Quote by cheza2283I am not negative in
that I put people down or anything like that. It is just that I am not a very
happy person. I am never mean or impolite. I just am not one of those happy
peppy people that smiles on the time. I was told that I was sort of a downer.
When people ask me how I am, I usually tell them the truth which is I am not
doing very good.
Ever since I was told this I have started to lie when people ask me how I am. I
say "Oh I am great!" or "I am doing just fine." I have even
been trying to smile more.
Those people who told you that are evil! I'm a person who is rather happy and
normally smiling with my friends. (People tell me when I'm not smiling i look
scary ) But I don't like to be around people who are mean, weather
they are happy, or negative, or even if they aren't mean to me i don't like it
if they are mean to other people.
But if someone is negative, I'm fine with that. I don't see what the problem is
weather they are smiling or not. Ofcourse I would try to cheer them up if they
are especially down for a certain reason.
and there isn't any need to lie! If i
were you I'd tell them how i really feel, unless they would exaggerate, and
makes me un-easy. lol.
-Is it true people do not like to be around negative people?
-I think it's false!
maybe. i get rather peesimistic with life all the time but my friends hang out
with me regardless. probably since my pessimism makes em laugh. and personally,
if other people get negative with me, i just laugh at em or with em.
I think to hang around with friends with totally different personally and style
than ours, sounds amazing. Imagive how everyone able to adapt to each other.
haha So whether I prefer to hang around with negative or positive people
had never comes into my mind before. When I'm around my friends, I'll chat and
laugh at almost everything. lol
You may not put people down but it's negative in a way... I'd probably wouldn't
want to hang around you because then I TOO would start to feel sad or not so
happy, not that I'm one of those upbeat, perky happy people to begin with.
Especially right now when ppl ask How are you, I really want to say life sucks
for me right now ok..haha..
Tt's like when some starts talking about a somber subject then all of a sudden
it's the mood changes to that and then it's ok, ok lets not talk it anymore
cause it's getting me down thinking about it.
I think you need to talk to someone about how you feel face to face with a
person, someone experienced in this sort of thing...
Those people who told you that are evil! I'm a person who is rather happy and normally smiling with my friends. (People tell me when I'm not smiling i look scary
) But I don't like to be around people who are mean, weather
they are happy, or negative, or even if they aren't mean to me i don't like it
if they are mean to other people.
But if someone is negative, I'm fine with that. I don't see what the problem is weather they are smiling or not. Ofcourse I would try to cheer them up if they are especially down for a certain reason.
and there isn't any need to lie!
If i
were you I'd tell them how i really feel, unless they would exaggerate, and
makes me un-easy. lol.
-Is it true people do not like to be around negative people?
-I think it's false!
maybe. i get rather peesimistic with life all the time but my friends hang out with me regardless. probably since my pessimism makes em laugh. and personally, if other people get negative with me, i just laugh at em or with em.
It depends on what mood I'm in.
I like negative when it means intelligently sarcastic and cynical.
I think to hang around with friends with totally different personally and style than ours, sounds amazing. Imagive how everyone able to adapt to each other. haha
So whether I prefer to hang around with negative or positive people
had never comes into my mind before. When I'm around my friends, I'll chat and
laugh at almost everything. lol
You may not put people down but it's negative in a way... I'd probably wouldn't want to hang around you because then I TOO would start to feel sad or not so happy, not that I'm one of those upbeat, perky happy people to begin with. Especially right now when ppl ask How are you, I really want to say life sucks for me right now ok..haha..
Tt's like when some starts talking about a somber subject then all of a sudden it's the mood changes to that and then it's ok, ok lets not talk it anymore cause it's getting me down thinking about it.
I think you need to talk to someone about how you feel face to face with a person, someone experienced in this sort of thing...