There is nothing wrong with girls who cannot cook. Different cultures have
different ideas about gender appropriate behavior, but in my opinion, we are all
human, first and foremost, and what are considered "acceptable"
behaviors for men and women are usually just arbitrary guidelines that don't
need to be followed. Women don't need to know how to cook, and neither do men,
but it is a "plus" if a person can do it well. Tasty food is something
that anyone, from anywhere can appreciate whether its made by a woman or a man.
Lol! I'm a girl and everything I cook it terrible. Well I can cook sweets pretty
well, but everything else sucks. I'm just planning on finding a guy that can
cook.
the need makes us learn "nevoia ne invata" if you don`t have many
possibilities in life
lack of money don`t know o.O ... girls/womans have to learn how to cook
for others is like a hobby
even if I don`t agree with the Romanian family rules
the woman has to know to cook take care of the children keep the house clean +
go to work
is really selfish from a guy to aspect from a woman to do all this things
I am 22 years old still living with my mam and bro and I am ok like this
I managed to learn how to cook because my mam works a lot and I have a hungry
brother
damn kid he dos not wash his dishes anyway I love him and my mam
I had a colleague that was proud that she did not know to cut a slice of bread
o.O
I think it's kinda odd for anyone not to know how to cook. Growing up both my
mom and dad could cook. So can I. Oddly my younger sister can't though. She said
she just doesn't like to.
Well ima guy and i dont see anything wrong with girls not be able to cook. my GF
use to live with me before I went and went to college... i cook everynite and i
dont see anything wrong with it... well im not assuming things but, if u are a
girl and u live by urself try to cook something, cuz u dont want to always eat
out, its not good for your health
There's nothing wrong if you don't know how to cook. Everyone start from
nothing, right, so if you want to learn to cook go to cooking class,if you don't
have money for the tuition fee,you can asked your mother for the help. I am sure
your mother will be delighted and besides it can be your bonding moments.
is it wrong if a guy can cook?
For both, I don't think it matters, I'm a guy, and I can only cook things such
as rice, instant ramen/noodle, etc.... for a girl not being able to cook isn't
the end of the world, she could learn... I could learn, we could order out, make
instant ramen or have our parents cook. how's this even a problem? there's no
set sex on who should be able to cook or not... that would be sexist or
something.
errmmm.. its juz that some ppl have more talent in cooking and they have
excellent taste buds which i clearly lack in but im definitely brainier than
most guys
A girl that can't cook. That's a real tough question. Personally for me i
wouldn't rate off a girl who can't cook. If we were together i wouldn't dumb her
or anything if she couldn't cook. I'll make fun of her though (in a mocking and
not too serious way) although i can't say much for myself. If i was in that
situation and we were living together, then i would go to cooking classes and
learn to cook for the both of us, afterall the food has to come from some where
and you can't continually buy dishes from stores. If she can cook though then
hats off to her. All the better for the relationship but i'll still learn how to
cook though. To depend on someone for somthing as neccessary as food (especially
when that someone is a woman who can hold a deep grudge to the depths of hell)
wouldn't sit well with me.
i'm a gal too.... and i can barely cook. but am i ashamed of it? no. why?
simple: i didn't learn HOW to cook.... all i know about cooking is learned by
watching mom cook or from what i've asked her.
if u wanna make food for yourself, you can get a recipe book, read sumth
carefully and try doing it. dun worry, in time you'll be able to cook delicous
food. just need to practice.
would i get mad if my partner would be a girl and she couldn't cook? no... i
would take her as an assistant and teach her.
btw, personal opinion: you don't need special cooking lessons to learn. ask
sumone how it's done and try it.
sorry 4 being a lil incoherent.
p.s. did u know that it's said that the best cooks are men?
Why should it be? The only reason women are expected to cook is because American
culture dictated fifty years ago that cooking and cleaning were all they were
good for. I guess some people haven't gotten over that, though. I think at most
it should be a nice bonus if a partner can cook.
Quote by etooi'm a gal too.... and i can
barely cook. but am i ashamed of it? no. why? simple: i didn't learn HOW to
cook.... all i know about cooking is learned by watching mom cook or from what
i've asked her.
if u wanna make food for yourself, you can get a recipe book, read sumth
carefully and try doing it. dun worry, in time you'll be able to cook delicous
food. just need to practice.
would i get mad if my partner would be a girl and she couldn't cook? no... i
would take her as an assistant and teach her.
btw, personal opinion: you don't need special cooking lessons to learn. ask
sumone how it's done and try it.
sorry 4 being a lil incoherent.
p.s. did u know that it's said that the best cooks are men?
I start learning how to cook from my mom too. I didn't go to any special cooking
class so you're not being lil incoherent
as for the PS, I know about that too. The world is sort of mystery. In my
country, most female know how to cook. More than the man. But the best cook are
men ^^
Well, it's not necessarily bad if girls don't know how to cook but it's better
if they know...lol
That way, girls can be independant...lol
Recently, I just tried new experiment...making sushi...lol
My poor sister...she didn't know I put lots of wasabe in one of the sushi and
she ate it...^^, (the sushe with lots of wasabe was suppose to be
mine...)
@etoo: I don't know if men are the best cooks but lots of chefs are men...lol
no it'z not... I'm a gurl n currently can't cook... Cooking just needz LOTZ n
LOTZ of time... I hav no patience n no time, so I'm currently having no
intension 2 cook... AT ALL...
