I dun really agree to let people doing sex at a very young age. That's y many
nations put a minimum limit bar for having sex (it's even illegal to have sex
with someone below 18 years old in US, if I'm not mistaken, rite?). Cuz USUALLY
(not always, I know), they still dun know how to b responsible for what they're
doing.
But in this case, I can only say that it's her choice. It's her life.
If I have a daughter, I will forbid her to do such things.
Heck, I don't think twelve year olds should even know what sex is! What's
happened to our childhood? When did life become about how much smut you get as
the youngest age? Innocence is dead when eight years get pregneant and parents
sue over a friendly childhood hug.
I honestly think there's a good reason by having the legal limit at 16. At least
if there's a mistake, the body can sort of handle a baby at 16. But I think its
kind of disgusting to see anyone under 15 having sex, as you're not nearly
mature enough for the troubles it can cause. I was one who waited until I was 17
to lose my virginity and I wasn't pressured and didn't really care about whether
kids teased me or not at school. In fact, by ignoring it, they liked me all the
better. But seriously, its just wrong to have sex that young. Girl's should
learn better.
I haven't lost my virginity... and I'm 21, so...
I was still playing with my dolls when I was 12, but I don't know how was your
friend's hildhood. Anyway, I still think it was too early to do that, I mean,
What's the hurry?
what 12 years?.. that's totaly a lie... lol..
or sorry to say this.. if that's true she is a hor...
anyway you should be telling ur best friend things through internet.. you are making ur friends secrets public and i don't think she would like
that lol
well, geez, that's kinda a young age to be having sex. 12 years old? and
depending on who she had sex with it could be considered stat rape in the
states. that's distrubing to have a 12 year old doing the jack nasty, but....
....its a bit inevitable. for most
people, anyways, not all but most. i hate to be the one that says sex is just
sex because its not and please dont think that's the message im trying to state
because it's not. but think about it a little? somewhere in their life, people
are going to do the deed; be it after
marriage or before it. its going to happen. so what's now to later? if she
wanted to, and obviously she did, have sex now then that's her decision. if she
feels she can cope with the emotional side effects of having sex at that young
of an age, then who's to stop her? if she doesnt do it now then she's going to
do it later but point of the story is....she's going to do it. though i do
prefer an older age because that's a bit more accpetable. my personal
oppinion.
im also very well acquainted with the argument that one should wait to have sex
after marriage because that's the greatest gift to give to your supposed lover. but reality check, some
marriages last while other last has long as a burning candle in the middle of a
hurricane. recent stats have shown that there has been an increase in divorces
over they years. oops, i guess you weren't the one afterall.
Woah, that quote of wald89s is fucked up. You were horny and/or drunk at the age
of 12? Thats...pathetic, entirely and truely pathetic. It doesn't depend on the
circumstance, its just plain wrong, and if you can't recognize that or refuse to
do so, than you yourself have some inate thing that is wrong with you. Don't you
understand? Human beings weren't created even to have sex as pre-teens, theres a
reason you have puberty, after puberty it is alright (in terms of evolutionary
life time) to have sex because than your body is prepared for it, to procreate,
reproduce, have children, whatever you want to call it, ya? So yes, wald89 AND
ANYONE WHO THINKS LIKE THAT I am calling you out as fucked up psychopaths who
need help, immediately. Infact, the moment you read this, go get help. If you
don't understand/refuse to comprehend that human beings were not made for that
and morally should not have sex under the age of 13, you need to get a few
things checked out before you rejoin society.
~death
That's just sad ....I
don't even know what to say about that... If people don't want to wait and make
it special then that's their problem but at the age of 12! COME ON!...What's
wrong with girls these days, at that young of age, do your parents not care
about you or do you not care about yourself? Sex is pleasurable and fine to have
but when your OLDER and with someone you really care for, not when your that
young you would have to be a complete R-Tard to behave like that. Sorry...I just
don't understand it makes me......
Quote: what 12 years?.. that's
totaly a lie... lol..
or sorry to say this.. if that's true she is a hor...
anyway you should be telling ur best friend things through internet.. you are making ur friends secrets public and i don't think she would like
that lol
Don't think so....
Last time I went out a kid (-8years old) told me:
Wanna have sex ?
Lol. I know he was jokin but........come on....
there's a girl n a boy in my high school, they're 15th n almost did it at skool.
the teacher knew it n after that their friends ignore them as friends.
I mean... I think some people who are too young shouldn't do it.. but it's not
a-- you can't do it before this age type thing.... because it is up to that
person. In some cultures.. people can have kids really early. It all depends on
the background and circumstance. So I think if they have already done it-- then
there is nothing they can change about it. You could say it's bad when she tells
you. But I don't think she'll appreciate you telling everyone on the internet
about it ><"
At the same time, personally, I don't plan on having sex anytime soon, but if
other people think they've found the right person then... well it's up to them.
