so you flirt woth a girl you know all the time. Every time you see her you guys spend time laughing and having fun. But you are not sure if she likes you or if she just thinks you are a really cool person.you really like her and want to ask her out but you really do not want to stop being able to talk to her if she says no and it gets awkward. What should i do?

I'm in somewhat of the same perdicamit. I would wait for a surw sign, or you can just ask her one of the following: 1. What do you think of me? or 2. Would you ever go out with me? Ask questions to figure out wether or not she thinks of you like a boyfriend.

It depends. There are a lot of ways to go about it. You can come right out and ask or you can wait until you feel like the time is right to ask. Waiting is a tough route to take, but if you're not sure its the safest way to go. Sometimes, its just a matter of interpreting the signs. Being that you are friends, if you pay close enough attention you can tell by the way she acts around you whether or not she likes you or might be open to the idea of taking the relationship a little further.

Subtlety and atmosphere are very important if you're going to ask her out. Most likely its going to take her by suprise so you want to make sure that you don't give her any reason to feel uncomfortable or put off by it. Her feelings are just as important, if not more than yours. Try doing something that she really likes and slowly ease your way into the conversation.

Whats more important than anything is that regardless of how she responds, you both remember that you are friends. There are a lot of things that can get in the way of a good friendship, but caring about each other isn't one of them. Rejection can be difficult, but in time the awkwardness, if there is any, will pass and you things will gradually get better.

Well, I'd say test the waters. Write a note to her or something, saying that you think she's a very interesting person. Make it short and simple, but with a lot of passion, in the word "interesting". If she writes a note back to you, and it's meaningless, I'd say move on. She's not worth your time.

Quote by ninasun100Well, I'd say test the waters. Write a note to her or something, saying that you think she's a very interesting person. Make it short and simple, but with a lot of passion, in the word "interesting". If she writes a note back to you, and it's meaningless, I'd say move on. She's not worth your time.

Well if you are already friends with the girl, I think its beyond the, "I think you are a very interesting person" angle. I mean there's no harm in writing the note, in my experience girls really like that type of thing.

Sometimes the best way to go about testing the waters is by gradually becoming more affectionate towards her. If she likes you and she sees that you genuinely care, she'll be more inclined to return the affection. If you take the cautious path, the best thing to do is give it some time.

yeah cause i already flirt with her and we are friendly toward each other. waters tested. and asking if "you would ever go out with me" to see if she likes me like that is kinda givin it away dude. i mean seriously. cause if she wouldn't, it might be weird after that.

whats up, long time no talk, so anyway, you should just go for it, and if she says no then just act like it never happened. what happened to the not caring about anything the great "BN". lol

the great BN is nervous damnit! huh. that cannot be right. got to find my inner asshole again lol

Lol...

I think just ask her out "as a friend". But make it 1-1. Don't make it sound like its going to be a date. But take her somewhere exotic that she would never have gone before. Or simply somewhere you find very fun. Rinse and repeat the above steps until you feel comfortable enough to tell her you like her. It'll happen eventually. Or you would have enough courage to make that step then.

cardmage sounds like your going to mislead her, so its better to be straight forward. pfff, today is PN's day off, when is BN's day off, then the ultimate asshole could be born again. lol, oh and dude i think girls like dudes that are straight forward, don't caword around by misleading her. pffff, i think, don't know, no one really understands girls. lol

Ouch no one ever understand girls ><"... I guess this is a guy forum :P

sorry, not what i meant. lol well most guys don't understand girls.

hahaha... lol anyway... I would say just ask her out... ^____^ an easy way if you guyz are friends would be to ask one of her girlfriends to see if she like anyone ><" is that too high schooL? lol... yeah.. not much life experience here hehe

oh, toesy also thinks you should be straightforward, so go for it BN,

BN and PN fear NOTHING. mwuahahahahahahahaha.

i dunno if this post would effect you .........but if you do really want it really bad to ask her out then give it a shot and if it's yes or no you can deal with it because she can still be your friend no matter what ....if she really is it won't be too awkward

Yeah. Um Thanks i Guess. It was cool having some opposing veiws on this i went for straight up kinda we went out today. i am good now. peace MT

omg this must be hard neh? it reminds me! though but i keep on denaing it ^^ i got an idea ask a super kool friend to ask that person whether she likes u or not then u ask ur friend to tell u if yes then go for it tiger ^^' if no just keep ur feelings to ur self ^^ hope that helps ^^'

I would tell her how you really feel. Eventually your gonna say it, and It will be better to say it on your own terms instead of maybe letting it out when its least appropriate