well, the title pretty much says it all, so if u were to go out with anyone, would u go out with them just cuz they have a pretty face, or not go out with them cuz they're ugly? Most people would say they don't care....but I still see ppl saying stuff like that.

i do not really care about looks...besides beauty is in the eyes of a beholder...i am not going to say a pretty face has no influence over your impressions of a person, but once you are able to see past the looks you will realize that beauty is within...
besides...looks fadde with age...but internal beauty remains forever...at least i think..hehe..
besides..who would want a pretty face comin with attitude and shitty manners? no can do..thanks alot!
hahaha...

no is the inside that counts..! doesn't matter how they look as long they have a good heart thats fine with me..!

Not much.. I say.. Character and at least be presentable.. Then I'm ok.. haha..

nya
I dont care about the outside look
I just care if they are good people and like good stuff just like me haha!

although it would have an impact if you're ugly or not ... but in the ends if 2 ppl love each other it doesn't really matter wouldn't it?

well for me to go out with a boy, he has to have a great personalty and he will have to support me whatever i'm doing. Also he has to be sweet and know how to treat a lady. If u really love someone the person looks wont matter

your ugly could be my pretty, and your pretty could be my ugly... to each his/her own... ^___^

my attraction flows in an order close to this:

insides -> beliefs, morals, attitude, character, integrity, etc...

and then the outsides... if I don't like someone's insides, it's an instant wall between us...

but then again, its a going out question... so most people are probably initially attracted in some physical manner, then they figure out the insides, unless its purely physical w/o any fulfillment... ;P

*drops 2 cents*

i don't realy think that its right to judge someone because of his looks...to me it doesnt realy mater how you look ...its more important whats inside a persons heart...his personality....of course a god persone cares a litle about his looks to but its not that important

i base my impressions of people off their personalities. i think if you "click" with a person on that kind of level there is a level of beauty and attraction you obtain from that connection. luckily every one finds different things beautiful so there is always some one for every one. there are a few things that make me less likely to talk to people as for as dating is concerned. bad teeth are a turn off for me, completely. its just how i am. i can be friends with that person, but never kiss them. that could change if they got their teeth fixed though, like dentures or other options.

hope that was insightful. lol.

If a person is butt ugly, they better have one hell of a personality.

When I talk to a pretty girl who has a very unappealing attitude, her prettiness starts to fade away. Eventually, they just look ugly to me.

The same situation works with ugly girls eventually turning pretty. However, I've found that most girls. pretty or ugly, simply don't have anything I'm looking for.

Well if I'm trying to date the girl then yeah looks will go first. I'd like her to have a pretty face first then I look at her body. But if I'm trying to befriend someone or vice versa then looks dont matter to me. I'll be your friend if your ugly or pretty.

By all means...I shouldn't care. But...I do have to say that looks are the first things that I look at. Then, after that...I don't seem to notice anymore. A good looking guy might be a total jerk, while the...not so good looking guy might be a total sweetheart.

personally i perfer sumone not all that ugly but if they r, chances r im not gonna date them...maybe we can jux be friends...but im trying to look toward they're personality...but beauty comes from the inside not the outside, rite? and maybe if sum guys jux try to look good then maybe they will...

I don't care about looks. Actually I discovered that it's easy to fall in love with someone who's not attractive. For example, my ex wasn't attractive, but I love her personality and that's what mede me fell in love with her.

Here's the thing, I would refuse going out with someone just because they're ugly. But, on the other hand, I am NOT going to go out with someone just because they're pretty/handsome.

If they are ugly, I don't think they'll even get a chance at all. I know it's shallow, but this is the cold hard truth. If I can't look at you and hold my lunch, I think I'd better walk before I puke all over you. It's harsh, but that's life. So, if you're ugly, I wouldn't even get the chance to know how attractive you are, personality-wise. I wouldn't even really want to be more than friends with you.

On the other hand, if someone attracts me, visually, I might go and talk to him/her, and well, he/she might prove to be interesting. If so, good, we can hook up and see where this all go. If he/she's dumb, or annoying, or whatever, I'll just stop talking to them and walk. Same thing.

Really, people, get it through your thick skulls. There ARE people out there with GREAT personalities that are drop dead gorgeous. So, what you do is, you look for these people.

Yet those pretty people will judge you just the same. You have to go in your league in the social life.

