how many girls or guys you have dated until now ?
for me although i know many girls but i didn't date anyone yet

till now i've dated many, about five. but just that: date

Uh... I lost count.

Two, but only strictly in that sense, like DarkChronos.

I also know many friends and guy yet also never dated one before... Erm may i knw if dating someone means you like that person?

i think so. you don't date someone if you aren't interested in him (or her )

I'm with my first love right now. ^^' the first person I actually dated.

i hope you continue all your live with here because i hate broke ups toooooooooo much

Dates, that's one of all that social stuff I never did. I supose someday I'll have to meet someone.

More than 3 less than 6. Now I'm tryin to find a girl, that I can just be with.

rrrr....mmm...I haven't dated anyone yet....

I've never dated anyone before... is it possible to describe it in a few words? i want to know what it's like without digging into people's personal lives.

I never dated before. I'm twenty right now. So, I'm old and people will find it creepy if an old guy dated.

17, havent had much interaction with women in general. I'm stuck in a unisex high school and dont place forth any effort to go out and try to find a girl. The reason being, I want to go through school first and secure my identity and sanity before I give myself away to another person. I'd love there to be a special lady in my life, but priorities are priorities and i've plenty of shit I want to - no need to do before i'm bound to someone.

There are different types of people in the world, so you can't tell things about people just from how many people they have gone out on a date with. You aren't a slut if you chose the "more" option and you aren't "gay" if you chose...wtf!? Wheres the "0" button? Whatever, I'll work with what I got...
There are many different types of people when it comes to this, but there are two basic types:
Those that wait till after schooling and when they have a sustainable way of living, such as Sneakyjoe and those that live life for the moment and will date anyone they care to, even on a whim.
Is it necessarily bad to be one or the other? That's up to personal opinion. I'm not going to release any information about "romantical interests" because I don't really feel like it. (If someone tries to drag meaning out of this...just please do, I need something more to post on, the day goes by slowly without much to do. Sure, theres no hidden meaning, but for the love of all that is holy, I'd like to procrastinate my chores and such for another day/time)

I'm the second of your so called basic types but the latter won't happen so I don't fit the bill you.
So, that means there are three types.

Quote by DeathbonewitchThere are different types of people in the world, so you can't tell things about people just from how many people they have gone out on a date with. You aren't a slut if you chose the "more" option and you aren't "gay" if you chose...wtf!? Wheres the "0" button? Whatever, I'll work with what I got...
There are many different types of people when it comes to this, but there are two basic types:
Those that wait till after schooling and when they have a sustainable way of living, such as Sneakyjoe and those that live life for the moment and will date anyone they care to, even on a whim.
Is it necessarily bad to be one or the other? That's up to personal opinion. I'm not going to release any information about "romantical interests" because I don't really feel like it. (If someone tries to drag meaning out of this...just please do, I need something more to post on, the day goes by slowly without much to do. Sure, theres no hidden meaning, but for the love of all that is holy, I'd like to procrastinate my chores and such for another day/time)

There are a number of people with which I have spoken in regards to topics similar to this, and the general consensus remains - you don't find love, it finds you. Now, one issue you raise is the social perception of one's own actions based on the experience of the curious onlooker rather than those of the person with the direct connection to the events at hand.

On a more personal level, I have gone out with 3 people in my (relatively short, compared to many on these forums) lifetime, including the young woman who I am currently dating, although I do expect to end it in the next few days. I don't go out looking for a relationship, it is usually something that just happens. Similar to Sneakyjoe, as my scholastic ventures progress, I hope to find myself in a situation where I am more certain of my plans, rather than just waiting for something to happen.

And Deathbone, while I doubt you need the comparison, I will attempt to portray the two extreme ends of this relationship spectrum, just to give you more of an idea who I am (If you haven't figured it out yet).

I think it is clear, living her life of spontaneity, that Mindy (Dragonia) would fall into the category of someone who gets into a relationship expecting no long-term attachment, no platonic love, or any genuine emotion. While I have no problem with this, I do find it sad that she has come to stooping to such a level of self-degradation to draw attention to herself.

Sneakyjoe, sitting pretty at the other end of this theoretical spectrum, is a good example of someone who has matured beyond the accepted social norm, and rather than be a victim of the wonderful teenage stereotype we have all grown to know and love, finds a way to prioritize in a realistic manner, rather than that of the idealistic morons who generally (I don't like to use that word, but I do find it necessary to throw out there every once in a while) troll these forums with no other intent than to simply spark drama.

And to anyone who wishes to attempt to derail this thread, or speak ill of any poster in it (Deathbone, if you don't realize who I am by now, this will resolve that issue):

Understand that this moment will be fleeting, and that there is a hard crash of self-esteem to follow. You'll try to feed it again, and fill the void, but it will never be enough.

You've backpeddled into the troll excuse. You have no point. You have no meaning. You have no significance.

You will be forgotten.

Godspeed.

Godspeed, Tseric.
~Jily

I don't think i fit into any category. I have dated 3 guys and when i say dated i mean have actually gone places with etc not just randomly kissing people. In these cases i didn't go into these relationships thinking that they were not going to be long term. I also care a lot about my school work, so i balance the two out. I believe that if you are happy with having a relationship, that is a meaningful relationship, while still studying it can help you reach your best. And things don't always work out but at least you shared some thing special.

Um...I have never dated anyone...But maybe I'm a bit young for that...Lol.XD
I'm 16 btw,if you wanted to know.XD

That's not really that young. You are getting old enough or should be getting mature enough to understand and appreciate a meaningful relationship.

Yes. 16 is old enough for dating. If your 20 like me and still single, you might as well give up cuz its not gonna get any better. Well, if your situation is like mine.

*Stabs myself* Kidding.

Dated... 4 guys including the one I'm with and had sex with 4... although one was long distance.. so it was a one nighter -ashamed-

Never dated in my life...affects my studies or more accurately they think I'm weird... or maybe I'm just scary..XD