I've been alone since i start reasoning... trying to gather some friends... but all i got is a bunch of motherf****** interested in my knowledge, my money and my time... my last gf was good... for a short... very short time... she's mind sick... and now... when i most need it, when i need someone to hear me at least... no one is around me... no one says "don't give up" at least...

i'm gonna die absolutely alone... no one would ever think to cry 'cuz my absence...

no one was sent to get me...

sorry my english...

I could be your savior? I like to listen to peole, whatever their problem.

don't say that! you may not notice but there are a lot of people that care for you...they might be somewhere else or they are people you just don't know , I've pased through the same and I know how it feels but never think of that you just have to live your life to the fulles! if you have any problems you've got your friends here at MT to help you...

btw I'm also from Chile ^^

the problem is... to be alone without wanting it... even i'm trying to change this... but all the things i've tryed... failed...

merged: 11-03-2005 ~ 08:21am
i'll live... don't think that im gona try to kill myself... that's not me...

mmmm well I always sai don't dream your life live your dream... If you want to make things change perhaps people don't apresiate the way you are or they are jealows cuz of your knowledge know what I mean? sometimes you are too sensible to things.(because you are from Chile and I don't know how to say it in spanish I'll say it in spanish srry MT) quizas lo piensas de otra forma que los demas o te lo tomas muy a pecho... deberas un dia los verdaderos amigos llegan o simplemente estan cerca tuyo y no te das cuenta^^

well, I'm immune to the loneliness already so I can't sorta help you..

lol, you make yourself the victim here ~ aren't we all victims of our own thoughts.

what i found is that gooood friends are hard to come by,
i've lost some good ones from moving so much and them
moving away with their parents as well to other states in
my childhood through school... i've been through what you
have ~ true honest friends are hard to come by

actually i grew up around christianity, but never really believed
however, the people around me i can trust completely, even
if they have weird thoughts about why I don't just join their
crowd. i've made some very close christian buddies, but also
have those less fortunate drinkin buddies, life sux for them
but they stay cheerful somehow (ignorance? bliss?)...

anyway, my point is my christian friends are the type that say
"dont give up to me" and my drinkin type of friends are the type
that point out your problems in the open... so you feel bad, they
would make jokes to make your problem seem big, but also
connect with you in that own special way.. it's a weird relatioship

if ya were around here, i'd say, lets go to a bar on saturday, then
visit a church on sunday ~ meet people from both worlds... but the
ones you can talk about anything with, those are hard to come by

you're not alone, there are many others like you... loneliness is
something we all deal with in our own personal ways.. only you
yourself can handle it ~ even though it's so hopeless

I ask myself these questions all the time:

Why should anyone care about me?
- why don't I care about myself?
What makes me so special or important?
- am I not like everyone else, a human?
What makes you worthy of receiving anything?

handle each question one at a time, separately
simplify everything, it's easier to deal with

even einstein approached everything from a kids eye view

lemme know how much i screwed up tellin ya somethin...

Love to be loved

Your work is to love people. You cannot have what you speak against.

I'm very alone. I will probably die alone. I don't care anymore as I see my best friend continually ... that's me and I'm the most reliable friend I ever had

Don't kid your self, you are alone and will be till you die. live for you and that's what you have when you're alone.

that's the only thing that it keeps myself away from depression... i'll never let anything or anyone to push me down and keep me away from my objectives...

i wase alone until i've found someone that changed that... and when i was back to "normal" (it was normal for me to stay alone for a long time), i don't wanted it in the same way before i've meet that "someone"... that because i started to like that type of life... the feeling of "you're not alone"... i've gained some good friends... for a very limited time... i was ok... much better that when i was alone... and much much better than now...

i have no friends right now... really... and it's a bit sad when you've already tasted the friendship... i will not give up anyway... alone or not alone... my life will not end because of this...

forget about my family... my family is always with me... i'm talking about... "the other feeling"...

There's no need to be serious about things. I know it may be difficult for you to do this, but for those who are trying to use you, you should stand up for yourself and tell them that you're not interested in doing what they want. They should learn, and if they don't, their immaturity will eventually cost them. You won't die alone because I'm sure you have friends who care for you, and I'm sure your girlfriend cares for you too. Just have faith, and all will work out. ^_^

I dont hate to be alone.
it's better than being with people who hurts you...

