just thought i'd pass this along... girls: what do you think? feel free to add
anything not on the list!
*EDIT*
okay, since there seems to be some issues with the info in this post i will
clarify. (as if this post isn't long enough already, eh Rikimaru-san? )
1. i did not write this. a friend sent it to me and i decided to pass it along
as a general response to all of those "what do girls want"
threads...
2. i know that this is quite general. i am not advocating the use of ALL 20 of
these on one girl. depending on the girl, some of these may or may not apply.
use them at your discretion.
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1. Don't flirt with other girls. | It makes us feel like we're not good enough
for you. We feel like we did something wrong so you are making up for it with
another girl.
2. Even if you're not going out, heck, even if you're not friends, don't say bad
stuff about us. | We could be the meanest people in the world to you, but most
of the time we're joking and we think you're serious. You haven't seen mean
until you say something bad about us. We have evil sides and we're not afraid to
use them.
3. We're not toys. | Don't just have your fun with us and drop us. We're serious
about things. That's just mean and we'll spend days wondering what we ever did
wrong.
4. Put your arms around our waist firmly but gently, holding us close to you. |
If you can, smell our hair! For most girls, we try to succeed in making it smell
and look good! Plus, we know you love the smell, why try to sneak
around?
5. If you've done something wrong, fess up. | Tell us before we have to ask you
about it. Trust me, when we ask, we'll be twice as angry, and that's just if you
tell the truth. We know. We don't guess when we confront you. We have our
connections, and we know what's going on. Lie to us and you can pretty much send
your death wish.
6. When we say we love you, we mean it. | We're not willing to tell just anyone
that. Our hearts are gentle and it's very hard to trust guys, and it takes time.
Don't worry if you tell us you love us and we don't say it back right away. We
do, we're just thinking about how sweet it was that you said it first. And if it
takes a day or two, we're not deciding. We're figuring out how we can prove
it.
7. If we have guy friends, we love how you hold us close when we talk to them. |
We think it's cute when you get all jealous, but don't overdo it. We're not
dumb, we're not gonna mess around. We're not flirting, so don't blame us later.
Now, if some guy friend of our's is flirting with us, then you have every right
to overreact and kick his ass.
8. Anything you'd want us to know about you... know about us, too. We'll
memorize every fact. | We'll have our friends quiz us on how many homeruns you
had in a season, what your favorite color is... But it's gonna hurt if we know
so much about us and all you can say is, "Uhh..." and make a
guess.
9. If our eyes are shiny, we're either really happy or we're about to cry. |
Look at our smile and the way our face is. Is it the same way it is when you
make us laugh? If not, we're going to cry. At that point, if you can tell, turn
us so that we're facing you and wrap your arms around us tight so that we feel
like nothing could harm us at all while we're there, and stroke our hair. When
we cry, often we will bury our heads in your shoulder. If we don't, wipe away
our tears. Whisper gently in our ear. Tell us it's okay, even if you don't know
what we're crying about.
10. Know that we like it when you tickle us. | It makes us laugh and reminds us
that you know that exact spot that makes us cry we're laughing so hard. It's
cute.
11. Surprise us. | Call before you're at the door, make sure you have good
timing. Tell us to look out the window, or open the door. We'll see you and hang
up and run to your side. Bring flowers for no reason. Give us candy when we're
down, that always works! Show up just to kiss us and see us smile.
12. Show us how much you love us. | That doesn't mean show us how bad you want
to have sex. We're not walking beds. (So, in other words, we're not just easy
lays walking around.) We love it when you whisper in our ear, or breath on our
neck. We like it when you kiss under our jaw down our neck, resting your head on
our shoulder. We feel like we're repaying you for every time we rest on
you.
