hey i'm having trouble trying to flirt to girls and i'd like some either ideas or tips in how to do it.

(i don't care if your a girl just tell how you'd do it to a guy)

so any help would be appreciated

first and foremost, be confident!
humour is always good

a compliment to start would be good ^__~
jus dun overdo the amount of compliments

timing is good thing to keep in mind too...
u dun wanna go up to a girl at a bad time lol ^__^

booodddy language sometimes tells jus as much as words
smile smile smile! ^__^

u jus wanna say short n sweet things
try to spark the girls interest,
and then get her to do most of the talkin ^___~
of course, u still wanna make sure ur the one in control of the convo and she jus doesnt go blabbin off lol

and at the end always try to be the one to end it
u wanna try to finish it off on a high note
and leave the convo sort of "unifinished" to get her to be thinkin bout u even after its ended

and remember, confidence! ^___~

Is a girl asking the question?
if it is a guy then you are in the same position as me.....
Ow im sorry i already see your a guy....
well you need a lot of help but check thread how do you get a girlfriend?...
it has a lot of tips however it seems i cant really put those tips in good use...
If people need help i shall help them or else i let other people help you...
Hahaha.....

You can make them pay attention to you by doing crazy things,If u have some sence of humor you can make them laugh but if u don't i Will give u more advice later

I AM FREAKIN AWESOME!

you walk up to the girl and give her a bow and say "Madame, please, you must be lost, May I be of assistance?" She will say either yes or no. If she says yes, then say, "Theres a party in my pants, thatll get you somewhere!" and if she says no, just start walking away, turn fast and flash her! Thatll get you any women in the world.
Or ya, just be confident and always keep asking questions and compliemnting, but not too much. use common sense and instinct and throw in some jokes/humor and random thoughts.

I'm pretty good, but not that great. All I do is be Mr. funny man when the time comes.

first smile then say "nenk ewe"

humor is the main key, and compliments and attention and such are nice things time and time, but don't overdew it too much XP

the biggest tip anyone can give you is this.

HAVE FUN!

do't try to impress the girl, she doesn't need you to show her how great u are, you're sweating how wonderful you are everytime you talk to her, or look into her eyes.

she wants you to drop your shield, and hold her, she wants you to sweep her off her feet. she wants to be euphoric, ecstatic, wanted, needed, enjoyed. she wants to feel sexy, she wants to feel alive.

everyone's different, but for me, i've never ever, complimented a girl. They know if i like something about them from the way I'm interested about whatever it is. They know that I enjoy their company from the sparkle in my eyes when I see them. And they know that they hafta keep working for my attention and my love or I'll just as easily enjoy someone elses company.

It's not about being disloyal or anything, it's about not being needy. Most girls will tell you that she prefers a player who chose to be with her above all those girls over a needy guy who desperately clings on to her.

am I right?

hey, just try to be yourself. That is the important thing. Even then, getting the opposite sex is different for every person.

Me? I just do stuff that would be fun. Don't really flirt but try to enjoy their company.

I don't flirt because I have a bf now soooooo... yeah

i recently found out that i do it without knowing it.
btw is complimenting a girl flirting?
the only tip i can give you is to just be honest with her

be humurous

^all that neede to be said

I agree.. Be humorous... Most of all, be natural. Know what kinda girl she is, sometimes the 'noisy' types are easier than the quite type. But, the quite type are those that you'd bring home to 'ma.. I think it's more fun to flirt with those quite ones.. just my opinion..

I must agre with nemu-ii, the quite type are the one's that you want to spend your time with. But getting them is the hard part! So everybody has great advivce, but the key is to keep you distance and see what you can learn from her, her character! If you like what you see and you think you can have a conversation then go for it! Then be yourself and confident. Humor has a great part, but not to much! Oh choose carefully what you want to talk about, that is 1 thing you MUST keep in mind!

flirting not really.

If its with girls that your already friends with, tease em. If it's a girl that you don't know very well and that doesn't know you, DO NOT start with a pick up line (those are only for joking around, they don't work [except for maybe "fat penguins" (cause you needed something to break the ice with )]).

yah...i'd tease somebody i know...i don't go with strangers lol :p

hmm just be yourself ^^
normally flirting will naturally happen without you realising, therefore you shouldnt really be thinking, how do you do it? also if youre thinking too hard about flirting it'll show and look unnatural and strange

I don't flirt. At least, I don't think about it if I do flirt.
Generally it's easiest just to talk to someone, and if you like him/her, you like him/her.

Lol, of course, everyone hate fake people. But it's nice to be complimentary to the opposite person.

Hmm, I'm a terrible flirt, although I find that when I let go and stop being self-concious, people say I'm pretty good.

I really like ajb's advice, make the conversation so that she does most of the talking because then you know you've created interest.