im a single family my dad divorce with my real mom when i was like 8 months
after i was borned cause he had another woman which i had called her
"Mom" for 4 years...now i actually call her "Evil Woman or Evil
Mother"
anyway im cantonese [[hong kong]] immigrant taiwan and my wasnt always here he
travels so im always stucked with this evil woman i dont know why but i never
had a feeling that she loved me or anything she often use clothe hanger to hit
me in taiwan its a lil different their tradition was like they think if u dont
"teach"[[hit slap etc]] the child they wouldnt listen so i have always
been her target when my dad isnt here
they divorce cause something went wrong with my dads business he hasnt got much
many left so she left him...i felt relieve cause i didnt love her ..and after a
few years i went to canada for studies my grandma told me that she wasnt my real
mom..she didnt tell my earlier when she was visiting us was cause she didnt
wanna spoil my evil moms "image" this is the story of my first mom..no
for my second mom
Sherry..i dont know her i never seen her i only heard her voice no more than 8
times...she had call me on my birthday..she asked me to live with her means go
back to hong kong shes telling me craps like i belong there and she wanna take
care of me cause she never had a chance to..but my grandma and dad had told my
about her shes like spoiled...those kinda girls who spend cash very fast
etc..she sounds just like a PREP...
[[i dont have anything against prep its actually the best word to describe her
if ur a prep sorry if i offended u]] and im started to think that she want me is
cause of money...cause my dad is getting old ..
my mom is 18 years old younger than my dad etc..she says things like my dad
hasnt been taking care of me etc i mean she wasnt here how does she know and
even though she knows can she take care of me better? i have a younger sister i
never actually met and i do wanna see her but i dont want to go hong kong alone
my dad doesnt wanna see my mom and my prep mom wanna see my dad so if i do go
hong kong i will have to go alone my dad respect my decision but i love him more
than anyone i dont wanna leave him but i do wanna see my sister and i wanna know
what hong kong is like well i am a lil curious about my preppy mom after all
things that my dad and grandma are one side stories..i did tell my dad about it
he said im right thats why whatever my decision is he supports me but im afraid
if i really go visi her i wont be able to see my dad again...
i know this is lame..whoever read this thanks for taking ur time reading my
craps ..
No problem ^^ My parents have never been divorced so I really have no idea what
it is like. Im sorry thats what you have to go through
And I know I cant give the best advice since Ive never been in your situation
but maybe you should give your real mom a chance? If your dad loves you he will
understand ^^ And even if you change your mind and dont want to stay with her
anymore he will let you come back. I really think you should really get to know
your mom, ur sister, and the place you were born ^^ Sorry if this is lame advice
Well take care!
Wow! your story is kinda complicated.
Well, my parents are divorse too and, in fact, is not hard to me, but, coz of
that, i haven't had a normal lifeor , at least, a common one.
I have an step mother and she's nice, but my real mom, even thou
she¿'s nice too, she's not a good mother.
she gives me a nice life, i mean, food, a house, a bed and she pays my education
but, she never spends time with me, she doesn't seem to be interested in my
life, or what i like or do. thats kinda hard for me.
so I think i understand you in a kinda brave way.
Aww man, I am a bit confused. Is the preppy mom your birth mom?
And about the evil mom, GOD, she hit you with a hanger! Geeez you should punch
her one day!
I think that you should visit your mother and sister but if you prefer to live
with
your dad then you should be able to come back to live with him. You don't have
to stay
in Hong Kong. Just visit. Well that's what I think anyway. Good luck sweetie!~
im a single family my dad divorce with my real mom when i was like 8 months after i was borned cause he had another woman which i had called her "Mom" for 4 years...now i actually call her "Evil Woman or Evil Mother"
anyway im cantonese [[hong kong]] immigrant taiwan and my wasnt always here he travels so im always stucked with this evil woman i dont know why but i never had a feeling that she loved me or anything she often use clothe hanger to hit me in taiwan its a lil different their tradition was like they think if u dont "teach"[[hit slap etc]] the child they wouldnt listen so i have always been her target when my dad isnt here
they divorce cause something went wrong with my dads business he hasnt got much many left so she left him...i felt relieve cause i didnt love her ..and after a few years i went to canada for studies my grandma told me that she wasnt my real mom..she didnt tell my earlier when she was visiting us was cause she didnt wanna spoil my evil moms "image" this is the story of my first mom..no for my second mom
Sherry..i dont know her i never seen her i only heard her voice no more than 8 times...she had call me on my birthday..she asked me to live with her means go back to hong kong shes telling me craps like i belong there and she wanna take care of me cause she never had a chance to..but my grandma and dad had told my about her shes like spoiled...those kinda girls who spend cash very fast etc..she sounds just like a PREP...
[[i dont have anything against prep its actually the best word to describe her if ur a prep sorry if i offended u]] and im started to think that she want me is cause of money...cause my dad is getting old ..
my mom is 18 years old younger than my dad etc..she says things like my dad hasnt been taking care of me etc i mean she wasnt here how does she know and even though she knows can she take care of me better? i have a younger sister i never actually met and i do wanna see her but i dont want to go hong kong alone my dad doesnt wanna see my mom and my prep mom wanna see my dad so if i do go hong kong i will have to go alone my dad respect my decision but i love him more than anyone i dont wanna leave him but i do wanna see my sister and i wanna know what hong kong is like well i am a lil curious about my preppy mom after all things that my dad and grandma are one side stories..i did tell my dad about it he said im right thats why whatever my decision is he supports me but im afraid if i really go visi her i wont be able to see my dad again...
i know this is lame..whoever read this thanks for taking ur time reading my craps ..
No problem ^^ My parents have never been divorced so I really have no idea what it is like. Im sorry thats what you have to go through
And I know I cant give the best advice since Ive never been in your situation
but maybe you should give your real mom a chance? If your dad loves you he will
understand ^^ And even if you change your mind and dont want to stay with her
anymore he will let you come back. I really think you should really get to know
your mom, ur sister, and the place you were born ^^ Sorry if this is lame advice
Well take care!
Wow! your story is kinda complicated.
Well, my parents are divorse too and, in fact, is not hard to me, but, coz of that, i haven't had a normal lifeor , at least, a common one.
I have an step mother and she's nice, but my real mom, even thou she¿'s nice too, she's not a good mother.
she gives me a nice life, i mean, food, a house, a bed and she pays my education but, she never spends time with me, she doesn't seem to be interested in my life, or what i like or do. thats kinda hard for me.
so I think i understand you in a kinda brave way.
Aww man, I am a bit confused. Is the preppy mom your birth mom?
And about the evil mom, GOD, she hit you with a hanger! Geeez you should punch her one day!
I think that you should visit your mother and sister but if you prefer to live with
your dad then you should be able to come back to live with him. You don't have to stay
in Hong Kong. Just visit. Well that's what I think anyway. Good luck sweetie!~