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What do you look for in a special someone?

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Minitokyo » Forum » Life & Lifestyle Fora » Love, Friends & Family  What do you look for in a special someone?

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Well, everything starts with looks. So I can't say looks doesn't matter, but not compared with personality, maturity, and compatibility. The latter three are the most important to me.

sadly a previous crush -____-

I like a reasonably alright looking girl, doesnt have to be crash hot. who hopefully knows how to play piano but doesnt have to (i have a thing for the piano lol), likes anime and manga^^, TRUSTWORTHY, supportive, DEFINATELY understanding (have been traumatised by my mum^^), kind and I would hope is CHristian.

for me is :\ well...

has to be a nice person, I don't care about appearances, as long is good person, caring, non-perv, no machism, protective, good sense of justice, intellegent of course, and straight, loyal (in way as relationship ,no faking feelings, if there nothing, then friendship,if is a asshole, over.), don't have to be on my side when I'm wrong but make me pay attention that I'm wrong, that cares for me as for others (I don't like obsession stuff, is sick), that does put me,himself, his firends and family first, no hierarchy.

I guess is enough but would be great if it wouldn't very very very presumptious, but can be cooky when challenging but respecting the person of course.
about the tastes, only in some, can be boring if he have exactly the same tastes as me.

defects,everyone have it,so just aceppts his unique personality.

hmm...that special someone...well a lot of people are like, "trust. honesty," all that stuffs. while i like that, i look for if he is different, stands out. he has to be kind, to me and my friends. (friends come first with me) i love manga lovers, but thats not a must. oh, and he has to be down to earth. yep. there is a lot more, but im to tired to type any longer...^ ^

i will say is i want he has the same interest with me!like watch anime,play video games,read manga and listen to japanese songs!but still of coz need to have good personality!

As long as the feeling is 'right', I guess it'll do.
I believe in fate, so i'll just see what fate has for me, though I probably do have some things in mind when it comes to the other half.
I think, cool-headed, mature, know when to be serious and yet joke and make me laugh at other times, play bball together, listen to my problems, accept me for who I am..
But we're all unique, there'll definitely be something of us that attracts another! haha

Someone who can make me smile. Other stuff, too, like dependability, trustworthiness, maturity but with a sense of fun, irreverence, and I need to be physically attracted (the other person doesn't need to be gorgeous, but I need to not be repulsed).

Someone who knows how to leave my hair alone -.-...

well.. if that person likes japanese/chinese boys... im here..

Here are the specs err... qualities i look for :D

anime & manga lover
gamer
kaname look-like! =3
loyal
understanding
sweet and caring
strong! >=3

I've found these to my gf. :D

Someone who's caring, understanding (especially towards my weird habits and mannerisms), humourous, intelligent and witty, ok looking (not too fussy bout this one, I don't look like a superstar myself...XD), responsible, honest (but has the common sense not to take it too far), caring, strong, sensible and definitely taller than me... (I'm a Asian girl with a bit more than average height) and a strong sense of justice. Hm... and if possible, a manganime fan as well (or at least someone who understands or doesn't mind)... I think my interests will continue even after I have children... No signs of letting go of anime just yet (I'm 16+)... long way more to go... no one can pull me away from anime! Banzai all things manga and anime!

merged: 04-17-2008 ~ 05:10pm
Oh ya, forgot to mention... I want a guy who's more manly, not a sobby mummy's boy... I don't want to become his surrogate mother and listen to all his whining and complaints 24/7...

Quote by IlyenaTsuji .... seriously, can you get more picky? >.<

Amen. Tsuji is one of those chauvanist pigs out there.
"My Women". "Knight in Shining Armor".

Lol. But I feel the same way. Brother!~

Intelligent,Trustworthy,

i'm picky as hell so here i go:


1. someone who's patient (i'm tired of people who get mad at me becuz i don't understand things. if the guy loved me, i'd like it if he could explain things to me in a calm manner and never get frustrated with it)
2. someone respectful
3. someone who is smart and witty
4. someone who has a great sense of humor (not "great" but i want to laugh u know)
5. someone who's good looking (nice hair, no acne, long torso, not so buff but i want some muscle, scrawny, tall, nice fashion sense) ----> it's not required though, but it'd be nice
6. i'd like the guy to be taller than me if possible...but it's not a necessity
7. someone who's understanding and caring (i can be emotional sometimes and i'd like it if they were patient and understanding enough to listen to me)
8. someone who is nice
9. someone with a gentlemanly attitude (which could sum this whole thing up haha ^_^')
10. someone who is honest
11. someone who won't make me cry (i won't accept a man that hits me or gets mad at me all day)
12. someone i can depend on (i'm not expecting them to protect me or save me, i just want to know that when i do need them, they will be there to support me and my decisions)
13. i don't want him to be obnoxious or arrogant (it's not a turn-on)
14. i don't want him to be too clingy to me but i don't want him to ignore me either (i expect him to be a person who can take care of himself but still has time to show affection)
15. i'd like if he was also mature...but wouldn't that go in gentlemanly?
16. someone who treats me like their equal (i want someone who can respect my ideas and me for who i am, if we r together, i won't accept the "this person's superior than that," i know it sound stupid but i want our love to be mutual -__-)

ps. that's pretty much it. i won't ask a guy to fulfill all of these qualities but i at least expect a few. i've already seen so many jerks out there in this world and i'm afraid of getting hurt so... i can only hope for a smart, witty gentleman.

I'm not awfully picky when it comes to my ideal boyfriend. Personality matters the most to me, because looks fade anyway. Even the most attractive person can appear ugly if they have uhh..ugly personalities. If the person has a great personality,to me the person appears like..10 times more attractive. I would like someone who is smart,loving,honest, trustworthy and FUNNY. A sense of humor is a must, stiffs are just a turn off. As for appearances, I have a weakness for guys who dress rockerish or kind of emo. I also find a few tattoos very attractive. As for hair? Eh, I'm not too picky but I prefer dark hair-either spiked or a little long..like above the shoulder. Those are just my preferences though, I don't really care horribly much about appearances

bcoz ur live will be brighter hehehehe

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