Don't be nihilistic and just stay complaining. The only way to get out of this state is by meeting new people. In school, enter the differnet activities it offers (I'm entering kickboxing on Tuesday, for example).

And if you need to have a talk with someone, just talk with them and let the chatter flow. Trust me, I'm sure you appear in at least someone's radar. I say it by own experience: I used to think very few girls cared about me, but the past 2 weeks I had a chatter with some girl, who said many of them cared indeed. She gave me the little boost I needed to chatter with them chicks, and I've been since trying to date some girl from among my social circle. I've been unable to date anyone since the only ones who don't have their cell phones disabled were not free, but I hope I'll date some girl someday.

So cheer up, start meeting with someone, anyone, share experiences together, and I'm sure you'll have a new friend before you know.

Sometimes... I like to be alone.... You see, when your alone, everything to me seems blank... No worries at all

You get that coz you look at life from the wrong perspective. You emit too much negative energy that you only attract negative things. Try looking at the bright sides of life. At least, you're still alive. At least you know that you're so called friends and lovers are scum. At least you have another chance to take a shot at things. And if you need someone to listen to you, look me up, I'll try my best not to laugh at you. Just a joke, stay calm. Oh, and just for the record, I'm in my worst luck streak in years but I can't let it get to me coz if I do, I'll lose far more than what I could afford to lose. I got shot too

I know this might be cliche, but...don't give up! Try to look at things in a more positive way, and don't think of yourself as alone...I don't look at it that way though I am clearly alone ^-^ I read or preoccupy myself to block out those laughing voices, whether they be about friends or about me. It kinda helps to look at things positively since we've only got one life to live. My friends are more like people who go to me as a last resort for company, which I would accept as temporary company as well...life doesn't have to be lonely if you don't think that way. Who knows? Maybe you'll find the solution to your loneliness one day...they can come in big or small packages (dog, cat, adopted child, neighbor, classmate, etc.) Just don't give up and keep living your life and all shall roll into a nice life when it is time.

Quote by FaiTCRaHno one says "don't give up" at least...

don't give up , here at MT3 there will be always someone you can talk to so i say it agian don't give up

yeah, you can talk to us^^
anyway...I feel so alone I'm already used to it.

Well, it is definitely not fun when you feel so low like that. For a starter how about a chat? Anything that catch your fancy? Your hobby? What about work? Even if you're shy (hope not) at least in an internet we can chat can't we?

don;t think like that ;
it does your head in.
*she says, thinking similar thoughts*

well perhaps i'm qualified on the topic, so hear me out;
nevr lose your sense of humour, never lose the ability to care for someone or something. be passionate.
and speak out.

i'm also a loner... a by product of my personality... i am accepting of that fate, and even take it as my destiny... so i understand that sometimes the feeling of loneliness tend to overwhelm... but i've learnt to handle that feeling and enjoy spending time with myself...

i answer to no one except my family and can choose to leave people as and when i desire.... the best thing is... i can simply disappear with the minimal of hassle since there are few people that will think of me...

I partake in adventure sports and tend to take greater risk, cause there is no one that will miss me should i 'migrate', and backpacking is never easier!

Freedom!

perhaps some people view that as a sad existence.... but when one is 'emotional crippled', such as i am, the choices become limited...

but i do realize something... there are plenty of lonely people out there... and so you are not the only one.... perhaps one can take comfort in that?

A tip to be friends with people from my point of view is try not too hard to be friends with them. That will only push them away because people who are so persistent in finding friends give a certain feeling away which, in my opinion, is scary because then that person is kind of trying to cross this psychological/invisible wall you have in too short time. Just let a normal conversation without commitment lead to friendship. That's the most natural and friendly way to find friends.

Oh grow up.
You're not the only one alone. Heck, most people on this planet may think in a same way.
You need get over it, what ever that's bugging your mind.
Yes, I may be an arrogant bastard right now, but get out and live your life the way that suits you best, hell, if you're so alone, ask why?
If you just stay inside angsting how people try to advantage of you and steal your money or how people hate you yada yada Get real. There are people who care about you, no matter what you may think.
Even if you don't really know them, there are people who know you and might want to get closer contact with.
Yes, I'm a bastard, but this is life.
And life is not an easy thing. If it would be, we all would not be here chit chatting but flying in the space beating crap out of each other.

Being lonely it terible.