Quote by SoulScholarI remember in
Sex-Ed someone said that the average man thinks of sex every 7
seconds
Whenever they say something like that they usually
mean subconsciously not deliberatly. If someone actively thought about anything
every seven seconds they'd never be able to get anything done!
Quote by LoneTenchi
I agree with you but this is the way I chose to look at it. I
mean I'm only 14 so I haven't put much thought into having sex because I don't
plan on having it until I'm married. In a way, beleiving I have to earn the
right will serve as a reminder that I don't want to do anything foolish in a
moment of madness that I will surely regret later. I understand where your
coming from though, thanks for that Kuzain. ^__^
I think your outlook on the topic is pretty good as long
as you are earning the right from yourself and not from anyone else. One of the
most important aspects of good sexual health is that you feel good about
yourself and feel good about your partner. Waiting until you are with someone
you want to spend the rest of your life with is the best way to make sure that
happens. Best of luck!
Sex, I think, is a form of love that should only be done with if you're married.
I'm against premartial sex, because I think you should only have it after you're
married. I mean, why have it with a person that you will probably never see
again? You'll be ripped, and you'll lose one of the most precious gifts you have
before even getting married, and you won't feel the true.....erm pleasure that
you would feel if you were a virgin and got married.
I'm still a virgin. I'm only 14.
Nearly 21 still a V, get picked on alot at work for it. Ido beleive its
something that two people who are truly in love should do, but since I still
neverhad a gf and all the close calls was crushed by them admitting to me that
they're gay so as of right now I've basically given up since its like trying to
find a needle in a haystack to try and find someone who is into anime, video
games, and comic books like I am or will accept that part of me specially in my
neck of the woods. I'm basically a live Keitaro if he was stuck at home and
wasn't sent to manage a girls dorm.
wow...we all are so open lol...can you imagine a conversation like this just
happening randomly in the hall hehe....anyway I'm a virgin just like the many
posts before me
I'm virgin to and proud to be.
Me and my girlfriend talk a lots about sex but we don't want to practice that
befor a long time, we want to wait till the 2 are ready to. Its can be in one
month or one year we don't know but one thing that i'm sure is when we will do
it, that will be a fantastic moment and we will be ready physicaly and
spiritualy.
Quote by CopKillerthat will be a
fantastic moment and we will be ready physicaly and
spiritualy.
You probably shouldn't place so much pressure on
that one event. Chances are it won't go like you plan but the best part of
waiting until you are with someone you love is that you don't have to get it
right in one night.
Quote by miraku-spikeI don't think
that sex is important part of your life! Being together
with someone you really care for and love is important part of your
life! Sex is just another way of saying, "I love you". But I'm sure
that it's great. Even thou I didn't had sex.
You are definitely a virgin, otherwise you wouldn't be saying
that.
Quote by SharinganKnightdude...masterbation
is not something to be proud of. Jesus, what is this world coming to...
go out and get yourself a hooker or something..wow
Yeah that's a great idea. Let's just spread uncontrolled sex with prostitutes
everywhere because masturbation isn't cool. Get a hold of yourself, AIDS and
other sexually related diseases aren't things we need more of.
There are a lot of opinions I don't agree with here. But you're welcome to have
them, just don't expect me to pat you on the back for it. We disagree on a
fundamental level, so don't take this personally. I may not agree with what you
say, but I respect your right to say it.
As previously mentioned people seem to involve themselves in the societal image
of sex: that it's ultimately unimportant, and therefore lose their virginity to
someone they eventually break up with. Tough luck, sex should (In my opinion) be
an important decision between two individuals. If you have sex before you're
married, chances are neither of you are ready for the commitment of a real
relationship. If you can't even control your physical desires in a relationship,
you've still got a lot of learning to do. As always, there are exceptions to
every rule, but in general people still wonder why the divorce rates are
soaring. If people would keep the lusty societal image under control maybe we
wouldn't be having this discussion.
I'm a virgin, and not because it's hard to find "ass" as some like to
call it. It's because I have morals that differ from the general population, and
I'm not going to have sex with someone until I'm sure we have something solid.
This could mean I never have sex (Remote but possible obviously), but I'd rather
go out a virgin than some broke old man who's probably still paying child
support to the his 3rd ex-wife.
Note: This is all based on sex as it relates to relationships between two
individuals. This is not taking into account simple sexual desire. I'm not going
to say a horny business man should marry a hooker before he wants to have sex
with her, although I do think prostitution is wrong.
I think Boris was just trying to point out that you aren't really in a position
to comment on how important sex was, not to attack your pride in your
virginity.
It is close to impossible to have an adult, intimate relationship without sex
and the marriages that last are ones that have a healthy attitude towards sex.