13. We love to look at the stars. | Plan a night to surprise us and don't tell
us where you're taking us no matter how much we may beg. Take a picnic dinner,
candles, a lighter, plastic glasses and sparkling cider. Don't forget to bring
lots and lots of coffee for us! We love that stuff. Bring 3 blankets. One for
the ground when we lay on top of you in your arms, one for over the top of both
of you, and another that you sneak on top of her during the night, just in case
she gets cold. Hold us close and let us look up at the stars in your arms. If we
fall asleep, don't wake us up. Stay the night with us right there, and let us
use you for a pillow. Get comfortable, but try your hardest not to disturb our
sleep, because if we open our eyes we'll tell you to take us home.
14. If your friends think it's cool to have sex, it doesn't mean we do. | We
have plans for our lives, usually. And if not, we're still not ready to handle
that kind of pressure. Being in a relationship is a lot of responsibility
itself, and having sex just means you have to be more committed. Wait until
we're ready. If you pressure us, we're going to get mad and we might not ever
have sex with you. (Another way to put it: We'll dump you, no matter how much it
hurts.)
15. Sing to us in the quiet. | Even if you're horrible. Especially if you're
good. We love to hear you. If you're bad at it, it just shows that you would
show us anything, even if it's not the most pleasurable thing you would choose
to do. It shows us you're open with us and are willing to do whatever we want.
In the quiet it comforts us and reminds us you're there, and it really turns us
on, and you're likely to get a kiss.
16. Dance with us. | With or without music. Even in the funniest of places. If
we announce we love the song, that's your big hint that we want you to ask us to
dance. And even if we don't say that, offer anyways. The worst thing we could do
is say no.
17. Don't embarrass us. | If you act immature in front of us, we will scold you
like your mother would. We'll chew you out and rip you a new one, telling you
exactly how much we never want to be seen with you. If, in fact, you do
embarrass us publicly, after we're completely through chewing you out, say
you're sorry. Tell us you didn't mean to embarrass us and ask for our
forgiveness. Then, once we sigh, put your hands on our shoulders and let them
slide to rest on our hips. DON'T try to kiss us. Wait for us to be ready. Who
knows how long we'll be angry.
18. Meet our parents right off the bat. | We love it when you include our
family. If you get the chance, refuse to go out with us until you meet our
parents. Figure out a day when you can come home with us and have dinner with
the rents... Be Mr. Polite to the parents. Shake hands with her dad firmly and
cooly. Shake her mother's hand first and be gentle. Do remember, she's cooking
your food. Smile at them and smile at her afterward. If she has siblings, be Mr.
Perfect. They'll love you if you tell them something they don't know. And if you
show them how to do something, they'll love you forever. Keep in mind that they
look up to her, so if you play your cards right, they'll look up to you, too. If
they're older, they're sure to be protective. They might not appear it at first,
but they care deeply who their younger sister is with. If it's a brother, be
nice and polite and show him without action exactly how much you want to care
for her. Prove to her whole family why you should be with her.
19. Pay for her. | She'd offer to pay for half and even all of it. Don't let
her. Call it your treat. Even if you pay every time, it means that we have more
money to spend on those little gifts we love to get you. Like those photo albums
we love to decorate and put pictures of the two of you together. Those do cost
money. And the cologne we get you for Christmas or your birthday? Yah, that's
real stuff right there. It ain't cheap!
20. Last, but not least and the most important of all, love her. | With all of
your heart, love her. Love her like there's no one else out there for you,
because as far as you know, there isn't. Don't doubt our unconditional love for
you. Kiss us like you've never kissed before. Hold us like no one could fit more
perfectly in your arms. Love us like no one could fill that hole than we do any
better. Look past the flaws that we constantly point out and even reject them.
When we say we look fat or ugly, reject it instantly and remind us how beautiful
we are. Point out something about us you love. Think about her before anyone
else.
LoL you expect me to read all that XP
what the hell is that? a guide on how to make a satellite dish in one day XP
it's too mendoukusai for me to read...
anyway I always know what my girl wants and that's the most important
thanks for posting it anyway!!!
Guys apparently like it when you touch the back of their heard heads, well
nobody said the same didn't stand true to girls. Some of us are like kitties, if
you pet us or gently scratch us behind the ears there's a chance that, y'know...
if girls could only purr...
