Look I Have liked this girl for 4 years now and I try not to love her and to let
go but I can't do it. Well after four years I feel that I can conclude she dont
like me I have done many things to prove my love but she doesnt seem to care.
Anyways The guys that she does hang out with suck. They skip classes and They
are complete morons yet she likes them, I guess she likes the bad boy image.i
have tried to talk to her but i guess she hates me but i cant let her go. There
is just something about her. Oh God Help me I dont know what to do
anymore.
Well some girls like bad boys..i really dont understand why. It usually is
because they want to brag around later like "Oh he was an alcoholic...but i
changed him" kind of stuff.
Basiclly..women who hang around with the wrong kind of men..such as rebelious
and dangerous men, usually dont get far in life. This is because they get pulled
down with the wrong crowd. This is when a woman should be smart and hang around
with decent people. Decent people always make it through and they could also rub
off on her.
I think she is in a strange phase right now...it usually happens to young
girls.
All you can do is continue to love her..if you wish..and let her know that.
Eventually when she matures and becomes older, she will notice that good men are
hard to find these days, literally. Most men are
alcoholics..druggies..rapists..murderes..etc. But thats not to say that women
dont do that either.
All you can do for now is stay there by her side..
Have you ever told her that you liked her face to face? Or are you just making
yourself look stupid by doing things that she has no interest in?
And yeah, girls say they like nice guys but in the end go for the ones with a
big cock and do bad things. Then they bitch about getting abused but don't
leave.
In the end, she'll hopefully realised that she was being a bitch towards you and
realise that you're her real friend. Then you can use the chains and bondage
gear...
One prob Im not really by her side I guess she nknow she can depend on me
but...........ahhhh I... i.... Your right I will always be here for her in the
darkness of her shadow. All she need do is call
Well kyrokushen, some feelings you need to bottle up and kill. You should
concentrate on school and if you're not in school, your career. Women are dream
killers especially girls like her. You need to give up the fight because women
like her will probably end up pregnant and become a single mother. You need to
kill your love and concentrate on you. In other words, screw her, she will
probably never love you unless you're a bad boy yourself. You need to forget her
because there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Remember, you come first. You concentrate on getting ahead in life. Screw her.
Try to see here as a friend as long as it needs to be so you can concentrate on
your school or job whatever your doing. Maybe she will like you someday and if
not than you won't be that unhappy because you saw here as a friend...
But if you don't let go than you will end up killing your life and get
screwed...
try to do your best in school or job and (if shes still young...) then she will
realise that you are way better than those bad guys
you know something, kyro, I'm in the same boat as you, exact same. I know
exactly what it's like to do everything and nothing in return but eventually
you'll have to move on because a woman like that is not worth your time. Sure,
no one said it would be easy, but like programzero said they're the ones who
will end up pregnant by the same idiots they like. She's not worth the time and
effort. I need to listen to my own advice because I'm in the same situation. I'm
just glad to hear what I was thinking from other people; I needed reassurance.
Hm. I see you're still in your mid-teens. Unfortunately many girls at that age
are like the girl you described. In some schools (it wasn't like that at mine)
popularity and 'badness' correlates, and I'm thinking the 'moron' crowd you
refer to may be this popular group. Either that or she hangs out with the
punks.. In either case, she seems to be attracted to the 'free-spirited' or
'bad' boys. There isn't really much you can do to change what she's attracted
to, but you have the choice of staying by her side or moving on. That's entirely
upto you. Also, you can try evaluating yourself to see if there are things that
you can change for the better. I'm definitely not saying you should become like
the 'complete morons' but for example, if you're shy or unsociable, you can try
working on that. (I'm guessing if she's attracted to those type of people,
she'll probably like someone who's self-confident.)
Perhaps she will become more mature soon and realize there isn't much to gain
from hanging out with her current crowd, but it is also possible that she
doesn't. I don't know.. you should know best what is best for you right now Just
don't have a defeatist attitude, and love yourself before you love another girl
who doesn't reciprocate that love.
Kyrokushen, how 'bout you move on. Screw her. Bottle up those feelings because
those feelings get in the way of your life goals. Cry me a river, build a
bridge, and get over it.
i know what it's like to have an unreciprocated love for someone. heck, i've had
numerous ones! at some point you'll realize that you have to move on. (hopefully
you won't hold one longer than my longest one... 7 years...) at some point you
may even come to question yourself, "what did i ever see in them?"
i've had that moment a couple of times... that's actually where the majority of
my crushes ended up. other times they'll fade into the comfortable "just-
friends" zone. well, whatever you choose to do i wish you well!
