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are you a teenage dad or mom?

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well here is a very mature question.
are you a single parent and how old were you when your baby was born?
when my first child was born i was 14 and after some DNA tests i found out that the kid was mine. after my child was born my sister helped me gain legal custody of my kid because his mom was a marijuana addict and i had to drop ut of scool for a while and get a job. now i almost 16 and my kid is almost two
so yes i am a teenage dad

no, and can't imagine myself having a kid around at this age.

Quote by SketchDR10no, and can't imagine myself having a kid around at this age.


how old are you

Quote by Rayito16

Quote by SketchDR10no, and can't imagine myself having a kid around at this age.


how old are you

Just turned 17 two days ago. I know it is possible to have children at this age, but for me, it's not acceptable.

you know it is possible if you make mistakes look at me im 15 with a son who i love and take care of

well i just recently turned 20 so i guess i dont fall under the category "teenagers" anymore :(. My friend, who is 18, just recently found out shes 2months into pregnancy, the sad thing is the father of the child left her claiming its not his kid and threatened to put a restraining order on her if she ever tries to contact him again.... bastard!
Rayito16, it is very admirable that u haf chosen to look after ur own child even tho ur very young. ur only 15 and u haf a very mature way of thinking... good on ya mate :)

Quote by elvishawell i just recently turned 20 so i guess i dont fall under the category "teenagers" anymore :(. My friend, who is 18, just recently found out shes 2months into pregnancy, the sad thing is the father of the child left her claiming its not his kid and threatened to put a restraining order on her if she ever tries to contact him again.... bastard!
Rayito16, it is very admirable that u haf chosen to look after ur own child even tho ur very young. ur only 15 and u haf a very mature way of thinking... good on ya mate :)


well thanks for the compliment i only took the kid because i took some DNA tests and they came out positive i took custody of him because she was trying to give him up for adoption

Quote by Rayito16well here is a very mature question.
are you a single parent and how old were you when your baby was born?
when my first child was born i was 14 and after some DNA tests i found out that the kid was mine. after my child was born my sister helped me gain legal custody of my kid because his mom was a marijuana addict and i had to drop ut of scool for a while and get a job. now i almost 16 and my kid is almost two
so yes i am a teenage dad


That's really sweet of you ^^;....i am thirteen and I do not have a child. I am waaaaaaaaay too young. But, I think it's fine to have a child starting around 18-you're at least out of high school. I would never leave school >.<.But mom got pregnant at 17 and continued all through college with a baby on her hands( me XD). Her parents helped out a lot, still, she did have a husband. But, he was in the army and didn't help out when I was little for quite a while.

Wow, man. You're a lot braver than I am. :) No way I could have done that at 15. No way I could do that now.

Quote by glassheart

Quote by Rayito16well here is a very mature question.
are you a single parent and how old were you when your baby was born?
when my first child was born i was 14 and after some DNA tests i found out that the kid was mine. after my child was born my sister helped me gain legal custody of my kid because his mom was a marijuana addict and i had to drop ut of scool for a while and get a job. now i almost 16 and my kid is almost two
so yes i am a teenage dad


That's really sweet of you ^^;....i am thirteen and I do not have a child. I am waaaaaaaaay too young. But, I think it's fine to have a child starting around 18-you're at least out of high school. I would never leave school &gt;.&lt;.But mom got pregnant at 17 and continued all through college with a baby on her hands( me XD). Her parents helped out a lot, still, she did have a husband. But, he was in the army and didn't help out when I was little for quite a while.

Quote by eden360Wow, man. You're a lot braver than I am. :) No way I could have done that at 15. No way I could do that now.


hey thanxs fo the compliment i think that any headstrong person in my position would the same thing

Man, I admire your courage. I myself am 24 and feel like I'm at least ten years too young to have children. And I, for sure, will not have any until I'm at least 30.

If there's any way I can be of help from here, let me know any time.

Hey, y a parte eres Mexicano! Um, te voy a añadir a mi lista - siéntete libre de contactarme por cualquier cosa. Saludos.

no i dont have kids^^
my mother would be happy but my dad would like kill me XD
by the way i'm 18 ^^

wow, you're just like my cousin, she had her firstborn around 17 though.

if i had a kid now... my parents would probably just pretend that my younger brother is their only son XD which i wouldnt blame them for being mad at me. but geez... you're like... the youngest person i know that already has a child.

Wow, you are indeed the bravest person i have ever met. I'm sixteen and can't even begin to think what i would do if I had a child. My parents would support me, but they would be very dissappointed and probably adopt the child from me so i could continue my education and be able to care for him myself later.

You are really brave and caring to get custody of the child and being only fifteen.

Actually Rayito, u are a very brave MAN....having a kid at the age of 15. I am now 16 years old and I can't imagine it..........

wow that must be tough...but I'm impressed at how you're caring for this child.
It shows you have a heart and thats very sweet and brave of you to take responsibility
for you're child. To answer the question yes I've been a teenage mom before but after 3 weeks my child died due to heart failure and from that I've gotten stronger and I have no shame or sadness because I know I did my best to take care and support my child ^__^
I'll send my prays and hopes to you and you're son and take deep care of him and yourself.
Babies are precious and should be treated with gentlness and love no matter how they came into this world.

I just found out I am pregnant I told my mom and she says I have to deal with it on my own, but I don't know how to tell my bf he is the father and I know he will stand behind me but I am almost 17 but I dont know if I can do this...

shit thts more complicated than what i went through

no, and don't think i can handle the pressure and the time for that

my mother at least or my Pope are not the good thing either when they are adolesentes do not know to us to take care of very or but with but maduresves the diferncia of criansa of the young people of nowadays is better to have father of mature ages or but notanto we do not want them old and if it is by cases of old the young life that are omuy we must want to them so that they are servant to us is as she is for or or for badly :)

No, but I often think of my friends/dear ones, as my childs, and I was called \"Mother <name>\" during my military service m^.^m since I tend to care for ppl, and take care/help them

My mate is 15 ( same age as me ) and his got a daughter but he doens't mind he's happy for himself and i'm sure he loves his daughter. i often help him with things if he needs it.. but because it's possible i wouldn't mind being like him all.. happy and stuff but if it does happen to me. i first wanna make sure the mother is alright with it and is someone i love

I'm fifteen, and I'm sure some the people my age at my school might have gotten an abortion or two, but my biggest goal in life is to greet the news of a new baby with happiness, not with dread. When I watch shows where the girls cry because they end up getting a baby from a bad relationship, I feel so bad for them, because a child is something to cherish and meet with love and welcoming. I don't think I'll be ready to even take a chance before I'm married XP (I'm a goody-goody.)

god damn its been a while since i checked this thread.....now that you think about its been about two years XD
thanks for the positve reply
my son is now about to be 4 years old and im about to turn 18

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