Heh, sounds like a "Do's and Dont's" section out of an appliance
manual. Sorry, no offense, but I dont see a list like this being something
that's going to make a perfect relationship. imho, partners should try and learn
more about each other, and think of how to show the partner how much they mean
to them. Not that your post is worthless, it just needs to be taken with a grain
of salt, and used as only a rough guide. Not that I know much about
relationships, but just my 2c.
bah, thats only if we also LIKE girls, ever thought that some dont like girls?
and i dont mean the immature way, like take me for a exampel, i'm so darn i dont
even care atm if my best friends stops being my friends, i became arrogant and
mean of my own hatred and revenge
and when i dont care for my friends i cant care for a girl, or a person i
love(lol as if there is somthing like that for me)
but for guys that do like girls that might be a very good tip
Okay, I'll tell you what I think I can add to each item number to your list
(which is quite good, by the way. Nice job.)
1. Try to ask the girl you are with what is not okay to do when you are with
another girl. This makes the girl feel validated, and important to you. This way
you can stay out of trouble more often, and can still talk to other girls
without getting smacked.
2. Ask the girl what topics they are sensitve about, and what topics that you
can joke about. This will save you a lot
of grief later. If you make a joke and you are not sure how she took it, please
ask. If she's angry now, and you don't ask, she will think that you just don't
care, and be very, very mad. The longer you wait...the worse it will be....women
can be very, very evil.
3. If you want to go out with someone just for fun, and to have a good time,
tell the person ahead of time. If she knows that this will probably be a one
time thing, she will not get so attached. Some women are okay with one time
events. If you just drop her without telling her...she will probably be crushed,
as she has invested much in the "relationship".
4. To add to this...please tell us something positive about how we look or
smell. Don't be general or don't stay silent. We like to know that we are doing
things right (yes, we do like to please men...).
5. Be honest up front. If you lie, or say nothing, we will find out. We will be very very angry. If you are honest and
tell us up front, we will be more understanding about it (we may still get a
little mad). Don't talk down to us though. That will make women mad.
6. If you are uncomfortable when a woman says she loves you, say so. We know
that most guys have a hard time with this. If you're not ready to say it yet,
just tell her that you would rather show her because you have a hard time
talking about it. That'll rack up some points...
7. If you think that we are flirting, but are not sure, don't get mad about it
and tell us as we are breaking up. Tell us asap. We don't want to see you upset.
We want to know what things you are uncomfortable with when it comes to us
talking to other guys. Odds are: we don't have a clue when you get upset over us
talking to other guys, because you hide it! Don't hide things like that from
women!
8. If you have a hard time remembering everything about us, tell us. We can help
you remember, or you can remember other details that we haven't told you. If you
are a visual guy, say so. Say that you have a hard time remembering dates and
things, but you remember that dimple we get when we smile...ect. We like
details.
9. Once you know if we are happy or sad, don't ask what's wrong right away if we
are sad. Hold us for a minute, rub our back or hair, and tell us that
everything's okay. After we quiet down a bit, then you can ask us "Do you
want to tell me what is making you so sad, or...(leave it hanging) *Pause*"
If she doesn't answer, hold her some more. She will eventually open up.
10. If we look you in the eye and tell you in a monotone voice or a serious tone
to stop tickling us, do it. Too much is too much. It's better you stop then
instead of having her get mad at you, even though you may have no clue
why.
11. Surprises work with good things only. Not bad things such as telling her on
the day you are leaving for a trip that you will be gone for two weeks. Just not
a good idea.
12. Sometimes we like it when we can just lay with you and have you caress our
arms and back, or offer to give us a back massage. Don't assume that a massage
will turn into something else. Odds are, it won't. If it does, it's just a
bonus. If you want to do that sort of thing, tell her how you feel, and ask if
she wants to do something (if she doesn't start things...). Most important
thing: Don't assume. Ever.
