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Love, Friends & Family

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For gountessg, you need not forget your crush. You may still keep in touch through email, and other forms of communication.
For me, I try not to tell my crush that she is my crush. I will tell her in the friendliest, funniest, joking way my feelings.

i have a crush on this one guy at school but im really shy and i dont have the courage to ask him out because im afraid he will say no cause he doesnt really know me or he already has a girlfriend and i dont really know him that well all i know is that hes in drama club and hes cute and hes really funny and he seems to be a fun guy

Have a thing for this girl at the cafe that i work at, she's cute, but she has a kid and with someone already, o well i still hit on her hehehe

Quote by sadotsuI've always had crushes on people who liked somebody else. Maybe that's why I liked them lol.

Haha, that happens with me sometimes. But there was this one crush I had in grade 9. Some seniors came along on this field trip to "guide and supervise" us since hiring another adult superviser is too expensive, I suppose. Everytime I stare at him, he looks back >.>'' and I think he got the picture. Well, at the end of the year, I finally told him my feelings, he was so nice :D and remembered me as the girl who keeps staring at him... haha. Sadly, this didn't end in a relationship. :P

No, I don't think I've ever had crushes...though I have giggled alot around certain boys who talk to me. :nya:

crushes? >_< *puts a finger over her lips* nope, not saying anything! XD

:clears throat: I wrote a really long post, but I shortened it quite a bit.
My crush was a friend of mine from church since around kindergarten.
He's a good guy, very kind, very faithful (a man of faith), and of course very attractive. The way he treated me made me feel very special. Thus, I assumed I must be special to him.
I finally confessed to him one night in his car after he drove me home from a Young Life Club.
Me: "You know, I've liked you for some time now. It's been hard on me" [I can't remember if I said anything more]
Him: "Yeah, I kind of figured that. A lot of girls like me." [Not a completely direct quote] "I don't feel the same way though. You're just my friend."
I went back inside onto my computer. He IM'ed me asking if I was okay. I sort of lied when I replied, "I'm fine," but considering my emotions had completely shut down so that I was numb, I really couldn't tell if I was fine or not. I stayed numb for about a day.
After that, I couldn't talk to him for a week, which was easy because I only saw him two times a week. Finally I was able to speak again. I hoped that I could stick around he would feel the same way I did about him still. I soon came to realize the way that he treated me was the way he treated almost all girls. I realized then I was no more special to him as any other girl.
I was crushed (no pun intended) with this realization and couldn't talk to him for a few months. In fact, I wouldn't go near any area of the church where I knew he would be. It made me so happy when I was able to talk to him again (I prayed a lot about it). Everything went back to as it was before I had confessed, which made me extremely happy because I didn't see him around as many girls and I felt special to him again.
Then one Sunday he had brought a girl from the cabin I was in the last time I went to camp (he and I had been in brother/sister cabins for this summer camp). The realization that I wasn't anything special to him came back to me with a vengance. This realization had formed into this: not only was I not special to him, I would never be anything special to him.

In closing, one's first love (hatsukoi) is one of the hardest to recover from. I pray now that when I go away to this missionary school that's in Hawaii, I'll be able to find someone else.

Well honestly i don't have any crushes all the girls i had a crush on i went out with. But there was this one girl in my high school its a senior year i had a thing for her but my best freind told me he loved her so i coudent do anything about it that really sucked but hey there isn't a girl thats more importnant than u best freind (unless it's Jessica Alba hehe just a joke=) )

no crush. I love my boyfgriend. finnaluy i love someone who loves me. we're getting married

I'm just jaded towards love. Once you hit the twenties and nothing happens you just don't develop crushes as easily, unfortunately. I wish I had one now. Someone amazing who would sweep me off my feet.

  • dianas
  • Mute Member
  • 1y 31wk ago

uhh I want to have a crush on someone again >_< to think at someone
I for one don`t think that I ever been in love with a guy ..but I had some crushes in the past
~_~ now I`m depressd because I feel like I dont have any emotions

Most of the girls in my class are really tough and kinda ghetto, but.....I have a crush on a girl at school named Kaiya. She's really kind and, thank god, not ghetto!

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