Shes got ya right where she wants you, same advice from me, get out of it. I
liked a girl for nearly 6 years before, but she ignored me like that. When i
told her how I felt and got rejected it was a lot easier to forget about her.
Even today I look back and like fireflywishes said "what did i see in
her?"
Just rememeber, at this point no matter how many favors you do for her its not
gonna change her mind.
Use your head. Is it worth all this for you? Do ya enjoy feeling that way?
Go out and do something constructive like smashing gophers in the head with a
shovel or something. Take your mind off it.
What have you done, exactly, to "prove your love" to her? This is just
speculation, mind you, but I get the feeling you didn't come right out and
confess. Like in so many teenage angst stories, you've got to grow a pair and
just come out and tell her, point blank, how you feel. If she returns your
feelings, great, it's all hunky-dorry. If not, you get some closure and
hopefully, you can move on.
Sorry if I seem uncaring, but in my experience, it's better to be blunt in these
situations.
Well, there are many many better people out there.
I think that there is this kind of intrigue that she seems special to you in a
way, you know what I mean? I used to feel that way about someone, but then when
I found out that they were pretty much a player, I was temporarily crushed.
Luckily someone had given me some advice and told me that it's not a crime to
love, or to feel this way- but you gotta think, do you like this person cuz
they're special? What if you are exposed to them for a long time... then their
specialness wears off.
I say, people like her are really hard to change. I know that. And even if she
does change, it'll be many years to come when she faces reality like having to
find a job and stuff.
It's your choice , but what I did was simply forget about the person, keep a
smile on my face and treat them as nothing more than a special friend.
Quote by DrifterxIf she is hating
you....i suggest letting go....Its gonna hurt even
more as you go even futher^_^ Oh what the heck im saying go with you
Heart...@_@
DTB. What does that mean? Dump That B. Well, you were never with her so that
doesn't really count. But, I have said it before and I'll say it again. Kill
those feelings inside. They will get in your way.
Look I Have liked this girl for 4 years now and I try not to love her and to let go but I can't do it. Well after four years I feel that I can conclude she dont like me I have done many things to prove my love but she doesnt seem to care. Anyways The guys that she does hang out with suck. They skip classes and They are complete morons yet she likes them, I guess she likes the bad boy image.i have tried to talk to her but i guess she hates me but i cant let her go. There is just something about her. Oh God Help me I dont know what to do anymore.
-A chubby with a chubby heart
Well some girls like bad boys..i really dont understand why. It usually is because they want to brag around later like "Oh he was an alcoholic...but i changed him" kind of stuff.
Basiclly..women who hang around with the wrong kind of men..such as rebelious and dangerous men, usually dont get far in life. This is because they get pulled down with the wrong crowd. This is when a woman should be smart and hang around with decent people. Decent people always make it through and they could also rub off on her.
I think she is in a strange phase right now...it usually happens to young girls.
All you can do is continue to love her..if you wish..and let her know that. Eventually when she matures and becomes older, she will notice that good men are hard to find these days, literally. Most men are alcoholics..druggies..rapists..murderes..etc. But thats not to say that women dont do that either.
All you can do for now is stay there by her side..
Have you ever told her that you liked her face to face? Or are you just making yourself look stupid by doing things that she has no interest in?
And yeah, girls say they like nice guys but in the end go for the ones with a big cock and do bad things. Then they bitch about getting abused but don't leave.
In the end, she'll hopefully realised that she was being a bitch towards you and realise that you're her real friend. Then you can use the chains and bondage gear...
One prob Im not really by her side I guess she nknow she can depend on me but...........ahhhh I... i.... Your right I will always be here for her in the darkness of her shadow. All she need do is call
Well kyrokushen, some feelings you need to bottle up and kill. You should concentrate on school and if you're not in school, your career. Women are dream killers especially girls like her. You need to give up the fight because women like her will probably end up pregnant and become a single mother. You need to kill your love and concentrate on you. In other words, screw her, she will probably never love you unless you're a bad boy yourself. You need to forget her because there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Remember, you come first. You concentrate on getting ahead in life. Screw her.
