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Boyfriend/Girlfriend Stealers

Love, Friends & Family

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uhm.. this is just a discussion topic.. no hating, no harassing, especially for people who are currently have a bf/ a gf..
the question is: have you ever stole or tried to steal someone else's bf/gf?
if yes, how did you do it and was it worth the mess you created?

No, don't recall intentionally stealing anyone, just flirting with friend's GFs - almost stealing, but only teazing. Although I know exactly how to steal, it's not worth it w/o love...lol

I never tried to steal anyones bf or gf just like jasaiyajin

Quote by jasaiyajinNo, don't recall intentionally stealing anyone, just flirting with friend's GFs - almost stealing, but only teazing. Although I know exactly how to steal, it's not worth it w/o love...lol


get back to work you! ^___^

Quote by melonbrust

Quote by jasaiyajinNo, don't recall intentionally stealing anyone, just
flirting with friend's GFs - almost stealing, but only teazing.
Although I know exactly how to steal, it's not worth it w/o
love...lol


get back to work you! ^___^

shuddap, its my lunch hour ^_^

i've got a lot of manwhore friends that taught me their trix, but i can't play that role... most of them are depressed and have uncertain futures... time to celebrate one of their bdays after work.... YAY~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

not purposely

like he said, not purposely.

i dont even think you can steal other's gf/bf if everything is right with them.. if 2 people really love each other you just can't go and take him/her to yourself lol. If your gf/bf falls in love with someone else, its not about stealing.. its just that he/she didn't think you were there right one to be with... althoug it might feel like someone stole her/him from you.

never, coz i think its a coward's job. Stealing is easier than maintaining.

Well i'm not really proud of it or anything but there was this one time back in my senior year, there was i girl that i really liked. She was going out with this asswipe that wasen't even treating her right. So i statred talking to her and going out on dates at first we were just good freinds than one thing lend to others and she became my girlfreind. Her's EX was pissed but he didn't have the gods to do anything about it....Anyways that about it.....

Hm...Well, I'm not really sure. Possibly I have. <.< But I'm still not sure, LoL.

-Kass

Well,no...i think that's really low. But i LOVE to flirt, i'm just like that! XP ;)
frienship is more important to me than bf!

its never worth it but.....if its like a revenge thingy for your friend.....lol id totally do it to make her suffer....but otherwise never!! friendship is more important for me^-^

It's really a very interesting question to ask ;) but I must say that the word stealing isn't the right one to describe this situation that I had like 2 years ago!
The whole thing is that I met a girl that has already a boyfriend but at our first day she told me that she quarreled with him and that she's leaving him! But she never did leave him because she still had met him many times and I really didn't take the whole matter seriously until things between us really developed pretty fast I must say XP lol
And after few days she told me that she fought him and that she told him about everything and she dumped him after he asked her to chose between Him and Me and she chose me "lol I wish she hadn't" anyway after one day from that event and while I was outside school he came with bunch of his gang and they attacked me but lucky me I was saved by the janitor XP lol anyway at that day we broke up anyway it wasn't a real relationship more then just a passing relation XP and she returned to him XP
so I'm not sure if this count as stealing but I never asked her to leave him nor anything at the contrary I always asked her to stay with him if she really wants that!
I know it's a lame story XP but I learned something from all this……. And that's……. hire some buddy guards if a girl dump her BF for you XP looooooooool

Quote by Blainei dont even think you can steal other's gf/bf if everything is right with them.. if 2 people really love each other you just can't go and take him/her to yourself lol. If your gf/bf falls in love with someone else, its not about stealing.. its just that he/she didn't think you were there right one to be with... althoug it might feel like someone stole her/him from you.


i agree with you, it is very hard to break up people who really love each other.. its not imposible, just harder

Quote by Mao-chanWell,no...i think that's really low. But i LOVE to flirt, i'm just like that! XP ;)
frienship is more important to me than bf!


do you flirt with your friend's bf too?

