You know... Many countries, many cultures, many girls and a lot of ways to
invite girl for a date . How do
you often do that? Is the answer always YES^_^? Well.. share your experience
Girls if you invited some guys for a dare, share it with us how did you do that
"hey i lost my cellphone. i got a new one, but i have no numbers in yet.
can i have yours?"
or "you look quite thin beautiful lady. we should go and eat
something"
i did not try this, but it works maybe
usually i get the person of my choice involved i some kind of discussion,
in which i do NOT share the opinion of this person. the person usually gets
mad,
unsecure about her own opinion (maybe this guy is right after all?)
and wants to see me again, to talk the topic over again... funny thing )))
man.... always the cellphone or through some instant messenger.... but it wasn't
a date.... more like me and my bud and the girls hangin' out, having fun and
what not.... watching movies, chowin' popcorn, snacks and so on... i detest
hangin around downtown though.... sucks big time.... anyway...
prozac.... good technique.... gotta try that..... hmmm, thats how its going....
hate, competition or rivalry sometimes attracts one and another... hmm....
*noted... strolling off to try it out*
I just call her and we go on a date, yeah she is my gf. But a new person, well
you need to be a smoth talker first, then depends on the girl if she is the
rowdy/shy type. Then thats it
I never ask any one out really. We just kinda hook up. Most of the time they
find me. I'm freaking shy when it comes to talking to a girl I like. Plus I'm
pretty much insecure.
you'll feel more confident if you just think that girls are nothing but
trouble... in my case, i don't do it to be confident, i think so because it's
true... haha ^_^
pretty simple, if you see someone that you are attracted to make sure that she
is equally attracted you by approaching her and asking does she have a few
minutes to talk. If she says yes, she attracted to you and it's pretty much a
done deal unless you say stupid things.
Quote by gman23by approaching her and
asking does
she have a few minutes to talk.
Another thing, Always be yourself! If your not, and that girl likes it, later on
your eventually going to be yourself which she might not like, and it will end
in more turmoil.
Quote: prozac.... good
technique.... gotta try that..... hmmm, thats how its going.... hate,
competition or rivalry sometimes attracts one and another... hmm.... *noted...
strolling off to try it out*
Like they say, opposites attract. Sorta lioke magnetics.
Quote by gman23pretty simple, if you see
someone that you are attracted to make sure that she is equally attracted you
by approaching her and asking does she have a few minutes to talk. If she says
yes, she attracted to you and it's pretty much a done deal unless you say stupid
things.
To prevent stupid thing happening try love letter always work ,right?
90% go with pity 10%just say no for some reason (they';re not romantic enough
eh?)
Quote: prozac.... good technique.... gotta try that.....
hmmm, thats
how its going.... hate, competition or rivalry sometimes attracts one
and another... hmm.... *noted... strolling off to try it
out*
Like they say, opposites attract. Sorta lioke magnetics.
hmm. this reminds me of that "hate can turn into love in one second"
thingy.....
hmm.. just get her mad, and then try to turn that feelng into a good one
....?
and about the love letters... well that works for school-kids...
later its kind of more difficult to get a reasonable letter to an unknown
beauty you met at some party....
to vagrant: yepp so true, i have a friend, and he is different to girls than to
boys...
but later the girls get to know his "true" character and then they
usually split up...
gah!! What are ya'll talkin' about.... man, don't confuse this dude's head
yeah?!
you just walk to the babe and say.... "Hey babe... nice racks!" ...and
she'll take it as a compliment depending on the girl ^_^ ...then the night will
go just fine. Haha... no, not really... but man, i saw someone posting before
that you should be yourself. That is correct, but that doesn't always work if
you're some arrogant, egoistic and/or superugly dude ^_^
love letters doesn't always work either... because if you fail, you'll just end
up in embarassment and shame, plus that your confidence will decrease
drastically. Sure, a few girls might think it's cute.... but others might think
it's pathetic ^_^
so here's what you should mostly do, considering it's a safe technique and
pretty usual one also, even though not many speaks of it. Just be yourself the
way you are and don't monkey around as soon as a girl close up next to ya, i
know it gives an extreme adrenaline rush. But here comes the point... the girls
use to be the ones taking the first initiative, they show this by talking with
ya or just glare at ya 24/7. There you got a supersafe way to know if you can
talk with her as a friend or not.
i do this alot, and it works pretty much... but considering my beliefs that
girls are the roots of all evil, it also explains why i ain't got a girlfriend
yet, and only babe friends. Besides, in my kickass opinion, i think that it's
much more fun just having babe friends, you can play around, having fun without
worrying or anything ^_^ ...unfortunately, the point when the babe friend and i
fall for each other, i guess i'll have to deny... and you all know why...
hehehe...