13. We like candlelit dinners and such, but ask casually when you get to know us
if we like that stuff, and ask for specifics, so that on the night you surprise
us, it won't blow up in your face.
14. Like in item 12, Don't assume. And please don't lie to your friend about
it, because that just doesn't fly. (I can't believe I just used that
slang...)
15. If you don't want to sing, that's okay. Write us something or draw us
something, and explain it to us (why you picked that certain word, why you
picked the colors that you did...). We like it a lot when you do these things,
because we feel like we are the most important person in the world.
16. If you can't dance, try a slow song. all you have to do is sway and/or
rotate in a circle. Please watch the feet. We won't get too mad if you step on
them if you apologize, though.
17. If you embarrass us, say you are sorry, and be specific what you are sorry
for. Don't worry if we are mad at you for a while. We tend to think things out
for a long time. Just support us by showing how much you care.
18. If you are afraid to meet our parents, we understand. But you will meet them as soon as we can get you over
there. Ask as many questions as you can to get to know them before hand, so it
will be less stressful when you get there. Don't worry about what they think of
you. Be yourself. If there's a problem we will iron it out with them later. We
like you, and will make that very clear to our parents.
19. Pay for her, but remember that we like doing things for you, too. If we say
we want to take you out for dinner, then
you can let us. But ask and make sure.
20. well, love us but be honest. If we ask if the dress looks good on us, and
you hate it, ask if we like it, then say that you don't care for it much, but we
make it look good, because we are more beautiful than anything humans can
make.
Well, I tried. Sorry if I wasn't brief. Guys: Don't assume. Be honest. Talk to
her.
i've been married for 13 years, and i don't think i understood any of this?...
well it was a nice read and if i wern't such a 'guy' i could use some of this
stuff.
ok... First of all, this is quite helpful but some
of it is opinionated towards a certain type of girl. Anyways, here are some of
my responses
1. Wouldnt think of it
2. I wouldnt say anything bad about a girl, heck i hit some of my friends in the
side of the head for saying something about a girl.
3. The fact that you arn't toys is obvious... And wheni see them treated that
way it makes me angry.
4. ...Yes, i actually do have a thing for nice hair, the feel of it, the smell
of it, the look of it.
5. Of course fess up .
But sometimes we dont know what we did wrong, we are stupid about those
things.
6. I would hope that if anyone said they loved someone that they would mean it,
regardless of gender.
7. Yes... tend to get somewhat.... Well we just think to ourselfs not to go
ballistic.
8. I dont know about some, but i know that i remember pritty much everything im
told about what a girl likes.
9. I feel nervous in these situations... I tend to be empathetic, so if shes
sad, I feel sad.
10.
...But the trick is to know when to tickle right?
11. How true it seems to be,
12. of course you arn't, but sometimes its also hard to show how much we love
(care for greatly) a girl.
13. A perfectly planned and organized date to make her happy... *writes notes*
Ok, got it!
14. I've seen it happen o.O
15. Im a horrible singer, does humming her favourite tune count?
16. Im a terrible dancer, im clumsy
17. Of course dont embarras you I
knew that... No seriously i did.
18. Its kindof in the rules to be polite when at her house or around her family
o.O and younger siblings can be just as, or sometimes more protective, Im one of
them
19. Allways pay, that too is a rule.
20. I have heard love as beeing defined as; Wanting the greatest good for a
person no matter the cost to yourself. I believe this to be true...
Anyways... I have never really had much luck, most likely due to my curse of
being overly shy. TIP: Some shy guys are nervous that they wont kiss her right
and she will be dissapointed or something, treat us as though we are nieve,
because some of us are
Omg another one (I meant, the thread) . Stop
making this kind of threads. And besides, there are different types of girls
right? Not all of them are like that...
Oh and I expecialy liked the 19... that's a good one. Like I said not all the girls are like that or yourself.
Quote by TimothytheDarkMagicianThank
you, this helps much... *showers firefly with thank you
gifts*
just thought i'd pass this along... girls: what do you think? feel free to add anything not on the list!