Try to see here as a friend as long as it needs to be so you can concentrate on your school or job whatever your doing. Maybe she will like you someday and if not than you won't be that unhappy because you saw here as a friend...
But if you don't let go than you will end up killing your life and get screwed...
try to do your best in school or job and (if shes still young...) then she will realise that you are way better than those bad guys
just tell her strait up that you like her and let it ride from there
A predicament.
What I have done in a similar situation is to find a secondary person for your attraction. Make her see what she has lost.
you know something, kyro, I'm in the same boat as you, exact same. I know exactly what it's like to do everything and nothing in return but eventually you'll have to move on because a woman like that is not worth your time. Sure, no one said it would be easy, but like programzero said they're the ones who will end up pregnant by the same idiots they like. She's not worth the time and effort. I need to listen to my own advice because I'm in the same situation. I'm just glad to hear what I was thinking from other people; I needed reassurance.
Hm. I see you're still in your mid-teens. Unfortunately many girls at that age are like the girl you described. In some schools (it wasn't like that at mine) popularity and 'badness' correlates, and I'm thinking the 'moron' crowd you refer to may be this popular group. Either that or she hangs out with the punks.. In either case, she seems to be attracted to the 'free-spirited' or 'bad' boys. There isn't really much you can do to change what she's attracted to, but you have the choice of staying by her side or moving on. That's entirely upto you. Also, you can try evaluating yourself to see if there are things that you can change for the better. I'm definitely not saying you should become like the 'complete morons' but for example, if you're shy or unsociable, you can try working on that. (I'm guessing if she's attracted to those type of people, she'll probably like someone who's self-confident.)
Perhaps she will become more mature soon and realize there isn't much to gain from hanging out with her current crowd, but it is also possible that she doesn't. I don't know.. you should know best what is best for you right now
Just
don't have a defeatist attitude, and love yourself before you love another girl
who doesn't reciprocate that love.
Kyrokushen, how 'bout you move on. Screw her. Bottle up those feelings because those feelings get in the way of your life goals. Cry me a river, build a bridge, and get over it.
i know what it's like to have an unreciprocated love for someone. heck, i've had numerous ones! at some point you'll realize that you have to move on. (hopefully you won't hold one longer than my longest one... 7 years...) at some point you may even come to question yourself, "what did i ever see in them?" i've had that moment a couple of times... that's actually where the majority of my crushes ended up. other times they'll fade into the comfortable "just- friends" zone. well, whatever you choose to do i wish you well!
Shes got ya right where she wants you, same advice from me, get out of it. I liked a girl for nearly 6 years before, but she ignored me like that. When i told her how I felt and got rejected it was a lot easier to forget about her. Even today I look back and like fireflywishes said "what did i see in her?"
Just rememeber, at this point no matter how many favors you do for her its not gonna change her mind.
If she is hating you....i suggest letting go....Its gonna hurt even more as you go even futher^_^ Oh what the heck im saying go with you Heart...@_@
Use your head. Is it worth all this for you? Do ya enjoy feeling that way?
Go out and do something constructive like smashing gophers in the head with a shovel or something. Take your mind off it.
What have you done, exactly, to "prove your love" to her? This is just speculation, mind you, but I get the feeling you didn't come right out and confess. Like in so many teenage angst stories, you've got to grow a pair and just come out and tell her, point blank, how you feel. If she returns your feelings, great, it's all hunky-dorry. If not, you get some closure and hopefully, you can move on.
Sorry if I seem uncaring, but in my experience, it's better to be blunt in these situations.
Well, there are many many better people out there.
I think that there is this kind of intrigue that she seems special to you in a way, you know what I mean? I used to feel that way about someone, but then when I found out that they were pretty much a player, I was temporarily crushed. Luckily someone had given me some advice and told me that it's not a crime to love, or to feel this way- but you gotta think, do you like this person cuz they're special? What if you are exposed to them for a long time... then their specialness wears off.
I say, people like her are really hard to change. I know that. And even if she does change, it'll be many years to come when she faces reality like having to find a job and stuff.
It's your choice , but what I did was simply forget about the person, keep a smile on my face and treat them as nothing more than a special friend.
Tie her tubes while she's sleeping. Girls get a kick out of that until they realize you've prevented them from having kids. XP ahahahahaaaa
you got a point there
DTB. What does that mean? Dump That B. Well, you were never with her so that doesn't really count. But, I have said it before and I'll say it again. Kill those feelings inside. They will get in your way.