Yes! I finally had a boyfriend.
Yes! It was the guy i like.
Of course! We're not together anymore.
It seems that thecnology is more powerful than love, now a days...
Oh, yeah! He's a gamer.
Yes! He left me because he wanted some time off to play World Of Warcraft and
Of course! I was on his way.
So! In the game of life, I was an obstacle for him.
Why didn't I realise this was coming?
Last Monday was fun, even when I was sick.
On wednesday, It was hot and sunny, it was fun too
The day after...
What would you think about the persone that says that loves you more than
anything, that seems to try his best to make you happy, that you acecpted just
the way he is and that you didn't care about what the other say because you love
that persone in return and want to make it happy too, but someday, all of a
sudden that persone asks you to leave him alone to play a never-ending online
game?
Such a long question.
Wonder how long would be the answer.
I guess it was too sweet to be true.
So! I made a plan!
I would find the creators of WoW and I would logde a complain about their stupid
game. But, I was being stupid too. How could i possibly do that with the only
excuse that my boyfriend left me for playing it. Besides, it was so absurd that
it could go public and the last thing I wanted was to be sad and with the world
pionting at me and laughing.
And that's how the plan failed
So! To finish this and to close one of the most painful experiences of my life
(the first love), an advise:
Stay away from WoW and if you play it, please! don't let it absorb you and the ones you love with it.
Believe me! It certainly isn't nice to be a girlfriend or a good boyfriend just
on Tuesdays, just because in that day WoW is down for maintenance. '
Wow...not as in the game; I mean...I'm sorry to hear. I understand your stance
on the game though. I consider myself a gamer, but I will go no where near World
of Warcraft (WoW). I've just heard numerous negative effects it has on its
players; All it's ever done is destroy peoples' college careers and social life.
I've seen the game, and I have to say I am widely disappointed and apalled at
how people could be so entranced in the game. If you tell me where this guy
lives, I'll come and tear his computer apart (if he lives within the vicinity
=P).
Now to answer your lengthy question:
The answer, for me -- I would feel disappointed that s/he would blow me in trade
for such a ridiculous game; I would lose all respect and trust for him/her; I
would say to myself, "I deserve better anyway."
I will probably never understand what you felt for him, but if he only thought
about you on tuesdays -- and that was because the servers were down -- these
questions for you rise: Did you really love him? Perhaps it was
infatuation?
In any case, though you may not think of it this way, if you want to, or let
yourself to, I think you could find someone who really is compatible with you;
Someone who won't replace you for such pestilent games.
well I'm a retired gamer nowadays...I know how it feels...
my friend got me addicted into one really old game but then I still was spending
time with her 2-3 hrs instead of the 3-5 hrs every single day and yet my ex
started complaining still.
I would recommend to stay away from any type of game (unless you're playing it
with that special person) ...if you're the type that might get
addicted..
well ..that's my expierence and now...I just decided to give up on games ( cept
Dance Dance Revolution since I spend time with family playing that ) ...and I'm
better off in life xD
Lol, I must say, it has nothing to do with the game. It has to do with the guy
you went out with.
If he kept telling you that you meant more to him than anything else, yet went
and gamed, I would highly suspect that either he's not telling the truth, or he
is telling the truth but not trying hard enough.
These things certainly do happen.
I don't think it's a matter of "this person plays WoW, stay away from
him"... I think it's more of a priority thing with some guys. Some guys do
prioritise one thing over another- and when you find a guy who prioritises the
girl, it's a really great feeling no doubt, but it has problems too. (Speaking
from personal experience- don't ask )
Whether it be WoW, gambling (trust me, there are many guys who gamble the night
long than rather come home and not make their wives worry), clubbing, drinking etc- it has to do with the guy's
personal priority.
More than often, their priority will change.
Some guys from start to finish will prioritise love.
Some guys priorities things like gaming and stuff when they're young and when
they get more responsibilities they may switch to girlfriends.