Quote by gman23pretty simple, if you see
someone that you are attracted to make sure that she is equally attracted you
by approaching her and asking does she have a few minutes to talk. If she says
yes, she attracted to you and it's pretty much a done deal unless you say stupid
things.
no no ... not well done, that technique got flaws man.... besides, who walks up
to a girl or guy they barely knows and asks them if they got a few minutes? What
if she already got a boyfriend, then you're pretty much screwed... ^_^ *thinks
for myself: i would make a perfect lawyer if it wouldn't be such a boring job*
Guys here is some advice... girls love guys that have a great passion for
something (specially art related). And girl's heartstrings are easy to tug if
you know how.
For example...
Some girl that you like sits in front of you and you want to ask her out. first
establish contact with her. Joke around about class, find something she likes
and get really interested and talk to her about it.
NEXT once contact is established and you are both confortable acquaintances,
bring up a subject that there is somewere you want to go or something you want
to go see really bad but you dont feel comfortable going alone... example, there
is an interesting new show at the current museum, be really excited about it.
THEN ask her if she wants to come. Voila, there is your date.
After doing the planned activity (pretend you did go to the art show), go out
for coffee to talk about it (remember girls love to talk about emotions in
general). If the girl is focusing on your feelings for whatever painting you
just loved or though was pure genious, then her guard will be down and you can
be subtle about hitting on her in a tasteful way.
yeah, it might be easy if you know how... but to know how and to learn to know
how is two different things... heh...
and yeah, i'm a guy and i don't like to waste my vocabulary on cheesy pickup
lines as well, so you got a point there... but if you're a girl, then you mean
alot of trouble and alot of cash and the roots of all evil... mhm!
but see now in your example... that could be considered a well-made plan, even
though my beliefs on girls are a tad peculiar, i do still think that planning is
unnecessary, why planning to ask someone out when the end result depends on the
girl anyway? So just get straight to the point instead of taking the hardest
path. But of course, asking in a nice and gentle way is good.... but asking in a
kickass superguy way is divine! ^_^ Hehe..
besides, not all girls are the same... different person, different taste,
different ways of strategy. But three things in common... trouble, evil and
cash... heh..
I see that you all have sometimes problem with it, so do I . Anyway...
any of ways isn't good enough for all girls... well, maybe for Casanova guys
^_^.
i have little example that I tested on my good firend.
I was always thinking that girls love flowers, especially roses. In my way
boquet of beautifull flowers makes your way to girls heart. They always (well,
maybe 99% of them^_^) say YES when you ask for a date, even for the revenge of
flowers. When you see that date is going very good you can "attak"
more romantic or st'ing... when it's not working enough try to invite her again
and again.
You know... Many countries, many cultures, many girls and a lot of ways to invite girl for a date
. How do
you often do that? Is the answer always YES^_^? Well.. share your experience
Girls if you invited some guys for a dare, share it with us how did you do that
"hey i lost my cellphone. i got a new one, but i have no numbers in yet.
can i have yours?"
or "you look quite thin beautiful lady. we should go and eat something"
i did not try this, but it works maybe
usually i get the person of my choice involved i some kind of discussion,
)))
in which i do NOT share the opinion of this person. the person usually gets mad,
unsecure about her own opinion (maybe this guy is right after all?)
and wants to see me again, to talk the topic over again... funny thing
man.... always the cellphone or through some instant messenger.... but it wasn't a date.... more like me and my bud and the girls hangin' out, having fun and what not.... watching movies, chowin' popcorn, snacks and so on... i detest hangin around downtown though.... sucks big time.... anyway...
prozac.... good technique.... gotta try that..... hmmm, thats how its going.... hate, competition or rivalry sometimes attracts one and another... hmm.... *noted... strolling off to try it out*
I just call her and we go on a date, yeah she is my gf. But a new person, well you need to be a smoth talker first, then depends on the girl if she is the rowdy/shy type. Then thats it
I never ask any one out really. We just kinda hook up. Most of the time they find me. I'm freaking shy when it comes to talking to a girl I like. Plus I'm pretty much insecure.
you'll feel more confident if you just think that girls are nothing but trouble... in my case, i don't do it to be confident, i think so because it's true... haha ^_^
pretty simple, if you see someone that you are attracted to make sure that she is equally attracted you by approaching her and asking does she have a few minutes to talk. If she says yes, she attracted to you and it's pretty much a done deal unless you say stupid things.
Another thing, Always be yourself! If your not, and that girl likes it, later on your eventually going to be yourself which she might not like, and it will end in more turmoil.
