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To have a boy/girl friend How does it feel?

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Yup! I got a bf 2 years ago, and now we broke up, but i didn't feel lonely or sad at all ^^ So that is just a childish love >_< So i want to find a real love OX But now i am really curious of the feeling you all have when you have a bf (or gf is okay, that will teach me how should i react ^^).
So how do you feel? Miss him so much and really want to be with him, to hear him say what he feels about you and just to love him .... That would be the best! but too hard to reach that much in an unserious love T_T like me. So just post what you feel here ^^ Everybody, everyage are welcome OX

Well, actually i'm not looking for any kind of relationship ^^ except of friendship of course lol.. It's maybe 'cause of my age, but I think it's more because of my personality. I like to make friends, I like to have fun, and all that ^^ But at the moment I don't really feel like, that I'd fit to be in a relationship, soo i'm more kind of a friend :)

i dont have a girlfriend and i dont think i will either, with this atitude of mine, also that i am more a dark person(with hatred and revenge) so thats even makes it harder if i want one, and then their are pretty maney more reasons, i'm cold to almost anybody, and i think i just lost my best friend(lol, lost? lol i didnt lose him, i should rather say i dont need him) so i dont need a friend or a family nor someone i can love, because i am a ''more dark'' person, i dont ''like'' love, makes me feel all weird and its stupid

so there is ALOT going against me finding a gf, and i dont need one atm, and i dont think i will need one, so what are my chances? well maybe a 0,000000000000000000000000000000001 out of 100
:) so it's hopeless
(BTW i hate people who say ''dont worry you will find her'' er somthing like that AND people who say that we need love to have a happyfull life)

As far as I can remember all day i wished to find love, but some months ago when I finally got one, it was so bad, the idealized idea of love I always dreamed about have vanished, now I don't know, sure it just might have been the good one. But I realise better off on my own... at least for now

hm well at the moment i am really happy ^^ we are 2 years together now and it is still fun and romantic or the other things like at the beginning . i think when i get bored of a boy/man xD than it was not really the true love . but i think my honey feels the same way =3 he try to say every day that he loves me, write me letters befor he go to work ^^ i think this will hold a long time =D (my last bf was awful xDDDDD)

I dont believe in real love love is conditional and painful

When I broke up with my bf I felt sad, but the sadness didn't last that long coz I tried so hard to get over it within 5 days. Well, actually, coz I was having friends who are supporting me around so I can forget about him so easily and think that I'm probably better off with some other person. Well, I love myself more anyway so my health always come first hehe. I wouldn't waste time on some guy that if we broke up then it's over.

I've known my boyfriend ever since childhood. I was 8 and he was 10. He's from Sydney Australia and I'm from Oakland California, US. We met at the World Day meeting that was at my elementary and there people from other countries like China, Italy, Japan, Germany, ect. We were assigned to different countries for "World Games" and I was assigned to team Australia. Shido [as people know him for] and I hit it off right away. Over the week we became extremely close and eventually became penpals. But when I turned 14 and moved to a different town we lost touch for 4 years. And just this August Shido found me on Advanced Anime which he was a member to and which I was a member as well. We talked and we didn't know it was each other until we said our names. We caught up and told each other about the missing 4 years. Shido had always been there for me even if it wasn't physically. We started dating last month in September. We talk online while using our web cams and over the phone. He's now 20 and I'm 18 and we're in love.

I have a gf for about 7 months, and we are very happy together. although we live pretty far apart, we stay in touch via messenger. We get to meet only twice a month, sometimes even less, but everytime I meet her, I just feel like I'm in paradise.

well not much for me. i don't think i 'll have gf. well i'm alone. that the way i live ,i umh well have a gf that find
**[ but i think i'll never have. don't ask why becase you know that aready^^]**( **[...]**just for who make this thread).

You'll know when you find your real love when you can also call that bf/gf your best friend. When you can just talk about the things you love (anime or games!) for hours on end, and they really listen even if they don't get everything, and you can do the same for them.

