muster up the courage and just show her that ur interested but be urself

shes not gonna fall n love w/ u if u bein fake

My friends and I flirt unconsciously. It just comes! I'm just a tease, but unlike some people I know when to control myself I mean if you're interested with him/her, just talk to eachother and then you might start flirting without knowing it. Flirting is not everything! In my opinion, there is nothing more sexy than a man who is intelligent! If he can spark up a conversation and be confident, then that's great. Hope this helps you with your flirting skills

hhmmm... i suck at it xD so as i'm that bad, i just talk casually. it works better

nyahahaha..... never tried... ^^ MWuhahahhahaha

i really want to confess to guy that i like him a lot, that i want him to be my boyfriend. but i just can't do it.
once he was after me, but i turned him down because at that time i had a boyfriend. now i've broken up with my boyfriend for months, and i found myself have feeling with that guy, the guy i had turned down.
but, how can i tell him i like him, after what i did to him? he even doesn't bother to talk to me.
maybe i just let it go. i really can't confess to him.

gah... i'm rather hopeless. Even if i had the courage to talk to a girl i like, i wouldn't know what to talk about, what is most likely the reason for my lacking courage. And i am also not someone who gets spoken to by girls.

....I really want to confess to this guy I like a lot. I just can't find the confidence to tell him. Whenever I talk to him the conversation goes no where. I mean it seems like he doesn't like me. All my friends say its hopeless ,but I like him a lot.
Plese, someone tell me what should I do!

"Problems with love happen because you don't take action.
Tomorrow will never come, you know.
If you want to change the painful today, you have to take action today."
~ taken from Shakugan no Shana (onsen episode)

Hope that quotation could motivate you to try harder.
I'm just sharing with you,
I'm not trying to teach you about love,
as I myself still have a problem with it, ^^.

merged: 06-20-2007 ~ 12:25pm
to bameno:
some boys (including me) will still like the girl we liked before, even when she had a boyfriend. If he is that type of boy, try confess to him. The choice is yours anyway^^

wow funny thread , theres two types of people... extremely shy when it gets to opposite sex.. and all they really have to do is directly ask them out!... ( well after you know them for a bit ) but do it in a comfortable place.. NO do not try to do it in a romantic place geez.. lol that will just awkward out the other person... just do w/e go to mall together or something then when its break/resting time ask them out....
now the other type of people are the self centered... very very conceited type of people who think they're the best and stuff... those.. piss me off lol... they don't need help cause it will hurt their ego..., oh.. but i love it how those people tend to get slapped by the girl its funny to watch
anyways now then theres combinations in between those two.. which are those .... which it comes naturally to, when it comes to the right person =) you will score him/her easily because you just will

hmm, just makin a good conversation fo' her-dun be so noisy/quite.
dont just talk 'about u'
be nice, often to smile =)
err, just be urself..heh

hey, if u've a good lookin <ehm> no need to do it all ;p

sometimes i flirt..but i don't actually know it until my friends tell me xD

I never tried to flirt, as long as I remember...

I'm a GIRL...so I can tell you what girls would like!
Well...when you approach her, be relaxed, act like it's natural...dont be nervous, you'll only make her lose confidence in you.
Don't be too flirty too, most girls will be irritated. Just go up to her and say (if you know her)"hi! It's so good to see you again! How have you been?" see what she says... (if you don't know her, well I can't really tell you how to say it...let's just say that when you are relaxed, everything will come naturally!)
One important thing. Just be YOURSELF! don't pretend to be someone you're not! If she likes you, she'll like you! If she doesn't, then so be it, there are more WORTHY girls that will SUIT you! IF YOU AND HER WERE MEAN TO BE, IT WILL BE FINE! and besides, a girl that suits you WILL ACCEPT YOU no mater who you are, even if you are not as handsome as the cutest guy in school or the most capable person!
Some things are just destined, of course, that doesn't mean you can just relax and let destiny do the job! If you think you and a girl are meant to be, work hard and try to make it work!
Good luck!

Well I have some tipps too and Im a girl ^^
1. Just relax, nobodys gonna kill you
2. Talk to her with a honest smile and mind you dont get too near to her:
If shes a stranger, from 0,8 to 1,2m distance will be ok
If shes a friend, you can come half a meter to her or even more(depends on your relationship).
Its because some ppl dont like when others are too near (Me for example) but others have no problem with that.
And I think its better for prevencion to get a lill distance
Otherwise the one you want to talk to will start to dislike you
Btw, speak with her from the front, otherwise it will be difficult for both of you to look into each others eyes.
"Catgirl-evolution" was right with the BE YOURSELF thing: If she starts to like the person you pretend to be, she does not like you!
She likes you or she doesnt, so it is )
And now an example:

A girl goes to cinema with a boy she likes
He pays the cinema, she pais the coke and popcorn
He doesnt talk. She asks if everything is ok and he says hes nervous
She wonders why because she is not the half-petting-cinema-type of girl and doesnt expect the boy of doing more than holding her hand. (This really depends on the type of girl)
When the commercials come, the boy criticises them but he laughts sometimes too.
She likes the honest laught but it could be without critique, she thinks.
After the film starts she doesnt want to hold his hand anymore because he didnt once give her a smile at that evening. His hand is not on the armrest too so she is sure he doesnt want it either. (Hand on the armrest are obvious and easy for the opposite to read, so its +)
After the movie he doesnt speak again but when they are walking, he has almost no distance from her. She feels uncomfortable and tries to create distance but he follows her. When she tries to talk to him on the escalators he stands next to her and she cant look in his eyes. She gets pissed and when they are parting she just says "bye" and leaves with a sad smile.

1. The cinema is no good place for a first date because you cant speak, you dont have enough distance and you sit next to her/him instead of in front.
2. When you dont know who should pay, the boy is the right one.
If you are a girl and he doesnt know what to do, pay for him and just tell him with a eyewink and say "Next time its your turn" It has some humour, theres no long silence and you will have a next date. ;op
Instead of giving the other one the money back next day, invite him/her to dinner/icecream w/e
Never forget the distance, the smile and avoid silence (if you are watching stars or clouds silence is ok :3) and devote yourself to her

Whoo I wrote so much
Good luck ^^

i dont flirt with the oposite sex
but just be urself
people like funny

Yeah i dont flirt with the opposite sex !
I just honestly state nice things if theyr nice ppl lol.

I cant remember the last time i even talked to a girl.
Flirting has gotten me nowhere...i just try to ignore them now.

No. Too shy.

Me too

well, my plan of attack is usually to walk up to them and start a conversation by stuttering helpless then walk away in shame, then later attempt to commit scuicide by walking into on coming cars. So basically, NO, no i dont flirt with the opposite sex and just for the sake of it, NOR the same sex. dammit im so lonely and depress. i hope u have benefited from my input^^

Hah. I get along with guys well. Yeah. LOL. I'm heck of a good flirt.

i`m sorry to say this but i`m so terrible at flirting someone.I easily blushed when talking to opposite gender.

I don't flirt, I just tell the true.

It works for me at least

One thing I found helpful: Generally make sexist comments occasionally, not blatantly obvious. Also, just act cool and don't pretend anything's happening.