What's the most usual reason for a break-up... I dunno really... Is it really
just misunderstanding? Is there such a time or such a thing when couples think
they no longer are perfect for each other... For me, if couples don't work, they
really won't fit each other. Its a constant change and understanding change and
understanding cycle... What do you guys think? Hai! Over and Out...
I've seen couples who stay happy for like years and they get married without
even knowing who their spouse is (set up by family)...and while those who went
on dating first never seem to last long enuf, and constantly switch pairs...
Well, I guess things do happen...anyways, I think trying to understand and
accepting each other would be the ultimate cause for a everlasting relationship,
if couples can't do that...than it's the end...
Have u ever watch TV drama Desperate Hosuwife? if yes, u might see how it
goes...I'm talkig about husband-wife Brea & Rex in the show...
Sometimes love just happen, but it is just a temporary feeling, there is always
reality to think about...finance,moral values, religion, family compatibility
etc etc. When push comes to shove, people tend to break down and decide to blame
it all on the situation and character change. If so, a lot of families won't
stay together anymore, but it is not the case.
As we grow older, as we move in life we just change. The person we once were
dissapears, the person we loved also has changed. But, to avoid this you must
always remeber why you loved him or her, because that part of her or him is
their very soul and that never changes. Though they might seem different, inside
they're the same person you fell in love with.
mahal kita! mahal kita! meaning "i love you" in tagalog. (you already
know that huh midorinokari?) (that's just for the ppl who dont know our
language)
ANYwayz!!
people say those three words to someone they 'supposably' love and don't even
mean it! they abuse the way that love 'true love' is suppose to be. and change .
. . especially when times flies in the end after breaking/divorcing they start
to think and regret for ever being w/ that one person and even laying eyes on
him/her . . . its really sad . . .
In my oppinion, the actual generations don't think in compromise, they just
think "We'll be happies forever", but that's just an idea, how a
wiseman told, "Never fall in love for the love, love to a person, not the
love",
break-ups happen for a lot of different reasons. one of the most common is when
you realize that there's no future for you and that person (i.e. you just don't
get along). another is when you find out that you don't really love that person,
just infautated. there are also reasons like religion, race, parent
intervention, and distance.
but in my opinion, what really breaks a couple up is when they no longer trust
each other...
I think to have a better relationship the two must have what you called a good
chemistry between them. If it doesn't work maybe there is someone better for
you. It's destiny I guess.
What's the most usual reason for a break-up... I dunno really... Is it really just misunderstanding? Is there such a time or such a thing when couples think they no longer are perfect for each other... For me, if couples don't work, they really won't fit each other. Its a constant change and understanding change and understanding cycle... What do you guys think? Hai! Over and Out...
Compatibility & Comprises
two stuffs that go a VERY long way ^_^
idk what it is. i hope it dont happen again cause it killed me da first time T-T im over that jerk anyways^^ we;re good friends now lol
understanding, acceptance and patience, if a couple no longer value these, then they are more likely to break up
Differences in fundamental principles can also have a serious impact on a relationship (whether on dating stage or marriage).
I've seen couples who stay happy for like years and they get married without even knowing who their spouse is (set up by family)...and while those who went on dating first never seem to last long enuf, and constantly switch pairs...
Well, I guess things do happen...anyways, I think trying to understand and accepting each other would be the ultimate cause for a everlasting relationship, if couples can't do that...than it's the end...
Have u ever watch TV drama Desperate Hosuwife? if yes, u might see how it goes...I'm talkig about husband-wife Brea & Rex in the show...
Usually when your GF or BF finds someesle or that you get into an arguement love is so harsh
i quote: Love is only a feeling
Sometimes love just happen, but it is just a temporary feeling, there is always reality to think about...finance,moral values, religion, family compatibility etc etc. When push comes to shove, people tend to break down and decide to blame it all on the situation and character change. If so, a lot of families won't stay together anymore, but it is not the case.
Love changes and so do views. As love interests change so does the person. If someone breaks up with you it's either you changed or they changed.
I never loved.........I don't know...........
As we grow older, as we move in life we just change. The person we once were dissapears, the person we loved also has changed. But, to avoid this you must always remeber why you loved him or her, because that part of her or him is their very soul and that never changes. Though they might seem different, inside they're the same person you fell in love with.
mahal kita! mahal kita! meaning "i love you" in tagalog. (you already know that huh midorinokari?) (that's just for the ppl who dont know our language)
ANYwayz!!
people say those three words to someone they 'supposably' love and don't even mean it! they abuse the way that love 'true love' is suppose to be. and change . . . especially when times flies in the end after breaking/divorcing they start to think and regret for ever being w/ that one person and even laying eyes on him/her . . . its really sad . . .
In my oppinion, the actual generations don't think in compromise, they just think "We'll be happies forever", but that's just an idea, how a wiseman told, "Never fall in love for the love, love to a person, not the love",
break-ups happen for a lot of different reasons. one of the most common is when you realize that there's no future for you and that person (i.e. you just don't get along). another is when you find out that you don't really love that person, just infautated. there are also reasons like religion, race, parent intervention, and distance.
but in my opinion, what really breaks a couple up is when they no longer trust each other...
peace
Point of views, I guess...
That's one thing. I think some factors that they can't agree with...
Patience. Priorities. Conflict of Interests.
Those are the most common ones I see.
I think to have a better relationship the two must have what you called a good chemistry between them. If it doesn't work maybe there is someone better for you. It's destiny I guess.