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what do you feel when you hurt someones feelings!?!

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Minitokyo » Forum » Life & Lifestyle Fora » Love, Friends & Family  what do you feel when you hurt someones feelings!?!

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well, many times or sometimes I says something to hurt others but not intention to do it (well depends on the person or person situation if we want someone to wake up to the reality is different,we just want to help), when is I did it wrong and someone make it to notice I feel bad, even sometimes I'm tempt to say something that can hurt (on purpose) when someone provokes me or a teasing me, that can really hurts but I control it, if they break my pacience that I can't hold... I think you can guess what it happens... I explode.

Whenever I hurt someone's feelings (even if they had it coming) I always feel really guilty. Doesn't mean I'll always apologize afterwards though, since my pride doesn't always allow it. But I still feel guilty.

Do it again.

I usually feel guilty and can't stop thinking about how mean I was and how bad the person is feeling now. So I'd go look for them as soon as I've overcome the terrible feeling which makes me shy away from those whom I've hurt, and when I see that person, I'd apologize and hope that they accept my apology.

i'll feel bad...real bad, esp when he/she is my friend
but it occurs that when i hurt someone feelings it's because i'm in the bad mood and can't apologize that time...this is the hardest part...i just can't apologize right away...i must wait till i calm down...to think of i can't easily say 'sorry' that's my biggest bad attitude >.<

If I hurt someone intentionally, its for a reason, I justify it to myself, I don't feel anything.
If I hurt someone without knowing beforehand, I hate myself for it. I try hard to apologise. If I can't apologise, I hate myself even more.

I'd humble myself and apologize.

If its some1 close to me i try to apologize if its my close friends we usually forget about it instantly....

of course i will feel guilty and apologize to him/her right away

Quote by MieshiI usually feel guilty and can't stop thinking about how mean I was and how bad the person is feeling now. So I'd go look for them as soon as I've overcome the terrible feeling which makes me shy away from those whom I've hurt, and when I see that person, I'd apologize and hope that they accept my apology.


That's how I am. I usually end up hating myself and whatnot if I make them feel uncomfortable or hurt their feelings somehow. I just happen to be to stupid to realize it till after the fact and then more often then not, they don't accept my apologies and then I end hating myself even more. :(

well, it depends on who.
- if it's someone i dont know, i don't care.
- If it's an aquaintance-friend (people you see, think 'oh, he/she is here.', say hi, and continue on your way), then i feel a little bit bad, but life is life, and life sucks. deal with it.
- If it's a good friend (people who I can talk with about everyday stuff), then I'll feel bad and appologize eventually.
- If it's a close friend (Very very very few friends are in this category. Right now there's only two people, three including my best friend. I can talk about my personal problems with them. If something ever happened to any of them and they passed away, I would be devastated for life.) I would feel really bad and I would appologize immediately. I try to make it up to them somehow within maybe a week or two.
- If it's my best friend (one person. I've known her since 4th grade, and we've been best friends since. I wouldn't mind dieing to save her life.), I would feel really bad and I would definately appologize immediately. I would make it up to her as soon as possible, preferrably within the next two or three days.

yeah. i'm really complicated, aren't I?

i'm gonna apologize ASAP

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