Guys I have a problem right now, and I don't know whom I should share with. I
felt that I'm so lonely, though there are many people around me, but I felt that
I'm just ignored.
I have no girlfriend, coz I'm afraid to broke a girl's heart and I'm afraid of
being brokened by a girl either...
Proper punctuation-your friend and mine. We should make March "Grammar
Month." Awareness must be raised. Anywho, go ahead and play a game or
something. I personally make jokes to make people laugh, brings me into the
conversation and makes me part of the group, works well. Also it may help that
you realize that you might be withdrawing yourself without seeing it yourself.
Don't worry if you talk to yourself, just worry if you respond...Go ahead and
talk to some people, and get a girlfriend, its fine if you two break up, that
means you weren't really compatable or something else went wrong. I can't speak
on the matter of breaking up, I haven't really had much experience there. It
differs from person to person. But go and have fun! Weither by yourself or with
others, have fun.
If I can help you I'd be suprised, I feel the exact same way myself sometimes.
The biggest piece of advice I can give you is not to get discouraged, keep close
to those people important to you because walking away is only going to make you
more lonely. Sure spend a few days alone to to think about things if you think
it'll help, but running away only makes lonliness worse.
Also on the girlfriend side of things, you can't keep the attitude that not
trying is better because nobody gets hurt. Because for all the time you are
alone you just become more hurt yourself, sure its tough to get out there and
make a move, but in the end it usually works out for the best, even if it
doesn't always go to plan.
Well thank you guys, maybe it's because I'm not trying to get well with others,
I will try to do all my best to get along with my friends, well maybe call back
my oldies frendzzz.
Play game is a good sugestion, well sometimes i fill the samething.
Usually i am alone well sometimes being alone is good.
If you really want to get new friend, try join some club or community.
For me when i'm felling alone i go to my dojo to practice.
When you meet in a club try to communicate because you are new it is easier to
get to know with many people in just one try (try to get along, or at least
listen to them), that way you get new friends right ^ ^.
For girlfriend well, dont push it i think.
Well i hopes for the best for you. sorry if my english sucks ^ ^
Hi there Cenosys, I saw your profile and I fifured it out thata you're come from
Indonesia, am I rigth? So where do you live? I really want to join a dojo, can
you inform me is there a dojo at Surabaya?
Quote by varrentHi there Cenosys, I saw
your profile and I fifured it out thata you're come from Indonesia, am I rigth?
So where do you live? I really want to join a dojo, can you inform me is there a
dojo at Surabaya?
sorry for replying this late. yes im from indonesia (jakarta).
don't really know the dojo's at surabaya but you can check at http://www.aikidoshudokanindonesia.com/
& http://indomaresa.tripod.com/dojolist.htm.
usually if there is a new member join they will make a cirle to introduce the
new member and the old, that way you can know a lot of people (^ ^).
Note: if you still have problem finding a dojo, noticed me again i will try to
find more info about dojo in surabaya area, best regard (^ ^)
oh my friend... u're passin through a time where that feeling is inexplicable...
I dont know how, but i felt the same way you do...
Let me tell u this... I walked, I sat n started to write in a notebook all my
feelings... From that u should get some hope, that in the future everything is
gonna be just fine...
Remember, being the heart broker or the broken hearted is just a way to grow
up... U must pass through that to become a man... To become a better person...
I'm tellin u this becuz that's why I become the person I am today,
tonight...
Take care, my friend...
And remember, talk to your friends, they'll make u feel the most important
person in the whole world, and remember too, that u're not alone, becuz I'm with
you.
lets see when im lony i try to get together with my friends/play mmorpgs/cry
patheticaly in my room till someone notices im gone and comes looking for me
First thanks to cenosys for giving me such information. Maybe I can be a bit
different person after all. For Nubes, thanks for your support as well, I'll try
to think about it that way, btw I've just realized that I'm so childish...
imconfused, I've tried to play mmorpg but it didn't work for me.
I usually spent my time by smoking at my room, writting trashes ( that's how I
called it ) and I used to stay out from home for a long time 9 usually till
midnight or even 'till morning drop.
also, the more you fight lonliness, the harder it fights back. Just relax, be
yourself, be active rather then passive and let it come; don't seek it out.
I agree with Ting-kun, ANIME FTW.
Im lonely, I watch anime, im happy again for 2 weeks.
Maybe im just a quick fix case though, its really all about what you think your
capable of in order to get over the lonely feeling.
Just head outside and find something to do. School usually is a place where you
meet people. Quit smoking, talk to people and get to know them. You can't be all
good by sitting around doing nothing at home. Sure you can play games/watch
anime for a quick small time, i'm sure you'd want to interact with people. If
you have a job or go to school, you'll meet people.
u may be afriad of hurtin somone or urself but if u dont put ur self out there
then ul have to deal with the lonlines
i find that mmorpgs,porn,and doin stuff woth friends r the thing that i do to
stab off the lonliness
Sounds like you aren't lonely, you're actually lonely and depressed. But you
need to take a dive, get a girlfriend, if you're going to break each others's
heart thats fine because atleast you tried, and it probably won't end like that
anyway
Awww! soo cute! but.. hum. you schould not be scared of breaking a girls heart!
perhaps that girl you like really likes you! so GO for it! a guy like you must
have many freinds who like you! don't be afraid! go for the future!
Guys I have a problem right now, and I don't know whom I should share with. I felt that I'm so lonely, though there are many people around me, but I felt that I'm just ignored.
