so...anyone haf any thoughts on this? i jes finished my O'levels, its kinda like
GCE mebe, the same no idea...but, my parents wan me to start schooling this
coming January, which i wudnt mind xcept tht, since i've been living in Brunei,
which i was born in but my nationality is Malaysian, which im loyal to...ahahaha
bit confusing but anyways...i get to go bk to msia at leats once a yr to gether
with my family every december...
but this time when i go bk...i wont be able to go bk to brunei...which is sad
since i dun get to say a proper farewell to my frens here. if i leave on
february i guess i wudnt ind, but january? it jes aint fair
ther's a course starting during May, which my parents wudnt allow me to attnd
saying tht im wasting 4 months doing nothing....but in truth ther's going to be
a job opening in a shoe shop which i worked for a month 2 yrs ago...im hoping to
go ther n get a job agen, hopefully the month's wages wud be enuf to sustain
myself for the rest of the few months, or mebe find a new job....
the point is...i dun feel like leaving so early.. T-T and i want to cry...but i
jes cant cry...its like i;ve 4gotten how to cry O.o
y dont u just let them know it's not wasting time, but re-charging batteries, so
you'll feel well-equipped to handle the new school? also, when you've
re-charged, wouldn't you be up to facing the new challenges you'll encounter?
thts wat i told them, ill learn how to cook, do the laundry, learn how to drive
( althouhg im onli 16 ^^ ) and learn new subjects which would help my A levels..
but nooooooooooooooooo they dun wanna listen
OK, I see the problem here. You were born in Brunei but your nationality is
Malaysia and your friends and school are in Brunei. What you don't like is way
how your parents are handling the timing of move.
I'm guessing your parents are saying no for you to taking course in May because
of four months you are not in school and not productive. The only suggestion I
have is that take pro-active approach and get that job you mentioned in your
posting. Tell your parents you have job lined up and that you will sustain
youself until the class start in May. If your parents still say no than there is
nothing much you can do. After all, your parents are supporting a lot in
educating you.
It's your life your choice... We can't help you decide but can only show you
another perspective..
If you start in Jan, for your friends in Brunei, maybe you can send them a
letter or e-mail or something? and let them know you'll visit them again in the
future?
I'm living in a foreign country right now
I've been living overseas for... 6 years now
When I first left my home country (Korea), I was sad and didn't want to go but
now, I don't even like Koreans anymore.
Maybe I'm just adapted in a foreign country..
ahaha....yeh...i wil l contact thm of cos...the weird thing is...the
international school in Brunei starts either in either January for the science
course or August for the Art one. and most of my frens are taking the August one
sigh...
o yea...i jes found out tht my Dad says i can stay until May but my mom says i
cant. and my Twin sister makes it all worse cus she doesnt wanna go during May
but in January
I kinda had the same experance as you except my parents didn't force me to do
anything but a few easy chorse in the house.
I was done studying english in America just like 2 years ago. It's actually nice
studying oversea but for me I didn't quite liking in America. weird scary people
on the street .. also their ain't REAL job for me there either way. I went
back home.. learned alot between my home country and others.
Well you should be able to make your own choice.. I mean at least your still
getting educated. Well if that's the case, you should make your time wisely and
hang out with your friends before you leave. Also gaze the views.. well that's
what camera is for and keeps in your memorys.
it's like being on a vocation somewhere fun like Itlay and you dun wanna leave.
yes yes i cant wait till i finish high skool and im gone >:l
i hatttte my family its so messed up o..o
anyway yes i wanna go to colordo and when i finsihed with skool there go to
german then stop in japan then come back to the u.s yes x33 thats my plan
i just wanna get away from my mother haha
Mm next yr..well in like a few months im leaving to japan..i didnt really think
about it carefully but i just thought i wanted to..but now im getting
scared..but somethigns u just gotta do..i wanna make the most of my jap
citienship coz ill have to choose between my aussie one and jap one..so i guess
i should try both countries and see which ones better ..although im rather scared of being lonely and watsing money and time.
well i might be going to the states for university years...but things are coming
in the way...not finanacially...but many many other things...
i am never going to study here....education is so poor and i have way greater
ambitions...so i am moving out...the question is where and when...sigh
merged: 11-28-2006 ~ 06:03pm
you are never lonely when you are openminded and receptive to change...
and about wasting money...well you better set a budget and spend only what you
must...
time...never spent unwisely when learning new things and meeting new
people...
so good luck and i hope you have fun!