I went through a lot of gf's in high school (even dated one for 2.5) years looking for what I thought was love. Until once day a friend of friend fell into my life by chance. We'd just hang out and chat until 6 months later we found ourselves living together - and it just felt perfect. Got married a year later and going on my 3rd anniverssary soon. Sure there were arguments on the way, but love just hits you and you know its right.

I don't care if you're dark or shy or whatever. Everyone will find some one, and as long as you're not selfish, it'll work out magically.

Quote by DanVoltsgalphYou'll know when you find your real love when you can also call that bf/gf your best friend. When you can just talk about the things you love (anime or games!) for hours on end, and they really listen even if they don't get everything, and you can do the same for them.
I went through a lot of gf's in high school (even dated one for 2.5) years looking for what I thought was love. Until once day a friend of friend fell into my life by chance. We'd just hang out and chat until 6 months later we found ourselves living together - and it just felt perfect. Got married a year later and going on my 3rd anniverssary soon. Sure there were arguments on the way, but love just hits you and you know its right.
I don't care if you're dark or shy or whatever. Everyone will find some one, and as long as you're not selfish, it'll work out magically.


now i whould like to see that!!!! i'm very dark, and you keep babling about B.S like that, as if you know how i am to be able to judgde people

Quote by Tiasnow i whould like to see that!!!! i'm very dark, and you keep babling about B.S like that, as if you know how i am to be able to judgde people

I'm not judging you at all. I'm judging the rest of the world. And I think at least 1 person out there that you encounter in your life would put up with your crap and could like being around you.

Quote by DanVoltsgalph

Quote by Tiasnow i whould like to see that!!!! i'm very dark, and you keep babling about B.S like that, as if you know how i am to be able to judgde people


I'm not judging you at all. I'm judging the rest of the world. And I think at least 1 person out there that you encounter in your life would put up with your crap and could like being around you.


your sick or what? all those around me will suffer, so you say she likes to suffer?, dam your weird, when i let my hatred and revenge on free lose my surrouding will feel great pain, and the reason why i dont let it lose is because i will be like the rest of the people in this world, emontienally, and fragile, meaning it hwould be easy to curse me pain and sorrow, like love wounds or any other art of pain, it would be rise of you if you would stop thinking like you do, cause i hate people who are like'' you will find her one day'' or somthing like that
maybe there is a girl who is like me and will like me....and the other side of the planet and i will never meet her DUH and then i also bet it would be a ugly one, aaand so on, oh please spear me from this

Quote by Arashi-sanhm well at the moment i am really happy ^^ we are 2 years together now
and it is still fun and romantic or the other things like at the
beginning . i think when i get bored of a boy/man xD than it was not
really the true love . but i think my honey feels the same way =3 he
try to say every day that he loves me, write me letters befor he go to
work ^^ i think this will hold a long time =D (my last bf was awful
xDDDDD)


Oh, how jealous to your romantic love, Arashi-san >_< ! but also wish you good luck too ! So now i will have to learn a lot!

Quote by Lolita69I've known my boyfriend ever since childhood. I was 8 and he was 10.
He's from Sydney Australia and I'm from Oakland California, US. We met
at the World Day meeting that was at my elementary and there people
from other countries like China, Italy, Japan, Germany, ect. We were
assigned to different countries for "World Games" and I was assigned to
team Australia. Shido [as people know him for] and I hit it off right
away. Over the week we became extremely close and eventually became
penpals. But when I turned 14 and moved to a different town we lost
touch for 4 years. And just this August Shido found me on Advanced
Anime which he was a member to and which I was a member as well. We
talked and we didn't know it was each other until we said our names. We
caught up and told each other about the missing 4 years. Shido had
always been there for me even if it wasn't physically. We started
dating last month in September. We talk online while using our web cams
and over the phone. He's now 20 and I'm 18 and we're in love.