*EDIT*
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okay, since there seems to be some issues with the info in this post i will clarify. (as if this post isn't long enough already, eh Rikimaru-san?
1. i did not write this. a friend sent it to me and i decided to pass it along as a general response to all of those "what do girls want" threads...
2. i know that this is quite general. i am not advocating the use of ALL 20 of these on one girl. depending on the girl, some of these may or may not apply. use them at your discretion.
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1. Don't flirt with other girls. | It makes us feel like we're not good enough for you. We feel like we did something wrong so you are making up for it with another girl.
2. Even if you're not going out, heck, even if you're not friends, don't say bad stuff about us. | We could be the meanest people in the world to you, but most of the time we're joking and we think you're serious. You haven't seen mean until you say something bad about us. We have evil sides and we're not afraid to use them.
3. We're not toys. | Don't just have your fun with us and drop us. We're serious about things. That's just mean and we'll spend days wondering what we ever did wrong.
4. Put your arms around our waist firmly but gently, holding us close to you. | If you can, smell our hair! For most girls, we try to succeed in making it smell and look good! Plus, we know you love the smell, why try to sneak around?
5. If you've done something wrong, fess up. | Tell us before we have to ask you about it. Trust me, when we ask, we'll be twice as angry, and that's just if you tell the truth. We know. We don't guess when we confront you. We have our connections, and we know what's going on. Lie to us and you can pretty much send your death wish.
6. When we say we love you, we mean it. | We're not willing to tell just anyone that. Our hearts are gentle and it's very hard to trust guys, and it takes time. Don't worry if you tell us you love us and we don't say it back right away. We do, we're just thinking about how sweet it was that you said it first. And if it takes a day or two, we're not deciding. We're figuring out how we can prove it.
7. If we have guy friends, we love how you hold us close when we talk to them. | We think it's cute when you get all jealous, but don't overdo it. We're not dumb, we're not gonna mess around. We're not flirting, so don't blame us later. Now, if some guy friend of our's is flirting with us, then you have every right to overreact and kick his ass.
8. Anything you'd want us to know about you... know about us, too. We'll memorize every fact. | We'll have our friends quiz us on how many homeruns you had in a season, what your favorite color is... But it's gonna hurt if we know so much about us and all you can say is, "Uhh..." and make a guess.
9. If our eyes are shiny, we're either really happy or we're about to cry. | Look at our smile and the way our face is. Is it the same way it is when you make us laugh? If not, we're going to cry. At that point, if you can tell, turn us so that we're facing you and wrap your arms around us tight so that we feel like nothing could harm us at all while we're there, and stroke our hair. When we cry, often we will bury our heads in your shoulder. If we don't, wipe away our tears. Whisper gently in our ear. Tell us it's okay, even if you don't know what we're crying about.
10. Know that we like it when you tickle us. | It makes us laugh and reminds us that you know that exact spot that makes us cry we're laughing so hard. It's cute.
11. Surprise us. | Call before you're at the door, make sure you have good timing. Tell us to look out the window, or open the door. We'll see you and hang up and run to your side. Bring flowers for no reason. Give us candy when we're down, that always works! Show up just to kiss us and see us smile.
12. Show us how much you love us. | That doesn't mean show us how bad you want to have sex. We're not walking beds. (So, in other words, we're not just easy lays walking around.) We love it when you whisper in our ear, or breath on our neck. We like it when you kiss under our jaw down our neck, resting your head on our shoulder. We feel like we're repaying you for every time we rest on you.
13. We love to look at the stars. | Plan a night to surprise us and don't tell us where you're taking us no matter how much we may beg. Take a picnic dinner, candles, a lighter, plastic glasses and sparkling cider. Don't forget to bring lots and lots of coffee for us! We love that stuff. Bring 3 blankets. One for the ground when we lay on top of you in your arms, one for over the top of both of you, and another that you sneak on top of her during the night, just in case she gets cold. Hold us close and let us look up at the stars in your arms. If we fall asleep, don't wake us up. Stay the night with us right there, and let us use you for a pillow. Get comfortable, but try your hardest not to disturb our sleep, because if we open our eyes we'll tell you to take us home.
