hahahahahahahahaha...gay? where? lols...i find gay guys
interesting...hahaha...no really...anyhow
i suppose your incident is amusing, and no i never had a cursh on a guy that was
gay...never met a gay guy either...sniffles...looool...but i think gays are hot
in their own way...not feminine guys, just guys that love guys! ...i donno...but
i'm sorry, your story is so funny...hahahahaha
that is ok, you said the school year just started just keep looking for that
special someone. Why don't you become his friend maybe he knows some guys, that
are not gay, and help you find the right one for you.
Well what happened to you it's quite sad and a problem in our society, I feel
that there's no problen in being gay or lesbian because you have an oriented
sexuality and live by the choice you made, but when TOO many people start to
become bisexuals out of fashion (which is the most degradating fashion I had
ever seen) it becomes a a society problem because it affects the reproduction
and stability of families that are the base of everything. What could have
happened if this guy you liked instead of being gay (at least he choosed a
sexuality) had being a bisexual instead, then... would you have dated him? If
your answer is yes then you should think about a NO because the first option
becomes a major problem later with sexual diseases and all sort of consequences
(some sexual diseases last a lifetime and had to be controled with medication
for the same leght of time sometimes even twice a day). So I advice you to take
a good look at men's eyes when you meet them because people who are not
heterosexual have a special look about them I call that the "ambiguous
look" it has a certain degree of sexuality and perversion in it (I have to
say that it's perversion in my way of seeing things and from my heterosexual
point of view of course), there's is no innocence in the way they see the world
because the sexuality they lived pass his account in the lack of innocence and
sexual intensity that it shows in their eyes when they grow older, for example
if you see a photo of Freddie Mercury and the look in his eyes you will
understand what I mean and eventually you will recognize that look in the men
you met and see which ones are gays, bisexuals or heterosexuals (I'm a 100% sure
about this because if I see a man with that look I ask my mom or my friends or
whoever is with me and most of the time we all agree in "that look").
Sad...the most sad thing i think i experianced was when i lost my best
friend...and i was the one who ended it...because that person almost ruined my
life, i realy thougt that she cared about me and was my best friend, but i was
wrong...i truly dont have the luck or talent to make very good friends
Don't wory too much.. I believe in the future you'll definitely find someone
that is right for you!
When you find that perfect one, you'll truly treasure him because of all these
sadness that you suffered earlier!
You know: handsome, attractive, muscled guys... high probabilities of being gay.
WE THE UGLY WILL INHERIT THE EARTH.
Here in Mexico we have a saying: The man is like the bear: the ugliest, the
cutest...
Think about it... we ugly are the only ones who know how to make a WOMAN FEEL
LIKE A WOMAN... and we srpead tender loving care... LOOK AROUND YOU...You'll
find a cute ugly guy that will love you for life...
Just kidding... you'll find someone that will conquer your heart... even if he's
not as handsome as you dreamed.
dunno...it seems that a lot of gay guys are hot >:D that's the irony of
it...(minus elton john lol)
well..u'll just have to find another; there's still other fishes in the sea.
Quote by Beautiful5oulso yeah. high
school started and your meeting new people everyday , its exciting. i've meet
this really cute guy and i even had a crush on him and everything . UNTILL one
f'cking day where something just hit me . hes f'ckn gay . likes men , no
interest in women. ARGGG . =)
i feel like screaming .
sorry its been borthering me ALL DAY and i had to let it out . =D haha .
0=)
Yeah... you know what's sadder than falling for a gay guy? Four US soldiers were
recently convicted for raping a 14-year-old Iraqi girl and then shooting her and
her family, including a her 6-year-old sister, in the heads. Now do your
problems still look bad?
well i can't say i had a crush on a lesbian before ... but i know 1 thing.you
must get through this kind of situations>>>go to the next
thing>>>i don't know exactly if i am wright or wrong because i haven't
been in this situation before.. I hope i was of some help to you
Quote by ElyvaniaWell what happened to
you it's quite sad and a problem in our society, I feel that there's no problen
in being gay or lesbian because you have an oriented sexuality and live by the
choice you made, but when TOO many people start to become bisexuals out of
fashion (which is the most degradating fashion I had ever seen) it becomes a a
society problem because it affects the reproduction and stability of families
that are the base of everything. What could have happened if this guy you liked
instead of being gay (at least he choosed a sexuality) had being a bisexual
instead, then... would you have dated him? If your answer is yes then you should
think about a NO because the first option becomes a major problem later with
sexual diseases and all sort of consequences (some sexual diseases last a
lifetime and had to be controled with medication for the same leght of time
sometimes even twice a day). So I advice you to take a good look at men's eyes
when you meet them because people who are not heterosexual have a special look
about them I call that the "ambiguous look" it has a certain degree of
sexuality and perversion in it (I have to say that it's perversion in my way of
seeing things and from my heterosexual point of view of course), there's is no
innocence in the way they see the world because the sexuality they lived pass
his account in the lack of innocence and sexual intensity that it shows in their
eyes when they grow older, for example if you see a photo of Freddie Mercury and
the look in his eyes you will understand what I mean and eventually you will
recognize that look in the men you met and see which ones are gays, bisexuals or
heterosexuals (I'm a 100% sure about this because if I see a man with that look
I ask my mom or my friends or whoever is with me and most of the time we all
agree in "that look").
