what you are trying to find in your future soulmate if ever you'll find one.. i wont go detailed but generally i like a girl who is a bit on all moods, like sports, likes music and a musician, nice and kind, and most of all a Christian..
I understand, I do have standards that the right person must meet before she can really get into my heart.
emm..same as mine. Although i have a distinctive standard on my future soulmate's looks, i would prefer much to lookout for her inner personality first=many similarities between us would be ideal, not just one or a few.
Agreed.
Hmm.. someone nice, considerate of my thoughts/feelings/opinions, caring, loving, kind, responsible... yea that's about it =)
I do have standards but i just say that i don't. This is because you can disappoint yourself when you do find someone.
Mine? I'd say what foreverforgotten said. Inner personallity counts.
I have sort of weird and shallow standards, but there is a big long story behind them that I am sure you don't want me to get into. Well, anyways here are some of them. I want someone who is kind, caring, funny, positive, compassionate, hard working, family oriented, non-sex addict, non-obsessive, (Here comes the shallow) Has a car and a nice job. I don't want someone that I have to pay for everything. I have had one too many boyfriends were that is the case.
I hope I can find someone normal and kind who won't be a stalker!
there is no such thing as perfect standards since we all have different opinions about everything.. our reasoning may be wierd to some but what's important is that they mean something to you.. i go for personality and character, looks is somewhat a part of the two but comes as a bonus if you think about it.. :P anyways, thanks for sharing guys!..
Hmmmmmmm... I would have to say that I would like someone kind, compassionate, understanding, loving, caring and intelegent. But, when you think about it, that would almost be asking for perfection.....
Okay I know this is VERY different/weird and something not many people would understand, but oh well. ok, here goes...first, I don't really look for anthing in particular. However, a sharp wit, charm(of course), and good sense of humor helps a lot. Now, here's the weird part...I don't know how many are interested in astrology, but it's actually pretty intriguing. If you don't know anything about the zodiac, you will no doubt be confused at what I'm about to describe. That's okay. Stop reading if you want. Anyway, each sign has certain characteristics attributed to it. Well, I'm not about to go into each sign, because that would take forever and I'd get bored eventually. But to get to the point, I am typically attracted to Scorpios... that's because generally they're the strong, silent type. Usually deep, intense, and almost never superficial. Although there's much more to it, that's about the gist of it.
(not to say I exclude everyone else...)
Umm someone that is compassionate and charming. can't be stupid no offense or have a bad temper....cooking is good but not required...have to be funny and able to relax. Good looks certainly don't hurt but it's not the main point
well, i prefer a gd looking guy with gd personalities
Umm... Has to have a brain
*lol*
Sense of humor! A bright future (if he wants to the long way too >.>)
And respect my beliefs/opinions/... Someone that if we break-up won't be an stalker! and i think that's about it
mmm, lets see, a girl that has a sense of humur, has a care free attidude and doesnt care what others think of her, loves to have fun, but knows that there is a time for things to be done and understands me. other than that, it'll be great to have some similarities
Let's see...
This is the preliminary cut-off criteria:
a. GOOD looking, yes, good looking with capital G-O-O-D. Let's be honest here, if I have to see him a lot, I want to be comfortable seeing him, not barfing whenever I see him.
b. He can drive. So, I am getting a porsche, if he crashes it, he dies. Horribly, painfully, and slowly, so, if he wants to go out with me, no doubt he'd want to drive my car, he'd better drive well.
c. Some brain. So, I am going to talk to him, too, I presume, so yeah, some brain will be good. An IQ score of at least 140 is required, 150 recommended. Open-mindedness required. Ability to debate highly recommended. Yes, I know, I hate narrow stupid people, and I don't want to, nor do I have the time to deal with them.
d. Ability to program and use computers. I am a programmer, so, I will talk like one. He'd better understand, or else... next!
e. Interest in sports. I like football, I like going to the pub to watch football. He'd just have to deal
f. Speaks at least 2 other languages besides proper English. Yes, I like multilingual people. I speak several languages myself, and I want to travel left and right. If I go, I know he'd want to come with, and he'd better be able to order food on his own.
Now, on to the long-term thing:
a. The whole love thing. Everyone wants to be loved, so, yeah, I want to be loved, too. If this is to be a long term relationship, he'd better love me, and be in love with me
b. The whole sex thing. If I am marrying him, he'd better have high libido, otherwise, i think there's going to be trouble.
c. The whole sarcastic thing. I am a sarcastic person. He'd better be able to take that and return some. Otherwise, it'd get boring fast.
Hmmm... if he passed all that... well... why, I have found my guy :-P
I only have a few qualities in a guy that I am looking for. I want a guy that has good manors, is a hard worker, and can drive. I really hate it when a guy has poor manors and doesn't know how to treat other people respectfully.
I would also like it if they liked anime. But I know that a lot of people are not into that so it is not an absolute quality that I guy must have.
I am very shy and nervous about speaking out in front of people. Once I get to know someone though I feel more comfortable.
I don't think that I will ever find the right person for me and I refuse to settle for someone that I know is not right for me. I have done that in the past and it only caused pain. I would rather be one of those spinster cat ladies then settle for someone.
most important : open-minded, have motivation to change bad habits (I mean if she likes to smoke or something, if I tell her to stop, she wouldn't say 'mind your own business' or something like that)
second most important : same hobbies like I do (by having same hobbies, we would interact more and that will strenghen our relationship)
I'm gonna score myself with babyLemon's standards:
1) Good looking? I'm decent. Trust me, I won't scare you away.
2) Driving skill: I can drive. One flat tire is the only fault I ever had.
3) Brains? I got an IQ of a 1000. Just kidding, but I'm definitely above high school standard thinking.
4) Computer programmer? Crap.
5) Sport interest: I play football for fun. Also baseball and basketball.
6) Multilingual? No, I speak english and understand some other languages but not speak them.
7) Love? Sure.
8) Sex: Uhhhh, I dun know.
9) Sarcasm: What the heck is that? Lolz. Told ya.