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Do you fell lonly everytime that you see someone dating

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Is kind of wierd but i haven' t met someone that would like stay with me and it feels sad not to be love by someone that you expect for. Why girls always want to be your freind instead your girlfreind. is very complicated continue to see that person after she said that!!!
It hurts!!!

yeah i feel lonely whenever i see people dating and i never really had a boyfriend because i cant find anyone that would fit my personality and have similar interests or if i do find that person they already have a girlfriend and i dont want to compete because girls can be vicious and me i cant get that vicious cause im to nice i mean i cant even yell at anyone and i cant even sound stern enough to get people to understand how i feel

I've had this problem for quite a while now. I remember when I used to complain whenever I saw other people together, but a nice guy like myself didn't have anyone with him. It's pretty lame when someone just wants to be your friend if they talk to you for a while, but I'm sure some progression can be made. However, I've gotten over it because it was a mistake that costed my first relationship. Now, I'm going to live life to the fullest until I can actually be together with my new girlfriend; patience goes a long way. Hang in there, friend. ;)

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Quote by LAZAIs kind of wierd but i haven' t met someone that would like stay with
me and it feels sad not to be love by someone that you expect for. Why
girls always want to be your freind instead your girlfreind. is very
complicated continue to see that person after she said that!!!
It hurts!!!

Maybe that's because you should also be aware that a girl needs her own personal and private space and that she isn't too interested in finding love right away, so you have to understand nothing goes everybody's way all the time. I know that because I obviously hang around many girls who go to the same university I do, and they aren't ready to be pushed forward in life right away. I wouldn't even expect them to seriously go under one until perhaps years from now on.

Some are more urgent in the matters of education, and stability of life, finding a job and benefiting a lot of it from society. Others pay more attention to family needs, and some just don't want to find any love at all, and you have to respect their decision.

Just be patient, and who knows. Some day, it comes to people at the most unexpected of times. Try to rush people into things, and you'll feel like running into a brick wall, apparently.

Sigh... Don't remind me... I know I'm a little young, but I'm having this crush whom I dun dare to confess to.. and i see my frens dating... sheeesh.. Life stinks when you're not cool and hip n dropdead gorgeous n rich n etc etc etc

No.............not really, i kinda think 'aww, thats sweet.... maybe someday i'll have a special someone' :) Why feel sorry for your self and make your self depressed?

Hmmm... I don't. I mean whether anybody else has a date doesn't really affect me now, does it? I suppose one might feel lonely if they're sorely missing their girlfriend and the couple next to you acts intimately, but then thats more because you're missing your girlfriend than because the couple next to you is acting intimately... I suppose the feeling of loneliness might be enlarged by others not sharing the feeling, but the root cause is still mostly yourself...

Yes, I do.

Most of my friends are getting boyfriends and girlfriends faster than I can keep up with. And after being rejected 3 times, it sure makes me feel a little jealous and lonely. Not that I want to go out with anybody, but just someone to be with would make me feel alot better. Just to talk to and help comfort me.

Yes, I do feel kinda lonely when someone is dating….
My cousin (who is a year younger than me) is already going on a date
and I kinda feel bad for some reason…
i do have friends that are girls, but they already have dates, so life can be cruel to u T_T

Yeah...sometimes I feel lonely. But mainly because I was recently made single again, and I miss having a partner with me. It doesn't happen often though, and most of the time I just think nothing of it.

Yeah...sometimes I feel lonely. But mainly because I was recently made single again, and I miss having a partner with me. It doesn't happen often though, and most of the time I just think nothing of it.

I feel lonely, but then I have a gf, and then I only envy that I could not do what they did infront of me

nah, been with my gf for like ever, shes even a member here at MT, so i dont guess i ever get lonely, but i have before, but you just have to learn to enjoy the freedom of being single sometimes, cause when its gone its gone

Yeah this year I felt lonely, the two friends I hanged out with would always be kissing and hugging in front of me. It's not that I was jealous I just couldn't take it, most of my friends had boyfriends so I felt really left out. That is until I met a certain guy who I began to date, hmm I never thought there would be someone out there for me but I guess there's always someone that cares about you :)

mmmm to be honest
not really
i did before i ever had a taste of that kind of thing
but then after that i kind of realised i'm not missing out on something huge
its not something i really need to rush so
i'll just wing it for now ^_^

Thanks a lot to everyone but we have to do the only thing that we can do in this life
WAIT!!:(

I've kind of gotten over being lonely and stuff. I just get kind of bitter now. You know "she's so lucky..." blahblah :/. Not so cool.

Yes, I do feel a little lonely when I see a couple on a date and at times uncomfortable if I am not with friends when I see them because it makes me more aware that I am alone, but to a point like kakuseiki I also get bitter and cynical about how long that couples relationship will likely last.

Waiting is not easy, it is the hardest thing we can do because everyone will always say things such as "have faith" and "wait a little longer" but perhaps taking a more aggressive approach and going on the hunt, so to speak, is better then just waiting?

Cuz my gf doesn't live in the same town i get lonly to. Its stinks. And when your really lonly you see al those couples and people who are dating. It makes me sick. Its like the world wants to let you feel even more lonly.

Sometimes, only because I think of how I wish my boyfriend was around to do things with. But it'll take just a little more patience and a little more hard work before it all pays off =)

No..I often get annoyed actually. Maybe it's just in high school..I personally think it's too early to be dating in high school. At other places like the mall, I often feel sad for the guy if the guy looks bored.

not really, but sometimes i get annoyed when everyone seems to have their loved one at their side, that rarely happens.

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