About a year and a Half ago I met this day in Study Hall, when I laughed at one
of her Jokes and she asked me my name.
I told her my name was Danzel, and She told me her name was Lauren. Then She
said I reminded her of someone, and then she just yelled out L.L. COOL J and she
then continued to say he's so damned sexy.
I was Kinda thrown off, but we just ended up laughing it off after we both
realized how awkward what she just said was.
Anyways From that day on I started to get to know her better, and I started to
like her after two or three months, and as I got to know her better the more I
liked her. She wasn't a girl with a super goddess type of pretty but more of a
cute, girl next door type of pretty, and everytime I saw her she made me laugh
my ass off.
But there was one thing that bothered me, she would always get harrassed by
other boys in class, and I could tell she was getting really pissed but she
didn't know what to do because they would continue harassing her no matter how
much she told them to stop or F@$K OFF! I hated seeing her like that, I just
wanted to haul off and whip someones ass when I saw her like that.
The summer came and went and I saw her again at the beggining of the school
year. She asked me My AIM address, and we started to communicate more often, and
become closer friends.
Well I started to think that maybe she likes me too, so I told her one Friday
afternoon during an AIM session when she we were talking about old crushes, and
she asked me if there was anybody I liked currently, and after stalling six or
seven times she forced it out of me, And I told her "I kinda like you
Lauren"
she responoded by saying "well im not really in the mood for a BF"
which I found as a Relief and said "Cool, me neither."
On that following monday I tried to make conversation like we Usually did, and
all I got were cold "yeahs", and "thats nice", and
Enthusiastic hellos became a dull torture for her it seemed.
a week later I wrote her a letter Addressing the fact that I felt that we could
continue our friendship with no problems, but if she felt uncomfortable around
me and didn't feel like talking to me then thats okay too
four months later,
Still no reply at all, I have totally forgotten the person that I once thought
was the most Beautiful person ever. And I wonder why does it have to be this
way, why do I feel so empty now when I look in her Eyes.
hmm... you feel empty when you look in her eyes? Maybe your feelings for her are
gone after that long period of time? that can happen you know... When the person
you like doesn't communicate with you in such a long time, you lose feelings for
the person. But have you tried communicating with her lately? Or is she ignoring
you in school? anyways, try talking to her in PERSON, maybe that'll help
Well after some while after youve discovered she isnt after a Bf you will
eventually lose interest and if she sees that she too will lose interest. it
happend to me before but ive met another girl through MSN and i hope that it
will not end like my last one...
I actually care for her...
it doesnt matter if she likes me as a friend i will keep my interest up!
after all.....first impressions dont last long...
so you have to do something else to keep up the interest...
You feel empty when you look at her because it felt more of rejecting to hear
that she wasn't in the mood to have one. I suppose that she found out that you
liked her so she didn't want anything to do with it so she just did want to come
close to you in hopes that she doesn't want the same problem in her past to come
again.
Try looking in her shoes. She might be ignoring you but don't lose hope. Just
try.
Have hope.
She probably likes you as a great friend instead of a bf kind of thing. Cause,
based on your situation, I experienced it before too.. Sometimes, she might not
know how to react to you after your confession, if not she isn't interested in
having you as a bf..
Don't be too disappointed about it. Even if you don't get together with her, I
believe there will always be somebody else whom you'll meet.
Treat this as an experience and probably learn somthing from it?
Don't be too discouraged!
All the Best!
So lets take a close look at this. You started to have feelings for her and when
she found out, she pretty much cut off the communication.
Well since I don't know her, it's either that she feels bad that she can't give
you what you want (a girlfriend) and feels guilty, or she might have had a
painful relationship in the past. I don't know. But since she didn't just shrug
it off, it could mean that she feels something for you, whether it be friendship
or more.
She could just be over-reacting about all this. So you should just ask her, if
you can.
Wow this is a tough one indeed. Well yeah I have experienced this before but I
wonder about the girl. Surely she seems my type :P (well ill try to find someone
like her. Dont worry dude).
Is this a case of first love? Well I'm afraid that if I was you, I would be in
the same position. Shes welll amazing I guess. But those cold eyes and those
cold replies. Ive seen that often as well. Maybe she doesnt want to talk to you
because she know that you are a good (person are ya?) and you cant help it.
Therefore shes killing herself to make her seem unlikable and cold towards you
so you can forget about her. It doesnt matter whether you want to be good
friends with her, you are still going to like/love her!
Well there it goes. Thats my opinion anyways.
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responoded by saying "well im not really in the mood for a BF" which I
found as a Relief and said "Cool, me
neither."
I think she was prodding around with your feelings there to see how much you
liked her. Had you replied with something different then I think the
relationship wouldn't have turned so cold. The reason why she turned cold
towards you is because she feels that you're not interested and thus won't
bother furthering (is that even a word?) the relationship with you.
But hey that's the way I see it... perhaps others might see it differently.
My advice? Erm... you gotta ask someone else about this. I have yet to find a
solution for myself as I've been in this situation before.