Still, I'm a firm believer in the ideal that the first time should at least be
with someone you care about. Having sex isn't the same as dating... the first
time you have sex isn't a practise for the next time you do it.
wow at 12 O.O the age i am? well that is too young but nobody could stop her it
is her own choice well everyone is different and im not judging but if it was
for me i would say NO way too young and thats that
kids these days, damn they keep on getting worse and worse, soon enough the way
things are going its going to turn into "A Brave New World" lol,
Honestly i really don't think 12 year olds can comprehend what they're really
doing and the risk she would be taking, lol not to sound like a abstense nazi
but she could really screw over her entire life for that one time, just image if
she got pregnant, she'd be done unless she gave it up for adoption then she'd
screw over that kid's life also. 12 year olds shouldn't have to think or make
choices like that, they should remain blissfully ignorant and enjoy growing up
slowly.
Gloria, you dissapoint me, here I was, thinking, due to reading previous posts,
that you weren't all that illogical. It's ok to have sex just not ok to get
pregnant at 15? Sex was made to reproduce, not to have fun. It is not there to
give you an entertaining work out, despite what many these days believe. People
are getting much more stupid as children these days, doing things they will
later regret without hesitation, and until they have time to reflect upon what
they have really done in full earnesty, they pat themselves on the back for it.
15 year olds, and most teenage people, cannot comprehend what it actually means
to have sex at that age, other than the fact that your parents don't want you to
and your told not to, so you need to do it.
Sure, sure, there are those that are smart enough to understand the concept of
sex in all its actuallity, but those people aren't the ones having sex. They're
the ones in school doing good so that when it comes time to have sex and get in
a serious relationship (not barely teen flings) they will be able to do things
fancy and romanticly. You won't have a serious relationship at 15. You won't.
Think you will? SHUT UP AND SIT DOWN KID! Come to grasp with reality and
understand whats going on for the love of any god, yours or mine.
If you want to arguee against this with me, be my guest, it gets rather dull
reading some of the other emo posts in this forum branch. After all, when its
damn near the same subject - love - all the time, it gets boring to answer the
same question all the time, than step back and realize that no matter whats
done, the cycle will repeat its self for many more times to come.
this is more shocking than what happened to your friend:
Girl pregnant at 9!
Discuss here: http://forum.minitokyo.net/thread/55639/girl-9-six-months-pregnant/
I dun really agree to let people doing sex at a very young age. That's y many nations put a minimum limit bar for having sex (it's even illegal to have sex with someone below 18 years old in US, if I'm not mistaken, rite?). Cuz USUALLY (not always, I know), they still dun know how to b responsible for what they're doing.
But in this case, I can only say that it's her choice. It's her life.
If I have a daughter, I will forbid her to do such things.
Heck, I don't think twelve year olds should even know what sex is! What's happened to our childhood? When did life become about how much smut you get as the youngest age? Innocence is dead when eight years get pregneant and parents sue over a friendly childhood hug.
I argee....but u now Chronoz...it isn't only in US....even in Italy it's forbid...but it forbid when u r +18..he wasn't so...
It's the same as a dog, just come make love and then leave with no regret. Man what a pain....
I honestly think there's a good reason by having the legal limit at 16. At least if there's a mistake, the body can sort of handle a baby at 16. But I think its kind of disgusting to see anyone under 15 having sex, as you're not nearly mature enough for the troubles it can cause. I was one who waited until I was 17 to lose my virginity and I wasn't pressured and didn't really care about whether kids teased me or not at school. In fact, by ignoring it, they liked me all the better. But seriously, its just wrong to have sex that young. Girl's should learn better.
I haven't lost my virginity... and I'm 21, so...
I was still playing with my dolls when I was 12, but I don't know how was your friend's hildhood. Anyway, I still think it was too early to do that, I mean, What's the hurry?
what 12 years?.. that's totaly a lie... lol..
you are making ur friends secrets public and i don't think she would like
that lol
or sorry to say this.. if that's true she is a hor...
anyway you should be telling ur best friend things through internet..
well, geez, that's kinda a young age to be having sex. 12 years old? and depending on who she had sex with it could be considered stat rape in the states. that's distrubing to have a 12 year old doing the jack nasty, but....
....its a bit inevitable. for most people, anyways, not all but most. i hate to be the one that says sex is just sex because its not and please dont think that's the message im trying to state because it's not. but think about it a little? somewhere in their life, people are going to do the deed; be it after marriage or before it. its going to happen. so what's now to later? if she wanted to, and obviously she did, have sex now then that's her decision. if she feels she can cope with the emotional side effects of having sex at that young of an age, then who's to stop her? if she doesnt do it now then she's going to do it later but point of the story is....she's going to do it. though i do prefer an older age because that's a bit more accpetable. my personal oppinion.
im also very well acquainted with the argument that one should wait to have sex after marriage because that's the greatest gift to give to your supposed lover. but reality check, some marriages last while other last has long as a burning candle in the middle of a hurricane. recent stats have shown that there has been an increase in divorces over they years. oops, i guess you weren't the one afterall.
