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How do you know that you're happy?

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Minitokyo » Life & Lifestyle Fora » Love, Friends & Family  How do you know that you're happy?

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I ask because I feel as if I have everything, or at least that's what people tell me and honestly, it's believable, but I don't think I'm happy at all. So I want to know, (philosophical question here but bear with me) how do you know that you a r e happy and not just deluding yourself into believing that you are when in fact you're not?

It's all about believing.... :angry: (you know you're happy when you don't care about questions like this anymore XD )

Quote by kenzukeIt's all about believing.... :angry: (you know you're happy when you don't care about questions like this anymore XD )

see, questions like this are a direct consequence of too much philosophy classes in Ateneo. -_-

Uhhh you clap your hands? XD

If you're happy and you know it clap your hands, if you're happy and you know it clap your hands, if you're happy and you know it and you really want to show it, if you're happy and you know it clap your hands.

XD XD XD

  • sammo
  • Retired Moderator
  • 4y 13wk ago

you're happy when you feel like nothing can go wrong in your life, and that you're much more fortunate than those people in ethiopia. so atleast for their sake, be happy xb

maybe this means I've reached the complete end of the line and I'm not just one more statistic in the Class A sector of my country, who have everything and feel completely empty still? So, this makes me feel even shittier...

  • sammo
  • Retired Moderator
  • 4y 13wk ago

you're a very morbid person today alien xD

If you are real happy, you just feel it. If you think, you aren't, then you surely aren't.. >_> If you think, happiness is possessing everything in the life, then you're happy. And you say, you'd have everything... But that's not my definition/way of happiness... Yeah, I know, I'm not a big help -_-

Happiness is a feeling, so you feel it and you don't say, yes, now I'm happy/ I'm not happy

>_>

Quote by sammoyou're a very morbid person today alien xD

So true.

Quote by ChuChiChaeschtliIf you are real happy, you just feel it. If you think, you aren't, then you surely aren't.. >_> If you think, happiness is possessing everything in the life, then you're happy. And you say, you'd have everything... But that's not my definition/way of happiness... Yeah, I know, I'm not a big help -_-
Happiness is a feeling, so you feel it and you don't say, yes, now I'm happy/ I'm not happy
>_>

I'd sort of anticipated this, and I thought yes, happiness must be a feeling, but still your mind filters what you like and don't like. It's a roundabout, probably fallacious discussion, but I still don't know... because when you a r e happy, you must know it, but then not all feelings we feel are feelings we know. Ok, I'm confusing everyone now, I'll stop. -_-

"to change the world, you have to change yourself first" <---i don't know what I'm saying.. XD

Quote by alien21xx
I'd sort of anticipated this, and I thought yes, happiness must be a feeling, but still your mind filters what you like and don't like

Now, that IS confusing me, what do you mean with being happy? Some single moments or a general feeling? I meant the general feeling... And I think, the general feeling has nothing to do with what our mind likes or doesn't like. The general happiness is a feeling coming from your heart.
Hmm I think, I AM happy, because I live my life as I want to. I'm not going the way all others are going and I have full freedom in my thoughts. That makes me happy. I'm also asking me, if I'm happy. And there are lots of things that aren't good in my life. But just knowing, I'm unique makes me a little happy. I could be more happier for sure, But I AM happy. It's just a feeling you know.
I hope, THIS has helped :sweat:

Yes, I'm referring to the general feeling. And so now that you mentioned it, we get to the heart of the matter. Thanks for that, though I still don't know if I am happy or not. :sweat:

I know I'm happy when I have a new anime that doesn't suck sitting in front of me and lots of nummy junk food. Eh, don't know if that really counts tho' :D

Honestly, it depends on the situation. I know I'm happy when I get this feeling that starts at the bottom of my tummy and works its way onto my face... then I smile and run about like a sugar crazed maniac. I like being happy.... wait, that could be hyper.

Heck, I guess if I was happy right now I could tell ya better.

I know I'm happy when I see my friends smile and are happy ^^

Happiness, what a word....I suppose the word itself makes us think of a particular emotion, which for me is this warmth spreading from my heart. So when someone asks if you're happy, aren't they really asking if you are getting that feeling or something like it? So technically you can't delude yourself about your own happiness, because emotions don't require you to think; they just happen....of course emotions are still controlled by your mind, but then again, what isn't?

To me, happy is when i don't have a single worry in my mind - i can just do the daily routines and leisures without worrying what will happen in the future or the next day at least. at the end of the day you go home and retire for the evening and night.

Happiness is when I feel content, and I stop questioning the world, worrying about the world, and just..Im content. Im happy with my life.

  • Keltosh
  • Retired Moderator
  • 4y 12wk ago

i'm happy when i have no stress..
i live a stressful life.. so when i can relax fromit, it's the best

you're happy when you don't have much worries, when you think you achieved your goals but also we after achieving some goals we choose others so we will only be happy temporarily!
My happiness is only a shorttimed feeling cause I'm happy when I just saw a movie I liked or a friend I made, stuff like that! I think I will only be truly happy when I find my true love and make her mine!
And hapinness is very diferent from person to person, some ppl are happy by appleasing other ppl, others by completing games, etc!!
Find your true happiness and you surely won't feel like you do anymore!!

I don´t know....I guess I stopped wondering that at some time....but...I don´t know I´m happy...but I hope I am...

when u know ur happy u will just know.. because its like all your worries and problems just dissapear, you dont think about anyting that bothers u and you just go out and have fun..

when i'm really hapy with something i can't say any word

Quote by snarzzI don´t know....I guess I stopped wondering that at some time....but...I don´t know I´m happy...but I hope I am...

haha your more confused then happy!

actually having everything sometimes makes you unhappy you know. the whole process is what makes you happy. you work for something and when you get it you obviously get it because you deserved it. then you will know when your happy.

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