Ok its i guess a really stupid topic but ,
Around 7 months ago i was probly at the piont where i was ready to give up on
live because i thought everything had given up on me, but as a last attempt on
somthing good to happen i decided 2 meet up with a girl i had bin talking to for
ages, she lived around 4hrs away so we meet half way, and it was the best think
i have ever done the second i saw her every thing went away and i feelt so happy
and we have bin togather for 7 months now, but i only get to see her on
wkends.
i spend the week talkin to her but the second i leave her house on a sunday
night (normal day i go home) my head starts beating at me "its gona go
rong, she hates u" ect ill get homeand on monday ill switch my xbox on and
we play online togather (she plays halo on live) now because shes like a girl
the guys in our groupe like super flurt wid her and she dont react to it but im
scared that when im there she is and that people shes talkin to shes sayin she
hates me and shes tellin another guys she really likes them ect i do trust her
but i cant stop what my headis thinking, i just dont want my life to gona flip
right back to being a lie and I really dont want that but when it comes down to
it being away from her eats away at me and i hate it.
I honestly don't believe that you're in love with her - it seems more as
infatuation at this point. But, if you're mind is doubting you saying,
"everything is going to go wrong, she hates you, etc." then you don't
fully trust her. You're very worrysome and I can imagine why you would be. You
have every right to be. You need to confront her about these boys who flirt with
her constantly. You have to try and put your best foot foward. You should always
listen to your gut feeling because for the most part - your gut makes more sense
than your heart does. Sure she could be so amazing and so much fun to be around,
but you can't allow someone to walk all over you like that. If they do so you're
just being taken advantage of because she just likes that feeling of being
liked. Or possibly for some other cruel reasons. Thus, you need to want to want
to help yourself not go spiraling into the wrong direction just because your
heart wants to. Listen to your gut. Confront her, and talk to yourself what
benefits really come out of the situation. You shouldn't be so dependent on
another person to make you happy. You need to learn how to be happy when you're
by yourself. Work on your self-confidence, etc.
:D best of luck to you!
i understand what u mean and i have said about it to her and she says she dosnt
mean it and that she dosnt know wat to do in the situations and i beleave her
its just in past relationships its allways ended me bein cheated on or just lied
to, an its like i cant let go of the bad stuf thats happened and i can see the
effect it has on us but i cant find a way to stop it.
Ok its i guess a really stupid topic but ,
Around 7 months ago i was probly at the piont where i was ready to give up on live because i thought everything had given up on me, but as a last attempt on somthing good to happen i decided 2 meet up with a girl i had bin talking to for ages, she lived around 4hrs away so we meet half way, and it was the best think i have ever done the second i saw her every thing went away and i feelt so happy and we have bin togather for 7 months now, but i only get to see her on wkends.
i spend the week talkin to her but the second i leave her house on a sunday night (normal day i go home) my head starts beating at me "its gona go rong, she hates u" ect ill get homeand on monday ill switch my xbox on and we play online togather (she plays halo on live) now because shes like a girl the guys in our groupe like super flurt wid her and she dont react to it but im scared that when im there she is and that people shes talkin to shes sayin she hates me and shes tellin another guys she really likes them ect i do trust her but i cant stop what my headis thinking, i just dont want my life to gona flip right back to being a lie and I really dont want that but when it comes down to it being away from her eats away at me and i hate it.
I honestly don't believe that you're in love with her - it seems more as infatuation at this point. But, if you're mind is doubting you saying, "everything is going to go wrong, she hates you, etc." then you don't fully trust her. You're very worrysome and I can imagine why you would be. You have every right to be. You need to confront her about these boys who flirt with her constantly. You have to try and put your best foot foward. You should always listen to your gut feeling because for the most part - your gut makes more sense than your heart does. Sure she could be so amazing and so much fun to be around, but you can't allow someone to walk all over you like that. If they do so you're just being taken advantage of because she just likes that feeling of being liked. Or possibly for some other cruel reasons. Thus, you need to want to want to help yourself not go spiraling into the wrong direction just because your heart wants to. Listen to your gut. Confront her, and talk to yourself what benefits really come out of the situation. You shouldn't be so dependent on another person to make you happy. You need to learn how to be happy when you're by yourself. Work on your self-confidence, etc.
:D best of luck to you!
i understand what u mean and i have said about it to her and she says she dosnt mean it and that she dosnt know wat to do in the situations and i beleave her its just in past relationships its allways ended me bein cheated on or just lied to, an its like i cant let go of the bad stuf thats happened and i can see the effect it has on us but i cant find a way to stop it.