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What do you look for in a special someone?

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I would like to know what you people look for in a boyfriend or girlfriend.

I look for appearance, personality, skill, and many other things:

She's gotta be cute, beautiful, close to my height, upbeat, helpful, nice, funny, honest, always by my side, and smart. There's a lot more, but the words jsut aren't coming to my mind yet.

I'm very, very, very specific when it comes to what kind of girl is right for me, so it becomes really hard to find a girlfriend. Only one person has fit everything, yet she's not ready to have a boyfriend yet. I realize that some people may think i'm looking for too much in a girl, but I think otherwise. My future girlfriend has got to be perfect. Hopefully, things go well for my crush.

But back to the point of this thread: What do you people look for in a boyfriend or girlfriend?

Trust, Strength, Intelligence, Fitness ---> lol sounds more like building up a game character. But I have my reasons for them. Hawhawhaw

Do you know Abel Nightroad? ^^

Like him, a person is so dearly, strong but with kindness.

she must be good looking, stong, kind, nice, tall and perhaps intelligent? She must has some skills or perhaps have high education!

seems too hard to find someone who fulfills all the requirments.

i look for personality and the pure of her heart

Once, my best friend told me that if i am as "picky" as i am when it comes to finding the right girl, i'll never find anyone. XD

Quote by ShadowOchibiI would like to know what you people look for in a boyfriend or girlfriend.

I look for appearance, personality, skill, and many other things:

She's gotta be cute, beautiful, close to my height, upbeat, helpful, nice, funny, honest, always by my side, and smart. There's a lot more, but the words jsut aren't coming to my mind yet.

Yeah I agree, that's pretty much what I look for too.

Quote: Once, my best friend told me that if i am as "picky" as i am when it comes to finding the right girl, i'll never find anyone. XD


You'll NEVER find someone! Rawrrr XD Hehe.
Just kidding.

What I look for in him/her:
Doesn't necessarily has to be handsome or pretty.
Smart
Honest
Trustworthy
Helpful would be nice
Nice
And some other ones I might've forget. Hehe

Quote: Trust, Strength, Intelligence, Fitness ---> lol sounds more like building up a game character. But I have my reasons for them. Hawhawhaw


Stop building game characters!

I'm bored... if no one noticed...

If you wonder why I put he/she I am bi, okay...

Besides being nice, honest, funny, generous, faithful, etc....the basics, my boyfriend has to:

1. Be as big a sci-fi/fantasy fan as I am, or more.
2. Love sports. He doesn't have to actively play sports, but he has to at least watch them on TV.
3. Love theatre.

These things are a big part of my life, so it'd be better if he could share in them.

Lemme just say this: in choosing a parter, you should choose someone who has enough similarities so you'll always have common ground and yet enough differences to keep things interesting.

Anyway, here are the qualities i look for:
1. Intelligent
2. Cheerful
3. Has a good sense of humor
4. Honest
5. 'Pleasing to the eye' hehehe

All the boy's I have liked before have a lot in common.. they're all dorks. I love dorky boys! I definitely want a guy who's serious about his education. He should like books because I LOVEEE books! Besides the usual wanted qualities for a boyfriend, I just want him to be able to go with my flow. I adapt easily so I don't want to change for the guy.

he must be gorgeous, samrt, mysterious, lil bit naughty, hot, sometimes romantic, care, etc

My ideal gf is pretty etc ... but if u think about what position am i in to ask for that much? i reckon to put all those requirements is like saying "i'm perfect" and a pure heart? that dun exist! there only ppl who are more optimistic. Those who always smile are probably hiding thier true feelings. But never the less i want a pretty gf who can connect with me! <hey i am a guy after all!>

hmm for me XD heres:

doesnt really have to be handsome (but preferrably yesh :3)
smart
has common sense
kind
forgiving
doesnt have a temper
sweet
loving
loyal
a good listener
helpful
has the same interest as me ^^;;

and i think thats about it ^^
main thing is the fact that we get along well ^^;;

1. she must be loyal beyond question
2. smart but in a different subject than I am
3. reasonably cute (although she can be a supermodel if she wants)
4. good a kicking and screaming (so she can keep from getting molested if someone attacks her)
5. the more insane the better (ex imaginary friends, scared of harmless objects, paranoia, multiple personalities...ect)
6. loving (although she can despise humanity as long as she loves me)

You know Naruto right?Well I want a guy like him.

Loyalty; Devotion; Willingness and understanding

he must...

1. wear glasses.
2. be extremely lame and can take my lame jokes etc.
3. play a musical instrument [preferably piano, cello or violin.]
4. watches anime and reads manga.
5. smart. [well, reasonably smart. doesn't have to be in gifted, lol.]
6. good listener.
7. sweet and caring.

oh wait. this sounds just like one of my guy friends... -.-"

apparently, even though there are differences, pretty much all of us find certain qualities important.

man i'm pissed, but happy, but depressed, yet i'm worried. like wtf?
a good friend and neighbor of mine told me that two weeks ago, he saw the girl who i like, hanging with some guy friend who she hangs with in school a lot. I'm pissed that she's with him and not me, but i do feel happy for her that she might have a boyfriend. However, i'm depressed that if they are having a relationship, i'm going to be on my own the rest of my life. and this worries me, too.

I've got serious problems, both in my life, and problems with my head.

If she's taken, there are others. Hakuna Matata.

Well, someone who loves me back... and that he'd be taller than me haha. Smart (but not the cocky type), nice, romantic, strong enough to defend me, kinda jealous and that makes me laugh.

Quote by AldenIf she's taken, there are others. Hakuna Matata.

eh... for me? not likely... it's like looking for a snowflake in a blizzard. There may be many snowflakes, but each snowflake is different and only one is the design i'm looking for.

There may be many girls, but only one has all the qualities i'm looking for. If i fail here, i don't see any point for me ever trying elsewhere for others. one important thing that my girlfriend and i would need to have is trust, and it takes months to get that trust and years to fortify that trust. It'd take even longer if it's outside of school, because school just has a different kind of socializing environment than outside on the streets.

my ideal girl would definately be someone who likes manga as much as me and probably h8s the naruto english dubbers as much as me^^ she was to be reasonably alright looking and she has to be trust worthy and most of all understanding, bad experience with living with a mother whos NOT understanding, im hoping that shes reasonably smart and can draw.
well basically an average girl whos alright looking, trust worthy and likes manga!

Sometimes I think I'm too picky.X3
Well,my ideal boyfriend would be a nice looking boy,can make me laugh,who I can trust,who will stay at my side,cares for others,not easily jealous,understanding,reasonable and a few more I can't get up with at the moment.It doesn't really matter to me if he likes anime/manga or not.It would be fun if he did,but he needs to have his own interests too,I'm a very curious person sometimes so I want to hear anything about his interests too.X3
Plus he does need to have at least a bit of brains,lol.
Well,yeah,like I said,I'm probably too picky or I'm just looking at the wrong places. But one day I will find him for sure.^-^
~Kitsy~

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