The real Reason is in my opinion any of these, or any of these combined or all
of them.
1.) They have some real issues, and cant handle Relationships at any level.
2.) They just like to be alone, because they find it to be very peaceful. (low
level of stress)
3.)They just think their better than every one out there, and not one person is
worth their time.
4.)They have a medical problem such as depersonalization, where their not all
that there. They watch their reality from a background prospective. (i have
this)
I have 2 opinions
- there are times where people perfer to spend some time on themselves to sit
down and think.
- Some people just do not know how to socialize with others because they do not
know how to start a conversation or scare they might say something wrong.
many lonely people have been hurt many times by close ones and let down
repeatedly, so they would rather depend on themselves than others. and if they
do decide to make new friends they will only open up to them very slowly, if
ever. i have this problem and i have problems trusting even some of my best
friends. its sad but its better than completely shutting off from everyone.
Quote by BlueheartIt's not that. Lonely
people are too used to be lonely, so they don't know how to react with others,
they're afraid of being hurt. most of the lonely persons already suffered from
something that made them feel really sad, that's why they don't wanna pass throw
that again..
Sometimes people really want to be left alone. Sometimes I personally avoid
people I know. Sometimes is paranoia that they REALLY don't want to be around
me, or that they really don't care. But I generally feel happy around people
that want me around.
The real Reason is in my opinion any of these, or any of these combined or all of them.
1.) They have some real issues, and cant handle Relationships at any level.
2.) They just like to be alone, because they find it to be very peaceful. (low level of stress)
3.)They just think their better than every one out there, and not one person is worth their time.
4.)They have a medical problem such as depersonalization, where their not all that there. They watch their reality from a background prospective. (i have this)
I think its attention. they like force them selfs to be lonely to get attention of others.
I have 2 opinions
- there are times where people perfer to spend some time on themselves to sit down and think.
- Some people just do not know how to socialize with others because they do not know how to start a conversation or scare they might say something wrong.
many lonely people have been hurt many times by close ones and let down repeatedly, so they would rather depend on themselves than others. and if they do decide to make new friends they will only open up to them very slowly, if ever. i have this problem and i have problems trusting even some of my best friends. its sad but its better than completely shutting off from everyone.
Well said. Exactly what I thought.
Sometimes people really want to be left alone. Sometimes I personally avoid people I know. Sometimes is paranoia that they REALLY don't want to be around me, or that they really don't care. But I generally feel happy around people that want me around.
They are just afraid or maybe they just take a longer time to adjust.
I feel nothing can go wrong if nothing is done=p
Weird i know..