Now having said all that, it's time for you to just take things easy and find
someone new There's bound to be someone else better out there who won't be the
same as this first guy. It's a hard time and it's quite upsetting, but think of
it as an experience- no matter how bad or how good it was, it's something that
will make you learn and grow stronger And more
mature and wiser
Well, at one point I had a boyfriend who was highly addicted to music, and never
missed the chance to slip in some reference or another - and, of course, I had
no idea what he was talking about o.O We didn't break up because of that,
though, but it's still highly annoying to have a bf/gf who is obsessing over
something... that bad (OK, I've got *my*
obsessions - we all do - but there's a limit, right?).
If he left you - a real person - for a bunch of computer-simulated characters,
then this guy's got some serious issues (no offense if you still care about
him... ). My advice would be to forget about the whole affair - after all,
it wasn't made to last if he was so obsessed. I know it hurts right now, I know
it might take a while to get back on track, but you know what they say: whatever
does not kill you, makes you stronger. Good luck!
You want to be with some guy who only is with you when tuesday manteinance is
up? Thats screwy right there, so you should have seen this coming, but you
admitt that. I play WoW myselfand can honestly say that if everything was right
between me and my gf's family then I wouldn't play, after all, I just use it to
fill my time because I hate my own family...seems that either I hate a family or
they me. O well, may you find someone better...haha, WoW claims another soul.
I've seen it a few times but I've also seen people quit WoW little by little due
to having a gf/bf. Have fun with your life and may you find someone better!
Girlfriend VS WoW, heh? Take it easy, you should've told that guy he's a pussy
for preferring WoW over sex (OK, maybe not sex but how about sharing special
moments, bla bla bla).
Well it is true that he is dumb because he preferred a stupid game over a
girlfriend. That is the most stupid thing to do. I dont' know what is so special
about WOW maybe because I don't play it.
I would probably say that you are both young, plenty more fish in the sea, etc.
etc. He acted selfishly (it would seem), but then maybe there's more to it.
People say some things as an excuse for something else. It is possible that he
said hyou got in his way, when really he wanted to back out for other reasons.
wow really ka-chan? so
unfaithful! over a game?
nope i won't neglect my love ones, and get too absorded in this kind of game,
there is always a limit to something~ ^^ so dun that it for grated, go ka-chan!
you can do it, you will ind someone much better! ^^ there are lots of more guys
out there, who will appreciate you more! ^^
Ya know whats funny? Answer these questions: is your BF in St. Louis and his
name Kevin? Apparently the exact same thing happened at my school, he's a grade
above me and I just randomly heard someone talking to him and asked him about
his GF, he said he didn't have one anymore because she wanted too much
attention. If this is the case, I'm going to laugh extremely hard, two sides to
every story isn't there?
I dont have anything against guys that like to play games, because sometimes I
do also, but if your games are so important to you that you cant even go out and
live your life then you are a pretty pathetic person. just because you can play
a game online and talk to people at the same time doesnt mean that makes up for
having an actual human relationship.
I'm so sorry your experience was so sad, but remember it was a game n not other
woman... even though, i dont know wich is worst:S
so, i say, is not the game, is ur x-boyfriend's lack of maturity... What the
heck!? I read comic books n my boyfriend knows it, but i wont read it if he is
my house...
He was not mature enough to let go a game... But forget it, girl... like pple
says: there's more fishies in the pod...:p
take care, n i assure u someone better will fullfill ur heart, n u wont remember
this jerky jerk.
Well, i agree with the most of you...but we shouldn't critisize him so
much.
If he was his first time having a girlfriend, maybe he was not ready or haven't
thought what it means to have a girlfriend. So, the WoW was just an excuse to
leave her. Also, he may not have found what he wanted in the relationship (don't
get mad! It's just a guess )
Furthermore, things like "I love you more than my life", "We will
never separate" etc. have become really common and have lost their meaning.
Unless, they become actions.
And one last thing, i wonder if you were in his position withouth knowning what
you already know what would you have done? People
don't mature at the same age.
All this was not to justify the fact that he chose WoW over a relationship,
because i think that a game will always remain a game and never become reality.
It a was a choice. Accept it and move on.
A WoW boycott/ MT thread....
Wow Kabura-san.... I don't understand people who would put their leisure over a
person....
^_^'
I wouldn't know much about boyfriend/girlfiend relationship since I've never had
one....
Anyway cheer up Kabura san!