There's nothing wrong with being proud to be a virgin or waiting until you're
ready but you shouldn't just dismiss something out of hand. It is because sex
should be important part of your life that you should wait until you are ready
to have it.
Sex is pretty important. It doesn't just pertain to sleeping with someone, there
are serious consequences to one's actions. I'm only pointing out my opinion, and
it just so happens that my personal opinion opposes a few people here. You need
not take it all too seriously. However it's also a huge generalization to say
that the only adult relationships and marriages (Or almost all of them) that
last have healthy sexual relationships. It may be true for an undisclosed number
of them, but may not be for an equal, less than, or greater number. You can't
say you shouldn't dismiss it but then say you should wait until you're ready to
have it. Dismiss it until you're ready, or don't have it at all.
(Once again I can't stress it enough, this is obviously my opinion. You aren't
going to get anywhere arguing with it, it's simply my stance on the subject)
I wasn't arguing with you, just pointing out some things to think about. Every
relationship expert will tell you that sex is a needed part of a healthy
marriage. Sex with someone you love bonds you in a way that cannot be matched
with any other person. You shouldn't dismiss just because you aren't having it.
Doesn't it make it that much more of a commitment to know it's important and to
know it's important to wait?
Then this corresponds properly with what I was saying earlier. Obviously it's
fine in a healthy marriage. We're talking about a (Hypothetical) stable marriage
with a healthy relationship between both individuals. I wouldn't tell two
married individuals to refrain from sex for obvious reasons. And I wouldn't
refer them to a "relationship expert" either, but that's an entirely
different issue. I'm not saying don't think about it, I'm saying don't do it
unless you're ready. I never meant to come across that way and I apologize if I
did.
Quote by KuzainI think Boris was just
trying to point out that you aren't really in a
position to comment on how important sex was, not to attack your pride
in your virginity.
Precisely. I myself waited for marriage. I am merely stating that your outlook
was obviously one of someone who has never experienced it.
i thought you'd all like to know, I, the author of this sex thread, is a member
of the yuri-lovers, pervert-club and ecchi club.
i know i proved myself to be a pervert, but i just want 1 girl. 1 perfect girl.
the perfect 1 i would have an umbilical bond with. the only girl i'll have sex
with. if she dies, so shall i (unless i had kids to look after).
I'm a vigin 2...and I'm 17...i don't believe in that crap about goiing to hellor
stuff...but first I want to do it with someone I love and trust, I know and I
trully accept
i don't put much price on virginity...sex is just another step...you just have 2
choose carfeuly with whom you make this step...every time...so you won'y regret
it..obviously...not to mention all the protection means
Whenever they say something like that they usually mean subconsciously not deliberatly. If someone actively thought about anything every seven seconds they'd never be able to get anything done!
I think your outlook on the topic is pretty good as long as you are earning the right from yourself and not from anyone else. One of the most important aspects of good sexual health is that you feel good about yourself and feel good about your partner. Waiting until you are with someone you want to spend the rest of your life with is the best way to make sure that happens. Best of luck!
Meh,,,,i am close to 20 and i am a virgin, dunnno if i should be proud of it, i guess i should, i dont really care either way, no big deal to me
Sex, I think, is a form of love that should only be done with if you're married. I'm against premartial sex, because I think you should only have it after you're married. I mean, why have it with a person that you will probably never see again? You'll be ripped, and you'll lose one of the most precious gifts you have before even getting married, and you won't feel the true.....erm pleasure that you would feel if you were a virgin and got married.
I'm still a virgin. I'm only 14.
well sex is good as long as both partners are responsible and knows the consequences of their actions.......
Nearly 21 still a V, get picked on alot at work for it. Ido beleive its something that two people who are truly in love should do, but since I still neverhad a gf and all the close calls was crushed by them admitting to me that they're gay so as of right now I've basically given up since its like trying to find a needle in a haystack to try and find someone who is into anime, video games, and comic books like I am or will accept that part of me specially in my neck of the woods. I'm basically a live Keitaro if he was stuck at home and wasn't sent to manage a girls dorm.
wow...we all are so open lol...can you imagine a conversation like this just happening randomly in the hall hehe....anyway I'm a virgin just like the many posts before me
Im a virgin
thanck for god
I'm virgin to and proud to be.
Me and my girlfriend talk a lots about sex but we don't want to practice that befor a long time, we want to wait till the 2 are ready to. Its can be in one month or one year we don't know but one thing that i'm sure is when we will do it, that will be a fantastic moment and we will be ready physicaly and spiritualy.
But my father had a funy proverb about the virginity loll.
"The virginity are like a fly on a cow ass, one tail hit and its dosn't exist anymore"
Okay... the proveb a bether in french loll.