About a year and a Half ago I met this day in Study Hall, when I laughed at one of her Jokes and she asked me my name.
I told her my name was Danzel, and She told me her name was Lauren. Then She said I reminded her of someone, and then she just yelled out L.L. COOL J and she then continued to say he's so damned sexy.
I was Kinda thrown off, but we just ended up laughing it off after we both realized how awkward what she just said was.
Anyways From that day on I started to get to know her better, and I started to like her after two or three months, and as I got to know her better the more I liked her. She wasn't a girl with a super goddess type of pretty but more of a cute, girl next door type of pretty, and everytime I saw her she made me laugh my ass off.
But there was one thing that bothered me, she would always get harrassed by other boys in class, and I could tell she was getting really pissed but she didn't know what to do because they would continue harassing her no matter how much she told them to stop or F@$K OFF! I hated seeing her like that, I just wanted to haul off and whip someones ass when I saw her like that.
The summer came and went and I saw her again at the beggining of the school year. She asked me My AIM address, and we started to communicate more often, and become closer friends.
Well I started to think that maybe she likes me too, so I told her one Friday afternoon during an AIM session when she we were talking about old crushes, and she asked me if there was anybody I liked currently, and after stalling six or seven times she forced it out of me, And I told her "I kinda like you Lauren"
she responoded by saying "well im not really in the mood for a BF" which I found as a Relief and said "Cool, me neither."
On that following monday I tried to make conversation like we Usually did, and all I got were cold "yeahs", and "thats nice", and Enthusiastic hellos became a dull torture for her it seemed.
a week later I wrote her a letter Addressing the fact that I felt that we could continue our friendship with no problems, but if she felt uncomfortable around me and didn't feel like talking to me then thats okay too
four months later,
Still no reply at all, I have totally forgotten the person that I once thought was the most Beautiful person ever. And I wonder why does it have to be this way, why do I feel so empty now when I look in her Eyes.
Why?
Any comments or advice please post
hmm... you feel empty when you look in her eyes? Maybe your feelings for her are gone after that long period of time? that can happen you know... When the person you like doesn't communicate with you in such a long time, you lose feelings for the person. But have you tried communicating with her lately? Or is she ignoring you in school? anyways, try talking to her in PERSON, maybe that'll help
Well after some while after youve discovered she isnt after a Bf you will eventually lose interest and if she sees that she too will lose interest. it happend to me before but ive met another girl through MSN and i hope that it will not end like my last one...
I actually care for her...
it doesnt matter if she likes me as a friend i will keep my interest up!
after all.....first impressions dont last long...
so you have to do something else to keep up the interest...
You feel empty when you look at her because it felt more of rejecting to hear that she wasn't in the mood to have one. I suppose that she found out that you liked her so she didn't want anything to do with it so she just did want to come close to you in hopes that she doesn't want the same problem in her past to come again.
Try looking in her shoes. She might be ignoring you but don't lose hope. Just try.
Have hope.
Okay thanks Guys
merged: 01-07-2007 ~ 07:13am
But What do I say?
I Have No idea what to say
She probably likes you as a great friend instead of a bf kind of thing. Cause, based on your situation, I experienced it before too.. Sometimes, she might not know how to react to you after your confession, if not she isn't interested in having you as a bf..
Don't be too disappointed about it. Even if you don't get together with her, I believe there will always be somebody else whom you'll meet.
Treat this as an experience and probably learn somthing from it?
Don't be too discouraged!
All the Best!
This is a tough one...
So lets take a close look at this. You started to have feelings for her and when she found out, she pretty much cut off the communication.
Well since I don't know her, it's either that she feels bad that she can't give you what you want (a girlfriend) and feels guilty, or she might have had a painful relationship in the past. I don't know. But since she didn't just shrug it off, it could mean that she feels something for you, whether it be friendship or more.
She could just be over-reacting about all this. So you should just ask her, if you can.
Best of Luck!
Wow this is a tough one indeed. Well yeah I have experienced this before but I wonder about the girl. Surely she seems my type :P (well ill try to find someone like her. Dont worry dude).
Is this a case of first love? Well I'm afraid that if I was you, I would be in the same position. Shes welll amazing I guess. But those cold eyes and those cold replies. Ive seen that often as well. Maybe she doesnt want to talk to you because she know that you are a good (person are ya?) and you cant help it. Therefore shes killing herself to make her seem unlikable and cold towards you so you can forget about her. It doesnt matter whether you want to be good friends with her, you are still going to like/love her!
Well there it goes. Thats my opinion anyways.
Fatal mistake:
I think she was prodding around with your feelings there to see how much you liked her. Had you replied with something different then I think the relationship wouldn't have turned so cold. The reason why she turned cold towards you is because she feels that you're not interested and thus won't bother furthering (is that even a word?) the relationship with you.
But hey that's the way I see it... perhaps others might see it differently.
My advice? Erm... you gotta ask someone else about this. I have yet to find a solution for myself as I've been in this situation before.