haha pretty awesome but not right missie...Well u know it's good for a girl to
be straightforward but not THAT straightforward..I guess it's a bit slutty but
anyone does what he/she does so it's ok
12, do you even have enough hormone yet? well i don't think that's love.
It's her choice but don't make her a role model.
all i can say is regret always come too late.
And for things that you have only one's (virginity), it will be a huge
regret.
Losing it to a guy she even don't know the name, well sound a little bitchy to
me.
I think even if you are madly in love with someone, this kind of thing need to
be taken slowly, with proper thinking and choosing.
This has got to be made up, honestly, lets think on what we know. Now I'm not
saying gloria made this up, maybe her friend did, or this is one hell of a
practical joke, 8 pages of posts? Everyone is reacting to this, lots of posts,
and each new peice of information is shocking.
Lets see...first off, she said her friend claimed to have sex at the age of 12
and now at the age 15 is the master of the "karma sutra" ie she's a
slut now. Then later on is revealed that she had sex with a 17 year old. Now,
later on in life its ok to have sex with someone 5 years older or younger than
you, but at 17 even the boy should know better. Lets see, was it rape? Thats the
only logical answer, no person, no matter how stupid, would do that, either way;
the boy or the girl. He made a bad mistake in the case that this is true, but
then again, I reitirate that I think this is a farce, a fake story of sorts.
Gloria91thebest has this friend, and what do friends do? (well, some anyhow)
They want to seem superior to their friends, so why not try to appear more
adult? And what is linked to being an adult? Sex is the answer to that one, so
why not say you've had sex to your friends, have all these details, and then, to
get rid of all suspicion, say you forget the name of your partner? Now, I'm sure
those who have had sex can answer this for me because I myself have not; do you
forget the name of the one you had sex with first? Honestly, I think that would
be hard to forget, my dad is able to remember it, 2 decades later, and your
telling me that she cant after only 3 years? To get mathematical thats 15% of
the time my dad remembers it, and he doesn't know what happened to that person.
No matter what, thats statutory rape so in one aspect I'm right there. She made
this up to make you feel inferior to her, to make you think she is more mature
than you. Just smack her alot and tell her either give you a name and tell the
real story or give up the lie.
Oy. You shouldn't have sex until marriage I think. And I am not saying this due
to religious stuff. That is basicly letting someone be a part of you physically
for a time. Wait to do it with someone you truly love. Someone you will spend
the rest of your life with. Who ever is saying sex before then just because you
are somewhat smarter I say you should get a kick to the face. I mean even if you
are genius at age 15. You still can't make legal choices for your self nor
decide who you will spend the rest of your life with. It may be true love but
you cant know for sure. What youd friend did was stupid.
Deathbonewitch u'r wrong....if i wasn't sure of what i am saying i wouldn't do
this much...i am pretty sure that what she said is true, one of the reasons is
that in Italy things like have sex 4 the first time with a stranger is normal,
so wrong, but normal....(i didn't do it 4 many reasons)I read a topic in a forum
which said that in Europe Italian woman are the most active in sex....this thing
should make u have the right idea. It's not like italian girl are all slut, only
the one that have sex under the age of 14 I think. They want to be more adult,
just like u said. The reason is NOT love because under that age u CAN'T even
think to BE IN LOVE with some1. U r simply TOO SMALL.
Now, one year after the day she confessed that to me, we aren't friends anymore,
not because of what she did but 4 school...The other day I meet her in a shop,
she was with her boyfriend, or friends i don't know, and she was so normal...i
mean HOW CAN SHE BE SO CALM when she did it at the age of 12? Italian society is
the worst in the world...doing NOTHING to protect children...there was a song,
don't remeber its title but it described so well what kind of world is the
italian one....SO SHITTY.
Ah, pardon me, honestly I was hoping that she made it up because thats
ridiculously disgusting, have sx at age 12 with a 17 year old? O well, enjoy
your decision not to and your right to be surprised at how calm she was, but she
probably doesn't see it as anything wrong, afterall, why would it be to her?
While to the rest of us thats insane, to her its just, hmm, "so so"?
And having sex with a stranger is wrong, I suggest air borne evacuation ASAP.
Just an idea...
Uh...Wapy...
A) This is a girl we're talking about.
B) The boy involved was 17.
C) Some people need to be told what to do, their decisions don't matter.
Boys ARE ready to have sex at the age of 17
Girls too but...they are simply too small
And don't give me that shit that u could be pregnat. She HADN'T. STOP. In this
world like NOBODY or few people have sex just to have baby or after gettin
married...but at the age of 12....no.
I know a lot of girls who lost their virginity around that age. It's society
these days. The fact is, in some cultures girls got married at that age. But my
opinion is that your friend didn't make a very wise decision. What she did was
very dangerous. She got lucky that she's still alive and healthy. It's
definitely wise to at least know some background about your sexual partner(s).
