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what do you feel when you hurt someones feelings!?!

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I started this down because of my personal experience...

I feel really broke down to when I hurt someones' feelings. I feel I have no right to talk to the person ever again...

If you hurt someones feeling, what do you feel?

If I ever hurt someones feelings, it hurts me, a lot, even if I don't like the person. I just don't like to hurt people, I'm very emotionally driven and the second I see that hurt in their eyes it stabs in to me like a cold chill from a winter wind. Don't get me wrong it's not like I'm perfectly nice to everyone or don't have people I dislike or hate but I still don't like to deeply hurt people like that.

Quote by CataclysmIf I ever hurt someones feelings, it hurts me, a lot, even if I don't
like the person. I just don't like to hurt people, I'm very emotionally
driven and the second I see that hurt in their eyes it stabs in to me
like a cold chill from a winter wind. Don't get me wrong it's not like
I'm perfectly nice to everyone or don't have people I dislike or hate
but I still don't like to deeply hurt people like that.

You're a lot like me. I go through life trying not to hurt anyone's feelings, even if I don't like them, but it does happen. When I hurt someone's feelings, I'm absolutely mortified. I think about how I'd feel if somebody did that to me, and then I feel really bad...

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Quote by CataclysmIf I ever hurt someones feelings, it hurts me, a lot, even if I don't
like the person. I just don't like to hurt people, I'm very emotionally
driven and the second I see that hurt in their eyes it stabs in to me
like a cold chill from a winter wind. Don't get me wrong it's not like
I'm perfectly nice to everyone or don't have people I dislike or hate
but I still don't like to deeply hurt people like that.


You're a lot like me. I go through life trying not to hurt anyone's feelings, even if I don't like them, but it does happen. When I hurt someone's feelings, I'm absolutely mortified. I think about how I'd feel if somebody did that to me, and then I feel really bad...

Wow, yeah we really are alike, heh, I always consider things from other peoples points of view and imagine how I'd feel in their shoes. It makes life fairly difficult though, lol. But I think I'm happy being like this :)

usually I dont want to hurt anyone's feelings. i really try to be nice to everybody.
but there are times when I want to hurt others, too. somtimes I really want to and I try to enjoy it then. dont know ^^ sometimes beeing a bad guy is fun too.

Quote by AkaikenI started this down because of my personal experience...

I feel really broke down to when I hurt someones' feelings. I feel I have no right to talk to the person ever again...

If you hurt someones feeling, what do you feel?

You're the same as me, I feel like i can't talk to that person unless that person wants you to talk to him/her, even after i apologized. but eventually you get along again..if not then just stay away from each other....

I really don't want to hurt someone's feelings. But when I hurt someone's feelings... I really feel bad... I feel sad... :(
When I hurt one's feelings. I would apologize to him.

Ran-chan, ran-chan, ran-chan... This isn't very much like you. A thread about emotions? Oh, please!!! You are a founding member of Subahismo you know better than to experience mortal sensations. Have you gotten mad? As Executive of Operations and Acting Chairman you are summoned for disciplinary actions.

But to answer your question, do not make me feel what you don't want to feel. Such is the cliche' forever played by many. I only feel one thing and that's: "You've done something to deserve this!!!" I would not intend to corrupt another person's judgement against me. Intently or inadvertently, if I do hurt their emotions and I feel guilty, I would soothe their pains by (you know how I do it!!!) My actions against my peers are purely rational and I do not respond readily to vile attempts to unleash my fury.

17:00 @ Jakulito Prime
Be ready for your punishment, Akaiken.

oh!
i hate my self when i hurt a close one
i don't want them to suffer
you know, i'm friendship protector
and i feel so baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad when someone i know feels bad
even is not for me
i dont like to see them suffer anyway

Just reminding you to get your butt here at Subahismo Headquarters and get ready for what the Clan has reserved for you. Get ready to get you're feelings really hurt.

I'm keeping you're thread alive, bunghole.

You're all right. But sometimes your relationship with the person you hurt would change even after you two get along again. Sometimes you'll think that you're not that close to the person after what happened.

depends on if it's a friend or someone I don't like/care for. if it's a friend, I feel really bad and I nearly make a nuisance of myself apologizing so much. if it's someone I'm not on friendly terms with, I feel bad, but I really could care less.

Quote by CataclysmIf I ever hurt someones feelings, it hurts me, a lot, even if I don't like the person. I just don't like to hurt people, I'm very emotionally driven and the second I see that hurt in their eyes it stabs in to me like a cold chill from a winter wind. Don't get me wrong it's not like I'm perfectly nice to everyone or don't have people I dislike or hate but I still don't like to deeply hurt people like that.

same here. i'm emotional too, and if i hurt someone's feelings i'd feel really bad and sad. i'd regret doing so, no matter who they are. when i hurt someone, i can feel a sharp stab in my heart too. sometimes, i cry because of it.

I have never deliberately hurt anyone's feelings unless I have a strong reason and motive to do so.

People that I have intentionally hurt are usually those that have hurt me previously and are positively aware of that act. In that case, I have no remorse for doing whatsoever that can possibly annoy/hurt/insult them, like excluding them from meetings/party/games that I arrange, sending everyone greetings except to that person, and others that I would rather not discuss. In that case, I feel nothing but the personal acknowledgement that these people never deserved to be around me in the first place.

With those that I have unintentionally hurt (whether through a bad joke or inconsideration), I try to apologize and lighten up the situation with some humour (I'm good at this).

Regards.

Well in 99% of the time if I would hurt the feelings of somebody, it would be intentionally so if it worked I would feel satisfied because she/he/it had it coming.

Getting your feathers ruffled or ruffle them is part of life .. get used to it :)

Quote by TaurecWell in 99% of the time if I would hurt the feelings of somebody, it
would be intentionally so if it worked I would feel satisfied because
she/he/it had it coming. Getting your feathers ruffled or ruffle them
is part of life .. get used to it :)


Ditto!!!

there are different ways to hurt someone's feelings, one is to be turned down, in these situations, you should just wait for the person to recover from it, then even if you feel bad about it, you'll find yourself being able to do the things you usually do! timing is the key! but if you're like the "i don't care" but of course you're not, you'll lose friends! if you tell me the actual or even just an overview of the situation, i can give you a more appropriate advice, this is just my outlook on the situation....

Quote by Sakura0chanI really don't want to hurt someone's feelings. But when I hurt someone's feelings... I really feel bad... I feel sad... :(
When I hurt one's feelings. I would apologize to him.

me too, I would say sorry and hope they will forgive me.

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Quote by Sakura0chanI really don't want to hurt someone's feelings. But when I hurt someone's feelings... I really feel bad... I feel sad... :(
When I hurt one's feelings. I would apologize to him.

me too, I would say sorry and hope they will forgive me.

Well, it's alright to say sorry but sometimes the person won't accept it and it's really heartbreaking...

I feel pretty good if my intention was to hurt their feelings. But if I do not mean it, I usually try to cover my butt just so I don't have to hear them whine about it.

Quote by KoutetsuI feel pretty good if my intention was to hurt their feelings. But if I do not mean it, I usually try to cover my butt just so I don't have to hear them whine about it.

If that's the case then I wouldn't try to make myself stupid.

I feel bad but I don't ever apologize.

I supposedly broke my cousin's arm once since I kept on telling him to stop jumping on me (I'm the one that usually picks him and and plays with him) so I grabbed his arm and just kept on twisting it back. I felt bad but meh. I wasn't going to apologize.

If it is my friend, i usually try to apologize to her.

Quote by akari-chanIf it is my friend, i usually try to apologize to her.

That's what people do usually and it's the best thing to do...

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