Quote by kawaiikiyomiits never worth it but.....if its like a revenge thingy for your friend.....lol id totally do it to make her suffer....but otherwise never!! friendship is more important for me^-^


i dont think its mature to revange on your friend's relationship, you might end up hurting more people and probably your self

Woa!! Interesting here ^^. I think that we all have a heart, so we have to do smt like that some how and some day ^^. I think i haven't really steal other's bf (or gf) but flirt is really unavoidable, some how we dont know that we are doing that but in other eyes, we are!! So of course it can't be count as steal unless we really do that ^^.
And Melon-chan, why you make this thread? Has smt happened to you and your bf?

nope
if they are taken then they are off limits

"Love is blind" which I think is very true. There may come to a time where you learn that you have started developing some feeling with someone's bf / gf, but that doesn't mean that you can try to take him / her away. One can say that if he / she decides to fall for you after you tried getting him / her, then that means that he / she finds that their current bf / gf is not really "the one". This might be true, but I feel that to even attempt to get someone who is already occupied is a very unreasonable and selfish thing to do. You are not only hurting other people (especially if that person is your friend), but you are also making a fool out of yourself.

Imagine this, if you do manage to "steal" someone's bf / gf, don't you think that he / she might be once again "stolen" by someone else in the future? If you can get hold of them this way, you will probably lose them the same way as well. I would like to say that if you do find that you started liking someone's bf /gf, just be happy that the person you like is not regretting his / her current relationship is happy about it. Encourage them and cheer for them.

Well, this is from the "stealer's" point of view lol... if your bf / gf has been stolen then that's another totally different issue >_<

lol i haven't done this, but i have imagined doing it before, long before mido-chan came ^.^;

i'm happy i didn't, because i think it wouldn't be worth it. i'd be destroying a relationship which i bet was pretty hard to build in the first place. it would have hurt the person whom i liked...

non taken...

Well, a few years back, I had a crush on someone whom somebody else had a crush with... Not too much fuss since it was just a crush, but I never knew some body else had a crush on her, ehehehe...

Hai! Over and Out...

okay umm..this is a bit complex, but i hope u understand it..^_^'
the thing is....i dunno how ta flirt, i have always been flirted with.....whenever i'm with my gf, i won't lie, it felt good, and i always give n take with'em (means chit chat)....but there was this one feeling inside of me and her....even though it used to tease her, but she was soo sure of such a feeling....the feeling is.... no matter how many girls are around me, talkin to me, tryin to make a move....always remember, that the one who has taken my heart is you! so i can't think properly unless ur around me, at that moment, i can feel my heartbeats inside of you....and i can think properly ;).....and no, i don't have any girlfriends anymore....if a relationship is made out of silver, or even gold, friendship is made out of diamonds! i have broken up with my recent girlfriend JUST to become friends with her, and its working out very well btwn us....if you love someone, means you wanna marry them, don't waste your time on sum..whatever luv! get it?
again my friend, i hope it works out for you.....
i'm posting a painful wallpaper so soon.....hope u like it ^_^.....
bai bai!
Leo

at least people have had someone i mostly turned down peoples request to be a BF to them
i think it mostly my fault for that otherwise no

Nope^^ I don't think it's worth it to have some hate you because you want their bf/gf. Sure, I could flirt sometimes with someone elses bf, But I'm never serious, I wouldn't want to steal a friends loved one. ^-^ I'd rather maintain a good friendship with my friend and his/her bf or gf ^_^

Even though sometimes girfriend-boyfriend relationship are only temporary crush (not much of them actually developing to a deeper relationship) but I don't feel like it's worth it to mess up a friendship we build so hard.

However, if your boyfriend or girlfriend is the one being stolen, Melonbrust Sempai, I would definitely won't regret it, because if he/she doesn't have that much loyalty to our relationship, it would simply means he/she didn't worth our deeper love. That's all. Same thing applies to the friend who stole.

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