Emotionally or physically weak....

there is not really a difference...

if you cant lift something or win a contest against someone....you may think like:
I was a lot stronger before...have i become weak?....

Or if you see better performances of someone....you could also think like.....
why arent i as strong as him/her?

I sometimes feel weak?

but i only blame myself....

share your experiences.....

I think everyone sometimes feels weak at times, people can't help that. And not all the time ar you going to be able to do your best .

Let say you normally get A's on your report card, and the next time around you get a C, well, thats not bad, it just means you didn't do well. Or lets say you feel you aren't pysically strong, well not everyone is ment to be pysically strong. This is very cliche but the most important thing to do is just try to do your best, then you can't blame yourself for being weak.

Sometimes others are the cause of making you feel weak, wether it be teasing" or such. Just because you arent like them dosen't mean you aren't strong it means you aren't them and thats it.

I can't recall specific experiences, but i do know i have felt weak many of times, wether its because i feel i am mentally or pysically inadaquate.

But in the end just make sure your being yourself and doing your best or at least trying to.

Shinsen89

i think wuts more important
is how we deal wit these feelings

do we let it get us down and give up?
or do we use it as motivation to get stronger?

We all have our moments of weakness, how will you know what strength is w/o it?

i know exactly what you mean, i was stronger than i am now. both mentally and phisically. now im just lazy. but just a couple of days ago im trying to gain back what i lost. and even more. i began reading more books. and im going to the gym again. hopefully it will not be in vain. and i will see results soon enough

well, if you become weak in a domain than work more on it, in my case i became weak cuz im lazy :P, but theres one thing no one cand beat me at, and that is runing

tehehe ah... this brings me about a debate i had with a fellow friend over an MSN. Er....

Weakness == Strengths Therefore, no one is entirely weak !

I think Shinsengumi89 pretty much sum up alot. Therefore, i agreed on wat he had said.

Well i think everyone's had the feeling one time or another i wonder if it's just a confidence problem? emotional or sometime it could be depression but for what ever reason it safe to say every feels weak sometimes but it's nothing to be ashamed of.

Yeah, there's nothing to be ashamed about. Everybody has their strengths and weaknesses. I guess that the good thing is that maybe you understand that you're maybe weak emotionally, and that's a starting point for maybe trying to change yourself to be the opposite -- strong inside. It seems like a lot of guys out there think their tough, but deep down inside they maybe act.. muy macho.. to cover up their deficiencies. Hey, I know I'm weak emotionally sometimes too, but I'm working on it. =)

Yes, recently actually. I don't know what to do about it.

Nope, can't say that I have.

well...yes i did feel weak, more than once...i can't really do anything around the house and also emotionally speaking...i'm not really proud of talking about it...sometime i think i'm a crybaby...maybe evaryone feels weak once in a while, but i don't know what to do about it. i hate the fact i'm to sensitive...but i guess it could happen to anyone(...or not :-<)

everyone is capable of being sensitive, rorry, every 'big & tough' person has times when they need to express they're softer side. don't hate that you're sesitive, be proud that you don't hurt yourself and others by hiding it.

by being weak, you show how you react to adversity... its only human to be weak... i've been weak before, i'm weak now, but i've had my strong periods too... you persevere with life. everything is a test of our character. our modesty, our mannerisms, our lifestyle... each testing us in its special ways...

there are alot of things i've been through.. death of a family relative (and i never went to the funeral on account of being prohibited to leave school, as per my family's request)... dad being on chemotherapy... brother with an operation... breaking of bones (mine)... but... if you take things one at a time, don't take things too badly, then, you'll come back

i've struggled too with the thought of time flying by.. and being helpless that it flies so quickly.. so i made a vow to myself, to be living life to its fullest, enjoying the company of those i love as much as i can when i can...

you think of solutions by starting small.. don't exagerrate(or exaggerate) the way back.. take it step by step, and you'll get out of what you feel weak about...

well that's how i see it.. many things in life are just tests, like working is a test.. if you don't keep up, then you get booted...but by applying yourself, you keep urself in the runnign for the job, and possibly a promotion (which you consider a bonus)... people say you have to aim high and that is true... but to aim high you have to start with a small step. that small step will accumulate into many small steps and make it one big step at the end, your goal. so yeah hope you will get this working

cos i've still got problems with it... my own problem though, but i'm dealing with it by reacting to adversity.. i failed exams in uni, so i'm studying my heart out, without burning my brain out, and more organised, to pass the repeats... so not everything works out the first time, sometimes you need a bit more time...

Wow, pandaong86 has been through a lot. Well, I've felt weak physically a lot in my old work place, I couldn't lift things like the guys (because I'm a girl). So I always felt annoying asking for their help, but there was no way I could lift those things myself. I wasn't going to break my back either.

As for mental/emotional wise, I've had my moments. More in the past, I wish to not share the experiences. But it all comes down to: I bounced back. Now I'm stronger than ever because of it, and I don't take crap from other people.

We're all human, everyone has a weakness no matter how big they may seem to act. Either way, we can always work on our weaknesses.

weak...when i'm feeling weak i am may be sick.Eat more fruits.

While you fell weak people like me fell strong...never give up to your weakness or you'll turn in nothing less than a maggot that got to be crushed by people stroger than you!

merged: 07-20-2006 ~ 01:36pm
heh can't belive i wrote feel like *fell*....ya see that's when i've become weak xD

I've felt weak both physically and mentally.
even so now i feel stronger mentally than ever before.
and while i continue to develop my physical body everyday,
I'll know that when you're mentally weak it affects your physcial ability.
and when you're stronger in your mind that's one of the most powerful strengths ever

One time when I was really little, I was with my friends and this mean boy pushed my friend over the side of this twisty slide('bout a 3-6 yard drop)and she broke her arm. I tried to stop him from pushing her to begin with but I couldn't so I was weak back then and I might still be. ive been awake for about 25 hours straight now so i clearly have had an overdose of coke,tea, and coffee and had not gotten near my bed since i heard that if you have 2 dreams in a row then you have a 50% possibiltiy to die the next day...heard from my older and much wiser brother

there IS a difference between physically and emotionally weak...

although they are interdependent (like being physically weak can bring emotional weakness and vice versa)

emotional weakness is like more torturing than physical (i mean there are tons of times when i feel i couldn't do anything to change anything even though i really want to...)

I've definitely felt weak both physically and mentally on many occassions. It's especially painful when I've been trying really hard to succeed at something but fail miserably in the end. Life sucks man.

of couse we can't hide those times. it hurts especially for the ones who seldom felt it. and the most painful weakness for me is to see something and you can't do anything about it. but maybe it was meant for someone else to do it, and the sight of it is something i should remember so that if it happens again, i swear, i won't it be.

I know i am emotionally weak, you can see it in the way i act at school. I know i'm pysicily weak because whenever i try to hit someone they never really see or feel what i'm doing.

Emotion wise tho, i've never been strong. Yeah my feelinsg are there, and i can express them well, but my feelings and emotions often end up hurting me more than causeing any good.

Weak - no, helpless - yes.