I hate social stuff.

don't care as long as they could ride my mood swings...^^ you don't need pretty faced dude to be your friend/s yourself is more than enough...heehee..just kidding

it is more of "u can't judge a book by its cover"

appearance can't tell u what the other person is like.

so I dun care about looks a whole lot, but a bit. what's inside matters more.

I don't think looks are really anything to go by, this is why i believe so....

If you are searching for that "special someone", going out specifically looking for a date, chances are you are shallow, because you are only making a move depending on whether you fancy them, without considering personality, honestly how often is it that these people actually find someone? i would guess that about 4 in 50 long-term relationships begin this way, and they probably only stay together because they want to be seen with someone good-looking.

You will probably find that most people are accepted by others through maybe an act of selflessness, so it would make sense to me if most relationships begin the same way, i mean someone won't get pushed away for being kind will they? well, even if they are its more than likely due to the other person being too into themselves, and/or because they can't acknowledge or appreciate that someone they don't personally find attractive is being nice to them. How would that work? HEY YOU, GET LOST, YOU'RE TOO NICE! - What?

you don't make friends with people who have bad personalities and attitude problems do you? so why should it be any different when dating? same as you wouldn't only make friends with pretty people would you? and you should just let it happen, and not look for it, because it's not always about the looks....I'm wondering if people who read this think i'm an ugly guy with a real big chip on his shoulder.....hehehe.....!

Ever heard of the nice-guy-syndrome? Yeah. Women like men who has some... backbone... you know, spine and all that, will, decision making, firmness (not just the down area, mind you!). So, in short, yes, you can be eliminated from the potential long-term mate list because you're too... "nice".

The reason why it is so different between dating and making friends is the fact that in a relationship/dating/lovey dovey stuffs, you are expected to shag them. I personally don't fancy waking up in the morning and seeing this hideous face lying right next to me, naked. I think, I would like to save myself from that "coyote ugly" stuffs, and just not go out with anyone whose looks I don't fancy.

So, yeah, don't be too naive, lol. There are millions of guys out there who've been turned down with the line, "But, you're my best friend, and I don't want to ruin that".

Hahahaha, i had a feeling you were going to want to take a shot at me, and if you don't mind me saying, your name suits you. now, ok, that is your opinion, being that you are individual - fair play. I must apologise, i was unaware this was all so serious! you put your opinion across in a way that implies that you understand your own gender, when infact you forget that it is only your opinion, and that every other woman out there doesn't think like you.

Don't get me wrong, there is certainly going to be a percentage who do have the same views as yourself, just like the percentage who have the same views as me, then again, there is going to be a percentage who doesn't agree with either of us, is there a right or wrong? or is it just an insignificant difference of opinion?

I am a firm believer in having backbone and all that crap, but you can do so without being an arsehole, i find people respect you more. Maybe you just like it when people give you attitude back? do you feel like you like to win at everything? i tell you what, find an argument with some depth, quit being so shallow and you might beat be, you definately have potential.

Heh, what argument am I supposedly making here? That girls don't like guys that's TOO nice? I don't think I even need an argument for this. Just look at all the classic rejection line. "It's not you it's me", "I just want to be friends", "I see you as my brother", "I just can't handle commitment right now", "I am so into my career", etc. Yeah, all those, basically are saying, "I don't really like you, so, please just be friends with me, I might need emotional support later, because my fuckwit boyfriend/girlfriend might be a bitch/jerk".

I guess, if you're saying you want to have a backbone as well, I already have you agreeing with me. Having a backbone doesn't mean you have to be an arse, true, but in the case of a disagreement, you just have to stand your ground. And in girl-in-argument-ese, that's you being a jerk. Of course, after they cool down, you will probably stop being a jerk in their eyes, and relationship can resume as usual. But yeah...

And what's this about my username?

I keep getting this vibe that people don't read my posts correctly. Once again, I am NOT saying that looks are all there is. I am merely saying that in order to become lovers, you have to at least be attracted to the other person. Please keep that in mind. Yes, I hate stupid people, I hate annoying people, I hate narrow-minded people. So, there you have it.

nope, cause it's the inside that counts.............and..................the person himself can change the way people think about em by just being good from the inside, and trust me then all will see u as whatever it is u call it, be it cute, hot, handsome, beautiful, pretty, whatever................
so the inside can actually change your appearance, sometimes pretty people are actually seen as ugly cause they suck from the inside.........yup.........;)