There is nothing wrong with girls who cannot cook. Different cultures have different ideas about gender appropriate behavior, but in my opinion, we are all human, first and foremost, and what are considered "acceptable" behaviors for men and women are usually just arbitrary guidelines that don't need to be followed. Women don't need to know how to cook, and neither do men, but it is a "plus" if a person can do it well. Tasty food is something that anyone, from anywhere can appreciate whether its made by a woman or a man.
Should it be a problem?
Lol! I'm a girl and everything I cook it terrible. Well I can cook sweets pretty well, but everything else sucks. I'm just planning on finding a guy that can cook.
Probably from a man's perspective, yes. Obviously, not to the women of the society that can't cook because there's no freakin' justice in the world.
the need makes us learn "nevoia ne invata" if you don`t have many possibilities in life
lack of money don`t know o.O ... girls/womans have to learn how to cook
for others is like a hobby
even if I don`t agree with the Romanian family rules
the woman has to know to cook take care of the children keep the house clean + go to work
is really selfish from a guy to aspect from a woman to do all this things
I am 22 years old still living with my mam and bro and I am ok like this
I managed to learn how to cook because my mam works a lot and I have a hungry brother
damn kid he dos not wash his dishes anyway I love him and my mam
I had a colleague that was proud that she did not know to cut a slice of bread o.O
I think it's kinda odd for anyone not to know how to cook. Growing up both my mom and dad could cook. So can I. Oddly my younger sister can't though. She said she just doesn't like to.
On a personal note...Naaaaah, its alright if a girl can't cook, after all, we can always get take-outs !
But seriously, knowing how to cook home food is pretty useful, not all shops are open 24-7, so being able to cook is an advantage for sure !
not really, but i do prefer a girl who can cook me a meal
Well ima guy and i dont see anything wrong with girls not be able to cook. my GF use to live with me before I went and went to college... i cook everynite and i dont see anything wrong with it... well im not assuming things but, if u are a girl and u live by urself try to cook something, cuz u dont want to always eat out, its not good for your health
I can't cook so whoever I end up withis going ot have to live with it!
absolute not a problem, just practice it anyone is able to cook
It doesn't matter if you can cook or not.I can't cook myself either!I still have to learn much and can't cook more than noodles and eggs...XD
There's nothing wrong if you don't know how to cook. Everyone start from nothing, right, so if you want to learn to cook go to cooking class,if you don't have money for the tuition fee,you can asked your mother for the help. I am sure your mother will be delighted and besides it can be your bonding moments.
is it wrong if a guy can cook?
For both, I don't think it matters, I'm a guy, and I can only cook things such as rice, instant ramen/noodle, etc.... for a girl not being able to cook isn't the end of the world, she could learn... I could learn, we could order out, make instant ramen or have our parents cook. how's this even a problem? there's no set sex on who should be able to cook or not... that would be sexist or something.
well... I m 16 and i can cook really well.. (acceptable (less better than my mom's))
and i m a guy.. and i m looking for a girl that can cook to show off my skill.. lol
:D
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errmmm.. its juz that some ppl have more talent in cooking and they have excellent taste buds which i clearly lack in but im definitely brainier than most guys
A girl that can't cook. That's a real tough question. Personally for me i wouldn't rate off a girl who can't cook. If we were together i wouldn't dumb her or anything if she couldn't cook. I'll make fun of her though (in a mocking and not too serious way) although i can't say much for myself. If i was in that situation and we were living together, then i would go to cooking classes and learn to cook for the both of us, afterall the food has to come from some where and you can't continually buy dishes from stores. If she can cook though then hats off to her. All the better for the relationship but i'll still learn how to cook though. To depend on someone for somthing as neccessary as food (especially when that someone is a woman who can hold a deep grudge to the depths of hell) wouldn't sit well with me.
i'm a gal too.... and i can barely cook. but am i ashamed of it? no. why? simple: i didn't learn HOW to cook.... all i know about cooking is learned by watching mom cook or from what i've asked her.
if u wanna make food for yourself, you can get a recipe book, read sumth carefully and try doing it. dun worry, in time you'll be able to cook delicous food. just need to practice.
would i get mad if my partner would be a girl and she couldn't cook? no... i would take her as an assistant and teach her.
btw, personal opinion: you don't need special cooking lessons to learn. ask sumone how it's done and try it.
sorry 4 being a lil incoherent.
p.s. did u know that it's said that the best cooks are men?
Why should it be? The only reason women are expected to cook is because American culture dictated fifty years ago that cooking and cleaning were all they were good for. I guess some people haven't gotten over that, though. I think at most it should be a nice bonus if a partner can cook.
I start learning how to cook from my mom too. I didn't go to any special cooking class so you're not being lil incoherent
as for the PS, I know about that too. The world is sort of mystery. In my country, most female know how to cook. More than the man. But the best cook are men ^^
Well, it's not necessarily bad if girls don't know how to cook but it's better if they know...lol
That way, girls can be independant...lol
Recently, I just tried new experiment...making sushi...lol
My poor sister...she didn't know I put lots of wasabe in one of the sushi and she ate it...^^, (the sushe with lots of wasabe was suppose to be mine...)
@etoo: I don't know if men are the best cooks but lots of chefs are men...lol
no it'z not... I'm a gurl n currently can't cook... Cooking just needz LOTZ n LOTZ of time... I hav no patience n no time, so I'm currently having no intension 2 cook... AT ALL...
It's wrong for both sex (male, female, ok, to be fair, and other sex) not to know how to cook. Unless we eat raw meat, cooking is a must. :3
It's okay if the girl doesn't know how to cook but it's plus point for me if she does or doesn't know but has the effort to try