The question is on the topic. how do you handle it? say if your mother, sister, girlfriend and so on is in bad mood or moodie.. how do make to cheer them up. my friend got this problem when comes to her mother.. help her by giving the solution for it since i can't help it.

This "friend" wouldn't happen to be "you" would it

Quote by saikusaThis "friend" wouldn't happen to be "you" would it

Putting that aside, I'd say take her out shopping or something, or buy her a present, that would make her happy again^^
Even I cheer up when someone buys me something, even though I'm practically always in a 'just out of bed, so stay away from me' mood Those little things make u happy again, really
So if it works on me, it's bound to be a success on your friends mom
Good luck!

It helps if you can figure out why they are in a bad mood. Then you could try to help. But if you can't, you can always try helping out around the house. "No man has ever been killed while doing the dishes"

Dump some ice cold water on them. It may not help lighten their mood but at least you'll know why they are irritated.
Ahem as a side note. If you actually take this advice I remove my self from any responsibility for any bodily harm suffered as a result of actually being that silly.

Nah, be nice, be kind and try to find out what the problem is. Another note this will not help you if you have forgotten say a birthday or anniversary.

well when my mother gets in a bad mood I just tell her it's going to be alright, it could always be worst and in the end everything will work out...it just takes time for someone to heal from whatever ills them it shouldn't be rushed...but being there and listening to their rank/reasoning behind the mood then chances are things will be back to normal in no time

when my mom gets in a bad mood, it's usually not my fault. so i don't have to deal with it. her anger fades fast anyways.

Mmm.... You should.... Buy her a house... Yeah... That would make her really happy... A palace... Buy her England....

^ lol well, for me cheer her up by giving her jokes *not lame one lol* if her mood is worst, it's better if you leave her away.

That would depend on how reasonable they are about their anger. Finding the source and dealing with it seems like a good option. Using your sense of humor to lessen the anger can also be a good idea, depending on the situation.

I'm surprised, though, that "buying them something" just because they're angry is an option. Maybe I don't understand this because I'm not a girl, but I'd probably get even more angry if someone tried smoothing over my fury by buying me something. I would find it patronizing that people would think my anger can be eutanized through bribery.

okay...i agreee with rika or you can be all love-dovey with them cheer them up in a way but if it was me.....i woudn't do anything because they probably wouldn't tell me ....in all be nice help the girl out...yayyyyyyyy lol

Depends what that person gets like when thy're angry. Some women (or just people in general, really), like to be left alone to cool down and have their own personal space, others like to paid attention to in order to make them feel better. I guess it also depends if she's angry at you or at somone/something else. I suppose if the woman in question is close to you, then it's up to you to judge what the best way to deal with her anger is.

Give them a spontaneous hug. And by spontaneous, I mean hug them and say, "I have to run. Bye!" and run away.

Leave them alone. Let them cool their heads down for awhile. After all, I'm not good at this.

Try to calm them down,if at all possible.
If not,leave them alone until they've cooled down and are ready to talk things over.

well i myself am not very good at calming down any woman, so i would rather i give them some space for them to calm themselves; just leave them be, and they will cool down.

try to have a conversation with them and help them to solve their problems

Trade in the defective model for a more relaxed one. The ones that get sent back go to the glue factory.

Your friend's mom - that phrase looks a little suspicious, isn't it?

But I'm not here to snoop around. So, regarding your

friend's(?) mother, I suggest she vent

her frustrations on something

socially acceptable.

My humble say

on that.

Hold a suit case fill with money and open it in front of them and you'll see their mouth flip 180 degrees.

I think that in the question lays a fault: you're talking about a "woman" or a "girl" in mood feelings!
Why you think that female people are different from male?
They're persons, that's all.
When you ask such a thing, you can answer by yourself: what do YOU like to hear in that moments? What can be told to you?
In a way all people want the same things: to be happy, to be special for s.o., to be far from pain...
Think about it!
OK?

I agree with Northy all the way! Buying people things cannot solve anything. People get upset or angry for reason, so you better try to understand that. Aside that, these aren't women who get like this. Men tend to do the same thing. I've dealt with few of them throwing tantrums like a seven year old boy Using the word "Women" is very bold in my opinion.

What I usually do is, if I get my mother or sister angry, I listen to what they have to say(Believe me guys, the one thing a girl does appreciate from you is if you pay attention to what they say... believe me, saves a load of hassle.), and then SHARING what your problems are. They won't mind listening to you then either, and surprisingly they won't be as angry either, then. Works for me, anyway d^~^

^ lol well, for me cheer her up by giving her jokes *not lame one lol* if her mood is worst, it's better if you leave her away.

yep like that^^