i know its sad to fall in love with a gay specially because you know that you
don´t have the probabilities to date him
´cause he will never fall in love with you. why? because
his gay, he can be a very cute and smart guy but you can´t
do anything about it becuase you know he will reject you. you can not make him
happy, you can not give him pleassure, so only left thing for you to do is
accept thet he is what he is. you must never think that you can make him change
because that is not possible or if it is, it will be very difficult, so if that
has happen to you, you shouldnt get an obssesion because at the end you will
suffer a lot.
it happened to me and i ended with a broken heart, but the question is has it
ever happen to you?
It never happnd to me, but falln for a gay person is notn wrong. That doesnt
mean that your turn gay as well. It just means that you realy repspect him and
you have strong feelins for him/ her. Its just like falln for someone who is
straight. I dont find anything wrong that that and there shouldnt be anythin
wrong with falling for a gay person.
It is kind of hard however, on that he/ she only wants the person that is the
same sex as him/her. But that shouldnt stop you from loving him/ her. I would
just try to tell that person that you have strong feelns for hi/ her and
hopefully that that person would understand. If not, then just try to be there
by thier side.
Quote by jasaiyajinlolz, what a weird
discussion... u probably fell in love with a gay to get hurt... somewhere deep
inside... X__X
Quote by PAcheright.now thats just funny
i'm sorry!but i really think you sorta asked for it.you know that he's gay and
you still let yourself fall for him
Do not listen to them. I dont make fun of people falln for gay people. I always
take thigns that deals with love and relationships seriously! Ill be more than
happy to chat with you about this or anything else. Feel free to pm me anytime.
aww... / . . \ its okay... somtimes i happen to think that i like somone of the
same sex but... i no that the person i like wont evr like me bekuz they think
its rong... but... yr feelings make you who you are... so... nvr regret liking
or loving somone.. ^^ thats jus wat i think ^^''
m.i.a. ^^
oh miraku-spike... everyone is free to give their opinions.. but it is rather
kind of weird falling in love with a guy that you know is gay... most of the
time girls would go away feeling disgusted or "oh god and he is so
handsome" instead of having more feelings for that guy...
and jlpg i think you still have hopes there... after all he is a guy and one day
he may look at you and realise
i think thats cute that ur in love wid a gay guy............has it happened to
me...........well i like guys in Gravitation such as YUKI..........but in
reality nope.............
I fell in love with Josh, my high school's former drum major (he graduated from
HS in 2005 like me), and I always had a feeling that he was gay, but I didn't
care. He came out and told me when we were seniors, mainly because his cousin
Athena -- my best friend -- told him that I had a right to know. My feelings
were hurt a little, yes, but he and I are still great friends and we've become
more like brother and sister since he told me, but I'm still a little
disappointed because my friend always treated me like I was the best person in
the world, thus making the preppy girls jealous.
btw, jasaiyajin, PAche, those comments of yours were rude. It is possible to
fall in love with someone who is gay. It's not stupid, it's not weird, love is
love. Maybe jlpg's case was like mine at first; I didn't know for sure that my
friend was gay, and I fell in love with him.
I can't say that I ever had an experience like that, or ever been in love for
that matter, but I will say this; experiences like these show me how important
it is to look at people I may objectionally. What I mean to say is, to view the
person how they truly are. Even if the person has feels for you as well that
doesn't mean a relationship is going to work out. And falling in
"love" with someone who doesn't feel the same about you, or for that
matter, someone who doesn't want to change some major flaw in their personality
for the sake of a relationship, is a big no no. You'll only end up heartbroken.
Well, that has happen to me...but I want to ask you something jlpg...do you know
that he is gay for your own knowledge or someone told you that...'cuz, well at
first when that happen to me, I didn't know he was gay...so one day a classmate
told me that she saw this guy with an other guy, and he carry the other guy's
bag and he kiss him (a real kiss)...at the beginning I didn't trust her, but
when I saw that with my own eyes, my heart broke in to little pieces...now I
have seen this guy a lot of times with his boyfriend (lets say that) they hold
hands, and well....I never told him I liked him...an other thing, he use to have
a girlfriend from my classroom, but what a couple, he gay and she lesb..,
anyway...that things do happen and we can not avoid them....
gezzz....must very hard to you...
i'm falling in love with my teacher, well...i haven't told him how i feel, but
someone said tht he's gay....well, matter of fact he's tall, handsome, single
he's every girl want...but as for me, i don't care he's gay or wht. 2% of gay
can be a real man...why don't try it, besides i like shonen-ai, boys who love
boys, so if i fail i don't care ^_^
Actually last time i don`t really can accept same gender relationship... But nw
i knw it`s nothing wrong, they are born like that and their love for each other
will not be lesser then the normal one... Nothing is wrong falling in love with
a gay, boy fall in love with boy and gurl fall in love with gurl so what`s wrong
falling in love with gay? But i hope you dun give up so easily, someday he will
knw you are good to him!
Well... I never been through this...
unless U meant falling for a guy who loved another girl...
well... it might be harder for u.... but I guess U have to accept it...
only for now...
Basically its not the end yet...
He may truly love him, but he may not too...
why dont U try to wait... let him see your patience!