The world doesn't change for us, but we need to change the world.
Wow! I'm really amazed! Jeez...I still cannot believe what I just read! I agree
that there are some unusal obstacles between couples today but gaming was
something I never expected to happen. Honetsly, in my opinion, sincer love words
that are exchanged today have long lost their garanty. People usually say that
to ensure their relationship and partner and maybe, somehow, themselves but
those can be broken easier than before. But chosing a person over a hobby?! This
is the first time I hear such thing happening. You sure had a bad experience,
one of the rare and hurtful ones in fact.
Your boyfriend is just too exagerating, he left you just to play a game? He`s
nut, dun be sad, you`re lucky to be able to leave a guy that tresure game more
then you... My brother are also a gamer, sometimes he might stay in the rm for
long hours during holidays playing games, but he never neglect his gf... I`m
sure you will be able to find someone better then that nut, hope you can meet
your mr right soon! Gabate!
Toshie, your brother is the normal WoW player-we play the game but don't ignore
our friends and loved ones. I play WoW personally and use it to fill up the time
that I'm free and there is nothing I can do, sleeping isn't a good option
because I get yelled at for taking naps. I always make time for my gf because I
really enjoy being with her, it is normal for WoW players to leave for family
reasons, to have dinner with family, etc. I've seen most of it while playing for
the past 2+ years. The only thing I can complain about it is lack of sleep, but
thats not entirely the games fault, I try sleeping as much as possible but,
believe it or not, teachers don't like it when you sleep in their class. I hope
everyone understands not all WoW players are like this wierdo, we leave the game
in a heart beat for quite a few things, unlike the South Park episode made it
seem. Good luck in relationships and have a good time.
~death
hmm I never had a bf that was addicetd of something that much..usualy I`m the
one that is braking up
when things don`t work good anymore is best to regaing liberty ^_^`
I think that I`m the one obsesd..my last bc complaind a lot that I stay too much
on the net
actualy I has bored and liked to do something else then just stay with him..I
was with him almost every day..and stayd from time to time at his PC..
I actualy braked up with him afther 2 years because I felt like a bird in a
cage..closed
Yes! I finally had a boyfriend.
Yes! It was the guy i like.
Of course! We're not together anymore.
It seems that thecnology is more powerful than love, now a days...
Oh, yeah! He's a gamer.
Yes! He left me because he wanted some time off to play World Of Warcraft and
Of course! I was on his way.
So! In the game of life, I was an obstacle for him.
Why didn't I realise this was coming?
Last Monday was fun, even when I was sick.
On wednesday, It was hot and sunny, it was fun too
The day after...
What would you think about the persone that says that loves you more than anything, that seems to try his best to make you happy, that you acecpted just the way he is and that you didn't care about what the other say because you love that persone in return and want to make it happy too, but someday, all of a sudden that persone asks you to leave him alone to play a never-ending online game?
Such a long question.
Wonder how long would be the answer.
I guess it was too sweet to be true.
So! I made a plan!
I would find the creators of WoW and I would logde a complain about their stupid game. But, I was being stupid too. How could i possibly do that with the only excuse that my boyfriend left me for playing it. Besides, it was so absurd that it could go public and the last thing I wanted was to be sad and with the world pionting at me and laughing.
And that's how the plan failed
So! To finish this and to close one of the most painful experiences of my life (the first love), an advise:
Stay away from WoW and if you play it, please! don't let it absorb you and the ones you love with it.
Believe me! It certainly isn't nice to be a girlfriend or a good boyfriend just on Tuesdays, just because in that day WoW is down for maintenance.
'
Wow...not as in the game; I mean...I'm sorry to hear. I understand your stance on the game though. I consider myself a gamer, but I will go no where near World of Warcraft (WoW). I've just heard numerous negative effects it has on its players; All it's ever done is destroy peoples' college careers and social life. I've seen the game, and I have to say I am widely disappointed and apalled at how people could be so entranced in the game. If you tell me where this guy lives, I'll come and tear his computer apart (if he lives within the vicinity =P).
Now to answer your lengthy question:
The answer, for me -- I would feel disappointed that s/he would blow me in trade for such a ridiculous game; I would lose all respect and trust for him/her; I would say to myself, "I deserve better anyway."