Yes, but when girls got married at that age it also wasn't too common to live
that long. And that is in the past, too. Do you live in about the same area as
Gloria91thebest, squallkicks? That would explain some things, maybe it has
something to do with me not caring about if people have sex at a young age or
not around me because I'd rather not change my view on them to being a
harlot/male prostitute. Sometimes ignorance is bliss...But yes, she wasn't very
wise in her decision, as you said. But I'm tired of ranting about this, nothing
I, or anyone, says we'll change what happened and what will continue to happen.
I live in Italy, Deathbonewitch in Australia and squallkicks in US.
We aren't near
However, gettin married at that age is strange...no way that could happen in
Italy.
Like someone said, regret always come too late....i want to know what she will
think of herself in the future
Well, I think that having sex at this age is wrong. Yes, it is kind of a matter
of your choice,BUT we can't say that people at the age of 12 can take REAL,
responsible actions, they're just too young, especially when we are talking
about something that serious.
About the biological stuff... Well, you see all kinds of things these days. For
example the youngest parents were 9 and 8 years old (it is doccumented).
I am form Poland (that nearer Italia than US at least )
and things about having sex here are geting a little hectic too. For example
I've read a letter to a magazine for a young girls (the girl that written the
letter was 13, if I am not mistaken) and she was asking for some help because
she don't want to be the last virgin in the class. THE LAST. Well, I don't know
if this letter was fabricated but... Let's just say, that I've heard stranger
things and it is not so impossible (as the friend of Gloria prooved)...
Sorry Deathbonewitch but ur profile says that ur from Australia...
Well...Poland! one of my best friends is from poland! I knew, in poland thing
are like here in italy... However I agree with u...
I think when u gonna have sex it's when u married.
coz that is the right thing. But the world have change. There's so many have
already have sex in young age, I just hope they not gonna regret their own
choice
Ya, cuteclaire, people don't have as high of morals anymore. They do things
their not told to do, think about it, alcohol, drugs, cigarettes (not as much as
drugs but still), sex, etc. I apologize for this generation and I'm sure that
the more reasonable ones are actually on this site, the other ones are too busy
doing the before-mentioned articles and thus further destroying civilization. I
hope that those of you who are out there and older then myself can understand
that they better not expect to be taken care of anymore. Have a nice day
everyone!
haha pretty awesome but not right missie...Well u know it's good for a girl to be straightforward but not THAT straightforward..I guess it's a bit slutty but anyone does what he/she does so it's ok
12, do you even have enough hormone yet? well i don't think that's love.
It's her choice but don't make her a role model.
all i can say is regret always come too late.
And for things that you have only one's (virginity), it will be a huge regret.
Losing it to a guy she even don't know the name, well sound a little bitchy to me.
I think even if you are madly in love with someone, this kind of thing need to be taken slowly, with proper thinking and choosing.
He was...17 i think...
and of course I read all of ur posts!
WRONG! WRONG! COMPLETELY AND UTTERLY WRONG! SEX BEFORE YOU'RE AT LEAST 18 IS WRONG!
Honestly ... a 17 year old sleeping with a 12 year old .... thats just wrong on so many levels. Couldn't he find someone closer to his own age?
This has got to be made up, honestly, lets think on what we know. Now I'm not saying gloria made this up, maybe her friend did, or this is one hell of a practical joke, 8 pages of posts? Everyone is reacting to this, lots of posts, and each new peice of information is shocking.
Lets see...first off, she said her friend claimed to have sex at the age of 12 and now at the age 15 is the master of the "karma sutra" ie she's a slut now. Then later on is revealed that she had sex with a 17 year old. Now, later on in life its ok to have sex with someone 5 years older or younger than you, but at 17 even the boy should know better. Lets see, was it rape? Thats the only logical answer, no person, no matter how stupid, would do that, either way; the boy or the girl. He made a bad mistake in the case that this is true, but then again, I reitirate that I think this is a farce, a fake story of sorts. Gloria91thebest has this friend, and what do friends do? (well, some anyhow) They want to seem superior to their friends, so why not try to appear more adult? And what is linked to being an adult? Sex is the answer to that one, so why not say you've had sex to your friends, have all these details, and then, to get rid of all suspicion, say you forget the name of your partner? Now, I'm sure those who have had sex can answer this for me because I myself have not; do you forget the name of the one you had sex with first? Honestly, I think that would be hard to forget, my dad is able to remember it, 2 decades later, and your telling me that she cant after only 3 years? To get mathematical thats 15% of the time my dad remembers it, and he doesn't know what happened to that person. No matter what, thats statutory rape so in one aspect I'm right there. She made this up to make you feel inferior to her, to make you think she is more mature than you. Just smack her alot and tell her either give you a name and tell the real story or give up the lie.