14. If your friends think it's cool to have sex, it doesn't mean we do. | We have plans for our lives, usually. And if not, we're still not ready to handle that kind of pressure. Being in a relationship is a lot of responsibility itself, and having sex just means you have to be more committed. Wait until we're ready. If you pressure us, we're going to get mad and we might not ever have sex with you. (Another way to put it: We'll dump you, no matter how much it hurts.)
15. Sing to us in the quiet. | Even if you're horrible. Especially if you're good. We love to hear you. If you're bad at it, it just shows that you would show us anything, even if it's not the most pleasurable thing you would choose to do. It shows us you're open with us and are willing to do whatever we want. In the quiet it comforts us and reminds us you're there, and it really turns us on, and you're likely to get a kiss.
16. Dance with us. | With or without music. Even in the funniest of places. If we announce we love the song, that's your big hint that we want you to ask us to dance. And even if we don't say that, offer anyways. The worst thing we could do is say no.
17. Don't embarrass us. | If you act immature in front of us, we will scold you like your mother would. We'll chew you out and rip you a new one, telling you exactly how much we never want to be seen with you. If, in fact, you do embarrass us publicly, after we're completely through chewing you out, say you're sorry. Tell us you didn't mean to embarrass us and ask for our forgiveness. Then, once we sigh, put your hands on our shoulders and let them slide to rest on our hips. DON'T try to kiss us. Wait for us to be ready. Who knows how long we'll be angry.
18. Meet our parents right off the bat. | We love it when you include our family. If you get the chance, refuse to go out with us until you meet our parents. Figure out a day when you can come home with us and have dinner with the rents... Be Mr. Polite to the parents. Shake hands with her dad firmly and cooly. Shake her mother's hand first and be gentle. Do remember, she's cooking your food. Smile at them and smile at her afterward. If she has siblings, be Mr. Perfect. They'll love you if you tell them something they don't know. And if you show them how to do something, they'll love you forever. Keep in mind that they look up to her, so if you play your cards right, they'll look up to you, too. If they're older, they're sure to be protective. They might not appear it at first, but they care deeply who their younger sister is with. If it's a brother, be nice and polite and show him without action exactly how much you want to care for her. Prove to her whole family why you should be with her.
19. Pay for her. | She'd offer to pay for half and even all of it. Don't let her. Call it your treat. Even if you pay every time, it means that we have more money to spend on those little gifts we love to get you. Like those photo albums we love to decorate and put pictures of the two of you together. Those do cost money. And the cologne we get you for Christmas or your birthday? Yah, that's real stuff right there. It ain't cheap!
20. Last, but not least and the most important of all, love her. | With all of your heart, love her. Love her like there's no one else out there for you, because as far as you know, there isn't. Don't doubt our unconditional love for you. Kiss us like you've never kissed before. Hold us like no one could fit more perfectly in your arms. Love us like no one could fill that hole than we do any better. Look past the flaws that we constantly point out and even reject them. When we say we look fat or ugly, reject it instantly and remind us how beautiful we are. Point out something about us you love. Think about her before anyone else.
etou.. me already know. what i want to know is why girls are comin after me? ^^';
-no words to say-
I'll try my best.
Heck, I won't try.
I'll make it, somehow.
LoL you expect me to read all that XP
what the hell is that? a guide on how to make a satellite dish in one day XP
it's too mendoukusai for me to read...
anyway I always know what my girl wants and that's the most important
thanks for posting it anyway!!!
...ok dont be embarrasing in public, even if u want to show that your confident some of us arnt. yep.
yes...understood...but i never been wid a girl so i wouldnt know even know how to approach...i stay away from society...so wouldnt feel pain
Guys apparently like it when you touch the back of their heard heads, well nobody said the same didn't stand true to girls. Some of us are like kitties, if you pet us or gently scratch us behind the ears there's a chance that, y'know... if girls could only purr...