"La virginitée est comme une mouche sure le cul d'une vache, un coup de queue et elle est partie"
You probably shouldn't place so much pressure on that one event. Chances are it won't go like you plan but the best part of waiting until you are with someone you love is that you don't have to get it right in one night.
Yes. I'm a vrigin and proud of it!
Yeah that's a great idea. Let's just spread uncontrolled sex with prostitutes everywhere because masturbation isn't cool. Get a hold of yourself, AIDS and other sexually related diseases aren't things we need more of.
There are a lot of opinions I don't agree with here. But you're welcome to have them, just don't expect me to pat you on the back for it. We disagree on a fundamental level, so don't take this personally. I may not agree with what you say, but I respect your right to say it.
As previously mentioned people seem to involve themselves in the societal image of sex: that it's ultimately unimportant, and therefore lose their virginity to someone they eventually break up with. Tough luck, sex should (In my opinion) be an important decision between two individuals. If you have sex before you're married, chances are neither of you are ready for the commitment of a real relationship. If you can't even control your physical desires in a relationship, you've still got a lot of learning to do. As always, there are exceptions to every rule, but in general people still wonder why the divorce rates are soaring. If people would keep the lusty societal image under control maybe we wouldn't be having this discussion.
I'm a virgin, and not because it's hard to find "ass" as some like to call it. It's because I have morals that differ from the general population, and I'm not going to have sex with someone until I'm sure we have something solid. This could mean I never have sex (Remote but possible obviously), but I'd rather go out a virgin than some broke old man who's probably still paying child support to the his 3rd ex-wife.
Note: This is all based on sex as it relates to relationships between two individuals. This is not taking into account simple sexual desire. I'm not going to say a horny business man should marry a hooker before he wants to have sex with her, although I do think prostitution is wrong.
I think Boris was just trying to point out that you aren't really in a position to comment on how important sex was, not to attack your pride in your virginity.
It is close to impossible to have an adult, intimate relationship without sex and the marriages that last are ones that have a healthy attitude towards sex. There's nothing wrong with being proud to be a virgin or waiting until you're ready but you shouldn't just dismiss something out of hand. It is because sex should be important part of your life that you should wait until you are ready to have it.
Sex is pretty important. It doesn't just pertain to sleeping with someone, there are serious consequences to one's actions. I'm only pointing out my opinion, and it just so happens that my personal opinion opposes a few people here. You need not take it all too seriously. However it's also a huge generalization to say that the only adult relationships and marriages (Or almost all of them) that last have healthy sexual relationships. It may be true for an undisclosed number of them, but may not be for an equal, less than, or greater number. You can't say you shouldn't dismiss it but then say you should wait until you're ready to have it. Dismiss it until you're ready, or don't have it at all.
(Once again I can't stress it enough, this is obviously my opinion. You aren't going to get anywhere arguing with it, it's simply my stance on the subject)
I wasn't arguing with you, just pointing out some things to think about. Every relationship expert will tell you that sex is a needed part of a healthy marriage. Sex with someone you love bonds you in a way that cannot be matched with any other person. You shouldn't dismiss just because you aren't having it. Doesn't it make it that much more of a commitment to know it's important and to know it's important to wait?
Me, virgin.... I will say no more........ *sigh* males these days,.... i'll just have to live through it......
Then this corresponds properly with what I was saying earlier. Obviously it's fine in a healthy marriage. We're talking about a (Hypothetical) stable marriage with a healthy relationship between both individuals. I wouldn't tell two married individuals to refrain from sex for obvious reasons. And I wouldn't refer them to a "relationship expert" either, but that's an entirely different issue. I'm not saying don't think about it, I'm saying don't do it unless you're ready. I never meant to come across that way and I apologize if I did.
Precisely. I myself waited for marriage. I am merely stating that your outlook was obviously one of someone who has never experienced it.
Hey dude I want to join ecchi club give me an answer please
I don't run the ecchi club.
i thought you'd all like to know, I, the author of this sex thread, is a member of the yuri-lovers, pervert-club and ecchi club.
i know i proved myself to be a pervert, but i just want 1 girl. 1 perfect girl. the perfect 1 i would have an umbilical bond with. the only girl i'll have sex with. if she dies, so shall i (unless i had kids to look after).
I too am in all those clubs myself. And I am married.
this has got to be the most nerve-breaking thread ever..... i`m still a virgin (only 13 here!!) and plan to keep it that way until i`m 20 or so....
I'm a vigin 2...and I'm 17...i don't believe in that crap about goiing to hellor stuff...but first I want to do it with someone I love and trust, I know and I trully accept
i don't put much price on virginity...sex is just another step...you just have 2 choose carfeuly with whom you make this step...every time...so you won'y regret it..obviously...not to mention all the protection means
hehe long lost many many moons ago