Im not so sure, but I will move out someday. Its that I have to wait for about
five more years if im lucky . Then
it will be Japan . I
must see that county ^^. And the Philipines too
(my mother comes from the Philipines ^^). But that will probably be some kind of
trip, I will move to another city here in Sweden and live there.
I want some privacy
ya, i wish to go to Singapore, but that is after i finish my studies.....maybe
i'll study University there.....well that is my wish, my dad wants to send me to
U.S.A. or Italy, and i totally don't want to, i wannna go to
Singapore.....hmmmm....anyways, for now, i just have to finish my three years
left of schooling, then the descisions would come later....you never know what
happens after three years....X-P....
roar! sniff sniff my
parents have jes come to a conclusion...im going in Jan.
tht suks, wel...at least i got some memories made during prom night...but notin
so sentimental, hmph, i did spent some time with my frens n all...but still....i
dun tink im ready to go out T-T well...wish me luk ppl, pray 4 me, or w/e u guys
do to wish ppl luk
At this point, it doesn't matter. Things are getting too out of control here. I
don't care where I go, just as long as it's just me. I want to move out, but I
want to do it in such a way that nobody can find me or contact me.
Yeah I sometimes have such thoughts too. On the one hand I like germany its a
nice beautiful country, but on the other politic here suxxxs, weather is often
grey and depressing and the chances for a good paid job for the rest of your
life are really bad.
I think I'll decide if and were to go soon as I get to the point I have the
chance to leave. When I think about where to go, I'm totally open minded, hey we
are humans we can survive nearly evreywhere on this so called blue planet.
I'll wait until I get an opportunity, then I think about the details.
so...anyone haf any thoughts on this? i jes finished my O'levels, its kinda like GCE mebe, the same no idea...but, my parents wan me to start schooling this coming January, which i wudnt mind xcept tht, since i've been living in Brunei, which i was born in but my nationality is Malaysian, which im loyal to...ahahaha bit confusing but anyways...i get to go bk to msia at leats once a yr to gether with my family every december...
but this time when i go bk...i wont be able to go bk to brunei...which is sad since i dun get to say a proper farewell to my frens here. if i leave on february i guess i wudnt ind, but january? it jes aint fair
ther's a course starting during May, which my parents wudnt allow me to attnd saying tht im wasting 4 months doing nothing....but in truth ther's going to be a job opening in a shoe shop which i worked for a month 2 yrs ago...im hoping to go ther n get a job agen, hopefully the month's wages wud be enuf to sustain myself for the rest of the few months, or mebe find a new job....
the point is...i dun feel like leaving so early.. T-T and i want to cry...but i jes cant cry...its like i;ve 4gotten how to cry O.o
my parents are planning to visit the philippenes in the summer, i'm hoping they stick to that idea. lol
sometimes i think of that too... because at home is a bit boring though.... but sometime home is the best
y dont u just let them know it's not wasting time, but re-charging batteries, so you'll feel well-equipped to handle the new school? also, when you've re-charged, wouldn't you be up to facing the new challenges you'll encounter?
thts wat i told them, ill learn how to cook, do the laundry, learn how to drive ( althouhg im onli 16 ^^ ) and learn new subjects which would help my A levels.. but nooooooooooooooooo they dun wanna listen
hey kyo,heh you may not know me,names garett but i like toshiga better
merged: 11-26-2006 ~ 05:27am
any one here
Yes, I've thought about going to live in Japan, during my High School years, but that will never happen, because I can't afford to move.
OK, I see the problem here. You were born in Brunei but your nationality is Malaysia and your friends and school are in Brunei. What you don't like is way how your parents are handling the timing of move.
I'm guessing your parents are saying no for you to taking course in May because of four months you are not in school and not productive. The only suggestion I have is that take pro-active approach and get that job you mentioned in your posting. Tell your parents you have job lined up and that you will sustain youself until the class start in May. If your parents still say no than there is nothing much you can do. After all, your parents are supporting a lot in educating you.
Good luck.
Maybe to London.