Heh, sounds like a "Do's and Dont's" section out of an appliance manual. Sorry, no offense, but I dont see a list like this being something that's going to make a perfect relationship. imho, partners should try and learn more about each other, and think of how to show the partner how much they mean to them. Not that your post is worthless, it just needs to be taken with a grain of salt, and used as only a rough guide. Not that I know much about relationships, but just my 2c.
this was a good laugh...
bah, thats only if we also LIKE girls, ever thought that some dont like girls? and i dont mean the immature way, like take me for a exampel, i'm so darn i dont even care atm if my best friends stops being my friends, i became arrogant and mean of my own hatred and revenge
and when i dont care for my friends i cant care for a girl, or a person i love(lol as if there is somthing like that for me)
but for guys that do like girls that might be a very good tip
Okay, I'll tell you what I think I can add to each item number to your list (which is quite good, by the way. Nice job.)
1. Try to ask the girl you are with what is not okay to do when you are with another girl. This makes the girl feel validated, and important to you. This way you can stay out of trouble more often, and can still talk to other girls without getting smacked.
2. Ask the girl what topics they are sensitve about, and what topics that you can joke about. This will save you a lot of grief later. If you make a joke and you are not sure how she took it, please ask. If she's angry now, and you don't ask, she will think that you just don't care, and be very, very mad. The longer you wait...the worse it will be....women can be very, very evil.
3. If you want to go out with someone just for fun, and to have a good time, tell the person ahead of time. If she knows that this will probably be a one time thing, she will not get so attached. Some women are okay with one time events. If you just drop her without telling her...she will probably be crushed, as she has invested much in the "relationship".
4. To add to this...please tell us something positive about how we look or smell. Don't be general or don't stay silent. We like to know that we are doing things right (yes, we do like to please men...).
5. Be honest up front. If you lie, or say nothing, we will find out. We will be very very angry. If you are honest and tell us up front, we will be more understanding about it (we may still get a little mad). Don't talk down to us though. That will make women mad.
6. If you are uncomfortable when a woman says she loves you, say so. We know that most guys have a hard time with this. If you're not ready to say it yet, just tell her that you would rather show her because you have a hard time talking about it. That'll rack up some points...
7. If you think that we are flirting, but are not sure, don't get mad about it and tell us as we are breaking up. Tell us asap. We don't want to see you upset. We want to know what things you are uncomfortable with when it comes to us talking to other guys. Odds are: we don't have a clue when you get upset over us talking to other guys, because you hide it! Don't hide things like that from women!
8. If you have a hard time remembering everything about us, tell us. We can help you remember, or you can remember other details that we haven't told you. If you are a visual guy, say so. Say that you have a hard time remembering dates and things, but you remember that dimple we get when we smile...ect. We like details.
9. Once you know if we are happy or sad, don't ask what's wrong right away if we are sad. Hold us for a minute, rub our back or hair, and tell us that everything's okay. After we quiet down a bit, then you can ask us "Do you want to tell me what is making you so sad, or...(leave it hanging) *Pause*" If she doesn't answer, hold her some more. She will eventually open up.
10. If we look you in the eye and tell you in a monotone voice or a serious tone to stop tickling us, do it. Too much is too much. It's better you stop then instead of having her get mad at you, even though you may have no clue why.
11. Surprises work with good things only. Not bad things such as telling her on the day you are leaving for a trip that you will be gone for two weeks. Just not a good idea.
12. Sometimes we like it when we can just lay with you and have you caress our arms and back, or offer to give us a back massage. Don't assume that a massage will turn into something else. Odds are, it won't. If it does, it's just a bonus. If you want to do that sort of thing, tell her how you feel, and ask if she wants to do something (if she doesn't start things...). Most important thing: Don't assume. Ever.
13. We like candlelit dinners and such, but ask casually when you get to know us if we like that stuff, and ask for specifics, so that on the night you surprise us, it won't blow up in your face.