I will probably never understand what you felt for him, but if he only thought about you on tuesdays -- and that was because the servers were down -- these questions for you rise: Did you really love him? Perhaps it was infatuation?
In any case, though you may not think of it this way, if you want to, or let yourself to, I think you could find someone who really is compatible with you; Someone who won't replace you for such pestilent games.
To end...I give you my best regards
well I'm a retired gamer nowadays...I know how it feels...
my friend got me addicted into one really old game but then I still was spending time with her 2-3 hrs instead of the 3-5 hrs every single day and yet my ex started complaining still.
I would recommend to stay away from any type of game (unless you're playing it with that special person) ...if you're the type that might get addicted..
well ..that's my expierence and now...I just decided to give up on games ( cept Dance Dance Revolution since I spend time with family playing that ) ...and I'm better off in life xD
Lol, I must say, it has nothing to do with the game. It has to do with the guy you went out with.
If he kept telling you that you meant more to him than anything else, yet went and gamed, I would highly suspect that either he's not telling the truth, or he is telling the truth but not trying hard enough.
These things certainly do happen.
I don't think it's a matter of "this person plays WoW, stay away from him"... I think it's more of a priority thing with some guys. Some guys do prioritise one thing over another- and when you find a guy who prioritises the girl, it's a really great feeling no doubt, but it has problems too. (Speaking from personal experience- don't ask
)
Whether it be WoW, gambling (trust me, there are many guys who gamble the night long than rather come home and not make their wives worry), clubbing, drinking etc- it has to do with the guy's personal priority.
More than often, their priority will change.
Some guys from start to finish will prioritise love.
Some guys priorities things like gaming and stuff when they're young and when they get more responsibilities they may switch to girlfriends.
Now having said all that, it's time for you to just take things easy and find someone new
Well, at one point I had a boyfriend who was highly addicted to music, and never missed the chance to slip in some reference or another - and, of course, I had no idea what he was talking about o.O We didn't break up because of that, though, but it's still highly annoying to have a bf/gf who is obsessing over something... that bad (OK, I've got *my* obsessions - we all do - but there's a limit, right?).
If he left you - a real person - for a bunch of computer-simulated characters, then this guy's got some serious issues (no offense if you still care about him...
). My advice would be to forget about the whole affair - after all,
it wasn't made to last if he was so obsessed. I know it hurts right now, I know
it might take a while to get back on track, but you know what they say: whatever
does not kill you, makes you stronger. Good luck!
You want to be with some guy who only is with you when tuesday manteinance is up? Thats screwy right there, so you should have seen this coming, but you admitt that. I play WoW myselfand can honestly say that if everything was right between me and my gf's family then I wouldn't play, after all, I just use it to fill my time because I hate my own family...seems that either I hate a family or they me. O well, may you find someone better...haha, WoW claims another soul. I've seen it a few times but I've also seen people quit WoW little by little due to having a gf/bf. Have fun with your life and may you find someone better!
Girlfriend VS WoW, heh? Take it easy, you should've told that guy he's a pussy for preferring WoW over sex (OK, maybe not sex but how about sharing special moments, bla bla bla).
Well it is true that he is dumb because he preferred a stupid game over a girlfriend. That is the most stupid thing to do. I dont' know what is so special about WOW maybe because I don't play it.
I would probably say that you are both young, plenty more fish in the sea, etc. etc. He acted selfishly (it would seem), but then maybe there's more to it. People say some things as an excuse for something else. It is possible that he said hyou got in his way, when really he wanted to back out for other reasons.
wow really ka-chan?
so
unfaithful! over a game? 
nope i won't neglect my love ones, and get too absorded in this kind of game, there is always a limit to something~ ^^ so dun that it for grated, go ka-chan! you can do it, you will ind someone much better! ^^ there are lots of more guys out there, who will appreciate you more! ^^
choice between Gaming or relationship em...
my choice will be Gaming...
Because of gaming i got my dreams and the way i wan to lives.....Unless i realli like that gal i maybe will give up....
BUT lets say online game and relationship
i will choose relationship....
because online game is as good as for ppl who are dead....
i don know why such lifeless game is so play?
online game is a new generation of gambling....
that can able to break a relationship!
trust me.....