Hmmm... I am bisexual myself, so, I think what you're saying is kinda...
generalising and discriminatory. Bisexuals have the same capability of being
committed, and honourable as straight or gay people. They just happen to be able
to be attracted by both male and female. That does not mean that they have to
have both at the same time, that just means that they don't really discriminate
potential mates by their gender, like straight people or gay people who are
turned off by well... for straight people same sex, and for gay people opposite
sex. Personally, 90% of my relationships, be it with women or men, have been
monogamous. The only time I date a couple people at the same time, all parties
involved know about the situation, and since we were just going out, not steady
or anything, no one objected. I think, that is as honourable as you can expect
from anyone, really, straight, gay, or bi.
As for STDs and such, you have to also consider that even when the guy is
straight, he has the same chance of contracting STD, and if you are not careful,
you would have the same chance. I don't think by being bi, you will suddenly
double your chances of contracting some mysterious STD. I think, in this case,
you just need to be smart and safe with your own body.
As for your ambiguous look, although I am still not very clear, but wouldn't you
think Jude Law or Hugh Grant are worse than him? When you look at it, the
girlfriend knows that he is gay, he's always been open about it, and she knows
what she's getting. Meanwhile, in the case of Jude Law, Hugh Grant, K-Fed, or
Ryan Phillipe, they are all straight people, yet they cheat on their
wives/girlfriends. I think, in this case, Mercury is the better person among
them all.
At any rate, back to the topic... I am sorry about your misfortune, dear...
Please please, whatever you do, don't try to still win him thinking that you
might be able to change him. On the other hand, lol, gay boyfriend is
frightfully helpful :-P. The only person that I would go shop for clothes with
is my gay "boyfriend" (We are just friends, but since he's gay, I
always jokingly call him my gay boyfriend). He is the only person who can
honestly say, "Darling, that jeans make your butt looks like
Australia!" On top of that, if you go out picking up guys with him, and
some annoying bloke decided to flirt with you, your gay boyfriend can save you
by pretending to be your beau And
of course, they are frightfully excellent wingmen.
^^^ and in response to that, even though the great majority of males are
assholes these days, don't dwell on it if you get involved with one, for you
deserve much better, and the problem isn't with you, its with the asshole of a
guy.
And as for the guy which you mentioned in your first post, why not become good
friends with them? Its always a shame to immediately discard someone from your
friendship if they can't give you what you like through relationship. Haha and
most girls like having gay friends, getting to know him better could also help
you build further confidence.
LOLZ, I know exactly how you feel. I still have a crush on a certain somebody
for over a year now, and I know he's gay. He has never denied it, but never
accepted it either, but he IS. It's REALLY SAD, I could just cry, I know I'm
being selfish, but why not be at least bi? I'm slowly getting over it even after
a year...hope you already got over your crush!
hahahahahahahahaha...gay? where? lols...i find gay guys interesting...hahaha...no really...anyhow
i suppose your incident is amusing, and no i never had a cursh on a guy that was gay...never met a gay guy either...sniffles...looool...but i think gays are hot in their own way...not feminine guys, just guys that love guys! ...i donno...but i'm sorry, your story is so funny...hahahahaha
that is ok, you said the school year just started just keep looking for that special someone. Why don't you become his friend maybe he knows some guys, that are not gay, and help you find the right one for you.
Well what happened to you it's quite sad and a problem in our society, I feel that there's no problen in being gay or lesbian because you have an oriented sexuality and live by the choice you made, but when TOO many people start to become bisexuals out of fashion (which is the most degradating fashion I had ever seen) it becomes a a society problem because it affects the reproduction and stability of families that are the base of everything. What could have happened if this guy you liked instead of being gay (at least he choosed a sexuality) had being a bisexual instead, then... would you have dated him? If your answer is yes then you should think about a NO because the first option becomes a major problem later with sexual diseases and all sort of consequences (some sexual diseases last a lifetime and had to be controled with medication for the same leght of time sometimes even twice a day). So I advice you to take a good look at men's eyes when you meet them because people who are not heterosexual have a special look about them I call that the "ambiguous look" it has a certain degree of sexuality and perversion in it (I have to say that it's perversion in my way of seeing things and from my heterosexual point of view of course), there's is no innocence in the way they see the world because the sexuality they lived pass his account in the lack of innocence and sexual intensity that it shows in their eyes when they grow older, for example if you see a photo of Freddie Mercury and the look in his eyes you will understand what I mean and eventually you will recognize that look in the men you met and see which ones are gays, bisexuals or heterosexuals (I'm a 100% sure about this because if I see a man with that look I ask my mom or my friends or whoever is with me and most of the time we all agree in "that look").
Sad...the most sad thing i think i experianced was when i lost my best friend...and i was the one who ended it...because that person almost ruined my life, i realy thougt that she cared about me and was my best friend, but i was wrong...i truly dont have the luck or talent to make very good friends
Don't wory too much.. I believe in the future you'll definitely find someone that is right for you!