Na ~ Na ~ Such a legend story love ^^. I really admire you! Hope my love will be like this too ^^. Then each other can't leave lover so irresponsibly

Quote by kk-chanWhen I broke up with my bf I felt sad, but the sadness didn't last that
long coz I tried so hard to get over it within 5 days. Well, actually,
coz I was having friends who are supporting me around so I can forget
about him so easily and think that I'm probably better off with some
other person. Well, I love myself more anyway so my health always come
first hehe. I wouldn't waste time on some guy that if we broke up then
it's over.


you sure really like me, KKchan, i forget him in just 2 days and then happily live my own life, i love myself better ^^.

Quote by MizuhofanFFX2well not much for me. i don't think i 'll have gf. well i'm alone. that the way i live ,i umh well have a gf that find
**[ but i think i'll never have. don't ask why becase you know that aready^^]**( **[...]**just for who make this thread).


Oh, i know, of course i know >_<

Quote by Lolita69I've known my boyfriend ever since childhood. I was 8 and he was 10. He's from Sydney Australia and I'm from Oakland California, US. We met at the World Day meeting that was at my elementary and there people from other countries like China, Italy, Japan, Germany, ect. We were assigned to different countries for "World Games" and I was assigned to team Australia. Shido [as people know him for] and I hit it off right away. Over the week we became extremely close and eventually became penpals. But when I turned 14 and moved to a different town we lost touch for 4 years. And just this August Shido found me on Advanced Anime which he was a member to and which I was a member as well. We talked and we didn't know it was each other until we said our names. We caught up and told each other about the missing 4 years. Shido had always been there for me even if it wasn't physically. We started dating last month in September. We talk online while using our web cams and over the phone. He's now 20 and I'm 18 and we're in love.


lol thats so what of luck, i mean to find the person again when you lost contact, thats sick

I never really likes relationships, I used to say, there is no true love and so on...
but, then i met my current bf, I love him so much and he loves me.
I dont think id be willign to live if he wasnt in this world anymore now ^^
i mean, there are so many ppl in the worl looking for love. I never did that, i felt no desire to hunt for true love, if true love was gonna hit me then i would meet it, but i wouldnt chase it.
And love did hit me, and now im caught ^^

i think if the time is comming so everybody needs someone on his site.... we are all humans and we can never live witout love
love is so wonderful that i can not found the right word for this .... yes it is true it can also be painful but only one locking or one touch from the man/ woman that u love and all your pain is gone
if u ask me to have a boyfriend is the wonderful thing but it is enough if u know there is someone there u can love ... and if they have also feelings for u then it is perfect it is one of the best feelings what i can remeber if the boy u love, love u too....

Quote by semangai think if the time is comming so everybody needs someone on his site.... we are all humans and we can never live witout love
love is so wonderful that i can not found the right word for this .... yes it is true it can also be painful but only one locking or one touch from the man/ woman that u love and all your pain is gone
if u ask me to have a boyfriend is the wonderful thing but it is enough if u know there is someone there u can love ... and if they have also feelings for u then it is perfect it is one of the best feelings what i can remeber if the boy u love, love u too....


yeash right? its so wonderfull, and then he/she just leaves you and breakes your heart, and then it all repeats it self until i dunno

I don't have Bf yet >_<

Quote by MagicianFairyI don't have Bf yet &gt;_&lt;


same here . i'm too much shy (is that the word ?) to do anything and without friends either is hard to find gf

Well I'm really happy in this moment, I have 5 years with my gf, she is great, we have some problems sometime, but are fine, all is part of this :D


Sorry 4 my awful english ^_^' t_t

hehe i haven't had my "real love" yet, I had some childish love like yours and when it was over, I felt nothing or just a little sad, when the new day came, i forgot everything.
you're just 17, too much time ahead to think of love and have the real love of your life, like me, i'm enjoying my single life every moment, some guys want to ask me out but i just want to stay friends, i don't want to say goodbye to my current sweet single life that soon *snickers*

I've had a girlfriend for exactly one year tomorrow. We get along great, and we're not like a lot of people. We don't jump from person to person, we're careful. And we're not together "just to have fun." We like each others company, and we help each other through a lot. The best part is, we both have common sense. In other words, we don't celebrate an anniversary every week, every two weeks, ect. We don't even celebrate one year. We both already said that we're glad to still be together, and that's all. heh She's great.

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