I have no girlfriend, coz I'm afraid to broke a girl's heart and I'm afraid of being brokened by a girl either...
Anyone has any idea to help me?
Proper punctuation-your friend and mine. We should make March "Grammar Month." Awareness must be raised. Anywho, go ahead and play a game or something. I personally make jokes to make people laugh, brings me into the conversation and makes me part of the group, works well. Also it may help that you realize that you might be withdrawing yourself without seeing it yourself. Don't worry if you talk to yourself, just worry if you respond...Go ahead and talk to some people, and get a girlfriend, its fine if you two break up, that means you weren't really compatable or something else went wrong. I can't speak on the matter of breaking up, I haven't really had much experience there. It differs from person to person. But go and have fun! Weither by yourself or with others, have fun.
well one thing is that u shouldn't be afraid to love someone...When you're in a relationship...you have to put both of your hearts on the line...
Get together with your friends and hang out or something....
Making close friends helps too...( it worked for me when I felt the same way )
If I can help you I'd be suprised, I feel the exact same way myself sometimes. The biggest piece of advice I can give you is not to get discouraged, keep close to those people important to you because walking away is only going to make you more lonely. Sure spend a few days alone to to think about things if you think it'll help, but running away only makes lonliness worse.
Also on the girlfriend side of things, you can't keep the attitude that not trying is better because nobody gets hurt. Because for all the time you are alone you just become more hurt yourself, sure its tough to get out there and make a move, but in the end it usually works out for the best, even if it doesn't always go to plan.
Well thank you guys, maybe it's because I'm not trying to get well with others, I will try to do all my best to get along with my friends, well maybe call back my oldies frendzzz.
Play game is a good sugestion, well sometimes i fill the samething.
Usually i am alone well sometimes being alone is good.
If you really want to get new friend, try join some club or community.
For me when i'm felling alone i go to my dojo to practice.
When you meet in a club try to communicate because you are new it is easier to get to know with many people in just one try (try to get along, or at least listen to them), that way you get new friends right ^ ^.
For girlfriend well, dont push it i think.
Well i hopes for the best for you. sorry if my english sucks ^ ^
Hi there Cenosys, I saw your profile and I fifured it out thata you're come from Indonesia, am I rigth? So where do you live? I really want to join a dojo, can you inform me is there a dojo at Surabaya?
Looks like you have a case of the Hedgehog's Dilemma. I suggest watching Evangelion again.
sorry for replying this late. yes im from indonesia (jakarta).
don't really know the dojo's at surabaya but you can check at http://www.aikidoshudokanindonesia.com/ & http://indomaresa.tripod.com/dojolist.htm.
usually if there is a new member join they will make a cirle to introduce the new member and the old, that way you can know a lot of people (^ ^).
Note: if you still have problem finding a dojo, noticed me again i will try to find more info about dojo in surabaya area, best regard (^ ^)
oh my friend... u're passin through a time where that feeling is inexplicable... I dont know how, but i felt the same way you do...
Let me tell u this... I walked, I sat n started to write in a notebook all my feelings... From that u should get some hope, that in the future everything is gonna be just fine...
Remember, being the heart broker or the broken hearted is just a way to grow up... U must pass through that to become a man... To become a better person... I'm tellin u this becuz that's why I become the person I am today, tonight...
Take care, my friend...
And remember, talk to your friends, they'll make u feel the most important person in the whole world, and remember too, that u're not alone, becuz I'm with you.
lets see when im lony i try to get together with my friends/play mmorpgs/cry patheticaly in my room till someone notices im gone and comes looking for me
First thanks to cenosys for giving me such information. Maybe I can be a bit different person after all. For Nubes, thanks for your support as well, I'll try to think about it that way, btw I've just realized that I'm so childish... imconfused, I've tried to play mmorpg but it didn't work for me.
I usually spent my time by smoking at my room, writting trashes ( that's how I called it ) and I used to stay out from home for a long time 9 usually till midnight or even 'till morning drop.
More to go.....
quit being afraid and explore the world my friend... youre allowing fear to control you
ANIME!
Agrees with Jasaiyajin
also, the more you fight lonliness, the harder it fights back. Just relax, be yourself, be active rather then passive and let it come; don't seek it out.
I agree with Ting-kun, ANIME FTW.
Im lonely, I watch anime, im happy again for 2 weeks.
Maybe im just a quick fix case though, its really all about what you think your capable of in order to get over the lonely feeling.
Just head outside and find something to do. School usually is a place where you meet people. Quit smoking, talk to people and get to know them. You can't be all good by sitting around doing nothing at home. Sure you can play games/watch anime for a quick small time, i'm sure you'd want to interact with people. If you have a job or go to school, you'll meet people.
listening to music and play com if not chat on msn
yes yes, MSN is good. Or forums, even better!
u may be afriad of hurtin somone or urself but if u dont put ur self out there then ul have to deal with the lonlines
i find that mmorpgs,porn,and doin stuff woth friends r the thing that i do to stab off the lonliness
Sounds like you aren't lonely, you're actually lonely and depressed. But you need to take a dive, get a girlfriend, if you're going to break each others's heart thats fine because atleast you tried, and it probably won't end like that anyway
sex, drugs, alcohol, games and dvds
Awww! soo cute! but.. hum. you schould not be scared of breaking a girls heart! perhaps that girl you like really likes you! so GO for it! a guy like you must have many freinds who like you! don't be afraid! go for the future!
Himeno90, IF I have many friends I wont be so lonely.....