Is it really possible to be in love with someone all your life?I mean, for me it's hard to stay with someone for more than 2 months...

It is possible. You just need to have at least 90% compatability with your certain other.

Tell me, why is it hard for you? I could try to help you. I don't have a gf but I know some stuff, I think.

Possilbe? Yes. Why not?
The only thing is that sometimes people would claim it doesn't work out right. The reason they don't "love" each other is because they probably can't find a resolution together, so instead, they go divorce.
Possible? Yes.

I don't know why it's so hard for me... Maybe I haven't found someone I really like yet? Love is confusing.....

Possibe...and how i wish i can be with the someone forever!..

but sometime that someone may not be with u forever...
oneday he/she may leave u....

That's sad...

Well to me it's possible...if love has gone through a lot of test/obstacles,the love will be more stronger than normal ones..you'll eventually find someone who is willing to love you and stay by your side forever till death do you part.

well it is possible ,well tt depends on how much u both love each other

apparently the guy I was dating didn't love me. I thought he did, but he dumped me this wk end cuz I wouldn't do it with him...

I think it's very possible .

Quote by LeAnnaLoveapparently the guy I was dating didn't love me. I thought he did, but he dumped me this wk end cuz I wouldn't do it with him...

I'm sorry for what I will might say, but I think you did the right thing.
If the guy dumped you just because you didn't want to do it with him, then it's a very big possibility that he will still dumped you after you do it with him.
I think this is for the best that you broke up with him, there is many guy's out there so don't think more about you EX.
I think the basis to love some for all of your life is definitely not sex, so if he dumped you because of that, definitely your relationship with him will not last long.
I can love someone for all my life, if and only if that she can do the same for me so I think the basis is understanding of each other.

I feel sorry for you. What a pig, leaving you over something like that! To be honest, you're better off without him.
True love is a hard thing to find. I, myself, am lucky in a way, as I have found true love, but if I lose it then I probably won't find it again for a very very long time.
You just have to keep searching. You'll find it soon, honestly

love a confusing subject
it is possiable if u want to stay togeather

Quote by LeAnnaLoveapparently the guy I was dating didn't love me. I thought he did, but he dumped me this wk end cuz I wouldn't do it with him...

Nope he did not love you at all. Those are the type of people that just care for sex..and that is it....is for that they treat a girl nice for a small bit, then have sex. After the sex, they will break up with you and go to the next person. Women also do the same (considering I know a guy who was trying to take it slow and the girl broke up right infront of his face becacuse they werent haveing sex). I have seen it so many times.

If a person truly loves you, they wont mind waiting for something like that. Also if you said no, if they really loved you, they would wait till you really wanted it with that person.

You did the best thing and didn't have sex. You did nothing wrong ^^

Thanks. He did treat me good for a while. He told my aunt that I got mad at him for not spending all his money on me. And he lied to all his friends about the whole sex thing. I guess I should just get over him.

Quote by LeAnnaLoveapparently the guy I was dating didn't love me. I thought he did, but he dumped me this wk end cuz I wouldn't do it with him...

As everyone else says he doesn't like you really if all he cares about is having sex, thats not a good boyfriend so you should have dumped him.

Quote by LeAnnaLoveThanks. He did treat me good for a while. He told my aunt that I got mad at him for not spending all his money on me. And he lied to all his friends about the whole sex thing. I guess I should just get over him.

Ah, the rest of the story. Making up stories and telling it to your family, saying he had sex w/ you w/ all his friends, thats no good. It's good your not with him so have a good relationship next time and recognize that bad situations. Also, if your not lucky, you might get a manipulative boyfriend and he could be like sherlock holmes...he'll not only get you to have sex with him but he'll blame it on your grandma! Anyhow, good luck.
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LOL! Thanks. I feel so much better now that i talked to people about it. Thanks you guys.

You're welcome Glad we helped.

I think that most of people do not need love nowadays. At least I do not need it anymore. Cause I was in love with one girl for 10 years, but then, after a chain of events...we broke up, and I just find it very comfortable being alone (friends do not count.).
So from my point of view "mugen-no ai" (eternal love) does not exist and is not possible.

theres no such thing as eternal....
same go as loves...........not matter how strong the bond or love it is..........

but i still believe u can live with someone u like for life....
but the love will loss bit by bit as times go.......

It is comfortable being alone at times, but sometimes it just makes you feel sad. Like on Val day or White day... zeroexr, do you really think that two people's love will slip away with time. I think I might have to agree on that...

Don't like love? Then forget about it and become bitter. Then you'll have to stay away from others.

That guy sounds like a butthole. you don't need him. You should look out for guys that call you by pet names more than your own name and guys that call you their girl. LOL. Look, the guy's not worth crying about. You can do better than that.

Quote by A-10hybridDon't like love? Then forget about it and become bitter. Then you'll have to stay away from others.

lol~ you remind me of my old tread>> Living forever without love?!

i'll quote one of its reply, which perhaps matches your situation:

Quote by Celessa
It isn't the small fact to consider that people aren't susceptible or drawn to be "falling in love" for life, as all of us humans are already considered capable of doing so in the first place - rather to me, it is the willingness and acceptance to commit to such dedication and devotion that perhaps troubles my conscience the most. If you perhaps asked otherwise if it is possible to fall in love and stay forever in love with that one individual in particular during your entire lifetime, that would surely be a challenging question to overcome. Then again, out of sheer honesty, it always somehow seems that this isn't at all likely possible. You rarely see people stay in love and keep it that way for long, these days. Not to mention, the general people in North America tends to draw corruption on the topic of love matters this present time [no offense to those who do boast otherwise].

If you can't handle the challenges of enduring with love, [or even further, you can't be able to trust certain individuals who do surround you] then you aren't fit to dedicate your love at all.

Yeaaaaah, if after meeting that person you are warped to some desolate place where there is only the 2 of you