14. Like in item 12, Don't assume. And please don't lie to your friend about it, because that just doesn't fly. (I can't believe I just used that slang...)
15. If you don't want to sing, that's okay. Write us something or draw us something, and explain it to us (why you picked that certain word, why you picked the colors that you did...). We like it a lot when you do these things, because we feel like we are the most important person in the world.
16. If you can't dance, try a slow song. all you have to do is sway and/or rotate in a circle. Please watch the feet. We won't get too mad if you step on them if you apologize, though.
17. If you embarrass us, say you are sorry, and be specific what you are sorry for. Don't worry if we are mad at you for a while. We tend to think things out for a long time. Just support us by showing how much you care.
18. If you are afraid to meet our parents, we understand. But you will meet them as soon as we can get you over there. Ask as many questions as you can to get to know them before hand, so it will be less stressful when you get there. Don't worry about what they think of you. Be yourself. If there's a problem we will iron it out with them later. We like you, and will make that very clear to our parents.
19. Pay for her, but remember that we like doing things for you, too. If we say we want to take you out for dinner, then you can let us. But ask and make sure.
20. well, love us but be honest. If we ask if the dress looks good on us, and you hate it, ask if we like it, then say that you don't care for it much, but we make it look good, because we are more beautiful than anything humans can make.
Well, I tried. Sorry if I wasn't brief. Guys: Don't assume. Be honest. Talk to her.
i've been married for 13 years, and i don't think i understood any of this?... well it was a nice read and if i wern't such a 'guy' i could use some of this stuff.
hey, fireflywishes, thats very nice of you to take your time and compose this list
i will surely use some tips you suggested
ok... First of all, this is quite helpful
but some
of it is opinionated towards a certain type of girl. Anyways, here are some of
my responses 
1. Wouldnt think of it
2. I wouldnt say anything bad about a girl, heck i hit some of my friends in the side of the head for saying something about a girl.
3. The fact that you arn't toys is obvious... And wheni see them treated that way it makes me angry.
4. ...Yes, i actually do have a thing for nice hair, the feel of it, the smell of it, the look of it.
5. Of course fess up
.
But sometimes we dont know what we did wrong, we are stupid about those
things.
6. I would hope that if anyone said they loved someone that they would mean it, regardless of gender.
7. Yes... tend to get somewhat.... Well we just think to ourselfs not to go ballistic.
8. I dont know about some, but i know that i remember pritty much everything im told about what a girl likes.
9. I feel nervous in these situations... I tend to be empathetic, so if shes sad, I feel sad.
10.
...But the trick is to know when to tickle right?
11. How true it seems to be,
12. of course you arn't, but sometimes its also hard to show how much we love (care for greatly) a girl.
13. A perfectly planned and organized date to make her happy... *writes notes* Ok, got it!
14. I've seen it happen o.O
15. Im a horrible singer, does humming her favourite tune count?
16. Im a terrible dancer, im clumsy
17. Of course dont embarras you
I
knew that... No seriously i did.
18. Its kindof in the rules to be polite when at her house or around her family o.O and younger siblings can be just as, or sometimes more protective, Im one of them
19. Allways pay, that too is a rule.
20. I have heard love as beeing defined as; Wanting the greatest good for a person no matter the cost to yourself. I believe this to be true...
Anyways... I have never really had much luck, most likely due to my curse of being overly shy. TIP: Some shy guys are nervous that they wont kiss her right and she will be dissapointed or something, treat us as though we are nieve, because some of us are
Some Shy Guy,
Me
hehe! nice job!
good job fireflywishes
Wew...you write some good things here....you really understand girls' feeling...
Thank you, this helps much... *showers firefly with thank you gifts*
Omg another one (I meant, the thread)
. Stop
making this kind of threads. And besides, there are different types of girls
right? Not all of them are like that...
Oh and I expecialy liked the 19... that's a good one. Like I said not all the girls are like that or yourself.
Give me a break...
oh, i got what girls want....in my pants! What?! I got a dimond ring.