Gambateh!
i know its sad to fall in love with a gay specially because you know that you don´t have the probabilities to date him ´cause he will never fall in love with you. why? because his gay, he can be a very cute and smart guy but you can´t do anything about it becuase you know he will reject you. you can not make him happy, you can not give him pleassure, so only left thing for you to do is accept thet he is what he is. you must never think that you can make him change because that is not possible or if it is, it will be very difficult, so if that has happen to you, you shouldnt get an obssesion because at the end you will suffer a lot.
it happened to me and i ended with a broken heart, but the question is has it ever happen to you?
It never happnd to me, but falln for a gay person is notn wrong. That doesnt mean that your turn gay as well. It just means that you realy repspect him and you have strong feelins for him/ her. Its just like falln for someone who is straight. I dont find anything wrong that that and there shouldnt be anythin wrong with falling for a gay person.
It is kind of hard however, on that he/ she only wants the person that is the same sex as him/her. But that shouldnt stop you from loving him/ her. I would just try to tell that person that you have strong feelns for hi/ her and hopefully that that person would understand. If not, then just try to be there by thier side.
lolz, what a weird discussion... u probably fell in love with a gay to get hurt... somewhere deep inside... X__X
right.now thats just funny
i'm
sorry!but i really think you sorta asked for it.you know that he's gay and you
still let yourself fall for him 
Do not listen to them. I dont make fun of people falln for gay people. I always take thigns that deals with love and relationships seriously! Ill be more than happy to chat with you about this or anything else. Feel free to pm me anytime.
aww... / . . \ its okay... somtimes i happen to think that i like somone of the same sex but... i no that the person i like wont evr like me bekuz they think its rong... but... yr feelings make you who you are... so... nvr regret liking or loving somone.. ^^ thats jus wat i think ^^''
m.i.a. ^^
oh miraku-spike... everyone is free to give their opinions.. but it is rather kind of weird falling in love with a guy that you know is gay... most of the time girls would go away feeling disgusted or "oh god and he is so handsome" instead of having more feelings for that guy...
and jlpg i think you still have hopes there... after all he is a guy and one day he may look at you and realise
i think thats cute that ur in love wid a gay guy............has it happened to me...........well i like guys in Gravitation such as YUKI..........but in reality nope.............
...Maybe she hasn't known he was gay. You know, she could have fallen in love without her knowing he was. Then that'd be an understandable situation.
ah well, you cant really do anything right now, and i didn't say its wrong, its just strange.
I fell in love with Josh, my high school's former drum major (he graduated from HS in 2005 like me), and I always had a feeling that he was gay, but I didn't care. He came out and told me when we were seniors, mainly because his cousin Athena -- my best friend -- told him that I had a right to know. My feelings were hurt a little, yes, but he and I are still great friends and we've become more like brother and sister since he told me, but I'm still a little disappointed because my friend always treated me like I was the best person in the world, thus making the preppy girls jealous.
btw, jasaiyajin, PAche, those comments of yours were rude. It is possible to fall in love with someone who is gay. It's not stupid, it's not weird, love is love. Maybe jlpg's case was like mine at first; I didn't know for sure that my friend was gay, and I fell in love with him.
I can't say that I ever had an experience like that, or ever been in love for that matter, but I will say this; experiences like these show me how important it is to look at people I may objectionally. What I mean to say is, to view the person how they truly are. Even if the person has feels for you as well that doesn't mean a relationship is going to work out. And falling in "love" with someone who doesn't feel the same about you, or for that matter, someone who doesn't want to change some major flaw in their personality for the sake of a relationship, is a big no no. You'll only end up heartbroken.
Well, that has happen to me...but I want to ask you something jlpg...do you know that he is gay for your own knowledge or someone told you that...'cuz, well at first when that happen to me, I didn't know he was gay...so one day a classmate told me that she saw this guy with an other guy, and he carry the other guy's bag and he kiss him (a real kiss)...at the beginning I didn't trust her, but when I saw that with my own eyes, my heart broke in to little pieces...now I have seen this guy a lot of times with his boyfriend (lets say that) they hold hands, and well....I never told him I liked him...an other thing, he use to have a girlfriend from my classroom, but what a couple, he gay and she lesb.., anyway...that things do happen and we can not avoid them....
no
gezzz....must very hard to you...
i'm falling in love with my teacher, well...i haven't told him how i feel, but someone said tht he's gay....well, matter of fact he's tall, handsome, single he's every girl want...but as for me, i don't care he's gay or wht. 2% of gay can be a real man...why don't try it, besides i like shonen-ai, boys who love boys, so if i fail i don't care ^_^
Actually last time i don`t really can accept same gender relationship... But nw i knw it`s nothing wrong, they are born like that and their love for each other will not be lesser then the normal one... Nothing is wrong falling in love with a gay, boy fall in love with boy and gurl fall in love with gurl so what`s wrong falling in love with gay? But i hope you dun give up so easily, someday he will knw you are good to him!
Well... I never been through this...
only for now... 
He may truly love him, but he may not too... 
unless U meant falling for a guy who loved another girl...
well... it might be harder for u.... but I guess U have to accept it...
Basically its not the end yet...
why dont U try to wait... let him see your patience!
Gambateh!