One word: monastery. Think about it.
Yeah, it really depends on the circumstance
Woah, that quote of wald89s is fucked up. You were horny and/or drunk at the age of 12? Thats...pathetic, entirely and truely pathetic. It doesn't depend on the circumstance, its just plain wrong, and if you can't recognize that or refuse to do so, than you yourself have some inate thing that is wrong with you. Don't you understand? Human beings weren't created even to have sex as pre-teens, theres a reason you have puberty, after puberty it is alright (in terms of evolutionary life time) to have sex because than your body is prepared for it, to procreate, reproduce, have children, whatever you want to call it, ya? So yes, wald89 AND ANYONE WHO THINKS LIKE THAT I am calling you out as fucked up psychopaths who need help, immediately. Infact, the moment you read this, go get help. If you don't understand/refuse to comprehend that human beings were not made for that and morally should not have sex under the age of 13, you need to get a few things checked out before you rejoin society.
~death
hahaha. that's why i said some not all
;]
That's just sad
....I
don't even know what to say about that... If people don't want to wait and make
it special then that's their problem but at the age of 12! COME ON!...What's
wrong with girls these days, at that young of age, do your parents not care
about you or do you not care about yourself? Sex is pleasurable and fine to have
but when your OLDER and with someone you really care for, not when your that
young you would have to be a complete R-Tard to behave like that. Sorry...I just
don't understand it makes me...... 
Don't think so....
Last time I went out a kid (-8years old) told me:
Wanna have sex ?
Lol. I know he was jokin but........come on....
Hell yeah...that happens...
But you know, how "kids" are these days...hitchhiking...running away from home...not obeying their parents...
And just sexually curious about the opposite gender.
there's a girl n a boy in my high school, they're 15th n almost did it at skool. the teacher knew it n after that their friends ignore them as friends.
i think sex before going adult is a STUPIDITY.
I mean... I think some people who are too young shouldn't do it.. but it's not a-- you can't do it before this age type thing.... because it is up to that person. In some cultures.. people can have kids really early. It all depends on the background and circumstance. So I think if they have already done it-- then there is nothing they can change about it. You could say it's bad when she tells you. But I don't think she'll appreciate you telling everyone on the internet about it ><"
At the same time, personally, I don't plan on having sex anytime soon, but if other people think they've found the right person then... well it's up to them. Still, I'm a firm believer in the ideal that the first time should at least be with someone you care about. Having sex isn't the same as dating... the first time you have sex isn't a practise for the next time you do it.
15 is ok but only for sex, NOT for pregnancy.
KIDS that have sex are just stupid, they don't eve trully know what they are doing. Don't give me tha sxxt
Some people think that the first time must be with a stranger, i understand them but i don't know if it is the right thing.
I don't give a fxxk 4 morality or religion but like i said....i dunno anymore
wow at 12 O.O the age i am? well that is too young but nobody could stop her it is her own choice well everyone is different and im not judging but if it was for me i would say NO way too young and thats that
kids these days, damn they keep on getting worse and worse, soon enough the way things are going its going to turn into "A Brave New World" lol, Honestly i really don't think 12 year olds can comprehend what they're really doing and the risk she would be taking, lol not to sound like a abstense nazi but she could really screw over her entire life for that one time, just image if she got pregnant, she'd be done unless she gave it up for adoption then she'd screw over that kid's life also. 12 year olds shouldn't have to think or make choices like that, they should remain blissfully ignorant and enjoy growing up slowly.
Don't think about getting pregnant, that thing is ALWAYS bad if you're not married.
Just think about her body.......
Thats just freakin stupic
Gloria, you dissapoint me, here I was, thinking, due to reading previous posts, that you weren't all that illogical. It's ok to have sex just not ok to get pregnant at 15? Sex was made to reproduce, not to have fun. It is not there to give you an entertaining work out, despite what many these days believe. People are getting much more stupid as children these days, doing things they will later regret without hesitation, and until they have time to reflect upon what they have really done in full earnesty, they pat themselves on the back for it. 15 year olds, and most teenage people, cannot comprehend what it actually means to have sex at that age, other than the fact that your parents don't want you to and your told not to, so you need to do it.
Sure, sure, there are those that are smart enough to understand the concept of sex in all its actuallity, but those people aren't the ones having sex. They're the ones in school doing good so that when it comes time to have sex and get in a serious relationship (not barely teen flings) they will be able to do things fancy and romanticly. You won't have a serious relationship at 15. You won't. Think you will? SHUT UP AND SIT DOWN KID! Come to grasp with reality and understand whats going on for the love of any god, yours or mine.
If you want to arguee against this with me, be my guest, it gets rather dull reading some of the other emo posts in this forum branch. After all, when its damn near the same subject - love - all the time, it gets boring to answer the same question all the time, than step back and realize that no matter whats done, the cycle will repeat its self for many more times to come.