I'm planning on living in Japan five to ten years. It's a matter of time and money... Soon it'll be solved.
It's your life your choice... We can't help you decide but can only show you another perspective..
If you start in Jan, for your friends in Brunei, maybe you can send them a letter or e-mail or something? and let them know you'll visit them again in the future?
I'm living in a foreign country right now
I've been living overseas for... 6 years now
When I first left my home country (Korea), I was sad and didn't want to go but now, I don't even like Koreans anymore.
Maybe I'm just adapted in a foreign country..
ahaha....yeh...i wil l contact thm of cos...the weird thing is...the international school in Brunei starts either in either January for the science course or August for the Art one. and most of my frens are taking the August one
sigh...
o yea...i jes found out tht my Dad says i can stay until May but my mom says i cant. and my Twin sister makes it all worse cus she doesnt wanna go during May but in January
I kinda had the same experance as you except my parents didn't force me to do anything but a few easy chorse in the house.
I was done studying english in America just like 2 years ago. It's actually nice studying oversea but for me I didn't quite liking in America. weird scary people on the street
.. also their ain't REAL job for me there either way. I went
back home.. learned alot between my home country and others.
Well you should be able to make your own choice.. I mean at least your still getting educated. Well if that's the case, you should make your time wisely and hang out with your friends before you leave. Also gaze the views.. well that's what camera is for and keeps in your memorys.
it's like being on a vocation somewhere fun like Itlay and you dun wanna leave.
yes yes i cant wait till i finish high skool and im gone >:l
i hatttte my family its so messed up o..o
anyway yes i wanna go to colordo and when i finsihed with skool there go to german then stop in japan then come back to the u.s yes x33 thats my plan
i just wanna get away from my mother haha
well sometimes, i would like to be at home and some to go other countries which have the four seasons coz Singapore is a tropical country , very hot!
Mm next yr..well in like a few months im leaving to japan..i didnt really think about it carefully but i just thought i wanted to..but now im getting scared..but somethigns u just gotta do..i wanna make the most of my jap citienship coz ill have to choose between my aussie one and jap one..so i guess i should try both countries and see which ones better
..although im rather scared of being lonely and watsing money and time.
well i might be going to the states for university years...but things are coming in the way...not finanacially...but many many other things...
i am never going to study here....education is so poor and i have way greater ambitions...so i am moving out...the question is where and when...sigh
merged: 11-28-2006 ~ 06:03pm
you are never lonely when you are openminded and receptive to change...
and about wasting money...well you better set a budget and spend only what you must...
time...never spent unwisely when learning new things and meeting new people...
so good luck and i hope you have fun!
Im not so sure, but I will move out someday. Its that I have to wait for about five more years if im lucky
. Then
it will be Japan 
. I
must see that county ^^. And the Philipines too 
(my mother comes from the Philipines ^^). But that will probably be some kind of
trip, I will move to another city here in Sweden and live there.
I want some privacy
ya, i wish to go to Singapore, but that is after i finish my studies.....maybe i'll study University there.....well that is my wish, my dad wants to send me to U.S.A. or Italy, and i totally don't want to, i wannna go to Singapore.....hmmmm....anyways, for now, i just have to finish my three years left of schooling, then the descisions would come later....you never know what happens after three years....X-P....
roar! sniff sniff
my
parents have jes come to a conclusion...im going in Jan. 
tht suks, wel...at least i got some memories made during prom night...but notin so sentimental, hmph, i did spent some time with my frens n all...but still....i dun tink im ready to go out T-T well...wish me luk ppl, pray 4 me, or w/e u guys do to wish ppl luk
.....o.o
At this point, it doesn't matter. Things are getting too out of control here. I don't care where I go, just as long as it's just me. I want to move out, but I want to do it in such a way that nobody can find me or contact me.
Yeah I sometimes have such thoughts too. On the one hand I like germany its a nice beautiful country, but on the other politic here suxxxs, weather is often grey and depressing and the chances for a good paid job for the rest of your life are really bad.
I think I'll decide if and were to go soon as I get to the point I have the chance to leave. When I think about where to go, I'm totally open minded, hey we are humans we can survive nearly evreywhere on this so called blue planet.
I'll wait until I get an opportunity, then I think about the details.