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Do you believe in soulmates?

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Sort of like predestined love?

The funny thing is, my parents are split when it comes to this concept. My Pa believes it but my Ma doesn't. When they get into a discussion about it, the only way for her to concede is when he says that she's his soulmate lol. My brother says it's silly, and my sister kind of believes it, but not totally.

As for me, I suppose I don't care right now, maybe four or five years from now, I could. I tend to side with my brother on this, actually, which is rare, especially when he says that a successful relationship is something you work on, and not some unexplainable force like in so many stories. Maybe because I'm not much of a romantic ^_^'.

If it's ever true, I wish mine would be Gael Bernal, even though he is waay older than me, just a little celebrity crush lol, just kidding! :D

i dont believe in all this stuff

i am already 20

I don't belive in soulmates. For a relationship to be successful, you have to work hard and build it. That's also why I don't believe in love at first sight.

Not really, destiny is pretty much decided by you in whatever circumstance (it can affect it but you play a pivotal role in it) you're in so yeah..its a nice conept though, a wishful one but either way love's all good ^^

Soul mates?! :hmpf: Somehow I believe in that but not in that sort of fictional and classy ways. As in made-in-heaven type of match? Nope! Sorry but I find it silly! But there are people who unusually get along from the very moment they meet each other but still cannot call them soul mates. As Plumm says, relationships need work. I agree. :) Even the best relationships can be ruined by negligence. There are famous cases that all of us see around daily. Everything seems perfect and all of a sudden things turns upside down and gets nasty. I'm sure all of us have come across with them.

A good relationship needs persistence, work and time. If you want to make it happen then it'll happen. And this doesn't have to be necessarily written in heavens! :)

Yeah,true.For a relationship to happens or last,you need to work hard on it.Only when both sides socialize,know and care for each other,will love start to bloom.So,I don't believe in soulmates.

I believe in it but its not always recognizable to people at both sides, so one could recognize it some wouldn't. I guess that means some people want to believe and others don't believe/care about it.

I believe totally in soulmates but not how others might believe it to be...what I have learned from talking to my spirit guides is that we all have soulmates but they aren't alive at the same time that we are, in fact they are the ones on the other side that is guiding us in this section and once we die then they are born, or close to our death, or even at our death, if we want to come right back then they aren't...weird I know but that's what I believe...

Kinda believe it but not really though. sometimes it doesnt work all the time.

No. I'm destined to be stoned and persecuted. Its out of my control. How could anyone be "meant for me".

OH WELL! There are video games. Yeah matey! *Mashes buttons*

WEll actually I kind of do and I kind of don't
I don't mean it in a horoscopic way but I think there is some sort of destined person for everybody..... or some people

hmmm.. i dont know..its hard to say.. no one actually matches perfectly with others in the personality.. on second thought, the world is so big and mayb one of them humans hidden in a really small corner of the world might be just the ONE.. haha ^_^'

I don't really believe it, but I do like the idea/concept. Kinda like how I perceive supernatural forces. XD

Perhaps there is someone out there in the world who would be perfect for me who I love, and who would love me back. However, chances of me finding that person is rather slim. Plus my loyalty to my current (and only one so far) crush has not died yet. ^_^'

I like the concept too..but I'm a bit of a romantic. I dont really believe in love at first sight though.
I think some people are really meant for each other, but only at the right time, and to make a relationship work you still have to work hard at it. The main thing is...you have to want it to work

I do beleive that there is soemone for everyone so I do beleieve in it. even though even I admit it does not always work.

angelxxuan thats a depressing way of looking at it...I like to think of the soul mate being alive when we are but not when we're near death...perhaps a max of 10 years after we're born

maybe.. but we most likely won't meet them... i dont believe in love at first sight at all. love at first sight = lust at first sight...

No.

I think they just have to change ...you know, so that they can get along well.

I suppose everything is planned, but i guess i believe that soul mates are pple destined to fall in love but it wont be easy, they'll fite and all but ultimately pull thru and stay together... :)

I believe that there is a mate who is the most compatible with a person. Like others have pointed out tho, even after finding that person does not mean the relationship will magically work. Love takes a lot of work ^_^

First, I have to admit that I'm some kind of a daydreamer and well... call it a stereotype, but I'm French. Anyway, in French, soulmate is quite close to two other expressions. One implying love and the other one being closer to friendship.

Whatever the case, relations with other people are like flowers. When you put the seed on the soil, you may not always know what it shall bloom into, and you have to care of it, both you and the other one have to take care of it.
I guess you can say that soulmates have a better affinity when it comes to gardening ;)

What I think is that two people can have a natural affinity that can grow to more than that simply by exchanging a few words and a smile.

A soulmate can be cut out of the same wood as you are, but can also be "complementary" to you. There is no alchemical recipe for defining it.

you never know! if you don't belive it will never come true! >_<

There's someone for everyone.We don't really have to search for them.Fate will eventually make it happen....someday,somehow,someone.
All in all,the others are pretty darn right so I agree with them..
btw I've checked out your page...look in the G.book..

No, I don't. I'm like Jason Bourne.

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