Ya know whats funny? Answer these questions: is your BF in St. Louis and his name Kevin? Apparently the exact same thing happened at my school, he's a grade above me and I just randomly heard someone talking to him and asked him about his GF, he said he didn't have one anymore because she wanted too much attention. If this is the case, I'm going to laugh extremely hard, two sides to every story isn't there?
I dont have anything against guys that like to play games, because sometimes I do also, but if your games are so important to you that you cant even go out and live your life then you are a pretty pathetic person. just because you can play a game online and talk to people at the same time doesnt mean that makes up for having an actual human relationship.
I'm so sorry your experience was so sad, but remember it was a game n not other woman... even though, i dont know wich is worst:S
so, i say, is not the game, is ur x-boyfriend's lack of maturity... What the heck!? I read comic books n my boyfriend knows it, but i wont read it if he is my house...
He was not mature enough to let go a game... But forget it, girl... like pple says: there's more fishies in the pod...:p
take care, n i assure u someone better will fullfill ur heart, n u wont remember this jerky jerk.
ciaou
Well, i agree with the most of you...but we shouldn't critisize him so much.
If he was his first time having a girlfriend, maybe he was not ready or haven't thought what it means to have a girlfriend. So, the WoW was just an excuse to leave her. Also, he may not have found what he wanted in the relationship (don't get mad! It's just a guess
)
Furthermore, things like "I love you more than my life", "We will never separate" etc. have become really common and have lost their meaning. Unless, they become actions.
And one last thing, i wonder if you were in his position withouth knowning what you already know what would you have done?
People
don't mature at the same age.
All this was not to justify the fact that he chose WoW over a relationship, because i think that a game will always remain a game and never become reality. It a was a choice. Accept it and move on.
- The result of pain is exprerience - Aischylus.
A WoW boycott/ MT thread....
Wow Kabura-san.... I don't understand people who would put their leisure over a person....
^_^'
I wouldn't know much about boyfriend/girlfiend relationship since I've never had one....
Anyway cheer up Kabura san!
The world doesn't change for us, but we need to change the world.
Wow! I'm really amazed! Jeez...I still cannot believe what I just read! I agree that there are some unusal obstacles between couples today but gaming was something I never expected to happen. Honetsly, in my opinion, sincer love words that are exchanged today have long lost their garanty. People usually say that to ensure their relationship and partner and maybe, somehow, themselves but those can be broken easier than before. But chosing a person over a hobby?! This is the first time I hear such thing happening. You sure had a bad experience, one of the rare and hurtful ones in fact.
Your boyfriend is just too exagerating, he left you just to play a game? He`s nut, dun be sad, you`re lucky to be able to leave a guy that tresure game more then you... My brother are also a gamer, sometimes he might stay in the rm for long hours during holidays playing games, but he never neglect his gf... I`m sure you will be able to find someone better then that nut, hope you can meet your mr right soon! Gabate!
Toshie, your brother is the normal WoW player-we play the game but don't ignore our friends and loved ones. I play WoW personally and use it to fill up the time that I'm free and there is nothing I can do, sleeping isn't a good option because I get yelled at for taking naps. I always make time for my gf because I really enjoy being with her, it is normal for WoW players to leave for family reasons, to have dinner with family, etc. I've seen most of it while playing for the past 2+ years. The only thing I can complain about it is lack of sleep, but thats not entirely the games fault, I try sleeping as much as possible but, believe it or not, teachers don't like it when you sleep in their class. I hope everyone understands not all WoW players are like this wierdo, we leave the game in a heart beat for quite a few things, unlike the South Park episode made it seem. Good luck in relationships and have a good time.
~death
hmm I never had a bf that was addicetd of something that much..usualy I`m the one that is braking up
when things don`t work good anymore is best to regaing liberty ^_^`
I think that I`m the one obsesd..my last bc complaind a lot that I stay too much on the net
actualy I has bored and liked to do something else then just stay with him..I was with him almost every day..and stayd from time to time at his PC..
I actualy braked up with him afther 2 years because I felt like a bird in a cage..closed
He chose a game over you? Ouch