Like they say, opposites attract. Sorta lioke magnetics.
To prevent stupid thing happening try love letter always work ,right?
90% go with pity 10%just say no for some reason (they';re not romantic enough eh?)
hmm. this reminds me of that "hate can turn into love in one second" thingy.....
hmm.. just get her mad, and then try to turn that feelng into a good one ....?
and about the love letters... well that works for school-kids...
later its kind of more difficult to get a reasonable letter to an unknown
beauty you met at some party....
to vagrant: yepp so true, i have a friend, and he is different to girls than to boys...
but later the girls get to know his "true" character and then they usually split up...
Just go with the regular ask if they wanna have a coffee or go to the movies, can do that without it being a date of course :P
gah!! What are ya'll talkin' about.... man, don't confuse this dude's head yeah?!
you just walk to the babe and say.... "Hey babe... nice racks!" ...and she'll take it as a compliment depending on the girl ^_^ ...then the night will go just fine. Haha... no, not really... but man, i saw someone posting before that you should be yourself. That is correct, but that doesn't always work if you're some arrogant, egoistic and/or superugly dude ^_^
love letters doesn't always work either... because if you fail, you'll just end up in embarassment and shame, plus that your confidence will decrease drastically. Sure, a few girls might think it's cute.... but others might think it's pathetic ^_^
so here's what you should mostly do, considering it's a safe technique and pretty usual one also, even though not many speaks of it. Just be yourself the way you are and don't monkey around as soon as a girl close up next to ya, i know it gives an extreme adrenaline rush. But here comes the point... the girls use to be the ones taking the first initiative, they show this by talking with ya or just glare at ya 24/7. There you got a supersafe way to know if you can talk with her as a friend or not.
i do this alot, and it works pretty much... but considering my beliefs that girls are the roots of all evil, it also explains why i ain't got a girlfriend yet, and only babe friends. Besides, in my kickass opinion, i think that it's much more fun just having babe friends, you can play around, having fun without worrying or anything ^_^ ...unfortunately, the point when the babe friend and i fall for each other, i guess i'll have to deny... and you all know why... hehehe...
It really all depends on how well you know the girl...cos there are indeed many different approaches depending on the "comfort level" right?
Well done. X3 lol
no no ... not well done, that technique got flaws man.... besides, who walks up to a girl or guy they barely knows and asks them if they got a few minutes? What if she already got a boyfriend, then you're pretty much screwed... ^_^ *thinks for myself: i would make a perfect lawyer if it wouldn't be such a boring job*
gah... avoid cheesy pick up lines at ALL costs...
Guys here is some advice... girls love guys that have a great passion for something (specially art related). And girl's heartstrings are easy to tug if you know how.
For example...
Some girl that you like sits in front of you and you want to ask her out. first establish contact with her. Joke around about class, find something she likes and get really interested and talk to her about it.
NEXT once contact is established and you are both confortable acquaintances, bring up a subject that there is somewere you want to go or something you want to go see really bad but you dont feel comfortable going alone... example, there is an interesting new show at the current museum, be really excited about it. THEN ask her if she wants to come. Voila, there is your date.
After doing the planned activity (pretend you did go to the art show), go out for coffee to talk about it (remember girls love to talk about emotions in general). If the girl is focusing on your feelings for whatever painting you just loved or though was pure genious, then her guard will be down and you can be subtle about hitting on her in a tasteful way.
Trust me... this is from a woman's point of view.
yeah, it might be easy if you know how... but to know how and to learn to know how is two different things... heh...
and yeah, i'm a guy and i don't like to waste my vocabulary on cheesy pickup lines as well, so you got a point there... but if you're a girl, then you mean alot of trouble and alot of cash and the roots of all evil... mhm!
but see now in your example... that could be considered a well-made plan, even though my beliefs on girls are a tad peculiar, i do still think that planning is unnecessary, why planning to ask someone out when the end result depends on the girl anyway? So just get straight to the point instead of taking the hardest path. But of course, asking in a nice and gentle way is good.... but asking in a kickass superguy way is divine! ^_^ Hehe..
besides, not all girls are the same... different person, different taste, different ways of strategy. But three things in common... trouble, evil and cash... heh..
I see that you all have sometimes problem with it, so do I
. Anyway...
any of ways isn't good enough for all girls... well, maybe for Casanova guys
^_^.
i have little example that I tested on my good firend.
I was always thinking that girls love flowers, especially roses. In my way boquet of beautifull flowers makes your way to girls heart. They always (well, maybe 99% of them^_^) say YES when you ask for a date, even for the revenge of flowers. When you see that date is going very good you can "attak" more romantic or st'ing... when it's not working enough try to invite her again and again.