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Is it true people do not like to be around negative people?

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Quote by cheza2283I am not negative in that I put people down or anything like that. It is just that I am not a very happy person. I am never mean or impolite. I just am not one of those happy peppy people that smiles on the time. I was told that I was sort of a downer. When people ask me how I am, I usually tell them the truth which is I am not doing very good.
Ever since I was told this I have started to lie when people ask me how I am. I say "Oh I am great!" or "I am doing just fine." I have even been trying to smile more.

Those people who told you that are evil! I'm a person who is rather happy and normally smiling with my friends. (People tell me when I'm not smiling i look scary :sweat: ) But I don't like to be around people who are mean, weather they are happy, or negative, or even if they aren't mean to me i don't like it if they are mean to other people.

But if someone is negative, I'm fine with that. I don't see what the problem is weather they are smiling or not. Ofcourse I would try to cheer them up if they are especially down for a certain reason.

and there isn't any need to lie! X-O If i were you I'd tell them how i really feel, unless they would exaggerate, and makes me un-easy. lol.

-Is it true people do not like to be around negative people?
-I think it's false!

maybe. i get rather peesimistic with life all the time but my friends hang out with me regardless. probably since my pessimism makes em laugh. and personally, if other people get negative with me, i just laugh at em or with em.

It depends on what mood I'm in.

I like negative when it means intelligently sarcastic and cynical.

I think to hang around with friends with totally different personally and style than ours, sounds amazing. Imagive how everyone able to adapt to each other. haha :D So whether I prefer to hang around with negative or positive people had never comes into my mind before. When I'm around my friends, I'll chat and laugh at almost everything. lol XD

You may not put people down but it's negative in a way... I'd probably wouldn't want to hang around you because then I TOO would start to feel sad or not so happy, not that I'm one of those upbeat, perky happy people to begin with. Especially right now when ppl ask How are you, I really want to say life sucks for me right now ok..haha..

Tt's like when some starts talking about a somber subject then all of a sudden it's the mood changes to that and then it's ok, ok lets not talk it anymore cause it's getting me down thinking about it.

I think you need to talk to someone about how you feel face to face with a person, someone experienced in this sort of thing...

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