What is the best way to confess your love for someone?
I am very very confused here because I can't think of any ways to confess my
feeling for someone. I want to tell her how I feel, but at the same time I don't
want to be too sudden.
How did you guys confessed to your love ones? Maybe you could give me some
advice.
hi once again, nice question you got here. actually i dont know i havent confess
my love before. im not the confesser only the confessee (if such word exits)
lol.
well in my perspective as a girl, the best way to confess your love would be to
take that someone to a place where the two of you can talk best, then look at
her in the eye, hold the hand if possible and be honest about what you feel.
tell him/her everything, no need to rush, be calm and be confident.
Simple - Don't confess it! Ask her out more, say stuff like "I had a really
great time tonight", etc. Work it in smooth with something like a question
about what love is. Confessing love has a serious stalker connotation to it and
you might creep her out. Don't get your heart crushed friend.
Well, I am pretty sure I am in love with her. I have known her for 4 years in
the school, and been good friends with her for the last 2. I really enjoy
talking with her, but we don't usually talk other stuff except for school and
current events. I don't want to lose her as a friend, so I have no idea how to
confess to her.
I second the hints. Seriously, you may already be -permanently- on her friends
list. It is very difficult to become lovers after being friends for an extended
period of time, especially in the school years. The newness and infatuation that
most of those relationships are based on is depeleted.
Do not overestimate her emotional maturity. If you lay hints and she never acts
on them, fact is she's not in the same mindset as you. You won't know if you
don't try, however. Just don't try to learn to swim in the deep end.
I'll tell you for your own good - you're almost surely on it. Drop hints and be
smooth and subtle and there is a chance you could bring her around.. but just
dropping a bomb on her will do nothing but damage your friendship and certainly
will destroy any chances you had with her. You're likely experiencing something
many guys do - a one-sided infatuation with another person.
Girls will protest this, but it's common practice, especially for young girls,
to string along a lot of guys. They then have their pick of them whenever it is
they decide they want a relationship. The likelihood this is you is slim to
none.
hmm.. try out the old method? can we be friends?
no thats singaporeanish.
this :
go get sources(from her friend etc blah) to find out her likes and hates , get
her some nice flowers , go straight up to her and say : hey babe, mind being my
girl? then maybe even do something unthinkable . now thats what i
think.
When you confess your true feelings for her, be sure you do it in a very
personal way. Not on msn or whatever. It is a must you tell it when you guys
are alone in private, just the two of you. And looking into her eyes .
i really hope it works out good for you! Good luck.
T.S. Quint:
I was going to propose to her.
Brodie Bruce:
Where?
T.S. Quint:
Universal tour.
Brodie Bruce:
You're kidding, what part?!
T.S. Quint:
When Jaws pops out of the water.
Brodie Bruce:
That's the most romantic thing I've ever heard.
-mallrats
Mmm.... I think you guys are way to direct. I don't want to scare her or
anything.
Even though I really love her, I don't want to lose her by frightening her off.
fine.
go the wierd way. ask her if u canbe her fren blah blah. listen to her , etc.
this mite take long. but hey! maybe in 2 years she mite just feel so sad, and
viola.tell her that you love her and it hurts to see her so sad.
What is the best way to confess your love for someone?
I am very very confused here because I can't think of any ways to confess my feeling for someone. I want to tell her how I feel, but at the same time I don't want to be too sudden.
How did you guys confessed to your love ones? Maybe you could give me some advice.
hi once again, nice question you got here. actually i dont know i havent confess my love before. im not the confesser only the confessee (if such word exits) lol.
well in my perspective as a girl, the best way to confess your love would be to take that someone to a place where the two of you can talk best, then look at her in the eye, hold the hand if possible and be honest about what you feel. tell him/her everything, no need to rush, be calm and be confident.
wow, looks like you are in love, are you?
Simple - Don't confess it! Ask her out more, say stuff like "I had a really great time tonight", etc. Work it in smooth with something like a question about what love is. Confessing love has a serious stalker connotation to it and you might creep her out. Don't get your heart crushed friend.
Well, I am pretty sure I am in love with her. I have known her for 4 years in the school, and been good friends with her for the last 2. I really enjoy talking with her, but we don't usually talk other stuff except for school and current events. I don't want to lose her as a friend, so I have no idea how to confess to her.
I am not great ot this stuff. But if it was me I would leave hints and see the response.
I second the hints. Seriously, you may already be -permanently- on her friends list. It is very difficult to become lovers after being friends for an extended period of time, especially in the school years. The newness and infatuation that most of those relationships are based on is depeleted.
Do not overestimate her emotional maturity. If you lay hints and she never acts on them, fact is she's not in the same mindset as you. You won't know if you don't try, however. Just don't try to learn to swim in the deep end.
Well maybe I should leave some hints.
But what I am afraid is that she really put me in her permanent friend's list.
Mmm.... now i need to do some more thinking.
I'll tell you for your own good - you're almost surely on it. Drop hints and be smooth and subtle and there is a chance you could bring her around.. but just dropping a bomb on her will do nothing but damage your friendship and certainly will destroy any chances you had with her. You're likely experiencing something many guys do - a one-sided infatuation with another person.
Girls will protest this, but it's common practice, especially for young girls, to string along a lot of guys. They then have their pick of them whenever it is they decide they want a relationship. The likelihood this is you is slim to none.
It's simple...
Get on your knees and tell me that you love me!
With matching flowers and a ring.
somehow I got this thing against words.. I prefer a way that ur eyes tells your feelings towards someone..
hmm.. try out the old method? can we be friends?
no thats singaporeanish.
this :
go get sources(from her friend etc blah) to find out her likes and hates , get her some nice flowers , go straight up to her and say : hey babe, mind being my girl? then maybe even do something unthinkable . now thats what i think.
~j
When you confess your true feelings for her, be sure you do it in a very personal way. Not on msn or whatever. It is a must you tell it when you guys are alone in private, just the two of you. And looking into her eyes
.
i really hope it works out good for you! Good luck.
T.S. Quint:
I was going to propose to her.
Brodie Bruce:
Where?
T.S. Quint:
Universal tour.
Brodie Bruce:
You're kidding, what part?!
T.S. Quint:
When Jaws pops out of the water.
Brodie Bruce:
That's the most romantic thing I've ever heard.
-mallrats
I don't know the best way but I just kinda brought it up when we were alone.
and after that...the french kiss.....
Why don't you go and try to kiss her... if she don't agree then just say "sorry, i didn't have to do this!"
when you love someone I blelieve the best way to tell is to tell in the face. don't hide the feelings that u have inside.
If you know you're going to be sorry before you do it then it's better to not do it !
But I wouldn't feel sorry
It's a
big step, though.
Mmm.... I think you guys are way to direct. I don't want to scare her or anything.
Even though I really love her, I don't want to lose her by frightening her off.
fine.
go the wierd way. ask her if u canbe her fren blah blah. listen to her , etc. this mite take long. but hey! maybe in 2 years she mite just feel so sad, and viola.tell her that you love her and it hurts to see her so sad.
~j
I won't fell really sorry... i just apologize for what i've done because she didn't want me to do this... It's a way to keep good relationship!
in a note...hehe
and maybe you could slip the tounge... shut up you two!!!
I never confess by words, I let all my moves do the talking...
I agree wth jakulito, if you are going to confess, let your actions do every thing--no words!