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What would you do if your best friend told you they were gay?

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I guess that would freak me out a little XD...but I have dealt with this before and as long as your friend isn't attracted to you it OK, but if she is o_o... I'd have to let her down O_O >.<.

i'll take it easily...it's their decision, i'm not a homophobe so it's ok
er....the one i afraid is she's attracted to me...i'll really don't know wht to say...

So what if he's gay... I won't let it ruin our friendship

i had that happen to me and she still my best friend. :) and it has not change at all. she still the same girl for the day i met her 5 years ago :)

Actually... My close-to-best friend IS a gay but I happen to be a girl, so there's no problem for me, XD

Yeah, same here. I'm a girl, so it doesn't really impact me as much as it would on guys I guess.

But if he's your best friend, he's still your best friend. Such flaws souldn't ruin such a relationship unless he starts doing "funny things".

I would scream : "omg that's sooooooo cute!!!!" :) :D

I would be shocked at first, but I will soon adapt to it quite quickly and still be his best friend, as long as he doesn't try anything st me (if you know what I mean ^_^' )
I know, coz one of my good friends just confessed to me a few weeks ago ;) !

I would accept it...
----then----
I would proceed with caution every time he looks at me...

hoeek..
I cant stand it. I will dissapear from him constantly

well my best friend's bi and we fool around sometimes >.> to an extent. like flirting and stuff but i've been doing it with him for years so i'm ok with not straight/not fully straight people. *shrugs* besides, their sexual orientation doesn't really affect their personality

I would just support them, aslong as they didn't fancy me it wud be fine. I've got nothing against gay people

i think i whold end up being quiet 4 a wile

Well seeing as most of my friends are lesbians anyway that's kind of a mute point. If any of my straight males friends came out to me I'd be fine with it. I'm not gay and don't convert to anything so if they want to try I'd tell them good luck and go look at some naked ladies.

Thanks to the views/experiences of a gay person from the Canadian show called "Degrassi: The Next Generation," I've learned to accept homosexuals. It's not like they WANTED to be gay or lesbian, so I would still treat them the way I always did (even if I feel slightly uncomfortable).

Just relax and take it easy! Who would mind? I wouldn´t as long as he don´t want to be his lover(since I am not gay I wouldn´t like this) But normally I wouldn´t mind!^^

One of my best friends has told me he was gay... but he hasn't changed in my eyes and I'm glad he's being honest with me. ^_^
He's actually a pretty funny person and I don't hate him for being gay.

i'd be ok with it as long as he didnt start coming on to me or talked to me about guys or anything like that :o

I was told by one of my mates that my other mate was gay, I was like wtf really, you bsing me. I was totally surprised with it, but I dont mind that he is, its his choice.

I went several weeks not knowing he was gay, I all thought my friends were giving him shit, then I asked why they were calling him gay, and they said he was.

Pull the "thousand years of pain" jutsu on him and ask if he liked it.

i'd say good luck and peace out!

as calm as usual i would say okay
i'm preety open-minded but when she said she's in love wit me then i'm so sory i make her down

Me? Just politely tell `im I dont swing that way, and see if I cant hook him up with somebody else ;) I certainly aint gonna freak on `im, Id be flattered in a way.

i have no clue. im not sure what i would do,probley nothing.
but it would be differnt with my "girl" friends and my "guy" friends.
if one of my guy friends said that they were gay, i would probley be surprised but think nothing of it. i would probley joke around about it.
but if one of my girl friends said that they were gay i would probley feel differnt around them, i feel more uncomfortable around lesbians then gays for some reason, i know it seen wierd but thats how i feel

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