um,i find it better,if u actually juz be close to her... like getting to know
her more and stuff. Also,talk during school hours,aft school. Den aft u think ur
closeness,very close,den i guess u'll juz confess to her?
cuz if u juz tell str8 to her,i'll think she wont reply & wont talk to u
& stuff like that...........
h0pe this helps.
Well, you did it because you got nervous, didn't you ? That's was not the best
attitude... she probably was nervous too and getting rejected isn't very nice.
Hum.. why don't you ask her out, explaining you freaked out that time, apologize
and start over? When you do that, you show :
1 - You're a sensitive guy
2 - You like her
3- You have corage enough to ask for a second chance.
Don't be scared and be honest. If she decline, move on. There are anothers
fishes on the sea. Good luck.
Yep thats a very good approach sailorcapucciono!
and when you guys are on a date dont be silent all the time!
I usually make girls laugh with some emberrassing moves!
And when a girl smiles im happy too^^
Be yourself and be kind. sailorcapucciono is good on the spot.
As they say, we were all noobs once.
A date, ah, that. Really, if she asks you to the movies, just gladly accept and
go with her. Be confident. A date is just spendint time with her. Just be
confident.
depends how you rejected her too. If possible, just say that you already had
plans that day so you couldn't, and would like to go another time. Personally, I
don't think movies are a good place to go because it doesn't encourage you two
communicate. Maybe go for a small meal or just a drink. If you do ask her to go
out somewhere, stay calm and don't mention the rejection. If she asks why you
said no the first time, just tell her you had other plans.
Just go after it. See what happens. If you fail, ask yourself what you did
wrong, and the work on fixing those respective problems before trying again. If
the problems have to do with who you are however, just move on. Some things you
can change to improve yourself (such as gym, becoming more sensitive etc) but as
soon as it has to do with who you are, youre better off moving on.
well as a girl I have to say that some other people here is right just be
yourself ^^
Oh and well an advice from me is that u should probably try to get closer to her
like when u'll talk, try to tell things about u and let her tell her things
too...sometimes girls we just need someone to hear us and understand us (even if
I know myself that girls we're complicated lol )
aw... can't believe you declined the movie invitation. if i was her...i would be
really hurt... i would think you didn't like me at all! dessolator, you have to
tell her that last time you felt nervous so you said no. then tell her how you
feel..and that you want to go out... hope it works out for you. good luck.
Depends also one what the "movies" meant to her....
If it was a friendly invertation then she wont mind so much, its probably all
blown over by now...
If it was because she wanted to spend some time with you then that can create a
scar...
Simply ask her out somewhere, shopping? or for a meal? and try not to mension
last time. As said somewhere above the movies is an anti-social place unless you
are not there to watch the film... Hehe...
Anyways just ask her out somewhere and enjoy being with her, then say you had a
good time with her and ask if she enjoyed being with you... then you make you
move and viola...
Can anyone tell me how to start a relation with a girl?
cause i am kinda,.. you know,.. uhmm,. inexperienced 
well i too am a bit inexperienced...
but have you and the girl already dated?
um,i find it better,if u actually juz be close to her... like getting to know her more and stuff. Also,talk during school hours,aft school. Den aft u think ur closeness,very close,den i guess u'll juz confess to her?
cuz if u juz tell str8 to her,i'll think she wont reply & wont talk to u & stuff like that...........
h0pe this helps.
shinmeiryu , i have not dated her yet , but she did ask me out , to watch a moving, but i declined it, was that bad?
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CrazyGiirl , thnx you have helped me many times already, i thank you for that
Well, you did it because you got nervous, didn't you ? That's was not the best attitude... she probably was nervous too and getting rejected isn't very nice. Hum.. why don't you ask her out, explaining you freaked out that time, apologize and start over? When you do that, you show :
1 - You're a sensitive guy
2 - You like her
3- You have corage enough to ask for a second chance.
Don't be scared and be honest. If she decline, move on. There are anothers fishes on the sea. Good luck.
hmmm,.. (sigh..) i guess your right sailorcapucciono,
but how can i explain to her , the way i reacted last time
Yep thats a very good approach sailorcapucciono!
and when you guys are on a date dont be silent all the time!
I usually make girls laugh with some emberrassing moves!
And when a girl smiles im happy too^^
Be yourself and be kind. sailorcapucciono is good on the spot.
As they say, we were all noobs once.
A date, ah, that. Really, if she asks you to the movies, just gladly accept and go with her. Be confident. A date is just spendint time with her. Just be confident.
wow they all said wat i nid to say, but nvm abt tt just be confident like wat kyouto had said
depends how you rejected her too. If possible, just say that you already had plans that day so you couldn't, and would like to go another time. Personally, I don't think movies are a good place to go because it doesn't encourage you two communicate. Maybe go for a small meal or just a drink. If you do ask her to go out somewhere, stay calm and don't mention the rejection. If she asks why you said no the first time, just tell her you had other plans.
Just go after it. See what happens. If you fail, ask yourself what you did wrong, and the work on fixing those respective problems before trying again. If the problems have to do with who you are however, just move on. Some things you can change to improve yourself (such as gym, becoming more sensitive etc) but as soon as it has to do with who you are, youre better off moving on.
well as a girl I have to say that some other people here is right just be yourself ^^
Oh and well an advice from me is that u should probably try to get closer to her like when u'll talk, try to tell things about u and let her tell her things too...sometimes girls we just need someone to hear us and understand us (even if I know myself that girls we're complicated lol
)
Uhm. . . first of all, get close to her. along with that, impress her. ask her out. have some time together, ALONE.
Oh yeah, declining her date (?) was not so good.
=p
aw... can't believe you declined the movie invitation. if i was her...i would be really hurt... i would think you didn't like me at all! dessolator, you have to tell her that last time you felt nervous so you said no. then tell her how you feel..and that you want to go out... hope it works out for you. good luck.
Depends also one what the "movies" meant to her....
If it was a friendly invertation then she wont mind so much, its probably all blown over by now...
If it was because she wanted to spend some time with you then that can create a scar...
Simply ask her out somewhere, shopping? or for a meal? and try not to mension last time. As said somewhere above the movies is an anti-social place unless you are not there to watch the film... Hehe...
Anyways just ask her out somewhere and enjoy being with her, then say you had a good time with her and ask if she enjoyed being with you... then you make you move and viola...
Well it works fine in my head but anyways... :p