When you find that perfect one, you'll truly treasure him because of all these sadness that you suffered earlier!
You know: handsome, attractive, muscled guys... high probabilities of being gay. WE THE UGLY WILL INHERIT THE EARTH.
Here in Mexico we have a saying: The man is like the bear: the ugliest, the cutest...
Think about it... we ugly are the only ones who know how to make a WOMAN FEEL LIKE A WOMAN... and we srpead tender loving care... LOOK AROUND YOU...You'll find a cute ugly guy that will love you for life...
Just kidding... you'll find someone that will conquer your heart... even if he's not as handsome as you dreamed.
dunno...it seems that a lot of gay guys are hot >:D that's the irony of it...(minus elton john lol)
well..u'll just have to find another; there's still other fishes in the sea.
Yeah, we all have our stories.
Not every1 is gay. Just leave gay people alone is what i say...
IM DEFINITELY NOT A GAY
That's really screwd up... I think I'll stop watching yaoi. Aw, that sucks. :C
I understand kind of. My good friend ended up like three different guys and they were ALL gay. I felt so bad for her. V_V
Good thing you let it out.
Yeah... you know what's sadder than falling for a gay guy? Four US soldiers were recently convicted for raping a 14-year-old Iraqi girl and then shooting her and her family, including a her 6-year-old sister, in the heads. Now do your problems still look bad?
wow....i've never really met a gay/les person in my life......
lol. you dont need high school drama.
well i can't say i had a crush on a lesbian before ... but i know 1 thing.you must get through this kind of situations>>>go to the next thing>>>i don't know exactly if i am wright or wrong because i haven't been in this situation before.. I hope i was of some help to you
Hmmm... I am bisexual myself, so, I think what you're saying is kinda... generalising and discriminatory. Bisexuals have the same capability of being committed, and honourable as straight or gay people. They just happen to be able to be attracted by both male and female. That does not mean that they have to have both at the same time, that just means that they don't really discriminate potential mates by their gender, like straight people or gay people who are turned off by well... for straight people same sex, and for gay people opposite sex. Personally, 90% of my relationships, be it with women or men, have been monogamous. The only time I date a couple people at the same time, all parties involved know about the situation, and since we were just going out, not steady or anything, no one objected. I think, that is as honourable as you can expect from anyone, really, straight, gay, or bi.
As for STDs and such, you have to also consider that even when the guy is straight, he has the same chance of contracting STD, and if you are not careful, you would have the same chance. I don't think by being bi, you will suddenly double your chances of contracting some mysterious STD. I think, in this case, you just need to be smart and safe with your own body.
As for your ambiguous look, although I am still not very clear, but wouldn't you think Jude Law or Hugh Grant are worse than him? When you look at it, the girlfriend knows that he is gay, he's always been open about it, and she knows what she's getting. Meanwhile, in the case of Jude Law, Hugh Grant, K-Fed, or Ryan Phillipe, they are all straight people, yet they cheat on their wives/girlfriends. I think, in this case, Mercury is the better person among them all.
At any rate, back to the topic... I am sorry about your misfortune, dear... Please please, whatever you do, don't try to still win him thinking that you might be able to change him. On the other hand, lol, gay boyfriend is frightfully helpful :-P. The only person that I would go shop for clothes with is my gay "boyfriend" (We are just friends, but since he's gay, I always jokingly call him my gay boyfriend). He is the only person who can honestly say, "Darling, that jeans make your butt looks like Australia!" On top of that, if you go out picking up guys with him, and some annoying bloke decided to flirt with you, your gay boyfriend can save you by pretending to be your beau
And
of course, they are frightfully excellent wingmen.
Of course.
I have a strange vibe when I'm around those type of ppl.
IDK.
awww
dont worry...for every disapointment there is something good X3
things will even out for you ^ ^
There's nothing you can do to change his sexuality. Don't mess! You are who you are, you know?
So instead of a long rant, *glances at babyLemon* I think I can pretty much leave it at that.
So better luck next time. Just try to find a guy that isn't an asshole. (There are a lot of them...)
^^^ and in response to that, even though the great majority of males are assholes these days, don't dwell on it if you get involved with one, for you deserve much better, and the problem isn't with you, its with the asshole of a guy.
And as for the guy which you mentioned in your first post, why not become good friends with them? Its always a shame to immediately discard someone from your friendship if they can't give you what you like through relationship. Haha and most girls like having gay friends, getting to know him better could also help you build further confidence.
Nice guys do exist, you know.
Very, very sad.
Thats prollies y nxt time u should find out if they like men or not.
Yeah, I think its fun to tell people I'm gay (I'm not), just to see what happens
LOLZ, I know exactly how you feel. I still have a crush on a certain somebody for over a year now, and I know he's gay. He has never denied it, but never accepted it either, but he IS. It's REALLY SAD, I could just cry, I know I'm being selfish, but why not be at least bi? I'm slowly getting over it even after a year...hope you already got over your crush!