Oy. You shouldn't have sex until marriage I think. And I am not saying this due to religious stuff. That is basicly letting someone be a part of you physically for a time. Wait to do it with someone you truly love. Someone you will spend the rest of your life with. Who ever is saying sex before then just because you are somewhat smarter I say you should get a kick to the face. I mean even if you are genius at age 15. You still can't make legal choices for your self nor decide who you will spend the rest of your life with. It may be true love but you cant know for sure. What youd friend did was stupid.
Deathbonewitch u'r wrong....if i wasn't sure of what i am saying i wouldn't do this much...i am pretty sure that what she said is true, one of the reasons is that in Italy things like have sex 4 the first time with a stranger is normal, so wrong, but normal....(i didn't do it 4 many reasons)I read a topic in a forum which said that in Europe Italian woman are the most active in sex....this thing should make u have the right idea. It's not like italian girl are all slut, only the one that have sex under the age of 14 I think. They want to be more adult, just like u said. The reason is NOT love because under that age u CAN'T even think to BE IN LOVE with some1. U r simply TOO SMALL.
Now, one year after the day she confessed that to me, we aren't friends anymore, not because of what she did but 4 school...The other day I meet her in a shop, she was with her boyfriend, or friends i don't know, and she was so normal...i mean HOW CAN SHE BE SO CALM when she did it at the age of 12? Italian society is the worst in the world...doing NOTHING to protect children...there was a song, don't remeber its title but it described so well what kind of world is the italian one....SO SHITTY.
Ah, pardon me, honestly I was hoping that she made it up because thats ridiculously disgusting, have sx at age 12 with a 17 year old? O well, enjoy your decision not to and your right to be surprised at how calm she was, but she probably doesn't see it as anything wrong, afterall, why would it be to her? While to the rest of us thats insane, to her its just, hmm, "so so"? And having sex with a stranger is wrong, I suggest air borne evacuation ASAP. Just an idea...
guess not, i guess the boy isn't even ready to have sex at that age.
well I think that's our choice... still I think it's a very early age for that
Uh...Wapy...
A) This is a girl we're talking about.
B) The boy involved was 17.
C) Some people need to be told what to do, their decisions don't matter.
Boys ARE ready to have sex at the age of 17
Girls too but...they are simply too small
And don't give me that shit that u could be pregnat. She HADN'T. STOP. In this world like NOBODY or few people have sex just to have baby or after gettin married...but at the age of 12....no.
I know a lot of girls who lost their virginity around that age. It's society these days. The fact is, in some cultures girls got married at that age. But my opinion is that your friend didn't make a very wise decision. What she did was very dangerous. She got lucky that she's still alive and healthy. It's definitely wise to at least know some background about your sexual partner(s).
OHHHH finally someone who knows what the real world is.
Yes, but when girls got married at that age it also wasn't too common to live that long. And that is in the past, too. Do you live in about the same area as Gloria91thebest, squallkicks? That would explain some things, maybe it has something to do with me not caring about if people have sex at a young age or not around me because I'd rather not change my view on them to being a harlot/male prostitute. Sometimes ignorance is bliss...But yes, she wasn't very wise in her decision, as you said. But I'm tired of ranting about this, nothing I, or anyone, says we'll change what happened and what will continue to happen.
I live in Italy, Deathbonewitch in Australia and squallkicks in US.
We aren't near
However, gettin married at that age is strange...no way that could happen in Italy.
Like someone said, regret always come too late....i want to know what she will think of herself in the future
I'm not in Australia, I'm in the US as well. Does it say I'm from there?
Well, I think that having sex at this age is wrong. Yes, it is kind of a matter of your choice,BUT we can't say that people at the age of 12 can take REAL, responsible actions, they're just too young, especially when we are talking about something that serious.
)
and things about having sex here are geting a little hectic too. For example
I've read a letter to a magazine for a young girls (the girl that written the
letter was 13, if I am not mistaken) and she was asking for some help because
she don't want to be the last virgin in the class. THE LAST. Well, I don't know
if this letter was fabricated but... Let's just say, that I've heard stranger
things and it is not so impossible (as the friend of Gloria prooved)...
About the biological stuff... Well, you see all kinds of things these days. For example the youngest parents were 9 and 8 years old (it is doccumented).
I am form Poland (that nearer Italia than US at least
Sorry Deathbonewitch but ur profile says that ur from Australia...
Well...Poland! one of my best friends is from poland! I knew, in poland thing are like here in italy... However I agree with u...
*shocked*
I think when u gonna have sex it's when u married.
coz that is the right thing. But the world have change. There's so many have already have sex in young age, I just hope they not gonna regret their own choice
U r right...
Ya, cuteclaire, people don't have as high of morals anymore. They do things their not told to do, think about it, alcohol, drugs, cigarettes (not as much as drugs but still), sex, etc. I apologize for this generation and I'm sure that the more reasonable ones are actually on this site, the other ones are too busy doing the before-mentioned articles and thus further destroying civilization. I hope that those of you who are out there and older then myself can understand that they better not expect to be taken care of anymore. Have a nice day everyone!